@@batman5754 அது ஒன்னும் கஷ்டமான விஷயம் கிடையாது. எனக்கு வெறும் 2 மாசம் தான் தேவைப்படுச்சு. மெட்ரோ சிட்டி க்கு போங்க. எதாவது ஒரு கடைல சேல்ஸ் person ஆ ரெண்டு மாசம் ஒர்க் பண்ணுங்க. அவ்ளோ தான். ( குறிப்பு : உங்கள கசக்கி புளியுற ஓனர் ஆ இருக்கனும் )
Bro I'm an introvert I wrote a book,i have good analytical skill,I'm doing work alone, I'm being happy with some closer circle,i achieved whatever i can.i don't have social anxiety. But I'll concern the people mindset. Being introvert not weakness but as you said not growing their self is Weakness❤
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What you have said is 100% True brother, I was forced to be an introvert during my college days by my surrounding people, due to that I lost several opportunities to participate in events and conferences, also i failed to express my emotions to closed ones and kept within me which developed as mental stress upon myself, then i realised that I'm faking. Now I finished my course and am still finding a way to bring back my communication skills... Kindly make another video regarding improving/refurbishing communication skills. It will be beneficial for PPL like me ..
Daily news lam poduradhuku 1000 channels iruku.. Indha mari personal development pathi pesuradhuku very few channels tha iruku adhula Ninga soluradhu too relatable iruku.. So pls put video abt communication skills..!!
9.30 sumsup everything...being an extrovert and choosing not to talk is a choice. But not able to talk at all is a disability. By the way those cartoons /anime bit helped me in real life.Myself being an introvert people always underestimate me mostly in presentations , seminar and arguments. But i always make it a point that if i talk it has to be draumatic or with valid points. sometimes it backfires but if it works feels so good. During my college days we use to play poker every weekend. I noticed two type of people. First type are risk takers who would go for all in even if its 50-50 chance or bluffing. Second are cautious people who wait and play long. Both type of people end up winning on alternate games. I consider sehwag as extrovert and rahul dravid as introvert( not literally just about approach). I think people started using introvert as an excuse to lazziness. These are my understanding.
Introvert and shy ku difference irrukku neenga solla varadhu shy people pathi they wants yo talk but they feel shy to talk with people But introverts are choosey and crt ah naa point and oru converstaion la introverts naalu vartha pesunaalum narukku nu pesuvanga summa kadha adikka matanga aduthavangallukku knowledge share pandra maduri irrukkum avanga words and introversta are not shy people pesanum ngra edathula pesuvanga adhu avangallukku purichu pannuvanga matha edathulla pesa matanga that doesnt mean avangalukku pesa theroyadhu nu Im a proud introvert and im not shy yo yalk with anyone Naa pesuana meaning full ah pesanum nu nenaipen summa pesuradhu ennakku pudikadhu.. But shy people wants to talk like extrovert but avabgallukku pesa nervous ah illa shy ah feel pannuvanga... Shy people have yo change their character not introverts
Your understanding of introvert is wrong Introvert is a person who doesn't like socializing or interacting with too many individuals The example you mentioned like public speaking or confessing to crush comes under being a shy person not a introvert
See its simple There is a situation be a girl or job or you need food. You got only limited amount of time to act. Extrovert goes first Ambivert looks at the value of the opportunity and go second Introvert will just watch these guys, he would mostly loose opportunities bcos he is shy or scared
The problem that peeps dunno the differences between solitude , Loneliness and being an introvert ..... If you over oberve how dramatic we humans are sometimes its hilarious and serious at the same time ❤ Good video
Hi rahulan bro! I have been introduced to your channel by my friend. I am watching your videos for past few months. After watching your videos, I started to think about the points you are sharing through your videos. I feel that your videos are life lesson and it is inspiring me to work more and come out of my middle class life. You are the best content creator as of i have observed. Thank you for sharing such most valuable insights. ❤
I am a introvert... In my job i have to interact with my teammates and do work .. i will do intract well.. but I would always like to spend my personal time alone apart from job
Truly speaking from Heart. Human beings are made to be Vert, which means We are Vertebrates means We are made with Spinal Cord. There is 0% extrovert and introvert in human beings in the history of Human Kingdom.
I thought I was an introvert for a long time. Then, after some years i had to live alone, then i realised im not an introvert but an ambivert. I met new people, they didnt accept the fact that im an introvert when said im an introvert. Then only I realised how I was wrong. By then, I had missed alot of opportunities. Now, I try to expose myself to new challenges and try to put myself around people more times.
