Being too independent, isolating yourself & running away from God |FAITH TALKS✨ 

Whenever you decide to be yourself you become lonely. However, God is very much relational, communal, and desire the same for us to belong to the community of faith in fellowship. Thank you so much for this faith talk episode.

I dont think Its wise to get vulnerable around People. My experience has been that they use it against You. The only one You can fully trust is GOD!🙏💛

I grew up in a fatherless home too I see God as my father 😊

Nothing Beats PRAYER BUT PRAYERS BEATS EVERYTHING ❤💯💯💯💯

It is CRAZY how spot on this is. I have been way too comfortable by myself. I used to take so much pride in it, but girl I can't do it anymore. This isolation seems so long and self induced. At 29, I just thirrrst for those female friendships - not even a partner right now. Just everyday friends. I feel like I missed my mark because everyone around me has known eachother for years or have a lot in common and I'm just kind of in the in between.

Wow thank you for this! 🙏🏾 I share a similar story to you being bullied and not being able to speak in front of people. Today, my pastor asked me to pray in front the entire church as a youth representative and I was just thinking about how much God has done in me to be able to do that 🫶🏾

This word was for me. Being alone to a fault is something I need freedom from. I see the beauty in friendship. Thank you for this Deborah. Grateful the Holy Spirit will give a word at the right moment.

Hello Deborah I've been watching your videos for quite a while now I'm 12 years old and i love Jesus and worship him i am so blessed and thankful that the holy spirit has brought me to your channel because it's been helping me learn more about God. I pray that God will continue to bless you and be with you through your journey i'm so thankful for this video i really needed it ilysm god bless you❤

Thank you, Deborah, God has worked through you to reach so many people and I am one. My relationship with our Father has grown since I have been watching your videos. I have put him first and I have experienced a peace that I never had before. My goal this year is to find a church and allow God to grow my fellowship. Today, I am asking for prayers of strength from our family on this channel. God has opened a door for me and tomorrow I have an interview for a new job. I pray that I will walk in the peace that Jesus gave me when I enter the building. Again, thank you for today's message and may God continue to grow our community. Amen in Jesus's Name.

YOUR CONNECTIONS DETERMINES YOUR DIRECTION‼️

Deborah, you truly are gifted, how did you know exactly what I was going through? Wheres the secret camera? 😂

I would have never guessed you were an introvert like meee!!! I had the similar experience growing up and now just feel unworthy of friendship. I will take your advice and PRAY PRAY PRAY about it. Thanks Deborah for sharing your journey 🙏🙏🙏🫶🫶🫶

I've been isolating myself a lot recently. Thank you so much for this word ❤

Side note, THIS LOOK 😍! So beautiful within and out sis!

I'm 17 years old, and I highly resonate with everything you mentioned, especially the poor relationship you have with your mother. Today was the first time we were able to speak about things, and it ended in tears. I hope we get to officially resolve things before either of us passes. God calls for unity - that's what I want for us. And I hope you and your mother experience that too, Deborah. God bless ❤

Amen❤ I been meditating Matthew 6:33 this week because I stay busy doing a brunch of nothing. My pray is to our father to help us all in these areas and not lean on our own outstanding but to seek the kingdom first and his righteous. Thank you sis for sharing ❤

Thank you so much for this, the Holy Spirit is always on point 🤍 I’m good at being alone to a fault and it has been concerning me, I been hurt by people and would rather not let them in . We as people definitely need a community 🙏🏽

Deborah Happy Sunday! It’s always such a blessing to see you :) God has been so faithful in the beginning of this month, this whole week i’ve PROCLAMING biblical affirmations upon myself and i have just been full of so much Joy 😊. EVEN in the low moments he’s STILL so faithful. Our God is INCREDIBLE GOD!

Thank you for your balanced channel. I was just thinking about this yesterday. There’s so many channels that focus on one extreme - being isolated all the time! Seasonally, sure!

