Ben Dover: Should Wives Give it Up Even if They Don't Want To?

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@MahdiTidjani 2 года назад

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@jawwad1189 2 года назад

@@alghurraba What is your solution?

@jeffreyepstein4310 2 года назад

@@alghurraba he wants to keep men in the rat race. Its halal and no one can deny it.

@jeffreyepstein4310 2 года назад

@@jawwad1189 there is no solution except misyar,

@alpharays3667 2 года назад

‘We live in a world where A man’s role is static while a woman’s role is negotiable’

@madmanjay2458 2 года назад

I don’t understand

@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 2 года назад

Men are the leaders and more vital in fuction in their own way and nisa are more needed in terms of growing population hence polygyny.

@SativaSeanLasVegas 2 года назад

It's only negotiable if you allow it, even in the West - in my culture, there is no place for a woman to hide if she denies her husband his physical rights- I for one, would have 0.00000 sympathy. If he is handing his responsibilities, she must handle hers...and I could care less the consequences if she doesn't. Put her out on the street if you want.

@OnderHassan 2 года назад

@@madmanjay2458 A man has to do his duty in marriage regardless of whether he feels like it or not. A woman doesn't have to and can make excuses... I'll pass on that.

@Kk-dl5ht 2 года назад

@Theshowoffcollector 2 года назад

Prophet ﷺ said: "When a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses and he spends the night upset with her, the angels keep on cursing her till the morning." (Sahih Muslim)

@nuhmanhanif288 2 года назад

@really not important so according to you only women are victims

@abdula16 2 года назад

@really not important is that how the hadith makes you feel

@slaveofgod3481 2 года назад

@@abdula16 IDK.. I think he's talking about how some sisters like their dawah.

@wrestlingjudoms1302 2 года назад

This hadith really seems to upset people especially sisters.

@jawwad1189 2 года назад

@@wrestlingjudoms1302 Yeah I have seen that

@ahmedalmahdi9254 2 года назад

Na'ima mentioned that the woman is the one who pushes for marriage and monogamy then once she gets it, she lets loose and doesn't put the work in. This is a very common theme in most marriages, the wife gets fat, starts to nag more, and becomes intolerable. It's often cheaper to keep her, so the man just suffers through the marriage. The solution is to always keep your options open by maintaining your physical and financial frame at all times. The Arabs have a saying, it goes something like this: "The only thing that can put a woman in line, is another woman". Competition anxiety is the most potent aphrodisiac.

@slaveofgod3481 2 года назад

I've actually heard stories of this, and experienced it to a small degree. 1.Wife is disobedient and refuses you. 2. Man gets married to curve strong desires. 3. Wife gives you everything she wasn't giving Why couldn't you do all that in the first place?

@jeffreyepstein4310 2 года назад

Its clear misyar is the solution for me.

@YeOldVisigoth 2 года назад

Polygyny is the only way to keep disobedient wives in check. They naturally go at each other's throat therefore sparing the man. But if it's monogamy of one man with one woman she most likely will make his life a living hell.

@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 2 года назад

@@slaveofgod3481 so true... this shows nisa need to be more grateful and should not complain about polygyny at all.

@SativaSeanLasVegas 2 года назад

Perfectly Said - and Kitty in the West is 15 for a penny before the sale starts. So there is no need to suffer an insufferable, nagging wife. I see it at Steakhouses while I'm enjoying my steak eating "on the piano" listening to live music at Hanks Green Valley Ranch...fat, ugly unkempt wives, looking bored while their SIMP husbands pay hundreds to try and entertain their worthless presence?? Boggles the human mind, what Men will stoop to when they're testicles have been removed.

@shannonpickens7695 Год назад

I agree my coworker complains about her husband, and yet mine only desires it once every several months. I get annoyed with her complaining, she has no idea how lucky she is.

@slaveofgod3481 2 года назад

In my honest opinion if you can't satisfy him you might as well share. I hear too many stories of wives that having trouble keeping up with their husbands.

@DropYourFace 2 года назад

@@alghurraba Or the wife can do something without her receiving any pleasure if she doesnt want it, so the husband can atleast survive, but trust me the fitnah will be way less hard if a man is married so its not that big of a deal, if he really wants more he should strive for succes to get more.

@freedomclub4370 2 года назад

@@alghurraba or he can do misyar nikah.

@slaveofgod3481 2 года назад

@@alghurraba why would you use that as a solution.🤔Gym, business, or productivity, doesn't negate the man's needs at all, or even halves it. Though we agree on one thing tho you must be able to afford having another, but if you can I'd recommend it. You're also right here I agree that he'll have to control his desires and have the most strong and utmost patience as well in the meantime, because there's no bigger betrayal, and fitnah/test than a wife who just refuses to put out.