What a view brother, many are not introverts. But the freedom of acting and being as per their wants is being suppressed by multiple factors. This content will surely resonate with many whom have wrongly assumed themselves and start coming out of their self made shells and reach greater heights
To some of the people in the comment section ! Introverts are actually enjoy their own company ! It doesn't mean they dont have friends .... They can still be happy when they are alone !!!! Most of the people are forced to the state of solitude , if that happens you have to get out of that situation , but what you are doing is staying there and sharing memes about introvert (which is actually dumb , not an actual introvert thing) ..... personal thought and kovam --- thaniya irupanama , sogama irupanama , fone uh papanama , bitta papanama kadaseela yaaru illanu solluvanama !!!!! Sometimes moms dialogue is true " antha fone thaanga ellatthukum karanam " ...... Unmaya kasta padravangalukum poiya kasta padravangalukum vithyasamey illama poiduchu.....ithanalayee yaara namburathuney therla......
Very true I grew up as an introverted person. I Missed out on many opportunities in my career and life being an introvert when I look back. Being Introverted defeats the purpose of life. Life is all about expressing one’s self.
Though we are social animals everyone has a personal space .I guess the benefit of being an introvert is he will have very less number of people as friends circle and he will have a lot of time for himself.This is my perspective .What do you think bro ?
Even if you are extrovert you can enjoy solitude. You dont need to be an introvert to be alone or to be quiet. The issue is introvert cannot raise to grab opportunities which could change their life.
You are very correct, but I am unable to change it and your ideas about wht we are introvert may help to grow up my childrens to nit a introvert. Thank you very much for this video.
Very true. Being an extrovert and managing introverts is excruciating. They don't report the issues, they don't prioritise, they simply don't care to talk is what i feel. Oh it sure is a disability!
Being an ambivert, I am commenting it down before i see this video fully. Introverts just don't like dramas of people... they observe and they know everything... but still they don't have energy to argue...
Its not arguments, lets say there is an interview or suddenly the presenter didnt come they are given the opportunity to go and talk in stage or they like a girl and wanted to propose but they just couldnt.
@@AskRaghulan I agree on this. but I'm saying even emotionally they can't handle dramas like they listen to all the braggings of their extrovert friend and still not complain them. they simply listen.
yeah they glorified being introvert in movies,anime,series only but in real life they treated being introvert is like you said disability people..and thanks for that👍😇
Already figured it out the very introvert and shy but not to talk. When you don't speak when you should, the other person takes up that time. Change it all I'm also this situation.
For introverts like me, when there is a chance of speaking up in group or stage, gets fast heartbeat, hand shaking and thinkning of negligence. How to overcome it? I tried speaking up in group sometimes. But the problem I face is people get attracted to extrovert people alone. Namma solra pointsa perusa keka maataaga. In some cases oru groupla jollya pesitu irupaaga. But enakku athu mokkaya irukkum.Siripe varaama fake a sirichitu irupen. Antha discussionla irunthu na elunthu ponaalum yaarum kanduka maataga. But apdi pona nan than thaniya irupen.
Bro, pl give me a clarity... Im very quiet person and tried to change this quality by speaking to others. But majority of the time i feel its bore to communicate to 60% of people around. But at the same time when i need something i will speak up for me... Im not afraid to speak in a stage... Only time i struggle is when comes to mingle in a social conversation... I am very bad...
But as far as I've seen, most successful people, doctors, almost all developers, nerds, geniuses are all introverts. Each time you learn something new, you move away from the masses and that's why geniuses and innovators are all introverts as it's rare for them to find someone who can understand their thought process. Introvert is not someone who's just shy and scared. There's more depth to it. And if someone misses opportunities it's because they lack the skill to showcase their capabilities
Hai sir, I understand your point, but if that person is not talking to people or approaching a girl or guy because he or she is afraid of failure or criticism. Isn't that person is shy instead of introvert. Because to my understanding, a person like you said in video who does not speak up or afraid to talk is actually shy and insecure while a person who thinks carefully and analyzes his words before letting them out which results in him/her talking less is known as introvert. So instead of trying to change your character from being an introvert to extrovert, shouldn't we just be building our communications skills and use them when appropriate like when presenting, public speaking and talking to clients instead of discouraging people from being introverts or extroverts because being able to speak up or talk is a matter of skills, and not characteristics. I may be wrong so do correct me if I am.
