I believe the relaxed community is growing as far as being on RU-vid goes. But I personally believe their are WAY MORE Black women who relax their hair, verses those who are natural. At least out of all the women I know
Why am I watching this? I have only seen a black woman in person two times in my life. These hair videos are whole new world for me, so interesting! I thought that all straight hair on black women are wigs or naturally straight (yes, to me it was possible) but wow - today I learned about the relaxer! Thank you! It is so cool that we can expand our knoledge about each other through Internet.
I have had a bad experience using the ORS relaxer a few months ago. That was what made me shave my hair and go natural again. I am strongly considering going back to relaxers again because no matter what I put on my low porosity hair, it is dry, and I do not have any money to waste to buy a lot of different products to see what works or not. Thanks for the recommendations. And please keep us posted about the UNLAY oil.
If you do decide going back to relaxers try the optimum defy breakage relaxer. I’ve had much BETTER results with that relaxer when It comes to breakage after perming. I will DEFINITELY keep you guys posted with UNLAY. Thank you for watching 💕
Same here. I made the decision to relax my hair because products for natural African hair are so expensive in Europe. But that relaxer did me dirty and I'm trying to salvage my hair now.
❤️I've used so many relaxers & that red Optimum relaxer was the absolute best. I stretched for 4+ months & lost like 3 strands of hair after using it. New subbie🤗
Going back to a perm my hair is 4c and very thick and dry. Nothing help. I drink plenty of water. Clean eat also. I need a perm bad. Thank you been natural 11yrs. Tired of trying to manage it. Your hair is beautiful..Thank you ❤️
I actually went from using the ORS relaxing system to using Soft and Beautiful because of the natural oils they have in all of their products that come in the kit. I instantly saw a change in my hair. it felt more softer and stronger, with no shedding. even though I love the conditioner that comes in the kit, I substituted it with the Texture ID Deep Treatment Masque, which I sit under the dryer for 30 minutes.
@@jesusisgodislove9912 yes, try it. I use regular. I really hope you like it. i realize that different things work differently for people. but, I never would've thought soft and beautiful would work for me.
Hi Ianna. I tried the Optimum relaxer. So far I like it. It is creamy like pudding when you mix in the activator. My hair turned out nice and soft. I will be using this relaxer from now on. I bought the trial size Oribe gold lust shampoo and conditioner. They smell amazing!! I bought the Oribe Gold Lust transformative Masque also.( I bought full size, it didn’t come in trial size). All products worked well on my hair. I will use the products sparingly. I will buy the full size when I finish the trial sizes. Thanks for the recommendation. Im about 15mins from the beauty supply store you showed. I’m going to come look around soon. Thanks again
So glad you were able to try the ORIBE line. The products do smell AMAZING and better yet, they work! I dont think you will be disappointed. And I have tried a lot of relaxers.... optimum works the best to prevent Breakage, at least in my hair. Thanks so much for watching and commenting. I love hearing about your experiences💗
My hair loves shea moisture products too. Helped my hair to get to waist length. I mostly detangle with my hands, and you can make your own oil mix them up in a bottle. I dont use heat. Great video.
Thank you 😊 ❤️ and thanks so much for subscribing!! Theres such a large selection of natural hair channels here on RU-vid. I wanted to create a channel where us relaxed women can share tips and ideas!!
Your beautiful , the content is awesome. Please keep it coming. I’m natural but I get great tips about healthy hair management. I’ve been intermittent fasting for a while but it was a struggle from the jump I applied some of your tips and it’s made things a little easier. Thank you so much!
Thank you for this video! I have noticed increased shedding and breakage in the past six months or so. I've been going to my mother's friend's salon for touch ups every three months but I'm not very pleased with how my hair goes through the fire on relaxer day. Recently did research on the relaxer she uses which is slightly questionable. I'm going to be self relaxing for the first time with the Optimum relaxer you recommend. Hoping to see better results 🙏
Your video is simple and genuine. I must commend that your hair is beautiful. I started my relaxed hair journey 12months ago and I use a lot of DIY deep conditioning but I would love to try these products. Thanks for sharing ❤
I use apple cider vinegar mixed with water for build up remover and softening when taking down my braids. Can’t use allot of products due to my eczema.