@civildiscourse7626 2 года назад

@@alghurraba or divorce her and leave her alone ?

@civildiscourse7626 2 года назад

@@alghurraba Misyar marriage is disliked by many women but lack of sex is disliked by all men- so who should concede?

@guest8218 2 года назад

Ok again it is not about women , it is the man that god made with strong desire for women, women needs to understand that. man love is different to women Love

@bailo4753 2 года назад

Aqhi I think u should check with a student of knowledge if this no strings niqha is allowed before u start promoting it the way u are.

@TheOrganics01 Год назад

It's not allowed

@DARTH-R3VAN Год назад

@@TheOrganics01 according to who?

@OnderHassan 2 года назад

This is why Allah allows for men to have multiple wives. If one denies you, you can just go to your other wives. Now someone will inevitably make the argument that you have to treat your wives the same, but that's beside the point. Women need to feel dread and competition in order to keep the spark of desire alive. And it needs to be raw 'genuine' desire. Otherwise, you end up with negotiated desire, which isn't the same and is what 99% of monogamous marriages end up in. Allah knows his creation.

@Professor4555 2 года назад

Some men can't afford to keep more than one wife at time though, sad state for many 😔

@jeffreyepstein4310 2 года назад

Thats not a solution, truth is marriage isnt good for men anyways. Just pay 2x the rent and mahr bro!

@OnderHassan 2 года назад

@@Professor4555 So just move to another Islamic country that's both affordable and accepted. Where there's a will, there's a way.

@OnderHassan 2 года назад

@@alghurraba Or you can work remotely with a UK salary while living abroad. Remote work has become the new norm now. Think glass half full, not half empty.

@ghurabaa114xx 2 года назад

@@OnderHassan are u married? If not. . .why?

@arewahaircaretv8718 Год назад

Honestly...this is the reason I can only marry a with at least one wife. I can't keep up.

@imperfectlyperfect2.014 2 года назад

"Women want to come towards you!!" facts! Explains why we find desperate energy repulsive.

@SativaSeanLasVegas 2 года назад

That is TRUE - a thirsty dog is like a turn off - for me as well; when a woman is thirsty, its repulsive...she has to be charming and non-chalant and quasi playful or it's simply "not happening". Nobody, of either sex wants to feel like their providing a service to an animal.

@zayn6725 2 года назад

This is a huge problemè in the Muslim community

@jarrad300 2 года назад

Is the lady you in a niqab?

@wealthwisdom1656 2 года назад

🤣🤣🤣

@TheOrganics01 Год назад

It could be

@jawwad1189 2 года назад

Please look into The crimson cure 👍

@jawwad1189 2 года назад

You can watch brother Yusuf Soussi he talks about this

@nouranzakaria2253 Год назад

Well i know a woman who didn’t let her husband touch her for 10 years because he wasn’t clean and she started to lose her feelings for him also because he mis treated her And she couldn’t get a divorce because she wanted to keep her kids in one place and grow up with a dad and mom under one roof. So some women do that because of strong reasons

@abdula16 2 года назад

All of these modern conservatives women are also feminists. Naima gives off a strong independent woman vibes and the other woman IS actually a feminist. She just smart enough to realise that being THIS way serves her better right now.

@abdula16 2 года назад

@Mohammad Bakeer no. They’re not the opposite. Maybe you can argue Naima isn’t a feminist, but the other is. She’s a woman that does whatever she wants, her husband serves her, she just realized SOME of his rights. If he was to tell he to stay at home, not to wear what he’s wearing, and taking his authority up a notch, would she still be like this. Maybe! But I highly doubt it. Point is that they submit to an extent only.

@abdula16 2 года назад

@Mohammad Bakeer no. I dint watch female preachers. And It’s impossible for her to be submitting to her husband all the way. I dint believe and time will show it. Now as for the Muslim one, maybe she’s all the good. It’s just that she gives off SOME strong independent female vibes.

@Ya39oub_G 2 года назад

@@abdula16 You sound feminine when you use words like "vibes" instead of actual arguments.

@Lionsdenm3dia 2 года назад

@@abdula16 a smart woman who knows where she stand which is behind a man, doesn’t mean she’s a feminist 😂 don’t get offended she might be more articulate than you

@abdula16 2 года назад

@@Lionsdenm3dia which one are you referring to? And men like me don't envy women. Whether or not she's standing behind her man is infact in question. We don't wantwomen in the publicsphere at all. zero. Niqab or not. any man with respect understands that except the dayyuuth

@the.art.of.shadows 2 года назад

silicon dolls is the future and with AI intelligence is even more better the modern women

@bigfreak4969 2 года назад

you see mandem is not wrong there

@badarsharif3627 2 года назад

I'm interested in this women who can't contain their need!