See its simple There is a situation be a girl or job or you need food. You got only limited amount of time to act. Extrovert goes first Ambivert looks at the value of the opportunity and go second Introvert will just watch these guys, he would mostly loose opportunities bcos he is shy or scared
Nah u got it all wrong ..first you need to be clear of your definition of what an introvert and an extrovert are....one of the few people who have understood this is Simon Sinek...an extrovert is not someone who's just "bubbly" and an introvert is not someone who doesn't talk much ...that's a very poor understanding of what introvert and extrovert are
most of the human beings are ambiverts, may be renduthula edachu dominant ah irukku but definitely mostly ambiverts thaa. Everything has its own pros and cons.
No bro.. sry naa unga comments ah oppose pandren nanaikadhenga Introverts likes to talk limit and want that converstaion to be meaningful whereas shy people wants to be like extrovert but shyness and bayam avangalla thadukkim so they have limited friends.. even introverts has limited frnds but they are happy with that and they make like minded people as their frnds not like extrovert summa loda loda nu ellartiyum pesuradhu contacts vanguradhu nu... Lol 😂 I dont think extroverts oru meaningful friendship develop pannuvanga nu.. And introverts are enotionaly strong bcoz frnd nala ematha patallum seri gf nala ematha patallum seri easy ah recover aagiruvanga bcoz they dont share their private even to the closest friends but extrovert enn indha vishyathula badhikla paduranga na avanga avanga secrets and private vishyangalam share panerupanga adhuku aprm andha frnd or gf/bf avanga life la illa nu therinja udaney odanjey poiduvanga.. then they go for counseling idhan nadakkum.. enn frnd ku nadandhurukku...
Anna yanga school la oru madam sonaga romba silent irukavaga will be more intelligent,like they will speak less and they will show their talent .but atha silent irukavanga la fear avanga aprm avanga varum padikirathu nalla panuvaga Anna extra like competition participate panrathu speech competition la join pana mataga .ithula na enna therichu kitten mam class silent aaka oru uruttu tiga pola .intelligent people always be unique in their own way
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apdi onnu irukanu thrla bro theva pattatha ketta extrovert ah theriva ilana introvert ah irupa. depends upon where we are and with whom. i think inga pesurathu pracchana ila epdi pesurathunu theriyathathutha pracchana😅
making title as introvert is a disability is really wrong sir. sorry to say this you need to change the title its really really wrong disability is in your view just because you are ambivert or a extrovert you cant say introvert is disability. every one's life is different and not only introverts will think of being judge i have seen so many extroverts scared of being infront of people to speak or get credits for their work when i ask them why you dint ask for credit or why you are being scared they say they will lose friendship or they will lose some opportunity if i ask this credit now instead of giving it to some one. isnt it bull shit this is what extrovert in my view can i say being extrovert is a mentally instable? no i should'nt i partially accept your points but that doesnt mean you can have title or can say introvert is a disability
extroverts sometimes looks like compulsive behavior, I am an ambivert. But being an introvert is basically your imagination. You can literally do what an ambivert do, you stop yourself no one else. most introverts will give excuses for their failure, take them to a restaurant, and ask the server not to provide him with sidedish, he will not even ask for it. what excuse they will give him.
@@AskRaghulanClassic mistake Ragulan! You confused with Introversion and Shyness. Those are completely different and it’s the thin line where more extroverts and ambiverts confuse with it. And I’m pretty sure you meant right but I believe your take might be misleading or even outright discouraging those who are introverted. I’m an introvert and I talk with people all the time whether I like it or not and conducts technical meetings . There are many extroverts who are talkative but fumbles and chocks when they’re called to public speaking or an interview, because they might have experienced panic attack at that time despite being a chatterbox. It’s better if you take more clinical references or bring a psychiatrist to your video before giving such under researched advice here. I’m sorry but I’m deeply disappointed with your take. I know you really mean it well but it was misleading. Either you add the title to your video: My opinion or my take or you take down your video. Btw flagged your video. To all people who read my comment and confused or discouraged like me, it’s completely okay and I recommend you to watch Dr. Susan Caine video or better watch Dr.K or healthygamer channel. He’s the best and verified RU-vidr. Cheers!
See we can have multiple wokism concepts to keep ourself comfortable justifying our inability in a situation. There are many people are groomed as introvert as a sort of fashion without their knowledge.
Ithu solrathu vida seirathu kastam I admit it...what you have to do is.... Ungaluku enga ellaa bayama iruko anga ellaa unga bayattha surpass pannunga , instead of saying excuses to yourself..... And ungaluku neraya visiyam pudikum but panrathuku bayama or koochama irukum....anga ellaa neenga chinna chinna step vecchu veliya vara parunga..... thairiyamaa pesunga.... Neenga panrathu pesrathu vechu ungala ethum pannida ellaa matanga....just express yourself....
