Ben Affleck needs to continue therapy to deal with his issues. He has generally always gone for women who are famous, and then he cannot stand the cameras, etc. Makes absolutely zero sense!
Yes, the original interview he states his daughter is always looking for titles for her future autobiography. An autobiography is written at the end of one's life, thus her step mom (as she calls her) and father will be long dead.
Why don't you haters watch the interview. The kid told her dad she is always looking for ideas for her autobiography. An auto-bio is a HISTORY of a person's life and thus written at the END of that life. Hence her step mom JLo and father will have already been long gone once she, his child, reaches her old age. 🙄
I think Ben Affeck thought he could handle it now after all these years. He had a great first wife and they were pretty low-key, but he still wasn't satisfied with her, either. 😞
@@purplesky4763 What hate? I love JLo!!! I am just saying that people are in business and can very cleverly stage things to their advantage. It is not a bad thing at all.
@@iampatsywoo Yea, I heard that too. Something about their marriage being staged for publicity. I hadn't realized that Hollywood does stuff like that. That's so weird, similar to arraigned marriages.
Comment sections and tiktok aren't real life just cause somebody has an army of haters swarming the comment section to Diss them whilst they are successful doesn't mean they aren't famous. She's still loved world wide just not everyone has time dedicated to be on the Internet commenting like the haters they always out do themselves doesn't matter what or who.
More like used to be famous... She's old af & is trying to fight it but we all know she's in her 50's & trying to stay relevant. But failing miserably.
@@Catwoman748can confirm. Met him once at a Starbucks. Was kinda in shock how nice he was. He’s a tall and serious looking guy so approaching him was intimidating, but he smiled big at me and happily took a picture.
Unless if you are a fly on the wall, you dont know if he is really nice or not. A nice big smile at starbucks does not equal good guy. He cheated on Jen Garner with his nanny, dont forget
Don't know why everybody suddenly puts J.Lo down. She earned her due and works hard for it. There are plenty who have not worked hard for fame and deserve it less.
Exactly it's so ridiculous, People just talk about this girl like she's famous for scandals! The woman works hard for her coins! It's so sad to see The media and trolls giving her a hard time over absolutely nothing but Fictional rumors and fake tabloid Fodder! I've seen more negative stories about Jennifer who's done nothing wrong to anyone get more hate then Diddy who is on CCTV physically beating a women 😢 the Sexism is real
@@annj871able do you know what the word steals means? And How can she steal anyone's voice? Is there any evidence of It? I need you to provide me the Receipts... Btw You sound about 9yrs old
Stupid people are the ones who believe everything they tabloid media says that invent false gossip about her to call morbidity and hatred to gain view$$$ in their videos, if she were the "devil" she wouldn't still have friends or employees who have been with her since more than 20 years ago. Please, people have not reasoned.
It’s sad but Jen is who she is..And you should have know from the 1st time around .God bless you both on however it turns out . But everyone only has one life and has to live it the fullest that they want it to be so no judgment. I just wish you both much happiness and best wishes..
That's your personal opinion and feelings.. but jlo's successful thriving career says different than what you personally think of her talents... her movies have grossed over 3.5 billion dollars and she has plenty of number 1 songs, albums, tours, vegas resendicy, etc even billboards gave jlo the 1st ever billboards icon award before any other female singer in the world and Forbes named jlo the world's most powerful celebrity, even times magazine named jlo the world's most Influential artist... so thanks boo
J LO is not superfamous, she is super self promotion. Ben and his former wife have it right, do your work, do what you have to promote it and live your life privately. J LO just keeps putting it all out there encouraging the adulation and interest.
Why be famous then? I loved the Glory Days of Hollywood, when it was magical. When actors and films were great. I hate seeing all the regular, everyday people on the Internet. I can see them in my neighborhood. 🙂
@@seriouslyjoking2 Yes, and I liked it when the famous actresses were not supposed to go out and about looking like "hags." Lol. I like it when they dress up a little and look good. Imo, Ben Affleck does not match Jlo in that way. He's just a "regular" guy, pretty much. Jlo likes to look presentable when she's photographed. Angelina Jolie is the same way.
Jlo is one of the most famous and powerful celebrities alive jlonisnworth more and has more success then Jennifer garner and Ben Affleck together times 3 and they know it
Exactly. All she cares about is being seen. She doesn’t care about any artistry she steals from people just to be able to say she has something to promote.
@@VonSolo5 I mean, seriously, when does a person have enough money and isn't the adoration of your kids and husband better than the admiration of the nameless masses?
@user-uk8qm6jd4o They retire old because they don't have anything to live by. If I had the money she has, earned with dignity of course, and I was 30, I would have retired then to be with my family
@@RoseofSharon-2335 yeah, and I’m guessing Ben forgot how she was or thought she’d be different, too, but has found himself caught-up in the drama that comes with all that attention seeking. No peace!
