Thank you for this, Gary. “Fans” and supporters want you to take whatever time you need....it’s not about us. We appreciate you, no matter how often you post videos or reply to a tweet...sooo not what’s important! It’s been amazing being able to be a part of your journey and we all look forward to you living your best life. Take care.
Thank you for your honesty. As someone who also struggles with anxiety and depression, I can relate to so much of what you’re saying. It’s hard enough to “put on a happy face” in my daily life, I can’t imagine the pressure you feel to put on one for social media. Be well, put yourself first. We are here for you in whatever capacity you need us to be. ❤️
we subscribe because we like YOU, not a character or an entertainer. wether you’re chipper and jovial, sharing what’s weighing on your heart, or simply not sharing at all, we are here for YOU. your kind soul shines so much brighter than you’ll ever know. at the end of the day, your health is what’s most important. life is worth living mr.garyc. sending so much love and healing energy your way.
The fact that you are as young as you are and you get that you need a simpler life, says a lot about your recovery. Most people just go about their lives stuffing it all in and trying to keep busy to avoid the thinking and feeling. Kudos to you for understanding that your well being is the most important thing for your and for everyone you love. My anxiety makes me feel like i have been shot out of a gun. I'm prickly and sensitive and difficult. The kinder person in me doesn't want to inflict that on my friends, and that throws me into depression. It's a dirty cycle for a sensitive person. Bless you for showing it to people. I think your are great.
Your honesty is so refreshing! If only more people on social media were brave enough to speak truthfully about how tough life is a lot of the time, then it would be much easier for the rest of us to talk about how we really feel, and hopefully be able to support each other through these tough times. Hearing you talk about the raw experiences you are going through and that so many of the people here commenting are also going through, is so encouraging, because I too can relate so well to everything that’s said! Severe anxiety and depression is really disabling. I can only leave the house for medical appointments and have just spent the last 2 days agonising over how to turn down yet another social invitation, just a family meal, but I really can’t do it. I think we all just need to be kinder to ourselves. To accept that it is OK to not be OK and that actually if our normal is spending most of our time alone, out of choice, then that is what we need to do right now to get by. We are all unique and if we need to do things a little differently to other people to get through life then that’s OK. We are not all designed to be in the spotlight, the life and soul of the party. Sometimes our pain and anxiety is such a difficult burden to bear that it’s all we can do, just to get through the day, in whatever way we can. And we are doing it, and should be proud of ourselves and what we achieve! You are not failing at life because you are finding it such a struggle, you are a fighter and you are going to win this battle. Just keep going, one small step at a time, one day at a time, and be at peace with that, and with all the awesome things you do achieve, despite having such challenges to face. Don’t think about tomorrow, just concentrate on today, and getting through each minute, each hour. Even the smallest things, that other people may not even consider, like getting dressed, opening the curtains, speaking, these are all big achievements. Don’t worry about your eating, just be kind to yourself, and keep dreaming of the happiest place on earth! You’ve got this! And the people that matter will be there for you, whatever happens. I know so well how you are feeling. Hugs, Ruby x
I just wanted to thank you, Gary C. You helped me to realize that I suffer from anxiety just from watching your video. I've always blamed it on "being a Type A" person, but the truth is that I feel the need to plan everything in my life step-by-step, because if I don't I lash out due to frustration and anxiety. It has caused issues throughout my life and in my relationships. I need to work on this. Thanks again.
Thank you for being so honest and sincere. It helps to know that I am not the only one who makes excuses not to leave the house. I have to talk myself into getting up for work every day, then talk myself into taking a shower and then again to actually leave. I am exhausted before I even get to work, and some days, I am not successful and stay home. I hope you have a roommate or someone you are close to who will help ease you into going somewhere non stressful, just to get out for a little while. Many times, I find that the hardest part is forcing myself to leave and once I am out, I am OK. I hope things get better for you soon. Take care of yourself. ❤️
Thank you for speaking openly about anxiety, depression and panic. I live daily with all three and it’s a disease that is not understood very well by most. Your openness is reassuring.