@jawwad1189 2 года назад

I saw the Larry Wheels video he had an OF addiction

@MuMu124 2 года назад

This seems like a problem all women share not just in intimacy...its like a chameleon that changes its colors to match its surroundings and once its comfortable enough it goes back to its original color...women are like that sometimes...they willingly change themselves to get their man to accept them and after they're married they show their true selves cuz what is the man gonna do we have kids and a life together

@ghurabaa114xx 2 года назад

I thought that's what brothers do!

@admar6934 Год назад

Not all women just the ones you've met there is sort women who don't mind giving it up,and it's not just women some men don't give it up either while the women wants it so it goes both ways and it means there is health issues a healthy male a d female should have a good libido ,just because she is fit on outside doesn't mean she is in inside healthy starts inside out

@Toryb168 Год назад

I want to be super sexual for my husband but he dose not provide and wants to split the bills. I can not be súper sexual and relaxed when I have to worry about my survival. How can inspire him to provide more ?

@DARTH-R3VAN Год назад

Get him to watch some Andrew Tate and Mahdi tidjani

@lossforwords888 Год назад

Isn't this grounds for divorce in Islam? Failing to perform duty as a husband, you have rights too.

@DARTH-R3VAN Год назад

@@lossforwords888 imagine being so stupid to suggest divorce straight away.

@Toryb168 Год назад

@@lossforwords888 Im not Muslim

@omarakra9339 Год назад

Tell him its his responsibility and that you want to be a tradional wife.

@mariahiras7240 22 дня назад

Oh but he can marry another woman whether you like it or not! Is there something I missed?

@mohammed96011 2 года назад

Less than once a week is a sexless marriage bruv

@slaveofgod3481 2 года назад

Thrice a week four me😂 imagine getting married but getting box 52 times a year

@bead_on_demand Год назад

I don't get how can women understand the need for sex and sexual pleasure of their man when they have been unaware of sexual pleasure all this time? Men assume their member is a magic wand which will make their wife crazy in few sec like they experience. Most women do not even know their bodies and body parts and their purpose and even if they do get to know somehow there is a huge guilt attached to it so they stay sexually unsatisfied and think that's normal and that's how it's supposed to be. Provide your hole for a man while faking it each and every time. Almost all women fake it cuz they have no other choice or their husbands do not give a damn cuz at least they are getting what they want.

@lossforwords888 Год назад

Revolting words. Have some decency for the act.

@dodgysmum8340 2 года назад

Ppl get upset with you not because of wht u say bt because of the language u use. "Relieve yourself were her?!?" You are not having a wee here. The same goes for "keeping your boot on her throat." I understand you want the clicks too, bt ppl who might otherwise be into this will b put off by such language.

@hellocello4931 2 года назад

@K. Kong no because it’s disrespectful. Where’s the respect you have for women. If the prophet SAW was here he’d be so disgusted and ashamed by your language and the way you men treat women

@ghurabaa114xx 2 года назад

He should talk like how our beautiful Prophet Muhammad SAW spoke, then they wouldn't have this problem of women running away from them. They forget women are different to men

@lossforwords888 Год назад

OK that chick looks like she's only half listening, is she checking her phone? Come on...be professional or get off line.

@yushaq2434 2 года назад

Someone please explain what this no strings marriage refers to. What are the conditions and context? This sounds new to me.

@skywa7183 2 года назад

It's basically u marry a woman for Ur needs alone. No obligation to her cuz she has physical needs and so do u. It's crappy. Watch milahans video titled attach some strings to tht nikah or something along the lines to know more.

@TheOrganics01 Год назад

Haram relations

@DARTH-R3VAN Год назад

@@TheOrganics01 no

@CaptainSugarToes 2 года назад

What do you do when she doesn't want to or just doesn't feel like it?

@tarek399 2 года назад

you keep reminding her to fear Allah.

@ummyusufmona 2 года назад

You get her in the mood. Like sister Na’ima said, it only takes a few minutes

@ummyusufmona 2 года назад

@@tarek399 that’s not needed if she’s into her man

@CaptainSugarToes 2 года назад

I just became Muslim months ago still learning and immersing but she isn't at all one. So this one is different.

@tarek399 2 года назад

@@ummyusufmona I agree, if she keeps refusing with no reason then remind her to fear Allah.

@estonian44 Год назад

2:48 if was it 70 000 angels that curse? i am wondering, is there any bases that the rejection can bring some cases also the issue of grape and p3do or these are completely different "animals" bcause if 70 000 angels curse some1, that must be far from joke and it must actually be quite severe which we maybe don't even know yet?

@usainbolt5153 2 года назад

@4:25-4:33 loool no way i would have cheated or got my self a second wife

@jeffreyepstein4310 2 года назад

Its clear misyar marriage is the solution. im not a doctor, so i cant get married. I also dont want to get married and tie myself down with kids. Finally, im too young .