Does he mean he’s blown away by her level of Narcissism? Because we are all blown away by it. Can’t she just stop? Take a couple years off. I think her identity is so tied up with work she can’t stop because she needs all these yes people around her all the time. She doesn’t like being alone. She’s going to be getting married again and again until she’s 70. She just has to be married too. She needs to just stop and learn to enjoy her money and live her life with whoever OUT OF THE SPOTLIGHT!
When you're in your senior years, you don't take time off. You work for as long as you can or want to. Many others took time off. They are now older, and they even look old. That's not pretty in makeup on the big screen. Now they know they need more money. They are desperate to get any kind of work. And they wish they were getting the attention Jlo still gets.
@@user-uk8qm6jd4o why would anybody want her level of attention??? she’s picked a part every single day, she’s humiliated because of her divorce… Normal people don’t want that. Most people want a certain level of privacy. She did this to herself.
I was never a fan of Ben, but I changed my mind after seeing JLO taking selfies of herself and her butt in that boat last week. Ben was at home in LA taking care of his kids which is exactly what he should be doing. I now believe he just wants to live his life and take care of family.
Ben found a good hook to hang his hat on just in case things don’t work out. “Oh yeah she was just too famous for my kids.” Remember, Ben and his kids made a cut-out of his last girlfriend (the one in “knives out “) and put it out on the lawn…
@@bootsiekeegan4401I'm sorry, but I believe you are reading bad rags and watching false videos online. 😞 Imo, Ben Affleck didn't expect to get a "divorce." However, he was not good for Jennifer Garner. She's so sweetsy, I'll bet he cheated with women right under her pretty little nose. He probably would have done that till the end. Don't be fooled. A lot of men marry a woman they believe they can cheat on and get away with it. 😞
That's your personal opinion but jlo is an amazing actress and singer that's why she is the successful international superstar she is today with a thriving career
Well I would hope to be real rich if I’m out every night at a event and every award show thrown at her making 23 movies a yes on weddings I would hope she’s getting paid
Wow so much hate towards Jennifer in these comments. None of you know her personally or him for that matter. Just leave them alone. People always wishing and wanting people to break up. I just don’t get it.
@@PacificNW-Jess Assuming the worst about others based on gossip is one of the most DUMB and RIDICULOUS things anyone can do, not to mention that TikTok has always been trash on our continent.
Except that the majority of people who meet her only have bad things to say. I know people who have and not one had anything good to say. She’s one of those celebrities that demands you don’t look her in the eye. I don’t care what your talent level is; you are not a god.
If people are unhappy, they don't want to see happy people😢 it doesn't apply to me... but I know many people who are like that...😢 I had to distance myself from people like that... 😢 they are in competition with you and if you are happy... they hate it!😢
@@gabrielaraimondo2430 It has nothing to do with people’s happiness and all to do with them being not worthy of being in her bubble. You’re spinning other people’s stories, that you are not a part of, in favor of your bias.
@@Bookwasbetter Jlo is no different from most people. The thing is, she can get someone. Many people in society have a much more difficult time doing that.
@@user-uk8qm6jd4oBut there's value in taking time to learn about yourself after a relationship ends before jumping straight into the next one. She moves too fast without understanding what went wrong. It's the hallmark of an insecure person who doesn't love themselves enough to be content on their own--even temporarily.
@@Bookwasbetter I agree with that. I personally believe Jlo's parents most likely had a tumultuous marriage. Or maybe her father left the family or something. If she truly "NEEDS" a man in her life at all times, an absent father could be the reason why she is like that. So many women with father issues feel less than whole without a man in their lives.
Why is he always criticized? “He looks angry” “He looks annoyed”. Maybe he’s just relaxed around someone he knows well? Are you the same all the time whether you’re in a good place or stressed?People also adapt to their surroundings and other People’s energy. Hyped up paparazzi will naturally make someone feel protective and reserved
She was a better match for A-Rod. They both have big egos, big salaries, and big careers. I don't think either one was intimidated by each other's fame.
No, Ben Affleck is not! Ben probably could have been if he was a happier camper. He has his "vices" and appears to be moody. Jlo is not into vices. She is very aware of her life and where she would like to go.
Marriage is for better or worse. Not I’m in it when it’s convenient to me and out when it doesn’t serve me. Also how does substance abuse by someone affect the marriage and kids? Seems to me Ben Affleck is always blaming someone else & not seeing his role in relationship issues. Also having an Ex hanging out All the time can Sour Any relationship! He knew what he was getting into this time at almost 50! Stop using excuses to look like the victim!
Thats funny because Jennifer Lopez is one of the least famous popstars 😂 Shakira, Britney Spears, Madonna, Beyonce, Taylor Swift, Rihanna, etc. are all far FAR more famous and beloved than she is. He would find himself to feel completely suffocated by their level of fame.
Actually she is equally famous to them or even more. Even if you hate her you have to admit she does have talent and the woman has earned all her fame and money with hard work.