This video shows the true reality of depression and anxiety - i first saw you on Adam's channel in the Disney vlogs and you seemed so confident and comfortable in yourself I would have never said you were suffering. Which is so stupid of me to even think and assume. I know how difficult it is to have these struggles and sometimes do what people think is just normal daily life. Thank you for sharing this - I've really grown to love watching you and Adam, it really brightens my day. Thanks Gary! True example that you should never make assumptions about anyone's life, you never know the true extent of what anyone else is going through.
I struggle every day with PTSD/OCD related anxiety, little things that shouldn't be overwhelming just are sometimes. I completely understand how you're feeling. But you are clearly an incredibly strong person. Be gentle with yourself, it's okay if you don't reply to all of your comments, or upload regularly. When you do, and when you can, you bring so much brightness into people's lives. It's always a great surprise when you post, but it's never an expectation. Do what you want to do, do what makes you happy, and we'll all be happy for you!
Gary I love your openness and honesty. As an individual with mental illness, bipolar, anxiety and PTSD, I understand what you are going through, you take care of you, you are the most important. May God give you peace, joy, happiness and keep on smiling!
Whenever I hear you say, “Take care of yourselves,” I really feel it. You know how hard it is to actually take care of yourself, and maybe I like to think that you’re reminding yourself to do so as much as you’re reminding us 💙 Take care of yourself, Gary - that’s the only thing you owe to anyone 💙
I love the honesty of this vlog, and it makes me want to hug you and share a nice cuppa! I found you through your trip to Disney this past September with Adam, and all of those videos. I binge-watched them all, and now I'm even more hyped for my own trip to Disney in the fall this year. As an anxious person myself, I can completely relate to the feeling of exhaustion with planning. And not to sound like a repeat of all the lovely folks you have following you and commenting that we're here for you. But we are. We're here for you. From people following you since the beginning up to the ones just finding you. Keep strong, and I hope you can find some ways to push past those tough times and live your best life, girl! Treat yo'self! ♥♥♥
As much as I love the internet/social media, I hate that it also causes people to feel like they are always "on" and have to please others and sacrifice their health and peace of mind. I appreciate your honesty and showing that it's not all Mickey Mouse and sunshine. Please take time to be kind to yourself & do what you need to do to be healthy. °O°
I just wanted to say that I totally get the whole anxiety/planning thing. I worry about most things and the only way I can deal with it is that once something occurs to me then I need to find a solution in case it should actually happen. The weird thing is that I always seem calm in a crisis to most people - and it’s because it’s rare that something takes me by surprise - I have already imagined the very worst and found a “plan B” for that 🙂. The downside is that I have unnecessarily whittled away on any number of things - the upside is that I always know where the fire exits are, I actually listen to safety announcements and I know where fire drill muster points are - it’s as though I am risk assessing my own life. I am 52 now though - and while the way I am used to distress me as “not normal” - I am ok with it now. You have to find a way to navigate through life that works for you and be ok with the way you are. Also on a slightly more cheerful note - I am loving your t shirts on the Disney Cruise vlogs - did you design them yourself? Take care of you and accept you because you are a very heart warming person - and that’s an amazing thing to be! Xx
Heyy i came here because I saw you in Adam his blogs. I struggle with those things too. And it really means a lot how you are honest, and it’s just so relatable. Not being able to look at yourself. It makes me so sad, and hearing someone else say it makes me feel understood. Don’t worry about ‘vengeance’ like do you even want to be entertaining to those people? Do you want to meet their standards if it makes you unhappy? Nah. You have to do what makes you happy. Take care of yourself in these times!
Gary, my love, your honesty is refreshing. As with many people, I have a mild form of anxiety. It rears it's ugly head mostly late at night. I used to call it FOMO because I couldn't really name it and FOMO seemed the easiest way to explain why I couldn't sleep, to everyone. I've had to learn a few tricks to keep it in check but I've mostly done it. The biggest thing I have had to learn was how to say no without explaining myself. 'No thank you, I can't come because XYZ' became 'no thank you'. So much anxiety left me when I wasn't always scrambling for an reason as to why I don't wish to, or just couldn't, do what ever it was being asked of me. But I digress. Thanks for sharing my newly found internet vlogger. May peace be with you.
Honesty is not as easy to find as it should be. Your candor is refreshing and I’m glad you felt free to do this. Please take care of yourself and know we are here if and when you need us!
