@@andreeatimis8807 Try to tell yourself that someone who can be okay with causing you this much pain isn't someone you want around you. If they had decided to stay with you despite not having genuine feelings it would've hurt you more. You would then miss out on meeting someone who could and would genuinely love you. You're worthy of love, you're worthy of being cared for
a year ago, my ex broke up with me and i cried to july for weeks and now a year later to the day, i found this song and it feels like a chapter has closed and i’m better now. thank you for this beautiful song
"It's okay to be disappointed that someone didn't turn out to be the person that you needed, but what you must not do is grieve as though they were the one"
I’m eight months pregnant. My husband of almost five years cheated on me with another married woman and decided he would rather pursue her than myself and our unborn daughter. I listen to this at least five times a day and it has helped me so much. We will be okay. Your voice is absolutely gorgeous.
I hope you and the baby is doing fine, the baby's gonna have a beautiful and strong mother, you deserve happiness a tons of it, you'll receive them, soon, that's a strangers wishing for a stranger, you're awesome, you're awesome, I'm proud of you strong mom and strong baby
@@sagarkatnoria6565 same here. He told me he feels like something is wrong and he wasn’t sure about what he wanted from our relationship. I kept on waiting for him, for nearly a month. But. Too much energy wasted. I chose myself, not fully yet, he still has time, but I’m starting to choose myself. Stay strong!
It’s 11:57pm, 3 minutes till midnight and I’m here crying missing them. I’ve put so much effort trying to work things out, even just as friends. It still feels once sided, but I’m having such a hard time accepting they don’t want to try anymore. If they did, they would’ve put more effort and showed they care. Unfortunately they don’t, it hurts soooo bad. Thank you for this song, I feel stronger and less alone. Hopefully one day I can come back to this comment and no longer feel hurt from the heart break.
I lost my friends too. One group I pushed away and the other group kicked me out. I’ve never felt so alone in my life. Just when I stopped making new friends because I thought I’m good with them. Stay strong Fabiola.
Fast Forward and I'm in your predicament. He had two of us and apparently the other girl is the one he is settling for. Im hurt because he is doing all this whilst claiming to love me.
It really hurts when u can't stop the tears flowing down ur face while remembering that person. It hurts when u don't even know the reason they left. It hurts so much. But u gotta b strong for urself. Keep smiling:-)
Hey i'm currently having a really bad day, well, days, to be honest. Separation and goodbyes hurt the most when it comes from someone you love, they said. And yes, i just decided to part my way from someone who cannot see my worth. Its hard, its really hard, since the person is someone who has been filling the void inside me for so long and when he decided not to stay, my whole world is ripped part. Then i scrolled tiktok, and found your song. I went straight to this full version and somehow, a little shattered piece of pain inside my heart is slowly being lifted up. Hey Beth, i just wanna say thank you so much for this masterpiece. Its not a mere artwork or music, or song. Its a medicine for me and the pill i need to cure myself. Thank you.
I cried reading this. I genuinely believe that breakups are one of the worst pains because it always feels like someone’s choice and that sucks. But it hurts less in time and when you start to find who you are without them, you realise the fact there was a choice at all means it was the right one to leave (whether it was them who left or you). You’ll get through it xx
I’m sorry you are hurting but soon that void will be filled again and that person was there for either a reason or a season people come into our lives for three reasons a reason a season or a lifetime
There is light. And you will wake up one day not understanding how you ever let someone like that ever come around you. Praying for your journey. I’m so proud of you.
@dance ologi I am real sorry you have to go trough this.... I am about to end my own 2 yo long relationship because they just don't respect me. God will be the one who'll fill this void. That's what he does. He will help you heal...
Beth McCarthy- July(Noah Cyrus response lyrics)😊 You’re holding your head Just tryna make sense Of all that they said Don’t know how you got here Looking for a way to steer Them away from the end Ask yourself What is there to save? When they’re telling you they’ve made Up their mind If they wanna leave Then shake their hand And let them go Its gonna be hard to But if they loved you darling you’d know So stop begging them to stay They’re not the one and thats ok Its another goodbye That you didn’t want i Know you’re dying inside But you’ve gotta be strong You can love someone And still try to move on I know you’re not ready to give up But you gave them all you got And thats enough So If they wanna leave Then shake their hand And let them go Its gonna be hard to But if they loved you darling you’d know So stop begging them to stay They’re not the one and thats ok If they wanna leave Then you gotta believe That you’re better alone Da da da da da da da da da da da da da Da da da da da da da da da da yeah So stop begging them to stay They’re not the one and thats ok
I'm not better alone i can barely hold myself together I've spent 2 years trying to pick myself back up and i really thought this girl was the one but she left and now I'm alone again
for anyone reading this you are so so special, you are here for a reason and your probably crying or listening to relate. i can relate aswell and just know your story matters
The hardest thing I've ever said to someone "If we drift apart, please promise me you'll never forget me" It's tough, it really is. I gave them my all but it was time to let go.
