Being KAMBUA | The Giver of Life 

For everyone who is on this journey, I pray for you. My heart goes out to you. And for anyone who in some way resonates with this conversation, thank you for being here. And to all of us- when we know better, we MUST do better 🦋💕

Conceiving, walking the pregnancy journey and carrying the child to term is God's grace. Lets learn and practise being KIND you never know what battle someone is fighting. Being childless doesn't make a woman less of a person. We all absolutely matter. To all the waiting mothers praying for a child may God remember you and bless your womb with a child. Have faith at His own perfect time, he makes all things beautiful. ❤❤ Thank you Kambua for sharing and inspiring. We love you

You have been through it Kambua.From the pre baby period to when Malachi rested.But I appreciate how the grapes have been squeezed and now we are partaking of the wine!I love you our Kambua.

"You haven't prayed enough." "You don't have enough faith." "IVF is not of God. Why are you doing it?" " You see! IVF didn't work because God is not in it." "Just pray the fibroids away." "You need to give a big sacrifice." "Your ancestors must have done something.'' "Did you try pastor so-and-so?" Sigh, we've heard it all from those closest to us who are just not willing/able to empathize, and so they make about faith(or your lack of it). It's ok now; we are past it, but it sure wasn't when the words were spoken, when they pierced the heart. You're absolutely right; we MUST do better. If you don't have something kind/uplifting to say, a silent prayer to God for me will suffice. Thank you Kambua for this PSA.

I wish this was shared on a billboard somewhere in a busy highway/city😢 people people 😢😢 not all wounds are visible we hide alot behind the smiles 😢 lots of love Kambua💜💜

Thank you, Kambua for being vulnerable. It brings memories of times when someone has shared an opinion/questions just because I'm not married neither young anymore...Yes words are lethal moreso when they come from people who are supposed to be safety nets..

This podcast is so powerful and humbling as it teaches us to really be mindful... And to really MYOB... When you realize how we have wounded so many 😢...we need to do better now that we know better

Oooh... You reminded me of a friend I walked with her during the journey, they were two but God did it to one. And I thank God for that grace of wearing my sister's 👠. Very informative

I have followed you for more than 10 years and i really appreciate you for the person you are. I always prayed for you Kambua. Cheap people judge and meddle in other peoples businesses. The lord bless you and keep you Kambua.You are a special child of the most high

Thank you Kambua ...this lifts my spirit up and yes i pray that someday i will come and share my story ❤🙏

I am learning everyday.. l have family and friends in this fertility journey that l might have hurt with my words unknowingly. I will be fully aware anytime l am with them

That was such a powerful message. I would be crying if it were me sharing. Thank you for being so vulnerable and open. God has indeed given you the Grace, the Wisdom and Brevity to share this. May this ministry continue to enlighten the society to bear with each other in such moments and in our interaction with each other. ❤❤

This has been so hard for me listening and resonating with exact words someone I considered a sister used to do /tell me and even someone at church that made me stop going to church . But we forgive and move on. But now am strong and ready to counter incase someone asks insensitive questions/comments. 2024 ready to go back to church as I wait on God. Thank you kambua ❤❤

I have always rooted for you Kambua and I celebrate endlessly with you that God has silenced the mockers. Father I thank you for Kambua and her ministry 🙏🏾

1. I can't even imagine the amount of emotional toll it took on you. Am so sorry you went through that. I truly admire your resilience. Thank you for sharing. 2. I have 2nd infertility. I have experienced this among the Kenyan community in the diaspora. 100% from women. I left social media for good, found non-Kenyan church. I am socially selective, and I distance myself from people who see me incomplete/unfit because I have one child.

For sure you have really blessed my heart Kambua. I remember praying for you back then yet I didn't know what you were struggling with, your story has proved that God can be trusted. Your testimony has and will always encourage many people out here who feel like loosing hope. May God bless you with your family

Wueh. Thanks Kambua. I lost my marriage because I could not conceive in the first year. Not to forget that we had done courtship for five years. I remember one day a lady walked up to me, well I was standing with my brother. We had not met for long, and after the conversation, she said in Swahili,.." wewe siwezi kutuma salamu juu utatoa watoto wapi?" This was hard. I cried! I had just lost my marriage for the same allegation. Especially women should be sensitive.

Ill just summarise with weuh..many are times we dont even mind what others would feel.my Lord help me to be kind to your people

Oh Kambua, Thank you for healing so many through your message. Am so mad at how insensitive sometimes we can be. May God help us.

Thank you for sharing. I get you 💯. Been there, still there and waiting.

Thank you Kambua for allowing God use you we all have scars that eventually manifest to testimonies

I feel like shedding tears😭😭 especially after knowing what have gone through...people can be very CRUEL...but i have learnt to leave everything to God..but am also praying to God to enable me to heal..and forgive..its not easy at all!!..i just wish people can learn how to be KIND,it doesnt cost anything. Thank you Kambua❤❤for this ,it was worth listening..THANK YOU

Thank you Kambua for holding this space for many who have been hurt. It’s a needed conversation. Asante sana.