Wow. I never heard of using apple cider vinegar with water! Thanks for sharing!! That’s a natural alternative for people with sensitive skin. I love that💕 I tried using coconut oil but it was still a process. Once I found that build up remover I was hooked 😆
I love your hair, it's gorgeous! I used Optimum all throughout college and my hair always looked so healthy and strong. For some unknown reason I stopped buying it for years and switched to various different brands...I recently went back to Optimum and I can't believe the difference, my hair LOVES it and I'll never use any other brand again. Great product! Have you ever tried Wild Growth Oil?
Thank you 😊 💕 and thanks for watching! I agree with you.... there’s something about the optimum perm that agrees with my hair. Hardly any breakage since making the switch. I have never tried wild growth oil. Have you had success with this oil? I’m always looking to try new products that work .... although I currently swear by a product called unlay. Works great in relaxed and natural hair.
Yesss!!! I know your going to just love your hair results!! please let me know how you are finding the product. Thank you for watching and reach out with any questions while on your hair journey. Happy to help if I can ❤️
Thank you 😊 and thanks for watching 💕 I definitely plan to do a video on my hair color and give tips for those who decide to color while relaxed. Its coming soon!
Hey Ianna!!!!😊 I love your videos and wanted to know if you could do a Relaxer Day Video? Just to see your At-Home Relaxer Routine! And thanks for letting us know about the Unlay Oil it has been a God Send!!!!
Hello. A few people have asked to see my relaxer routine so I will be filming my next relaxer. Im due to relax in about 4 weeks… so it’s coming soon ❤️
Yay!!!! 🎉 Thanks so much….oh and I literally just finished relaxing my virgin hair (Olaplex 3 is currently in my hair)! And I really just want to thank you for your videos, they were the last little inch of a push I needed!!! 😊
Just purchased the unlay oil and olaplex today because of you! I believe I have protein overload so I’m trying to stay away from products with protein in them.
I also mix my own Castor oil peppermint as hot oil. Currently stretching so I’m manipulating very little stretching my wash days and never wash without deep conditioning. Using Emergencia it’s Dominiquin.
You have beautiful hair. I have a little breakage with my hair so I’m going to try the Oribe shampoo and conditioner that you mentioned to someone in your comments. I think my hair is breaking because it’s time for a touch up. I’m going to try the Optimum relaxer. I think my hair is use to the ORS relaxer. You have a new subscriber.
Thanks so much for watching and subscribing 💕 The ORIBE gold lust line did WONDERS with repairing my hair. Honestly the only reason I stopped using it was due to the price 😬 But if price is of no concern your hair will love it and you with NOTICE the difference.
I love your videos! Thanks for sharing. I'd like to receive a suggestion from you as your hair is gorgeous and I've seen you have a lot of experience in terms of maintaining the health of the hair. I've been wearing my natural 3b/3c curls for more than 4 years now. I decided that I want to relax my hair, but I don't know which is the best product/ application method for me. My hair is thin and I would like to relax it, but at the same time maintain it thick and strong just like you. Do you have any suggestions or videos showing how you apply the relaxer and how you style your hair? I want to go to a beauty salon, but I am afraid they do it the wrong way. In my country I see that the majority of women who have relaxed hair, have a lot of hair damage ( very thin and short or medium lenght hair with a lot of breakage ). Greeting for the Dominican Republic!