So many vloggers i watch have gone through that same journey of replying to all and getting to the point where responding to SO many just becomes an impossible task. So please please, do NOT feel like you have to do that, even if it WAS your full time. There just aren't enough hours in the day to feed that beast. Do you want you need!
Gary, I understand and feel this so much! I struggle with depression and anxiety as well. The part about planning and knowing every detail about everything (especially trips) REALLY hit home. You're not alone and you are loved! Hang in there, we both can do this! ❤
Gary, you are awesome. Don't ever forget how much you are loved and cherished by others and how much joy you do bring to other people. Thank you for being unapologetically you!
I feel this so much. Today, or even the last three weeks, is not your forever. I’m sending you love and support. And “healing” in whatever capacity that means for you and however you want that to look like. Your honesty is amazing because you’re not only being open and honest with us, but with yourself too. And sometimes being honest with ourselves is the hardest. You did look into that camera and saw yourself looking back, and that’s super hard. I hope you have an amazing holiday with Adam and that you have moments of peace, contentment, pure happiness and laughter.
You are amazing!! This video has helped me realize what my friends feel whenever anxiety hits and I feel like I can now help them and understand myself. Take care of yourself first, Gary. You are important! Don't forget to treat yo self! Take your time, go at your own space. Lots of love ❤️
Thank you for this video. You make me believe it’s ok to feel like I do. That I’m not alone. I got attacked by a patient and my job and have had 6 back surgeries since(over 15 years) and have been dealing with chronic pain which has lead to anxiety, depression and PTSD. It’s hard to get outta bed some days and be myself I once was. My only happy place is at Disney with Mickey and Minnie and the gang. Nice to know I have someone is seems to understand what I am going through
Your honesty is refreshing! Not enough people are willing to talk about this but more and more struggle every day. I know that I will watch your videos no matter what. I just love your vibe. I hope you feel better soon sweetie. keep your chin up and take care
I love you Gary ❤️ All the love to you. You are so strong and the sheer will to just post this video took so much strength. You are such a beautiful person. Thank you so much for your honesty...it’s amazing ❤️
I've recently started watching your vlogs because of your most recent video about having anxiety. After seeing THIS video and crying throughout the entire clip, I feel like I'm not alone. I finally found someone who understands how I feel. You dont have to reply to anyone's comments, not even this one, just keep pushing forward and healing and that, in itself, would be better than ANY reply you could ever give💙.
I'm sorry to hear you haven't been feeling that great, I wanted to hug you too, you really are sweet . I hope things improve for you, you do need to put yourself first. I also suffer with anxiety, depression and panic , and have done for many years. Thank you for sharing this video , hugs xxx 💖
Do whatever it takes to help your recovery. If that means going months without uploading a video, do it. I know I'll still be here supporting you Gary. I have been in similar situations mentally and all I wanted to do is give you a big hug. I hope you get to a place where you are truly happy and your mental health is at a comfortable stage in your life. Love you lots xx
We all love you! You need to put you and your health (be it mental or physical) ahead of anything/anyone. Depression and anxiety are vicious demons. Keep your head up lovie. Take care of yourself!
How incredible brave and strong of you to share so openly. I think those who enjoy your channel want nothing more than you to do what makes you happy. Take care of yourself and focus on what makes you smile. You deserve to do nothing less than what makes you happy.
Your brave and don't ever forget that... And don't ever feel you have to apologise to anybody... I lost a lot of friends through anxiety as I cancelled plans at last min but I now realise that they wasn't friends at all!! You don't realise how these little videos help so many people but never feel like you have to do them.. Keep smiling ❤️❤️❤️
Gary, you know we are all here for you, I know the depression side as I suffer with it, but I was taught to see it as a visitor who comes but will always leave. Take care of yourself and do you. Look forward to your cruise and just be you xx
We love you because you're you Gary. Not only are the vacation videos entertaining but as viewers and fans of you they're special for us because we know what you go through because of videos like this. It makes it even more special to see you in your happy place. Keep smiling.