A word this Sunday🙏 ! Praise the Lord🙌 Wishing everyone a Beautiful, Fulfilling week, be blessed. 💞💕

I need this because I’m so happy and comfortable being alone, I need to get out more but I don’t want too lol

This really came at the right time. I’ve been knowingly isolating myself for a good while now, for the same reasons you described, and every time I acknowledge it I come up with excuses why. I’ve been hoping (not praying nearly enough) that God will get me through it. I think this is the push I need to really bring it to God :)

Needed this reminder. Something I’ve been struggling with but God will prevail!

Deborahhhh why you calling me out regarding my introversion 😩 your Faith Talks are always on point 🔥💚

I struggle a lot with how I see God - more like a judge than a Father. I tend to isolate myself because of it, the constant feeling that I'm not enough, like if God held my sins against me when I know he does not. Thanks for this episode, it helps to find motivation to move forward. 🌿❤

Ambivert here and I enjoy my solitude. I wouldn’t even call it lonely. I do remember telling God that I enjoy a little too much 🤣 but I enjoy my own comfort and quietness. Sometimes, I get tired from socializing. Like you mentioned, I also withdraw myself from people because I think it’s weird people like attach themselves to me. I’m not a huge fan of attachment and I also end friendships before they can even start 😅. Yeah it’s a habit. I also been wondering why I’ve been wanting best of best friends but refuse to do anything. It’s starting to make sense 💀. I do have my college friends. Hopefully, I don’t end up like my mom…friendless and stubborn 😅. Okay I’m done

The thing about me is i want friends but i isolate, cuz i think that it s way better like that i get to focus on God and becoming the best version of myself in Christ

I too am a victim of isolation but I'm gradually getting out of that phase😊

Thank you Deborah for being brave enough to share your testimony with God. With the Holy Spirit speaking through you, I am becoming more aware that our God is a holy and an ever loving God whom we can approach about anything that is good, pleases Him, and brings Him glory. May God continue blessing all of us. I had mental illness which delayed me from schooling, then I moved to a new college and now I’m even happier with the curriculum. I pray that God will help me with crochet, open up more opportunities for content creation (even though I have severe social anxiety disorder and selective mutism) freelance work I can offer up to God, and that I will rebuke the spirit of comparison of the self to other people, because all people are loved by God.

I embrace being alone. Also I find it hard to get along with people for reason not known to me. So I prefer my own safe circle and I just avoid ppl all together and I pray for the lords grace and for the lord to put good people in my path

Thank you for making this video! I have to say this is something that I tend to struggle with. Even though I don’t isolate myself from God anymore. I still need to stop isolating myself from other people especially at Church.😅 Thanks for the video

Sis! I have been here from your very first video and I'm so proud of your journey of growth! 🪴🌱🌷 You are a walking, talking, & LIVING testimony! 🎉 I pray that all who watch your videos see you and KNOW that JESUS is ALIVE and resides in all who open the door and let him in! 🙏🏽🩷

Deb, the lord really speaks to me through you thank you! I live in Italy and I left my job for health reasons last year. And then a few months after I left my job I moved to a new city. Then I came to know Jesus. It’s almost been 1 year and I still don’t have a job. But I will continue to trust in the lord that in his perfect timing he will bless me with a job. I truly relate about the topic of being too comfortable by own company, like I really enjoy my own company. As I also suffered from getting bullied. But as much as I enjoy love being by myself, I also love meeting new people and being around people. But at the same time it’s hard, the church that I go to here in my city is nice but I barely see people my age go to my church only older people, I tried to talk to the priest and asked if there’s a community where I can join and he told me that they only have a community of younger people, teenagers. I am 29 btw, And so I really don’t don’t know what to do. I wanna have new friend a but it is so hard.

Good talk, perspectives, reflections. God must always be first, the strong foundation. Real talk. Enjoying your vlog.😇💗🎉🙏🏾

Amen Deborah; I need healing. Thank you for your ministry. God bless you.

I’ve always been emotionally unavailable because I too felt that people didn’t really care. I’m now learning that some people do care, but that I should be aware of who I open up to, too.

