I am lucky enough to know a man who knows what a clitoris is (my phone doesn't) but I was arguing that the unpaid work is mostly done by women. Unless you volunteer as a janitor, your anecdote is not applicable. Admirable, though. Thank you.
+Debra Rymer - "unpaid work is mostly done by women." Oh God! You poor poor thing. You're so blinded by your own self-centred martyrdom, you can't see how selfish you are. Men built the world you live in. But don't let that get in the way of your kafkasque feminist narrative.
+Debra Rymer I would not brutalize anyone! I am a pacifist. I only ever once threw a punch and that was at a person who was saying, while leering and laughing, "c'mon bitch." I felt extremely ashamed for giving in to the taunt. It never happened again.
There should be no one hitting or beating on another person period, but if a woman hits a man she should pay the same price EQUALLY for domestic assualt as a man would.
See this is the shit that pisses me off about women. I am a female and my degree that I'm getting requires some human rights courses. And some of the bullshit that I hear coming from other females just astounds me. I mean, yeah, there is a problem with men abusing women in a variety of ways, sexually, physically, verbally, what have you. But then women laugh and applaud at videos where women are hitting men in situations like this saying that they are "standing up for themselves". Its total bullshit that there is this double standard that makes it okay for women to hit men. Fucking no one should be hitting anybody, but apparently that makes me an " abuser sympathiser", its just messed up
In regards to the "being violently poked" she made a racist remark to the man who was trying to hit on her, and he pointed at her (poking her in the shoulder) and called her a bitch. If you ask me, the comment was totally called for. Then she took it a step further and threw a drink in his face? If you ask me, she deserved a lot more than a leg sweep. Women should not be allowed to assault a man with impunity. I don't give a fuck about your gender. Male or female, if you hit me you better expect me to fire back.
Oh sure they feel 'afraid' and 'vulnerable', but that doesn't stop them from throwing a drink in the face of the person they 'fear' so much. .. what a bunch of bullshit.
The drinks industry must be making a fortune out of all these feminists and their drink throwing antics. How many thousands of gallons are used this way I wonder, mind you, who has to mop up after these thoughtless women? Probably some poorly paid barman...
9 лет назад
darkblood626 She's fucking lying. When do women lie? When their lips are moving.
+Red Car When does RedCar lose shame of his lack of intellect? on.... RU-vid!! Yaya RedCar, DON"T be embarrassed. Some people are complete losers and take it out on RU-vid. You're clearly among good company bwahahaha. Night night.
It's so funny how that double standard shit works. I nearly got arrested a few years back for restraining my pregnant ex-wife outside of her workplace after dropping her off because she dragged me out of my car and started attacking me. All over an argument involving her parents. Like Bill said, if you hold their wrists too hard you'll get in trouble, even if you're trying to stop them from continuing a beating on you.
I was at a bar and someone's crazy GF went off, unfortunately for her the Female Owner has a ZERO TOLERANCE policy from ANYONE, and then she accidentally elbowed one of the wait-staff in the face knocking them and their entire tray of drinks over. The owner pointed and the bouncers tried to grab her, she started fighting them, they looked to the owner and she signaled them to knock her the F! OUT. They both hit her so hard she went out like a light, cops came cuffed her and took her to the hospital. Her BF went to the hospital long enough to break up with her while they were reading her rights as she was handcuffed to the gurney. Last I heard she was banned from the Bar for Life, he and every member of his family had a restraining order on her, and she had 5 years probation which she of course violated and went to prison for two years. The moral of the Story is that there are hard working women out there who truly believe in equal rights, and those are the women you date and marry, We Men have to stop dating Cunts.
@@kentuckyfriedchildren5385 That is called assault with bodily fluids. Not drinks my dude. Basically if you pee or spit on someone, you can be arrested
BTW, The guy didn't "violently poke" her, he just flipped her off like she did to him. Them the chick got mad and threw the drink at him. She got what was coming to her in my opinion. I wouldn't hit a women but it was pretty funny.:D
even most domestic violence cases where the man is being physically assaulted by a women to the point he calls the cops, the cops end up taking the man.
Red Car There are other laws that are similar, but it is the larger person is arrested ... which is more often the man. Some places, the person that is hurt less is arrested.
I used to work @ a music venue and 90% of the people who started fights, got belligerently intoxicated, physical escalated altercations, and destroyed property were women... I dragged them out by their wrists, the collars of their shirts and the napes of their necks EVERY chance I got. Being women was the only thing that kept them from learning how I earned the nickname "Juggernaut" ;-)
Throwing a drink is assault. Women get such a double standard in their favor o. this and it's not right. That's why there is no try equality of the sexes.
If Bill has enough restraint not to hit a woman who hits him first then that's "good" for him but I'd never fault a man for hitting a woman who starts a physical confrontation unless she's a loved one (mother, sister, daughter, wife in some cases). These women who would hit a man do it with the perceived comfort of not being hit back and I would gladly destroy that perception. They'd never do it to a strong woman but would do it to a stronger man until they cross the wrong one.