This song helped me to get through the worst time in my life. Now Im in happy relationship and when I was listening to this song I would’ve never think that I’ll be this happy today. To everyone who has hard time - I PROMISE YOU everything will be okay :) Look at me!
I miss him a lot but I know he in the end didn’t give a shit about me. He gets to move in unscathed and be happy and I know I deserve that too. It’s gonna be so damn hard but I gotta get over him. Thanks Thomas for the love and the hurt but it’s time to let you go.
The worst part is knowing how much you put into the relationship to make it work just for them to leave you for someone else. Know your worth and where you stand self love is everything 💛
The comments below this song are heartbreaking… I am sorry for everyone who lost someone they loved. Reading the comments is like feeling every heartbreak someone ever had to survive. Stay strong
This song has helped me through So much and I thank you. I lost my best friend of 8 years today, and even though I acted like it didn’t hurt me it really did. All our future plans were erased and we won’t be able to do everything we wanted to do together ever again. Our friendship had already been rough for the past few months, and I was begging her to stay, and she ended up walking away anyway. I’m slowly learning that sometimes it’s okay to lose people but Im still in pain and I still miss her. I have so many other friends, but she was my person. And I don’t think anyone can replace her.
You won't need to replace her, you will find what you need without her having to stay around reluctantly. You can plan the things you want to do for yourself as well. Wish you well!
I totally understand that except my best friend of 9 years left me and I never actually said goodbye. She knew I only had her due to me moving around and people being jerks.
Idk why she did that but I hope you’re better now ❤️ You won’t replace her but you will heal and move on and hopefully find someone that appreciate you and earn your love and loyalty
@@hannahculp1158 that sucks :( You'll get through it though, you'll find a way to process that pain and say goodbye. Take your time. Care for and nurture yourself. :)
it’s been 7 months now and he’s moved on and in my brain i know i deserved better and honestly i look at him and i don’t want him anymore. and yet i still miss it and cry over what we had. i don’t miss him i miss the feeling he gave me 😭💔
Right now I miss him😞 but I know it's the feeling he gave me💔 I just got out of a 5 year relationship with a horrible person and I met him so I think I was vulnerable and new to being treated really good😞
totally forgot about this. this song got me through my breakup with my first love who never really loved me the way i did him. now it’s almost two years later, i’ve been through it even more but i’m finally with a man who loves me the way i deserve. i remember that little girl who watched this video and the way she hurt. my heart hurts for her, but i know she’d be so happy with who we are now :)
He dropped me and threw me away without a word like I was nothing. My brain is trying to make everything make sense, see what was real and what was fake, but ultimately I just want to move forward knowing that his behavior is all the closure I need. This song is very comforting for the headspace I’ve been in.
@@chrisalyngonzalez3750 i blamed myself when my ex-boyfriend told me at the end of three years that he wasn't thinking about a future with me. I thought how come he left me when I loved him so much. When I listened to this song, I realized that I had to give up. Shortly after what happened, I saw a photo of him with his ex-girlfriend. The girl had a necklace around her neck that he said he bought for me. And my ex-boyfriend was wearing the T-shirt I bought. That's why sometimes it's necessary not to force things, if they really loved us, they would have been there for us and made us feel it.
I lost my heart & best friend. He wasn't the one but I needed him to be. I wish I knew then that heartbreak gets better with time. Thank you for this reminder.
Dear K, You keep going back on what you tell me. It’s always you like me or you don’t. I can’t keep waiting for you to make your mind up. I need to respect myself because you don’t. I’ll always love you. Thank you for the memories but it’s time to let go.
I just lost my best friend of 10 years, he left me at a time I needed him, I thought he was the one, I found out from my brother that that he had been talking bad about me, Him and I had conquered the world together.. I saved his life. and now, we're not friends, nor enemies, just strangers with memories... I keep telling myself it's his loss, not mine, but I think it's just as much of my loss as it was his, him and I were inseparable
After a year and a half of getting him to love me back, and him being my first for so much...he’s gone...he’s gone and i’m alone. I’m scared...this song hit really different Beth 💕 thank you
I cried while listening to this version just like how I had cried after listening to the original one last year but for different reasons. I can't put how I'm feeling right now into words correctly. I'm in the healing phase and this made my day, week so much better! Thank you ❤️ PS: please upload it on Spotify xxx
I feel like this is gonna be the new song I’m going to listen to on repeat while crying myself to sleep and then waking up next morning wondering what happened to my AirPod finding out I’m laying on one and my phone died and that I missed 2 hours of school but it’s okay because I have been falling to sleep to the voice of and angel so thank you for releasing a full cover I’ve been listening to the tik tok you posted with a small part of it for days just on repeat remembering it thank you from the bottom of my heart
whoever is reading this just remember when someone leaves a new person will brighten your life. you only lost someone who didnt care about you because obviously the effortlessly left, so stop dwelling on them because its gone now. its over. 'dont cry because its over, smile because it happened.'