Thank you for your candor. I went through the same thing with my mother (who was rejected as a child & wife). Me & my siblings were abandoned often by our father. The bullying was more so in my household, so you learn not to show emotion or let people in. I thank the Lord for delivering me from that negative environment & placed me in another state with loving people who affirmed me. I've come a long way, thanks be to God who knows, sees, & care about our well-being 😊

Wow i have a similar habit of isolating myself, because i feel like everytime i really try with friends they betray me. So i just feel like people are not dependable and i don’t feel pain when i am not with them, but i do feel loneliness sometimes. I feel much better that i am not alone in this.❤❤❤🥰 Thank you this makes me feel less alone.🙏🏽

Deborah, thank you for sharing this, as I believe I was meant to hear it. I resonate with everything you've shared. I struggle with trusting people and opening up because I've honestly never had anyone who I've trusted aside from Jesus Christ. It's a constant battle every day... Like, it feels like I'm fighting for my life and my happiness. It's so difficult but I don't want to give up. I believe God has a beautiful life for me and I know perseverance is apart of the race. I just have to hold on until the finish line. However, it's rough doing it alone. I wish I had a strong support system but, right now, it's just me and Jesus (and my cat).

My situation isolates me cause i dont feel healthy enough to do what i really want to do. So i need to fast and pray so i can be healthy. And if i need to go out in pain idk maybe i dont want to but idk i just need to fast . Addressing the physical problem will help. Its hard fasting alone or just changingto a healthylifestyle. I need to do it with the Lord. 😢

omg, this is exactly what im going through right now, actually, since i was a kid. thank you deborah, thank you so much. i needed it a lot

I feel like God spoke to me through you. Thank you ❤

This has resonated with me so badddd....ITS LIKE YOU DESCRIBING ME AND WE HAVE NEVER MET😢😢😢😢😢.I tend to isolate myself alot and I usually enjoy my own company but growing more in the Lord I no longer desire being alone and thus loneliness had become evident and burdensome

I cannot even put into words how timely this word was for me, may God bless you richly Deborah thank you for being such a faithful servant,❤

Amen I was actually talking to God about self protecting myself to avoid rejection and being hurt from others🦋

Sister in Christ, has the Lord been telling you my life story 😅 really needed to hear this today

I have been struggling with the feeling of being lonely literally I broke down so bad but I’m glad you’re speaking on this because sometimes I feel lonely like the people that I want in my life doesn’t exist or I won’t ever meet them

Word in season... thank you Deborah I really needed that

Thank you for sharing ❤️ blessings of Abraham is now belongs to the saints 😃pray always 💡📖 if my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.

You made me cry Deborah ❤ Thank you for making this channel so authentic🎉 You don't have to please everyone, but you make a huge difference in the lives of people who ressemble you😊

This is so good. When I would be alone I wouldn’t even go to God just the motions of life thinking I’m good. That spoke to me, and a bunch of other things such as friendships and not placing them on that expectation they can never fill. Only Jesus. Love this! Love what you’re doing. 🧡🧡🕊️🙏🏽

A community and communication is meant to be in person not online it’s not satisfying or enough nor is in real, Real life shows how it truly is and it’s real unlike online will be fake

Just watched this on my work break and I really needed it!

How do you actually prepare your faith talks? Do you write down everything you want to say before talking?

Thank you for sharing this, it is something I struggle with and this video I randomly click on truly helped me open my eyes to the bigger picture. God bless you!

The Lord is always speaking through you❤❤ I am on summwr vacation and I have been enjoying my loneliness a bit too much 😅

Totally relate thank you for sharing ❤

Thank you 🙏🏿❤

Blessings to you sis. Those things you talked about couldn't be more true with some being as real as can be in my own life as well. But thank God for God always....!

For real 🙏🏾🙏🏾

Happy for you sis!🤍 🥹 God always comes through!! and this was right on time!! Thank You sis!

Loved this video!!! God bless you love!

Needed to hear this❤

Thank you Deborah❤

Grateful for this word🩷

you are such a blessing thnak you Deborah!

Deborah, I believe that we are not isolating ourselves, it's GOD doing it for HIS purposes. I'm glad because there are certain people that we don't need to interact with. Blessings to you and your family. Be Encouraged no matter how many subscribers you have.

Thank you, this is very good

God bless you. Thank you so much❤❤❤

On time word!

