It’s amazing that her brother got her. That’s a good man for sure. The boyfriend gives r@pe vibes doing that and seeing no issue with this to casually bring it up. I’m glad that she is safe now.
This story sent chills down my spine. In my country there has been this hugs case recently where a woman realised her husband had been drugging her for THIRTY YEARS and using her body with other men while she was unconscious. She should RUN.
@@AS-us5qf yesss exactly and he would tape the rapes and would also participate in, it’s so disgusting & terrifying especially when the woman in question was living a normal life but would only have like « absences » and some of her family members said that a lot of the times she wouldn’t make a lot of sense when speaking, my god
Putting drugs or medication in someone's drink without their knowledge or consent is a CRIME. I believe it's a felony. She should've called the police to file assault charges.
Age regression is an involuntary trauma response. It’s where you mentally “flash back” to when you were a child (the age where the trauma first took place), similar to PTSD where, for example, a veteran may think they’re back in war. It’s NOT A KINK. That’s AGEPLAY where people act like children in a dom/sub relationship.
I was in an domestic abuse relationship for an year. He used to get me drunk even though I was sober for two years before him. He pour it down my throat if I said no. He liked getting me blackout drunk. Because he loved the control over me. He would do things and take photos. I still suffer from psychological issues from it. She needs to run Because trust me it gets worse.
Abusive relationships are harder to leave the longer you are in one. When you stand in the rain long enough, you stop noticing that you are soaking wet.
Many of us just thought we were in love because of the constant manipulation of it all. The fear that if we are not in love we will get killed for it makes your mind truly think you must be. Also you go through so much you just wanna make yourself believe that you gotta be or why put yourself through that? It’s just constant mind games that they put you through and that you sadly have to do to yourself just to get through it. I didn’t realize this till way after and it sadly made me feel worse but I had to admit the mind will do many things just to cope.
A friend of mine found out her husband was crushing up her heavy duty pain medicine and putting in her water for over a year. She woke up and saw him crushing it into her water on the nightstand and he didn’t know he saw her and she pretended to fall back asleep. He “woke up her to drink her water so she could hydrate”. She pretended to sip and called the police. She over being over medicated and had no clue until she realized the connection of being dizzy all day, the medication was running out early and whatnot. She called the police he was arrested and she was absolutely horrified.
The age difference isn't the problem, but it might be a contributing factor. Because of the fact that he's assumingly older( from the way he acts ), 1 the drugs, this gives off the vibes of an insane parent that wants their child to shut up. 2 the situation with the mom, the fact that he thinks he can tell her who she can and can't see is crazy. As well as using the word "act out".
So... im allergic to benadryl. If someone did this to me I would break out in hives and be rocking back and forth the whole time. It makes me feel what I imagine coming down from cocaine feels like although I've never tried cocaine. I don't really mention it, because I'm never offered benadryl and have other options, so it probably wouldn't come up since it's not deadly or anything.
I’m not allergic to Benadryl. But I have a port (device in my chest used to draw blood and give medications). If they don’t dilute it or push it too fast. It burns my throat and makes me dizzy and nauseous. So I can get where your coming from.
As a 35 year old, like a 25 year Olds are still getting themselves together. And this crazy abusive behavior has no place. Nope NOOOOPE. Girl needs to run.
This girl needs to run but I met my husband at 20 he was 34. We didn’t know each other’s age until after our friendship started. I was divorced (I got married at 18 when I got pregnant) and had a child. He was never married and didn’t have kids. We found out our ages on our first real date. He ordered me a drink when I went to the bathroom and I told him I couldn’t drink it because i was only 20. I thought he was 27ish. He thought I was 28. We met through my sister and brother in law and my sister and I look like twins so it all makes sense. 🤷🏻♀️ we are happily married with a daughter that just turned one.
Had a friend that was allergic to benadryl and had an allergic reaction to ink from a tattoo went to the hospital and they proceeded to give him benadryl because he was so out of it. He almost died! Good thing his bro got to the hospital to tell the ER staff. This guy could have ODed her.
I agree with you Sarah, so hard. The age gaps that older men who like younger women accept are weird to me too!! If the woman and man are 30 and over, great!! But when the woman is in her 20s and the guy is older, I don't want to talk about it. 🙄😩 (Older women with younger guys is strange too unless they are both over 30.) I have a cousin who is with a guy in his 50s or 60s. They met when she was 23. She's now in her 30s. 🙄🙄😩😩 Just not for me.
i meet my husband when i was 22,hes 44.we are 16years married now..for me its not strange cause im only atract to older guys,i have no father issue or whatever.its just for me i want a mature guy..and it works for us.we 3teens now
As someone who's 9 years older then my bf(34-25) there is no level of control. We just hit it off, I can see how we can be bundled up with those who do only seek control. I personally have met men my age or much older who are so immature, it's weird when people think it's only about control or that it's gross bc really its not.