NOCDIB I was at a bar and someone's crazy GF went off, unfortunately for her the Female Owner has a ZERO TOLERANCE policy from ANYONE, and then she accidentally elbowed one of the wait-staff in the face knocking them and their entire tray of drinks over. The owner pointed and the bouncers tried to grab her, she started fighting them, they looked to the owner and she signaled them to knock her the F! OUT. They both hit her so hard she went out like a light, cops came cuffed her and took her to the hospital. Her BF went to the hospital long enough to break up with her while they were reading her rights as she was handcuffed to the gurney. Last I heard she was banned from the Bar for Life, he and every member of his family had a restraining order on her, and she had 5 years probation which she of course violated and went to prison for two years. The moral of the Story is that there are hard working women out there who truly believe in equal rights.
9 лет назад
NOCDIB Why would you let a 'loved one' skate? That doesn't make any sense and you're setting yourself up for a future DV charge. A very bad idea.
Red Car It's just a personal choice on my part. I don't believe that any of my female loved ones would ever hit me but assuming they did I couldn't bring myself to strike them back. I would never look at them the same way again and it would never be the same between us but they would get away physically unscathed. That's just me. In the case of a significant other I would leave the situation and break up so there couldn't be a second time. Any woman who is not in that category would get hit back immediately.
9 лет назад
NOCDIB- OK. Be very careful which women you trust.
TheMagnificentPony As I said I really am not sure. But I do know straight men who can seem very feminine, but totally into women. I also know gay men who are intimidatingly masculine piles of muscle who are totally into men. Go figure?
Alan Fournier I used to not hit women back. But then I started hitting them back and for some reason have not been hit by any women since then. Oh and of course I live in Europe where something like this is much more possible.
A friends 16 yo girlfriend once dropped me by kicking me in the gonads. She and her friends all had a good laugh, while her boyfriend just sat there with his face in his hands. When I recovered, I looked at her and told her that if she ever did that again, I would send her to the hospital. I made it clear that if she wanted to fight like a man, she best be ready to take a beating like one. I never touched her, and she never touched me again. Her boyfriend meanwhile, said absolutely nothing!
This is living in the world. Sometimes somebody, a man or a woman, will fuck you over. If you are lucky you can get justice, mostly these things are irritating and have to be swallowed - it's the law of the human playground, there are bastards out there. The best thing is not to end up one yourself - look after yourself - practise Wing Chung or something, so that you can make the right moves. Try not to hurt people. Best of luck, hope you recovered OK.
Mike Watts Actually I did wind up taking wing chun and hung gar years later, funny that you mention that Lol! At the time she kicked me, I was getting into fights, starting fights, and generally letting that wild hair stick out of my ass. But once I started taking martial arts I calmed down, and have never been in a fight since!
Funny thing is that (in their twenties) women actually get paid more than their male counterparts. You see feminists cry about equality, but only scream about something that has been debunked since at least the seventies. They don't care about men (a lot of them seem to really hate them), they don't care about equality. They want to be treated better than men. Better is not equal.
To all the people saying that a man should never hit a woman and take it for the simple reason that a man is much stronger : I agree with you. I am an average size man. That's why I thought it was inappropriate for this female MMA fighter to hit me after I slapped her and spit in her face and began to walk away. I'm sure you agree with me here because she definitely was much stronger (and weighed 20 lbs more) and couId have just restrained me and/or walked away.
The last two minutes of this is very well articulated. I think it could be something feminist and people like me (not necessarily a feminist) can agree on, Bill needs to be the face/voice of reason in this issue
I disagree with Bill, any time you would hit a man for something you should hit a woman for the same thing. It is called equality. That doesn't mean to go around be violent of course but I feel everyone has the same right to defend themselves regardless of the gender of person committing the assault.
> "any time you would hit a man for something you should hit a woman for the same thing. It is called equality. That doesn't mean to go around be violent" WTF does treating women equally have to do with going around "being violent"?
Shlomo Shunn "That doesn't mean to go around be violent of course but I feel everyone has the same right to defend themselves regardless of the gender of person committing the assault." try actually reading the full comment before you reply troll.
I recently broke up with a girlfriend who hit me a few times. And we only went out for 6 months. The first time, we were arguing over me texting a female friend. She screamed in my face for about 10 minutes and was poking my head repeatedly. I told her to please get away from my face. She continued, so I grabbed her hand then she slapped me twice. The fire rose up, but I didn't do shit. I actually eventually let it slide. But the second time she got sensitive over a joke and punched me in the balls. I was lying in bed with her. And I forgot, one time before that, I told her I did not want to have sex that night. She got upset. When I tried to hold her when i went to bed she elbowed me in the face. I still don't even know if she did it on purpose or not. So yea, even with all that I never hit her. But I know for damn sure if I was another person, she wouldn't be so lucky.