You don't owe any of us anything, you owe yourself to feel well again and if you have to back away or even come off social media then so be it. We will miss you but you and your health are what matters here. Take care of you and have an amazing time in the cruise xxx
Dear Gary, Firstly if a catchphrase puts a smile on your face, then go for it..... Now the serious stuff!, It's a tough time of year for most anxiety and depression sufferers, so there are many of us who can relate to this vlog. Firstly the fact you made it and admitted fully to yourself that it's not a great time is of course the first sign you are ready to heal again. Remember your CBT.... Feeling this is 'goodbye' is the irrational fatalist side that rears it's head, but just as you did in this vlog, take the time to rationalise it and see it for what it is, a negative anxiety reaction...well done for talking through it. Secondly remember to restart the basic of setting yourself a small task everyday, nothing big or grand, just something achievable.. go outside and stand on the street for 2 minutes and then congratulate yourself for going out, plan your lunch and a specific time to have it that day, congratulate yourself for doing as planned... never forget to tell yourself well done for doing anything you planned to... small positive steps one at a time And i you fail a task, remember to tell yourself it's ok to have a few goes at doing it, somethings are harder sometimes, reshedule and reachieve!. I suggest you plan a few follow up vlogs to this one, share your journey with us, it may help you set a few tiny goals to tell us about.... and remember to reward yourself for sharing anything with us..... I suggest Walls Swedish Glace dairy free ice cream, just like real ice cream and you can have as much as you like... a whole tub... As you are always telling us 'Go on, Treat yourself Girl!!'
Gary do what you need to do to make yourself happy and practice self-care! You don't have to respond to everyone if it causes you stress. Be kind to yourself and know that if the darkness ever gets to overwhelming I'm here for you! I am a stranger, but I am truly here for you!
Hi Gary, I hope I can speak for all of your subscribers to say that we watch you because we love you. We love your huge human heart. You are the most genuine, sensitive, caring, funny, soul and we hang on every word...not out of some weird worship but because we see sense and kindred in all you say. Yes I found you through Adam’s vlogs but I kept coming back to your channel because I just like to see what you have to say. I am sorry to hear that you have had a rough few weeks, hopefully you’ll find the sunshine through the clouds soon that will just pull you out of your dark place. I have a mental image of you looking out of your bedroom window to see a rainbow giraffe poking his head in for you to slide down and ride off into the sunset together! (Yes I know I’m a fruit loop!) xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Dear Gary. I know you read all the comments, and hope you have read all the wonderful things that people are saying here. We love you and support you. We are here for you in whatever way you want us to be. We will always listen. You being honest and talking is helping others too and I appreciate it. Take care and much love Xx
I just came across your video today. I hope you are feeling better. I know it is cliche but sometimes it helps me to think "No rain, no rainbows" or if you want to Disney it up and think of Frozen one can say "no snow, no snowmen."
Gary I think you are very brave to open your soul like this. I think everyone suffers in various degrees against anxiety and depression but it’s how you allow it to take over your life. Fight the good fight any victory is a victory just keep taking small steps. All the best
Gary 💗💗💗🤞🏼🤞🏼stay strong. You are not alone. I myself am suffering from anxiety and depression and I fully understand what you are going through. I love you 😍 you were the person I have watched on RU-vid to make myself feel like I am worthy. So we are here for you. X 🤞🏼🤞🏼💗💗💗
You're just amazing Gary. I wish I had a friend like you. You're a ray of sunshine, so open, honest & real. I think you're fab. I've got anxiety too and I work from home now, which I love, but I know it makes me worse. I need to be honest with myself too. I just try and hide it. Hopefully your vlogs will help make me braver. Thank you.
I honestly think Adam is very good for you. This is a very good video because many people suffer from this problem. Please take care of yourself because many people love and support you. Real life is VERY hard my mom used to say “What doesn’t break you will make you stronger.” You don’t have to reply to every comment-no one could do that.
Hi Gary, only just discovered your Channel. I have mental illness in my family so can relate to you. You are so sincere and a fantastic person. Hope the day when you find true happiness is just around the corner. Sending you a big hug. Xx
Gary you are so brave to do this. I totally understand what you are going through. I have a very hard time putting myself out there. My depression and PTSD have been very bad since the holidays. Definitely do what is best for you. I found Adam's videos and watching the two of you have made me smile and laugh more than I ever have. Please know that there are people here that understand what you are going through.
