Finding my voice & courage to face life after divorce! Amakove Wala - Shared Moments with Justus 

Correct. Or tell yours

Exactly 100%

Thank you!

@isaackip6480 If Men spoke as often as women, you would know that there's always two sides to each story.

So true.

Exactly

😅have you thought about how the females in that coast prison are pleading for sexual freedom during visits,but never in male prisons ..females love it😅

And you think you love it more than us ladies😂😂😂am sorry bro

Apparently it’s not yall thing either idk 😬😳

Lol

Women are more sexual than men we're just taught to suppress it, it's not proper, etc., etc.

Weeeuh. Am sorry

Might he have been gay? He probably got married to please his family and society.

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Flourish hugs I relate .

Pole, have experiencef similar. And if you go out for pleasure you're judged

Exactly my point. You see how women are right? Selfish beings. It's always about them. The guy wants it always, it's a problem. The guy doesn't want it, it's a problem. Don't be surprised that the true story might be that the man wanted sex always or was always available for sex but the woman was using it as a weapon against him until the man got fed up and decided he wasn't going to ask for sex again,then when she wanted he wasn't interested,that was when it got to her. But she wouldn't say she pushed the man to that point. Never believe any story you hear on social media. Obviously she will paint the story to favour her. If you ask the man his part of the story you might be shocked. Only God knows the truth.

You kill his desire for you everyday you refuse him(constant chipping at his ego), learned the hard way when he completely stopped initiating, my excuse was that I have small kids and I'm too tired, well the kids grow up and your libido comes back in full force esp in your 40s, that's when they have given up kitambo without you knowing when it happened while you were pushing him away, he discarded you for the naive 20 year old or maid, co worker etc😅

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i know hehehehe same here

Wow

Yeah,as always they don't want women to speak up because calling them out for ill behaviour infuriates their demons. If you do you are a problem. They always setting standards on how women should be yet they have no idea how to be.

And don't you think you are senseless for accusing someone just from someone else's story without hearing from the person??? The stupidity of social media. Just because someone comes online, speaks in a soft tone doesn't make what they say correct. Just because someone comes on social media and play the victim doesn't make them one. You should have the sense of maturity to withhold judgement until you know the truth. And this is exactly why social media thrives because it depends on millions of people with very low IQ to just act on a story with their emotions without any reasoning. When someone tells a story, and in their story they were completely RIGHT and the other person was completely WRONG, that's a RED FLAG. There are 3 sides to a story, her's, his and the truth. Use your brain

And yet you are clearly showing you dont believe her. Walk the walk

Thank you! I forwarded till there 😊

Did he remarry after divorce?

I think he has a girlfriend, to me he is good guy, has a good career, quite disappointed that he didn't even want to support his kids financially,. That's the least he could do.

Probably he used alot of supliments. That happens alot

If he does steroids its a huge issue as to why they can't perform. Or maybe he's battling with his sexuality.

@@maryowino9403 or he could be gay!

Not necessarily, you do not have to be an extreme of anything It is normal to actually not like sex... Very normal

Or asexual..or tramautized by a childhood event .

Then why marry if you are asexual

😅😅😅

Not everybody likes having sex

Sisterlocks

That's a very ridiculous quote and unfortunately some young people will take it and be misled. You can't just do you and hope the world adjust to whatever you do. The right thing to say is ,"always do the right thing". What if "doing you is wrong"? Do you expect the world to just adjust to your wrong for you??? Unfortunately most Ridiculous quotes like this come from women because most women lack accountability so they do whatever the want .and most often than not the world just doesn't tell women the truth. Accountability is like Kryptonite to women . Let's have an example, let's assume a decide that "doing me " means having sex with different ladies and breaking their hearts. Do you think I should just go ahead and do me and the world will adjust for me???? Isn't that ridiculous mentality. Just because a quote sounds nice doesn't make it right

@@kingsleypaul1116 You missed the context under which that comment was made. Any sensible person knows what is good and what is right and what ought to be done, So doing you does not necessarily mean doing what is wrong. Please see the positive in this.

@@kingsleypaul1116 And now that you talk about accountability. This is an argument that is neither here nor there. Saying that women are less accountable is fallacy. It boils down to an individual, irrespective of their gender.😀

You shall overcome. I did overcome such a situation. It was not easy but l did overcome. Keep the faith

@@xolanimhlanga7963 Thankyou for the word of encouragement.🙏

Leave that relationship, ita form of control

@@xolanimhlanga7963 Thankyou for the encouragement

​@@fatmatakamara1866youd find that man can have sex outside very well bila any issues. Most men dont want to sleep with their wives once they have kids. They sleep with singke women and give their wives intimacy once a yr.