Ragul na.... I've some points which you actually missed....like bus la kaasu keka koocha padrathu , kadaila kolambu keka koocha padrathu , Instagram la intha mari memes ku ellaa vanthu " its me " nu comment panrathu , namakana visiyamey namma panna maatrom, intha mari ellaa past la irunrhu iruntha sathyama namaku urimai ellaa kedachu irukaathu , nammala nambi sila peru irukanga.... parents ellaa nambika vecchu irupanga....aana ipdi irukurathu oaatha avangaluku epdi irukum......ambala pombalanu ellaarumey thairiyamaa irunthey aaganum intha kaalatthula .......last generation la ellaa ponnunga kooda pesa thaa koocha pattaanga...but ippolaa yaarta pesunaalu koocha padranga....its okay but try to come out ......there are lots of things to explore...... - by society familynaala thaniya irunthu ippo veliya vantha oru இளைஞன் !!!
I experienced it, I was groomed by others to be an introvert😢 now I changing myself to be an extrovert!😊 Your video contents are different but is essential for life and I wish I would have watched your video when I was studying school.❤
Sir I Don't agree with this video sorry. In our society, there are people who are activists and revolutionaries by default not all get respects, you got respect not all gets respect especially for women they will be deemed an arrogant Hitler by the society, I am ambivert but where in business settings I am different but I had seen so many difficulties in my life, as a woman. When I know how other families keep their daughters, my life was not like that. My father was physically challenged, as a first daughter, I need to take care of my mother and get married and got my sister married , my intention was not mainly on career.... I did not miss anything....my marriage is the best decision of my life, I was one woman who took her own horoscope and found one person and married , but there are a lot of people who think differently...my intention is not business or money but to reform the society... I am doing it at my level. I talk when I want too..I don't care about not speaking with the junk part of society. Because most of the society today are toxic , they don't care about you , I tired to talk, today if you tell among woman who are housewives to get to job because they have depression is a problem, they will not respect you, tell them to earn money and don't do only gossip, they will treat you like a garbage and especially as a woman if you stand for your self-respect, its a biggest issue among women or men... As a society if we talk truth they don't accept ...please tell that if it's false. We are not worried about how one person got the success if not by hurting other people or environment doesn't matter, but we are only worried about success. Even if someone kill and get success, we are fine. they don't care...I don't want to help these selfish people instead i will chose whom I will help and especially women who are deserving. Someone who does give respect to other human lives or avoids drama. But today we have most of the people who often talk lies and act fake before you, they will tell as best friends and just wait to put knife, behind your back.
Anna, do we really need to care about our reputation from others? And if our reputation gone , how should we handle that situation? Make a video on that naa...
@@AskRaghulan while living our lives, sometimes we have a high reputation. Once that reputation is lost, how do we need to handle it? Basically, in my story, up until class 10, I had a great reputation in my old school, as I was a topper there. When I changed to a CBSE school for NEET preparation in class 11 and 12, I had a new experience. The competition increased, and I performed somewhat average. my reputation decreased in peer groups & in school. I don't know how to handle this situation; I feel depressed and worthless. What is a better way to handle this situation, Anna? ( I too know that reputation from peer groups is not worth....but on daily basis can't able to tolerate)
@@AskRaghulan Thank you for responding to me bro..🙏 I guessed correctly... because, as far as I can tell, only an introvert or ambivert can perceive such intellectual thoughts.
But software is also programed by genetics ( personality and intelligence) upto 60% and you are confusing introversion and insecurity, introverted people don't like small talk .
@@kavinprabhu4892 sometimes from upbringing and constant reading and playing games like sudoku may change some aspects of your personality and intelligence ( only from childhood not adult hood)
yes true, but we build lot of traits and soft skills over a period of time which ever is needed. when we are desperate we go to any extreme. so you can reprogram yourself anytime.
See being introvert even in the location where you need to talk, you not going to talk bcos you are shy and loose opportunity. Extrovert or introvert has nothing to do with idam and porul. Its only the ability to talk when want to talk.
Bad heading .. my definition of introverts is those prefer to listen rather than talk .. those who gain energy from within than mingling with people to gain.. lot of great innovators are open introverts .. you can say don’t use introvert nature as excuse to stay away from talking.. let an introvert get in touch with a girl who matches his taste rather than fake nature and end up with a mismatch