I need that song on my playlist girllll

God bless you darling ❤

Thank you! Stay blessed xo

Blessings Wonderful WOG @ Deborah

Faith talks yaaaay!🎉😂❤😊

Thank you

Thank you for this message really. I've been distancing myself from everything without even realizing it was an issue until recently. Anyways I definitely needed to hear this 🙏🏽 and may God keep blessing and providing for you ❤❤

Oh and you look so pretty 😍😍love your make-up and everything!😁

Amen! It’s so a honor to be able to share God with others and seeing him blow your own personal channel out of the water is amazing!!

❤️❤️I know this is going to be good.

Deborah, I could relate to this so much! thank you so much for your consistency and your obedience

Good word

Thank you so much for these words, exactly what I needed to hear❤️

I’m on this journey too, and I always pray that my relationships fall into place and I’m surrounded by the right people. I love the book of genesis, it literally warms my heart to see how much detail, thought and love was put into creation. Happy Sunday!🙏

I have found a huge problem in the church in regards to this. I know I am someone who is overly independent and then when I make myself try to let others in or come to others, they tell me basically to just go lean on God and deal with it myself, or to be more independent what the hell people do not seem to understand or want you to come to them at all and there’s this ugly narrative in the church that seems to think that everyone is overly dependent on one another telling us that if we try to depend on one another, we’re doing something wrong so I decided just quit going to church. Church is toxic and so many ways stop doing this to people at church telling people they’re doing something wrong just because you don’t want to deal with it

Thank you so much for this video Deborah!! I really needed to hear this, I can so relate with everything you said! Thanks again for this video, it really blessed me!

Thank you Deborah ❤- doing things alone and pushing people away can’t work - I know better than that so praying for grace to do better

Girl. I just realized yesterday what a problem this is for me. I'm struck. lol I have just been on auto-pilot, seeing myself as a "fixer" and self-reliant and living like that is what God expects from me. I'm praying for child-like faith. I will always enjoy taking care of people and helping but I have to learn how to do that from a place of utter and complete dependence on my Father.

Have you ever thought about doing like a Weekly Bible Study.. You would be a great teacher 😊 God Bless you 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Seek 1st the King of God What does it mean in Ur opinion😃can u teach more about that? ❤❤❤

Deborah, thank you for your faith talk episodes! Your videos being so much clarity into my life. I thank The Lord for using you as a vessel to speak and put into perspective ALL He wants for us 🙌💗

Love you so much ❤

Blessings to you dear sister in Christ how keeping up with everyday life 🙏🏿🙇🏾🙏🏾

This is such a confirmation for me. A little bit of context I had did online school for 2 years due to family issues then I went to school in person but got bullied so now I'm back online and it's just crazy how I was just telling the Lord about this- I feel like I'm living in the outskirts and being home all the time sure I go to church but I still feel so lonely and it's mentally damaging. I'm such an over-thinker and insecure definitely have developed social anxiety and struggle with social skills due to really barely interacting with people in person and I feel like nobody grasps that- Sorry for the random vent 💀. But this meant a-lot to me So I just wanna say Thank you God for showing me Deborah's channel. Because I can relate a-lot with what you have said so thank you! You are surely favored God bless!! Jesus loves you soo much thank you for saying what the Holy spirit is saying it really does reach people and inspires 💖💖💖

Hi Deborah. Just wanted to mention that your videos are a blessing to me and that I love you so much. Please may you pray for my family, we need healing and restoration of relationships with each other. God bless you

I also tend to isolate myself a lot. I didn't even feel like going to church today and I ended up not going 😢.

New subbie :) I loveeeee your channel! 💜

Be strong saints if you are born again water and Spirit 💧✨you are already blessed😃 it says workout Ur salvation Romans 12.1& 2 Renew your mind Give urself to the LORD abide John 15.7 St Peter said the Word of God is important to grow ( Ur daily milk bread water..) The Rhema Words are given to u So say it REv 19 Rev 2 stand on THE Word it's Rock foundation Matt 7 When u need the Lord call upon Him..He spoke and there was great calm⛵ Joshua and Caleb believed in the ability of God and crossed over to the promise land Pray always ⏲️

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🥹🤍It's all God