A-Rod cannot yet commit to 1 woman. He's probably a serial cheater. He would be great in many ways, but he has emotional issues from his childhood. He was abandoned by his father. Thank goodness he went on to fame and wealth, because it probably would have destroyed his life. It's the way his father did the deed that was so "crushing" for his innocent little boy. And the damage was done.
I don’t think it’s Jennifer Lopez. It’s fine that is the problem. I think it’s the way she handles that fame and revels in it. She’s not any more famous than a lot of other people, but they handle it better she earns for it in my opinion.
Ben - really.... When you didn't know that you have been living under a rock. And this is not your thing. She lives in front of a camera, even if it is her own during a vacation. He likes his privacy. What the hell were you thinking? That she would change? This was bound to happen.
You HAVE to be strong to do what Jlo has done. All by herself. No famous parents to help her. No college education. She didn't come from anything great, but she had a dream. She's a woman, and people in Hollywood and the music industry do/did a lot of evil. Must be tough or people will run over you, take advantage of you. Jlo has what she has because of the way she is. There are only a few women in that category.
There's over 7 billion people in the world cause just cause a few bad comments on social media and a few haters will never erase all the love there is for jlo in the world... you don't get to the level of fame, achievements, or success if those fake lies and rumors were true... jlo is who she is today and where she is today because she one of the greatest entertainers alive today
Hah! Ben Affleck is trying to feel better about "himself" by choosing famous women. He thinks those women will lift him up. He could date regular, smart, career-oriented women who no one knows from Adam, but he does not do that. At the heart of it, Ben Affleck is insecure, and it likely goes all the way back to his childhood, alcoholic father, etc. He should be in continual therapy since he is an addict. If this couple stays together, they should both go. Jlo also has selected the wrong men for her. She should have seen A-Rod a mile away and said, "No."
She should have stayed with Arod, Look how she blindsided him when they were set to be married, she slipped off and met up with Ben. Got back in town and dumped Arod just like that even though his kids had gotten very close to her. She did not give it a second thought about the effect it had on both of their kids. I was all for Arod being the final one for her.😢
JLo can be very admired for her determination. Unfortunately, it is at odds with her long-term desire for romantic success. But she can develop a good strategy to make it possible and have both desires realised.
It's not too late for Jlo if she gets a clue and does things differently. If Jlo and Ben Affleck break up, she definitely needs a more "elegant" man, someone who is more like her... someone who enjoys people, attention and the finer things in life. He needs to be successful and have his own wealth. Plus, he must be respectable and have good character. I believe Jlo would love and respect a man like that for life. And a man like that would bring out the very best in her.
@@user-uk8qm6jd4oAt her age she will on attract younger men looking for a sugar mama and a come up because when you are young you can flash for the camera because she will dress you like you mama once did and all you have to do is play the you will be given your allowance like Casper Smart and when you go out with your age group cheat until she catches you and kick you out but you are young with your whole life ahead of you an older man don’t have time for that crap camera in your face 24-7.
@@user-uk8qm6jd4o I agree with you. I see her alternative the same way. For her to grow to attract and desire an extroverted man with a good heart, good character, and more sophisticated, she needs to train in good manners, unconditional love, acceptance of personal differences with others, and significantly develop self-love so she can be respected and loved as well. She must go to her childhood and check out what lurks there. She is repeating some childhood patterns from someone or more people and developing an antidote to give to herself to bond with someone else. Supposing she was reading comments about her - which I doubt - she can get help through “cold therapy” (behavioral therapy). I don’t believe another technique in the market is as good as this one in this case. Her match needs to be extroverted like she is. She needs to get initiated into some spiritual practice to get some methodology to help her get free of the grip on her ego. It’s what human beings have done to become more whole. If she has an addiction, they informed her lately that she needs to go to therapy specifically for these kinds of groups. This should be the step one. All of it requires time in her routine, and she needs to know if she can open time for her well-being to be complete. Workaholism can be an addiction as well. It’s hard to find a man that is not sophisticated to respect the accomplishments of a self-made woman.
I wish he could find a nice lady- who doesn’t need 24 hour attention - for him and his kids. I honestly do not want to know any more about Jennifer Lopez. He still has a chance to save himself.
Ben Affleck ALREADY had "nice women." His ex was a nice woman and good person, I'm sure of it. And I'm sure Ben Affleck has also slept with a "myriad" of women over the years, plus he's dated nice actresses. Women are NOT his problem. Ben Affleck doesn't need to find another female. He needs to stay sober and find contentment "within."
She didn't have to because ARod was doing all the filming and promoting her and was supporting her and they came across as a very happy family - her kids loved him and his kids loved her - the kids were involved in everything they did together . Don't think I ever saw one grumpy photo of Alex
Not shaming her but based on her music and films wasn’t the reason of her fame. I think Hispanic world wanted a representation so she win the spot and also she is scientologist not surprising she’s supported. If I think she’s representing the best Hispanic singer? Absolutely not, I saw better.
Guarantee you, some of these views were bought By Entertainment Tonight themselves also I don’t like how they were making It seem like that Johnny was the bad guy during the court stuff he was a victim of abuse and lies