Howdy! Try ORS, but regular box. Also keep your hair moisturized on a regular basis (Jamaican Black Castro Oil, Olive Oil, Alma Oil, Almond Oil, and Peppermint Oil). Take care of your ends by monthly trims or dusting. Don't relax too often, three to four months is best. Place grease around your edges, and ears before starting the relaxer. Put the relaxer on the new growth of your hair, but once applied to your entire head, dont leave on more than 10 minutes. Follow directions on box, and dont let every hair stylist put a chemical in your hair. You'll be fine, and enjoy being relaxed.😇😇😇😇😇
Hello. Thank you for watching 💕 Butleru gave EXCELLENT tips and explanations. I wouldn’t do anything different other than the relaxer. I use optimum defy breakage relaxer. I have had the least amount of hair damage with that relaxer and I have tried many lol. I also have fine hair so I use regular strength. I plan to self relax next month so that video will be coming soon 💕
Love your content 👍👍 you have encouraged me so much to take care of my hair.. since then i have seen alot of improvement ☺️☺️..when washing my hair is it good to detangle with the conditioner or after i rinse out?
Thanks so much for watching 💕 I usually DETANGLING with conditioner in. It gives the hair a little added slick to help prevent breakage. I also pre detangle prior to washing. It make the DETANGLING processing so much easier. If you haven’t seen my wash routine you may find it helpful. I detail everything in that video
Good Morning Ianna, Happy New year! Just question about the sheamoisture products? Do you alternate between sheamoisture manuka honey and the sheamoisture strengthen and restore masque? Thank you
Hello. Thanks for watching 💕 I usually touch up my Roots only every 4-5 months. The only time you perm your entire head is when it’s your very first relaxer.
That's my perm how funny!!!!! I was like my kiddos make fun of me because I will buy like six boxes at a time because they run out so fast!!!! Very hard to find BUT I saw my hair grow!! When I had to change perms man my hair starred falling out!!! So, good choice in perms 😁👍
Greeting's Ianna, This is my first time view video. Very unique, definitely the only video thus far regarding perm/process hair. I agree with you pertaining to OPTIMUM SALON HAIRCARE DEFY BREAKAGE NO-LYE RELAXER. Does great for my hair. Thanks! Sincerely, Shirley A Barner
Hello. If I’m going to a professional stylist, who is familiar with relaxer application, I would prefer to use lye relaxers. Lye relaxers are harsh on the scalp, but gentler on the hair. However, for the person who is not a professional, and unfamiliar with the relaxer application, I recommend no lye. Reduced chance of chemical burns. True, the hair may be dryer, but it’s easier to correct/ treat dryness than scalp burns and inflammation.
Do you blow dry your hair or let it air dry? I just got a relaxer today after 3 years of natural. I have been watching your videos and they made me go ahead and give relaxers another try!
Hello!! Welcome back to relaxed 😆 I let my hair air dry with I wash at home. I usually wash biweekly ( once per month at the salon and the other at home). At the salon I use indirect heat to roller set and direct heat in my new growth. So I use heat on my hair once a month. No curling irons or flat irons in between 😆
Ok I get breakage and shedding from different kinds of hair knits what is the best thing to use to stop the breakage and shedding from your hair what is the best thing to do you have any ideas to stop your from shedding and breakage.
Hello. It depends on the cause of the breakage. If it is your perm, the optimum deft breakage relaxer is amazing. Also the Shea moisture hair oil I mentioned is excellent for dryness and can also be used as a hot oil treatment. I have another video ( how I keep my hair thick and DAMAGE free) where I talk about the supplements I take for hair shedding and hair repair products. The key is pinpointing the cause and focusing on that issue 💕
Hello. Thank you and thanks for watching 💕 The website is being updated and rebranded. I believe the Unlay will be available in another two weeks when the process is complete. Once it is I will do a full product review with pictures. It’s AMAZING girl!!! And coming soon !!
Hello, can you please let me know if you’ve tired Salon shampoos/ conditioners in your relaxed hair? And if you’ve noticed a difference from drug store shampoo \ conditioner? Thank you Love from 🇨🇦
Hello!! Yes I have tried the ORIBE gold dust restorative condition after my hair was damaged after a perming experience. I found that it worked VERY well!! I did have to cut off the damaged hair but when using it I found my hair was stronger and stopped breaking. I used it for some time but once I felt my hair was in better condition I went to drug store and found good success with the Shea moisture line. The ORIBE was around $60 😬 a bottle. You definitely don’t have to pay that for healthy hair. Thanks for watching.
