Excellent talk, I am a mother in that category worried for my daughters marriage. They are well educated, independent but nothing substitutes a lifelong partner and motherhood. I m a British Pakistani mum. Girls biological clock ticking but we are mindful not desperate. ❤ excellent talk, so reassuring to hear two generations talking.
اسلام وعلیکم بیٹی آ پ ما شاءاللہ بڑی سمجھدار ہیں اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو ہمیشہ خوش وخرم رکھے اللہ تعالیٰ ہمیں بھی مخلصانہ رویہ اختیار کر نے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے تاکہ ہمارے دلوں میں اور گھروں میں سکون عطا فرمائے آمین ثم آمین آپ ماں بیٹی کی مفید بات چیت سے بہت کچھ سیکھنے کا موقع ملتا ہے جزاک اللہ خیر 🎉🎉❤
Your daughter should be a therapist and she would be wonderful at her profession. In our society we all need to talk to one every once in a while. Mashallah she is a very sane voice at such a young age 😊
Ja Shaadi do person ki hoti h to usko nibhane ki Responsibility bhi dono ki hoti h. Dono ko aik dosre ki Izat krna aik dosre ki Zimadari ko imandari se pora krna hota h. Dono ko aik dosre ko bolne ka Haq dena. Sahi ko manna aur Galat se hattna. Hamare Mashre me Double Standard h. Baap khud apni Betio ko sound and stable nahi banate aur Rukhsati ke waqt kahte hain ab waha se tumhara janza hi nikle ga. Apni Behano Betio ko Ummul Momieen aur Sahabiyat ki sahi life history batain wo Haq baat krti thin apne Haq keliy awaz Utahti thin. Ghar beth kr business krti thin aur Dil khol kr Allah ki rah me sadqa krti thin apne Iman aur Izat ki khud hifazat krti thin apni Pasand se Shaadi karti thin Hay behari nahi banti thin ye h musalman Aurato ka Kirdar.
A stressful family dynamics always affects the people related to them. My parents have a very stressful relationship and since childhood I was in constant stress. For me that was the definition of a family until I met my partner's family. He is from a very relaxed family, they live a very simple nice life and that was shocking for me to be honest. Both of my parents transfer great stress to him once in a while, and now he has completely stoped visiting them since 3 years. I visit them once a year and make some excuse for him. They are my parents and I love them both, I can't ignore them. But the sad truth is their stress will always remain in my life and will also reach upto my partner and maybe my future kids. They should have been divorced but they didn't as it's not good for their social image😑
Sadly true but most of common thing which we seen or heard others experience that after wedding girl didn't have their own decisions she discuss each and every things with mother or sisters. What she did in whole day.. main topic is how to control the husband.. Inshort now adays in Pakistan mostly separations due to extra interference of girls maternal sides.
Very sensitive issue nowadays it’s just wedding glamour and next even the smallest issue becomes feud the people who were showing happinesss on your wedding start looking for the smallest fault and main issue is both party’s don’t tolerate anything after marriage whereas that’s what the commitment was all about
Nice discussion but bajia ap yahan rahi hen 30 saal..apko to pata hi nahi k hamre mulk me kiya kiya sazshen krti hen sasen bahu k atay hi.or kuch bahu bhi esi hoti hen
Pakistam me girls ko education hi is liye dete h ke girls ki educated boys se ho jay lekin darte h girls independent na ho jay bulke parh likh kr bhi susral me zulm sahti rahe
بجیا آپ کے دل میں جو درد ہے اللہ تعالیٰ ہمیں ہمت دے کہ ہم اپنے بیٹوں کے ساتھ ساتھ بیٹیوں کو اپنے قد موں پر کھڑا کرنے کی کوشش کریں تاکہ کہ وہ کسی کی محتاج نہ ہو اللہ تعالیٰ ہمیں ایک دوسرے کے ساتھ محبت کرنے اور دل سے عزت کرتے رہنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین ثم آمین
ap key aur beti key sary bateeiye bilkul teehk hain par hamary mulak may aj beh ye sub kuch hu raha hain mujhye lahgta hain kay hamary urat ka qasor hain jo apny beytu ko sirf apny aur apny beti key izat karna batatye hain jab bahu key barye atye hain to biwi key izat kea hutiy hain kuch nahey bataty sub say ziyada qasor hamarye maauo ka huta hain jo kuhd kehtye hain apny biwi ko izat na dena