GARY what you don't realise is how naturally talented you are,to me you should be on the london stage or something,when i watch the adam vlogs which are ace,i like the ones that you are both in the best,because the banter/ chemistry is so naturally funny,please dont reply to this because you are going through some horrible shite at the moment,and i really feel for you,but actually its the world that can be horrible,and when your ready, get out there and give em what for!!! , you don't know me and i don't know you, but im a 55 year old nurse who looks after poorly babies ,and after a hard 12 hour shift i can watch your vlogs and you make me smile ,and cheer me up,so please don't underestimate anything you do,look after yourself and when you are ready we will be here ❤❤❤❤❤❤ xxx
Absolutely understand. There is no easy fix. I would have found it by now. Haha. Do what works for you! Depression and anxiety has had a hold on me most my life.....every day is a new learning experience. You're wonderful! ❤ My husband and I adore you!
I comment to tell you how much I enjoyed your videos and to hopefully brighten your day the way you brighten ours. Replies are not expected or needed. Just know we care and through the internet I am sending you so much love and hugs. As Louise Pentland would say, you are a good egg Gary and the world needs more lovely people like you xxx
Corona has done a number on all of us that are anxious. My son is very like you in not going out but every day I made him go to our letterbox to check the mail (even though the mail only comes every two days) but some days that was all he could do but some days he will go to town and be okay but then the very next day he’s back in his room. Thank you for making this ok and please take one day at a time for YOU and no one else. 😀
I have recently found your channel as through brogan and adam. And just watched this. I'm going to show my son (12) he loves you in disney with adam but think it will be good for him to see that's not every day. He struggles a lot with anxiety and depression but nobody would ever know as at school he is happy and life and soul of party but at home on his own he isn't and that's ok. It's ok to not be ok. Its recognising it and getting help if you need it.
It makes me sad that literally one of the sweetest , kindest people that I have ever seen on RU-vid is suffering with anything. Thank God you have life line friends like Adam. I don't have depression but I get anxiety before I go out and people around me would NEVER know it. I am the person that they would guess last for having the anxiety. So now I've told you! There are those special people I never feel anxious with and never before Disney when I drive:)
Thank you so much for sharing. Sending so much love to you. Please don't feel like you owe anything to anyone. I have just recently found you and Adam. You never fail to put a smile on my face Gary!! That is the gift you give to us. Please don't feel like you need to compromise yourself in any way to give anyone any more than that. XOXO
I had a feeling you were a very sensitive person. Watching the videos, you are funny but also very honest and generous with your feelings about the traveling, enjoying every second. You owe viewers no more, you are allowed to have your feelings and problems and need for time out. Please don’t beat yourself up. We all love Gary C, The honesty, humor, voice and sweet soul. Thank you for what you do💕👍🏻
Am still in love with your hand made Disney tee shirts, you are true individual, so many people just follow the crowd, the young people all talk about save the planet but buy rubbish from primark type shops that’s just gets chucked out, when fashion change , be your self and don’t be a shopper, rant over , love you Gary c , Adam also 🥰🥰🥰
Gary you are so brave to put your self out there. I watch every video that you do with Adam. My family LOVES you but I love your videos of just you talking about you. Your a WONDERFUL caring, fun, exciting person.I just want you to know I LOVE YOU DEARLY!!! Please know you are loved even from a girl from Alabama in America.
Your honesty is beautiful and you owe us nothing! I will watch whether you put up 4 videos a month, one or decide to skip. If you never post another video then we will know that it’s for your healths benefit and we will wish you all the best and pray for your health! ❤️
I love this video. With someone who has panic attacs, and struggels with life when you have mental health issues i understrand everything u saying. This is the realest video i have seen in a long time en i feel u ❤️
Love this one! Sometimes I wish I could leave my brain home and when I travel have a new brain that isn’t all tied up on its self. Love to you Gary. Take care Love 💕
Thank you for sharing this with us. That was very brave of you. I wish I could give you a huge hug. Please take care of yourself and don't worry about us. We are more interested in you taking care of yourself than replying to our comments.
My heart goes out to you Gary, it's difficult to talk about your own experience and share it. You look after yourself, we all need to take time for ourselves to heal. I always think about a saying l got from my pain nurse - do what you plan, not what you feel - but the GUILT of having to turn things when unwell eats my mind alive. Take time, do what you need to and just know that no matter what, there will always be fab people full of love and support around you no matter what. ❤❤❤ xxxx
You take care of yourself first. I for one just enjoy listening to you and think you are a lovely human. Life is very difficult with your issues (my son has similar issues) and applaud you for your successes. We all have setbacks but you will have better times ahead.