I don't care what the man says, I'm in sexless marriage.

Interview him. We’ll listen.

Her story is complete not one sided.

It’s her story not his story.

You can look for her Ex and interview him. I’m in a sexless marriage for 5 years now and counting. So I can relate with Dr Wala 💯

Mbti

It is their responsibility to provide. Sir down

@@georgenyasudi4060 but she has achieved a lot being single and than when she was married 🙄🙄 and she’s been talking about her divorce for years and the ex is not complaining, infact they are co parenting peacefully, unaandika composition mrefu as if you know her personally… mtcheeeeeew

Why, she is a vibe

Sorry, you are not her audience

Have you considered the questions being aske by the interviewer?

Oh my.. people READ BOOKS to understand different types of narrations 🤭

Lol. You may want to invest some time in research. Though debatable, sex cannot be only for procreation. Do you honestly only think of or want sex for the purpose of procreation? Sex is an essential part of intimacy.

It’s for intimacy, your wife is probably getting it somewhere else

I love sex as pleasure ... not planning to recreate .... .. everyone with their personal views

What is wrong with that?

@@MoraaOsiemo There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. The kids will be very proud of this being on the internet forever.

@@Grigor_Andolov yes, at least they'll know why their parent's marriage ended.

there are so many single mothers hidden in marriage and the children can always tell. Kids know when things are not right. Knowing the truth is more healing than pretense. @@MoraaOsiemo

And he permitted her to go find it elsewhere, where she really enjoyed it

If you are listening you will hear it 😊

Fastofo... You don't have to watch

Actually, this woman is a doctor, a highly intelligent woman!! I am so stuck to the story, and her flow....only the intellectuals can really understand...so do not expose yourself!!

😂 Where is the lecture? . I have listened to this whole thing and can't find it

Remember, all of us aren't the same, we were born differently.

People like you are a waste of oxygen

Are you even sure she was denied sex??? We need to be careful how we believe people online. If you hear from the husband you might be shocked. People tell lies all the time

Of course you’re a guy

its not your story soo..

Oh is this your story

Read more about sexless marriages in the internet.

Wah😮😮😮😮😮😮

You tube stories are just like this we share information

She's sharing her story so as to inspire other people going through similar situations and telling your story is an essential part of the healing process

You can watch something else

She is not talking to you if you have all those questions after listening to her story...

Why are you triggered? This is the 2nd time in the comment section you are trying to discredit her truth...I mean are you her man?

@@ewm4266 grow up and stop talking rubbish. First of all there is nothing like her truth. There is only one truth

Because they have done the self-work and moved from victimhood and unnecessary shame and guilt.

Am in such for 17yrs now, it's so frustrating, it's lowers one's self esteem, am on a dead end now in Ayr you have sex like 3 tym ,and it's not that he has health issues no ,but 100 concubine yes .

​@@margaretwanjiru2265When both of you are in good mood, ask him a simple question. Babe, why do you keep hurting me by denying me sex, is it that I'm no longer attractive to you? The rest you should be able to handle, it also depends on how you pause the question. It's only unfortunate that most upcountry women don't know how to make their men want to screw them. It's like it's a taboo to ask for sex or seduce your man. For the swahilis, husband seduction is a way of life & they are not shy when it comes to asking for it. It starts immediately the man arrives home up until when food is served & by the time they're reclining to bed it just comes naturally whether the man came from a mjengo work or office. But for the upcountry women, it's the man to do everything including initiating romance. Best sex is when the wife initiates it, why? The man feels challenged & because they don't want defeat, they do it better, why? If I don't, obviously someone else will. Our sisters will not do anything apart from complaining to the wrong people including social media. Boldly face your husband.

@@georgenyasudi4060 or maybe he is getting it somewhere else but that is something we do not want to talk about

@@loisewangari3389 we can talk about anything nowadays,we found out who killed tupac after 27 years

Or she is lying just as most women do most often for sympathy votes. Have you thought about that. The mere fact she is even talking about this on social media tells you the kind of woman she is. "you don't shave a man's hair in his absence". Just because she is sitting calmly and talking softly doesn't make what she says the truth. Have you thought about that. The statistics show that in over 65% of marriages women deprive men of sex, so this should have you thinking. Let's assume he stopped having sex with her do you wonder why????? Or maybe he was always asking and she kept depriving him (just as most myopic women do) and when the man has had enough he decided to stop having sex too. One thing I can assume you is that you see the way she is sitting calmly here, she isn't this way at home, never, trust me I can't be fooled. . when a persons story paints them all good and paints the other person all bad, there is something wrong with that story.