Thank you for being so real. Your life is a beautiful testimony

Thank you kambua for speaking for us... May Almighty father bless you

Much love Kambua❤

I plead mercy for any insensitive words I might have spoken to any woman in this journey.Merciful God I repent😢

Good job Kambua.

Humans just need to be human with each other, thank you for being open . These are conversations that need to be said and heard

Words can either kill or give life ❤ May we never be the reason someone feel unworthy! Let's be sensitive it could be any of us! Hugs to anyone going through this ❤

Am so sorry you had to go through that. It's very sad that people have the guts to tear down someone like that. It hurts so much....only the Lord heals....i admire your courage and thank you for speaking for some of us....❤❤

My sister, you are a blessing to the body of Christ. It's so sad the things we say to each other, it totally messes my spirit.

You can also approach rebecca dawn if she feels comfortable sharing her story shes shared snippets love love her and Allan

Thank you, Kambua.❤ Continued abundance of Grace.

That part of someone moving u to the side so relatable

We can choose to be kind, to everyone everytime. Thanks Kambua❤

You don't have to have an opinion on everything especially if you don't understand the situation.Hold your words!Thank you for this kambua ❤

God bless you Kambua iv listened keenly to this and I just want to encourage you that you are lovable gentle a special gift from God to this generation

Am so sorry for what you went you through. Its painful

We are really unpacking....that was so deep!! I'm learning a lot from your podcast Mama Nate❤. More love & light .

I have always been a huuuuge fan of your music...Didn't notice the cyber bullying. So sorry dear!!! Such comments aki 😢 pole sana. I think i also had to go through loss to understand why silence is necessary! We live in a broken world, glad that you have the grace to forgive ❤❤❤❤ many hugs!!!

Great topic

I have cried watching this because I was broken by the same people I thought were my safety net. My marriage ending because of childlessness and being called barren by the same people who watched me struggle with the journey was the worst pain ever. Motherhood is a reward from God and people should be careful with their words. God is the giver of life and I am waiting for the day He will glorify Himself through my pain.

It has reminded the things I was told when I lost my daughter,some told me because it was a way of consoling me but they hurt so badly,I wish people learn to keep quiet and some were out right cold.i was told not to mourn my child that she was just a child this one hurts the most.

There was a time in my journey my husband used to take our dog pet for a work and he let the dog play around our estate playground and a neighbour told him he should get a child so that he could bring the child to play instead of the dog😢

Good to see you Kambua,keep going

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God bless you kambua you are kind and sorry for what you went through 🙏

Choose...... Thank you Kambua

I cant even begin to imagine the amount of turmoil you went through. It hurts so badly when you are asked questions that you have no control over. My mother was told that i am refusing to get married coz i want a rich man. Meanwhile, i was ailing. My mother was my caregiver, and she was tired and hurt as well. As if mareaige was the only thing that made me worthy. I salute my mum coz she faught for me when i could not. Be responsible with your words , Matthew 12:36 says that on the day of judgement ,whether you believe in it or not, you will give an account/ you will be held responsible for EVERY careless word you speak.

I remember someone pulling me aside too 😢the triggers

2 ladies, have told me am not happy for them since they are pregnant & giving birth,. another one said..i made her miscarriage just because i didn't have children and i even didn't know she's pregnant woi but GOD gives grace to move on.

Thank you Kambua,I know better now.

Society needs to learn that people have struggles privately and asking questions or making comments on personal decisions can be hurtful. Also not everyone wants kids and that's okay.

Tuned

A neighbour told me 'kama haujawahi panua huwezi elewa'. I laughed at her and replied,'You are not GOD.'.

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It's painful I experienced it

Thank you so much Kambua

Kambua hi... I love you. No pressure but I would love you to host your hubby.❤ atupee story yake.

The journey of infertility is difficult only women who are going through this journey know better,it can be crazy ,and depressing ,,you have to wear a smile everyday and inside of you is breaking .lets avoid insensitive comments to women in this journey..

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I tend to stand out a lot given my light complexion and introversion. I have social anxiety especially in town. People, especially women, make snide remarks to me, calling me fala, jinga. I suspect because I am not worldly and I am single at an advanced age. Yaani, people in Nairobi are very mean. It's almost a given everywhere I go. People are very mean especially to people who seem better than them, in areas such as beauty and fashion.

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It's so painful indeed,am going through the same

I got comments of having used contraceptives or having had abortions in the past. The sad part about it is that these false accusations came from my in-laws just because I've so far had 3 miscarriages.

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Where do people get the courage to ask such intimate and personal questions guys lets mind our business and if it hurts just pray for them

Seing this after I am constantly bullied because of my weight😢.I have social anxiety too

Going through this now,so heavy😭

oh kambua 🫂♥

Kambua, mean people will always be with us. Like that teacher must have felt intimidated by you and wanted to put you down. Most of these comments are from a point of jealousy and intimidation.

This…❤🙏🥺

Pole Kambua

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Village people would tell my mum how she has no kids because she has not managed to get boys. She'd had a whooping 3 kids at the time, all girls.

Hugs n kisses. I love you.

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