Hello. Thank you for watching 💕 No , I’ve only ever used no lye relaxers. I have a sensitive scalp and no lye relaxers are milder and recommended for individuals prone to burns. They do cause the hair to sometimes be a bit dry but using the proper moisturizer deals with that easily enough.
Do you recommend wild growth oil n doo grow oil xx love your vids I’m in the Uk but I’m happy I can alll these products over here I’ll looking out for that relaxer you mentioned
Thanks for watching.💕 I have used doo grow oil in the past. It didn’t make much of a difference with my hair. I prefer the Shea moisture Jamaican caster oil hair serum. Light weight and helps to strengthen damaged hair.
Thanks sis I’ll try find the Shea moisture oil we don’t have that head and shoulders spray here I saw a different one thankfully my cuz in nyc said she’ll ship me some your vids will help me on my hair journey xx
Hello. Thank you for watching 💕I have been relaxed since 17 when I went away to college. It was easier to manage and maintain on my own. I have remained relaxed for the same reason 😂 ease and convenience. Relaxed hair does need TLC In order for it to look healthy but I think the same is true for natural hair was well 💕
If you end up with chemical burn and your scalp is sensitive what other options can you do or use for scalp to make sure that you don't get chemical burns
Hello. You should apply petroleum jelly around your hairline to ensure you don’t get burn. You should also decrease the amount of time you keep the relaxer on or use a longer strength if you are getting burns with applications.
You’ve mentioned deep conditioning in previous videos. Are you saying that hair masks are in fact considered deep conditioners? If so, what’s the difference between the two? I think that would be helpful for me. I’m natural now, and moving into relaxed hair. I’m looking for a good routine! Thank you for your videos. Very helpful.
Hello! Deep conditioning is with the goal of softening the hair while hair mask strengthen. In my opinion the Shea moisture Jamaican black castor mask does both! I plan on posting my full hair routine soon. It may give you some helping tips you can implement when you relax. Thanks for watching...and look out for that video 💕
@@IannaYvonne Thank you so much! That all makes sense now. My hair appointment is this Saturday, so I’m excited to join the journey! This time, the right way! I have my bell on, can’t wait to see it in action!
I have used optimum hair kit but I have a sensitive scalp because I get chemical burn so if I get chemical burn what is the best thing to use but is motion's best to use because I get breakage from other hair knits like olive oil because that gives me hair breakage so is optimum the best one to use
Hello! I have had excellent results with optimum.... and I too have a sensitive scalp. I used to burn so easily. since using this relaxer I have NO chemical burns at all. I have a video on how I prevent burns and breakage on my channel if your interested. Thanks for watching ❤️ studio.ru-vid.comAZzXsWliRCg/edit
😆 lol I’ve heard that for box color… but relaxers are pretty much all the same. My former beautician only had box relaxers. I’ve seen large tub Lye relaxers that are premixed but that’s really a matter of preference.
I didn't catch the name of the Shea moisture cream leave in. Can you start holding the products up to the camera? And you didn't say the name of the SM liquid leave in at 6:15. You just read what it says it does.
Hello. I’m definitely going to start holding the products up and listing them in the description. I will edit this video to include the mentioned products. A few people have suggested that lol The Shea moisture leave in was the black castor oil strengthen and restore leave in conditioner. The liquid was the virgin coconut oil leave in with coconut milk and acacia Senegal. The hair oil is from the same line (Jamaican black castor oil strengthen and restore). The oil work well with processed hair but it’s a second choice for me. I use an hair oil called unlay. I’m going to do a full product review once it’s available on the website. It’s coming soon 💕
@@IannaYvonne Hello ma’am I’m wanting to know where do you get your Shea butter serum from please if you don’t mind !? I use serum but like to switch up I uses some of the same things but also like to try something different that helps even Better ...
@Ianna Yvonne I just received my rosemary oil and living proof today. . My unlay oil will be here soon. Can you please inform me of your regime on using these products? I wear updo protective styles because i have thinning at the crown. I can use a dropper to apply oil under bun(human braided hair). My wash day is Friday and I would love love love if you made a shampoo video or just a video on how to correctly use these products. I was going to put the rosemary oil in black seed oil, but I decided to wait and see if you would make a video. If not, I will bingewatch your videos and perhaps I can find the help there. I appreciate you helping us attain healthy hair. Thanks so much!