Having watched your beautiful, loveable character on Adams vlogs which I only started watching to get me over post WDW sadness… I wanted to see you on your own. I suffer from menopausal anxiety and depression. I really understand what you are saying, I know this was a hole ago but as I’ve only just found it, I wanted to offer my understanding and empathy. You are amazing!! 🤗
Hi Gary! I understand how you feel and it sucks. Just know that we all love you! You bring my family so much joy as we watch you and Adam’s videos. You are blessed and you can do anything. Life comes in waves. This period will pass. Until then...self care and find something funny each day ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Look after yourself and to heck with everyone else I love to listen to your videos of you singing you have a fantastic voice. You and Adam have made my lonely days more enjoyable since I have retired.
Thank you so very kindly for all of your personal expression. Gary, I would love for you to look into the effects that sugar and carbohydrates have on anxiety, depression, and mental illness. My sweet grandson had suffered terribly, and after five weeks carb, sugar, and grain-free, he is off of all of his medications. I love and adore you! Also, please know I am reaching out with pure love for you
I admire your honesty Gary,and yes you do need to put yourself first,you don't need to reply to comments,just seeing your vlogs when and if you feel like it is enough.
I have so much I want to say but I’ll keep it for our private chats. Until then, sometimes the hardest parts are recognising where we need changes. You are allowed to not be okay all the time, and I’m here if you need me xx
Gary you are an incredible human thank you for sharing all of this information it's hard to admit and I connect to it so much. But as much as your anxiety may stop you going out or being sociable please remember its winter. We are also animals in a sense and need to hibernate this time of year it's our time to be with our self reflect your past year before your ready to enjoy this one to its fullest take your time and rest as much as you may need. We love and support you xxx
You do what you want to do! It is your channel! Whatever you choose to put out is good for me and most of your subscribers. Sending love and thanks for sharing your life with us.
Gary “take care of yourself” is easier said than done and so so important. Thankyou for sharing your struggles and inspiring others. I know I haven’t been doing great either recently and have been cocooning in my own way. Really needed to see this vid today to make me step back and look at myself and remind myself to cut myself some slack and recognise the eb and flow my mental illness. Thanks. Love to you. Xx
Ah Gary, you’re so strong putting yourself out there. I can relate so so much. This year for me is about taking back control, growth and healing. I’m so done with just existing, just trying to make it through each day, the negative thoughts, my inner voice saying ‘what’s the point’ to everything. We deserve so much more. It’s a f**king battle living with anxiety and depression, and I’m going through something very triggering at the moment, but I’m done with letting it win, it’s exhausting. We’re warriors, and we can do this. It won’t beat us 💪💪💪 you do you! Sending much love xxx
I am just now catching up on things. Better late then blah blah blah. I am really bothered when my fav RU-vidrs feel they have to explain, apologize, or justify why you do or don't do something. I personally will be here when you upload, how ever often that will be. Be good to yourself, be kind to yourself, and most importantly take care of yourself.
My heart aches that you have to battle anxiety and depression. I myself deal with anxiety so can relate to just not wanting to go out at times and deal with people. You are such a kind and genuine soul and I really hope you will stick to doing videos only when you feel like it. We all love you and want you to be well. We'll be right here whenever you do post, but take care of YOU. YOU are important!!! Sending hugs!
Well done Gary. I have been where you are and there are times when it happens again. You must put yourself first. Let others in when you can and know others are thinking about you.
Regardless of whether you're having a good day or a bad day, it's an absolute fact that you've added a tremendous amount of value to the world. Thank you Gary
Thank You! I suffer the same ... difference I have to get out the house to work but if I had a choice I would stay inside. I just got invited to go out Sunday night , and I accepted, but I’m already dreading it . SUCKS! But, I do look forward to you posting so please do what you’re able to do on YOUR time. Loving that your going to be Disney cruising w/Adam. This is going to be a great vlog series😛 Really appreciate your honesty. ❤️ from San Antonio, Texas