I was 26 when my ex and I got together and he was 46. We lasted 2 1/2 years. Then we realized we were in different place but we were happy for most of that time. And he never did anything like that to me. Age has nothing to do with it; he is just a controlling prick. That’s all! And that kink you’re talking about is not about sex! It’s about feeling less stressed and not having to worry about adult things for a while. Yes some people like to be call mommy or daddy during sex but being in ABDL community the Little has final say on what to wear and what happens NOT the Big. Just like in any BDSM dynamic!
The thing with age regression is ok bc it’s a trauma response but many people will take advantage of others who do age regress. Which is why so many people think age regression is a kink when it’s not supposed to be and causes a lot of harm to those people and even more trauma
thanks for posting this clarification for ppl who aren't familiar with this trauma response. Its very important, especially because age regression is mostly involuntary due to extreme trauma or stress
Just want to put this out there because I know I'm not the only one. I age regress as a trauma response, and my partner "cares" for me. There is NOTHING sexual going on and if anything it is stressful for me and him. My partner is there to look after me in case I regress and end up hurting myself or affect any part of my life negatively. It is sick and saddening how people immediately jump to conclusions and call people like my partner pedophiles, when it is a two way thing, and all parties and consenting adults. Not all age regressors are into the kink, not all of them need a "daddy" or "mommy". Its hurtful for someone like me who genuinely needs a person to look after me because mentally I am not capable of looking after myself. These episodes are stressful after the fact. Not sexual. Yes I am currently going to a therapist. This is a trauma response and sometimes involuntary. Again not everyone is the same, and just because one cares for another who isnt in an "adult" state of mind, doesnt mean they want to have sex with them.
That's crazy forget the age difference. You don't drug someone and all because he didn't want me to talk anymore. You add the they were arguing because she wanted to stay at her mom's and he didn't want that, that's controlling and isolating. He crazy, she needs run and to actually do it like a thief in the night.
Bruh, I'm only at the 50 second mark in the video and I'm already screaming at her to fucking run. Holy shit he drugs her after he tells her she can't visit her mom. AND the 9 year age gap!!!! Girl is being blinded and choked with red flags! Run, Forrest, run!
Isn’t it like 9 times out of 10 a rape victim knows their rapist in a personal capacity?…..if it was just him not wanting to avoid an argument, you want to avoid an argument you leave….so ask yourself why else was completely incapacitating you his only option?
That one story about the girl and her niece…. Sickening omg. The exact same thing happened with the ken and Barbie killers and the little girl ended up dead.
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If you are talking about the littles kink, and people being "littles", that is most often not sexual. Just because it is a kink in BDSM does NOT mean it is sexual. BDSM does not automatically equal sex. Many kinks are enjoyed without sex or any sexual play. Rope play (such as shibari, or decorative rope) is an example. Or little play which can involve DDlg (Daddy Dom little girl) play as well where the Daddy Dom will be the caretake for their little girl - establishing rules, getting them stuffies, watching over them while they color, generally being a safe space for them. My local BDSM community will have "Littles parties" where a group of littles will get together to enjoy that headspace together. Coloring, painting, crafts, movies. Bringing stuffies. Being silly. Whatever fits their littles. They can all be each other's safe space. It isn't about sex at all. It is about getting to be in that headspace, enjoy the feeling of vulnerability while still being safe, and feeling taken care of.
leave now. run away. I'm one second in and I'm already done lol. this man is way too casual about actual abuse and criminal acts. this man is dangerous.
What if she would react to that medication? I am looking at this and this is wrong in all the ways... Morally...if she would take other medication that can't be mixed...it would not have a good look for him....oh And the "i wish i could drug you more"...? She needs to get out of this relationship.
I have severe food allergies and take Benadryl frequently brought that my body doesn’t react like most people do. I get wired. Excessive thirst too. Not cool.
If someone did that to me I would laugh it off as though it wasn't a big deal to their face and then take my first opportunity out from under their eyes to run to my family. Evidence, my stuff, everything else can wait until I'm safely away from that person. I wouldn't trust someone who would drug me over a disagreement to let me leave when I want to.