Im here listening to this song for the million time crying like if tears were infinite meanwhile my heart is shattered and my mind is running trying to find a was out of the blame because I did this to myself I foolish to believe that someone so shallow as me with nothing left could I be happy I guess that’s my role in life holding you back mean while my pain is still there and pretending that am okay to let him go I know it’s better my brain is crying to leave this pain but I can’t I really can’t let him go in my heart and I know I’m stupid but I can’t help but cut my heart until it bleeds until the pieces are no longer fixable I will still love him even though I lost me in the process I know I’m stupid for commenting my pathetic heart break life I’m sorry I just felt like if I could share my life with people then maybe someone else out there could help less alone
It's been just a little over 2 months now since post break up, I'm still learning to be okay being alone. Some day are alot harder then others, sometimes I feel absolutely fine and other days I break down and miss him more then ever but at the end of the day, the only one that's going to save me, is myself. And each day will get better, as long as I keep pouring all the love I have left into myself. I'll always love him no matter what, but he's not mine anymore. One day I'll look back at this, and I'll be healed and fully accept it for what it is and be okay with it. These words make me feel less alone which makes it that more comforting. ❤️
When my ex and I broke up, the hardest thing to accept is that he never loved me. Everything he did to me… you don’t do that to someone you love. But so many years later, I’m happily married to an amazing man who loves me and shows me all the time. ❤️❤️❤️ Sending love to anyone going through the same
It's been a year and a half now.. Thought I had completely moved on when I stembled across your song and finding myself putting it on repeat while feeling the tears falling down my cheeks. Thank you for this moment, even though I didn't know, I think I needed that
Thank you for this song. I’m still stuck in the situation because of my cowardness and being too hopeful... but this song helps me a lot everyday. I don’t mind going on youtube just to hear this repeatedly.
i’m coming back to this after more than a year of trying to get over one guy. and i can almost confidently say that after many depressive episodes, panic attacks, and missed opportunities. much cutting, crying, and lost self worth and independence i am okay that they’re graduated and moving on. they led me on, lied to me, used me, and then expected me to apologize. but the only person i owe forgiveness to is myself. i’m sorry to myself for not realizing i deserve better and now that i know i do, i can start to move forward. so here’s to me, cheers. 🥂 🤍
thank you for this beautiful song. it helped me and my brother when we were both broken and had given up on life. honest, you have no idea how much you helped us. you saved our lives
I really needed to hear this... Dont know how i got here again... its not the seperation thts hurting, its seeing the dreams breaking like a glass on floor and every piece of glass is like pinching the skin. its so hard to let go and its hurting inside Thank you Beth for re writiny songs, i heard your love story rewrite on tiktok and landed here on your channel, God bless you for healing us with your words🙏
This was posted March 5th 2021 and I’ve been listening to it since then. I left my abusive ex in the same month and this song helped me through what would be the worst time of my life. Thank you 🥰
This really helped me,I was in a toxic friendship with somebody,they’d always say „it’s your fault“ and would ignore me,etc. and I finally sent it to a end I said „it’s enough I can’t do this I don’t Wanna be your friend anymore“ we split but she ended it,it actually really hurt me but I was relieved it finally over,so thank you so much for this song
I thought he was the love of my life. I loved him with all my heart and soul, told him my deepest secrets and trusted him.. but he left without even saying why, just said he didn´t love me anymore. And now I feel empty and dead inside. We made plans, we had dreams together and now what hurts the most is knowing he´ll live all these things with another girl.
I’ve been dealing with a breakup for months and I haven’t been able to heal and move on but I’ve realized that you have to let people lose you instead of constantly begging and convincing them of your worth. It’s painful and it’s exhausting, you deserve better. Let them lose you, let them go.
I’m currently going through a tough patch of a relationship. We are okay for a day then it all comes falling down. He has been hanging that he might leave over my head for a week now, and I start begging him and he stays. This song has been the only thing that has been helping through this I don’t want it to end but I’m getting so overwhelmed. I have a lot of mental problems and he helped until this past few months it makes it so insanely hard to think straight. I have sat in front of my mirror and thought about what I should do with this song playing. Thank you so insanely much for writing this song it has been helping so much. I don’t know where it would be if I didn’t have this song to help me out. You are an amazing artist and an amazing person. I hope you have a great day.
It hits me hard, I love him so much that made me willing to do anything to make him stay. This song helps me to be strong to let him go. Thank you for come up with such powerful lyrics. ❤
Same. It's been 7 months and I still think of them. I reached out multiple times but they never do the same. We just got to keep living. It's painful but if they wanted to they would. We got to value ourselves!
I have been wondering if they still wanted to be friends with me or not. We were very close for about 2 years, well actually since I met them. I just knew he was a pure soul, later on I sadly learned that he was in a bad relationship with an horrible person, he stayed in that relationship only because he felt like that she was the only one who cared about him. Fortunately, he left that relationship, but she continued to contact him, causing him stress, so I tried to comfort him. 2 weeks ago he and another girl made 6 months together, since this girl came into his life he felt different to me, he reacted strangely, didn't message me that often and now we barely speak. He has a special place in my heart, I learned so much from him and I don't want this friendship to end, but I guess he's changed his mind...