@@mika6516 hello!!! Your can mix the rosemary oil with olive oil or black seed oil. Black seed oil is AMAZING for scalp healthy. When I used it however I mixed it with Unlay. I only used the mixture on my edges so I would squirt a pump of Unlay into my palm with a drop or two of rosemary oil and use my fingertips to massage the mixture into my thinning edges. If you have thinning please do not forget to massage the oil into the area for a few minutes ( this increases blood flow and promotes regrowth). Also try to move the position of your bun from time to time. Constant pressure in that area will make thinning worse. The living proof can be applied to the hair as often as needed ( it is not a protein treatment). I use it with my moisturizer when I moisturize and seal my hair. I also use it to smooth/ slick my hair into my buns/ ponytails. I detail how I use Unlay and living proof in my “week in my hair vlog” if your interested. You may find it helpful if you haven’t seen it yet. Hope that helps. Reach out with any other questions 💕
@Ianna Yvonne Thanks for that info. I actually took my bun down. We are talking abt 17 yrs of wearing updos. When it was time for relaxer, I had it wrapped, until it began thinning in the bun area. It was very frustrating, trying to detangle prior to getting a relaxer. But that was when I was going to salon. Haven't been since 2/2020. Since I'm retired, i will ATTEMPT to wear a sidebun or ponytail to move the bun. That area has prob been screaming. Lol. I have ALL your products. I will shampoo tomorrow or Sunday...#fingerscrossed. Lol
Hello. Thank you for watching 💕 I clarify every 2-3 months. I use the living proof tripe detox shampoo. I usually wash every 2-3 weeks with Moroccanoil moisturizing shampoo.
Hello!! I wouldn’t recommend doing that. It can be VERY damaging. I have a relaxer and I do have highlights. But I moisturize and Condition my hair ALOT 😆. A relaxer is permanent once it’s applied to your hair. It cannot be reversed. I relax my “new growth” every 4-5 months. Thanks for watching💕 and reach out with any other questions you may have.
Thank you for sharing you tips. Informative and we can tell its done from a sincere perspective. Im often complimented on my well kept long relaxed hair and i was able to learn even more from this vid. Be encourage sis n God bless you
Thank you guys for letting me know I have had a relaxer in my hair a long time ago when I was around 14/15 when my hair was its natural color which is dark brown almost close to black and I really loved it my hair was so soft and shiny I miss it😩
Hello. Thanks for watching ❤️ when I notice my hair breaking I use the living proof restore and repair leave in. You’ll start to notice a decrease in breakage pretty quickly. olaplex no 3 is also good… but work slowly. you should definitely invest in it …. but for long term use to help maintain hair health. Also the black castor oil strengthening masque I mentioned in this video is a good protein treatment for weak brittle hair. Its mild so it won’t overload your hair … which could actually make the breakage worse. Also try limiting heat in your hair for a while … and consider a protective style to give your hair a rest from manipulation.
@@IannaYvonne I’m a 1-year natural since the last time I posted on your video. I let it grow out a bit before and it is dry no matter what I put on it. I’m getting older, hormones are shifting and honestly don’t have that kind of patience anymore. I’ve learned that natural hair just isn’t for me. So, based on your recommendations, I will finally be getting the Optimum Defy Breakage soon. I just ordered the Olaplex No. 3 to pair with it and will probably go back to using that same Shea Moisture mask because that did pretty good. No more repeats of the breakage from the ORS box perm! Thank you sister!🌸
@@Sister_Sarah your welcome! Please do not hesitate to reach out with any questions you may have while on you hair journey. I’m happy to help if I can💕💕
Hello. Yes … absolutely! All these products also work well on fine hair and don’t weigh down the hair. Also the protein in the hair mask is very mild and won’t overload your hair. Thank you for watching ❤️