How scary!!! My husband and I have a age gap. I am 35 and he is 27. Before I met him I NEVER thought I would be into someone that much younger or older than me. When I met at our job for the first time it was like meeting someone I’ve known my whole life. Honestly love is wild. He’s often considered by many people as a old soul and I am more of a child at heart which I feel like evens is out age wise. After awhile the age gap is not even something you notice anymore. Like honestly I don’t remember the last time I thought about how much older I am than my husband. Neither of us would ever drug each other outside of our own consent. We have accidentally gotten each other a little too high on some edibles but that was our own fault as we both for our own reasons think the first portion of edibles that we ate isn’t working but shortly after happily eating our second portion of edibles is when we realize we fucked up. You think we would learn but since we only do it once or twice a year we struggle. One of these days we will figure out the portion.
My mom drugged me when I was 20 years old cause she didn't like that I would sleep late. It would get her so mad that I would sleep late she made me a tea and put sleep medicine in it. I knocked out on the couch and was so confused as i wasn't even sleepy. Years later she finally admitted to me what she did. She even laughed about it like it was no big deal
I think age gaps work if your in the same point in life. My husband and I are 6 years apart we started dating when I was 19 he was 25 but we where both in college at the same school. We have been together for 14 years (married 9).
Correct me if I’m wrong, but I don’t think Benadryl cannot get out like that. It to make you drowsy, but I wouldn’t doubt that he likely drugged her with something stronger than Benadryl.
That’s awful. But she did say among other things. That weren’t just staying with her mom. I wonder what else she brought up but I’m sure whatever else she said wasn’t bad enough to be drugged
I started dating my husband when I was 19 so when I was 21 he was 27. He gave me a lot of space to discover myself. When I wanted to go out with my girlfriends he would offer me money and encourage me to go out knowing that he experience that stage already. I’m now 33 and happily married to him with a 3 and 7 year old. I don’t think the age gap is too much but it depends on where you both are in life. We where is college together and he didn’t hold me back from growing or experiencing things that he already did.
It’s more weird when you are the older person. I will be 26 next month and would have NOTHING in common with a 21 yr old. That’s a child in my eyes. It’s WEIRD.
this guy feels entitled to DRUG HER because he can’t control her??? So what happens when she says no to sex? What happens when she wants to go out with friends? What happens when she wants to leave with the kids??
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 That has to be one of THE biggest breaches of someone’s trust - to drug them so you can have control of ANY given situation. I can only imagine what this behavior would grow to be later on down the road… Not to mention the complete disregard for your safety and well-being; imagine if you were allergic or taking other medications, at the very least. Press charges if you want, I would and I’d also throw in a restraining order. Regardless, fucking RUN!
So I already left another comment, but one of my exes treated me like his mom and I dumped him... but age play and age regression are different. Age regression is an unconscious trauma response that appears in people who weren't able to be children when they were kids. Like, sometimes this can present as disney adults, adults who like stuffed animals, who chase the feeling of nostalgia, or even acting like a child, but its usually unintentional unless is a therapy excersize.
Coming from someone who was in a controlling relationship as well its not always easy to notice but if u question something talk to a family member and see their take. I spoke to my dad and thankfully i was still living with my family even though we were together years i wasn't ready but id spend weeks by him. My dad straight up said u need to end that thats not healthy and i didn't turn bk even thou we do still talk every so often on a healthy level (no im not going back i have thought about it thou)
@@poipoi63 speaking to someone doesnt make them my friend. We are business partners. We have to talk. Also he was just controlling not physical abuse as ur comment came across to me.
An adult acting in a child-like manner is NOT the same as being a real child or being attracted to real children. You have to count in the development of the body and brain of the adult AND the fact that outside of the play the two consenting adults engage in, there is a regular adult relationship. You can NOT compare a kink where ADULTS act in a child-like manner to people being atracted to children. Start blurring the lines like this and real children WILL get in harms way. It is extremely important to be able to see the difference of a kink between adults and the real life child. You arent attracted to children, you are attracted to ADULTS who choose to roleplay.
When I was 11, I and many kids I knew were groomed by a group of ddlgers... They enjoyed role-playing child abuse with other adults but then that got bland and they went after real kids. This happens very often... I and many others are sadly traumatized for life. { and if you're gonna make a comment going " but-" or trying to justify it or those kinks, I don't wanna hear it.}
I totally disagree with the age gap thing . Not a lot of people that date younger people want to control them . Unfortunately the select few ruin it for everyone.
This story is just so fucked. He is literally keeping her from her family. He is controlling and abusive. Drugging someone is abuse. I don't care what anyone says, IT IS ABUSE. Get the fuck out NOW.
The guy is obvi a POS but I don’t understand why these two are so hung up on the age gap. She’s 26 and a grown woman. It’s not like she just turned 18 a month ago. Most women prefer a guy who’s their age or older anyway. He should be in jail no doubt, but the age gap is irrelevant.