Lol I'll much rather be alone. I enjoy it so much better. She was also one of the women that needed constant attention. I wouldn't talk for like 2 minutes and she''l be like "whats wrong, why are you not talking to me". She also told me that I made her happy because her life was shitty. And any other relationships he had were pretty shitty. But she doesn't realize its because of her attitude and approach to everything. She was also diagnosed with depression and split personality and she told me she couldn't control herself when she "acts out" sometimes. I didn't care, I'm not dealing with that.
+Blue Berry Pie not really. we let things go and are friends now. sometimes it's best not to react. especially when thoughts of violence start emerging :/
It really depends. I wouldn't want to, but now that I know how it feels to be hit by a woman..It might happen. And not even just being hit by a woman, being hit by anybody in an aggressive way brings out the inner beast lol. Its just not safe. She deserved to get hit but I didn't do it. Ill probably never hit a girl if she is close to me. But if someone who's not close to me starts swinging, you bet I'm swinging back.
I love it when he starts to describe something like the way it looked or happened and off the cuff comes up with a hilarious comparison like how nba centers throw a haymaker or how the guy in the mcdonald's beat down was like bugs bunny pulling a big weapon out of nowhere. fucking riot
I dunno, I believe in true equality. Law of fucking nature. *If you're strong enough to hit someone, you're strong enough to take a hit.* Man, woman... doesn't matter. If you're throwing the first punch and you're provoking, expect the receipt and take it. Don't be a coward and hit someone just because you think you can with impunity. Don't think you're a man throwing your punch and suddenly turn back into a girl after the punch is finished. That's why your parents are supposed to teach you "eye for an eye".
has any1 ever met a woman that has taken full responsibility of her actions?
9 лет назад
General420smoke There aren't any of those on this planet. I actually know one woman who eventually apologized for saying something ugly to me. It took her a few years to acknowledge her actions, but it did happen once in my 67 years.
General420smoke "I had no choice" was the Ex wifes line no matter what the circumstance. Even explaining that you always have a choice even if someone has a gun to your head. The choices may be hard but you still get to choose how you act.
+General420smoke "I was having a bad" is an evergreen classic. I've heard my mom say it, I've heard my cousins say and I've heard the girls I've dated say it. It's a technique that has been passed on for generations lol.
People should not hit people regardless of sex, but if anyone hits me they will get one back, again regardless of sex. all this talk of not hitting women is just reinforcing BS about its ok to him men and not ok to hit women!!!!
Jizz Fudgsickle Yes, Which is pretty apt illustration of the low level of understanding, lack of intelligence, self-hatred and demented (probably family-borne) ideals that go/goes into such a ridiculous and unsupportable viewpoint. Thanks :)
Amadeus Diamond More than that. Their lines about the patriarchy... about "white men" controlling the world. Pulling the strings... running the banks. It's analogous to the Nazi Party line if you replace patriarchy and misogyny with "Jew" or "Jewish"...
Jizz Fudgsickle Except one is true, and one isn't. One lead to genocide, and one has absolutely no intention whatsoever of going that route. Increeeeedibly bad analogy. Are you high? Also, in case you didn't notice... The Nazi's were a group of..wait for it... white men.
I used to be a bouncer and trust me, I've had to physically throw more WOMEN out of the club I worked at then men. Especially if the woman was GOOD LOOKING!!!
My mother is a true feminist. She believes in equality of the sexes. She taught me that it is perfectly acceptable to treat women equally. She says: "If she is willing to step up like a man, put her ass down like a man."
My mum tried to raise a gentleman and taught me to never hit a lady. But lady's don't step to men. I'll knock your ass down if you attack me. Man or woman. Stay outta my bubble!
Ive been abused a lot by women. Ive been beaten severely and almost killed several times and nothing has been done by law enforcement. I just leave the relationship now. Anytime a woman touches me I leave. In all actuality Im not even going to be in a relationship for a while. its just not worth it.
I once gave a girl the finger and she sent her friend over to threaten me and the thing to note is this guy was so much bigger than me him beating me up would not have been a challenge AT ALL.
I had an ex once that chucked a three pound ashtray at me as Iwalked in the door as I got off work because she was drunk and couldn't handle alcohol. The ashtray busted causing glass shards in the floor. She walks across the floor in her drunken stupor and cut her feet while at the same time trying to stab me. I ran down the hall and out the back door trying to avoid her. She goes and cries on the front porch and the neighbor sees her and calls the police. Can you guess who went to jail that night?
How does one see defending yourself against female violence as being appropriate yet still dehumanize a man for doing what you just applauded? Women don't want to get put on your ass then don't hit a man. Pretty damn simple.
got into verbal fight with a chick i had flirting with once and she started to punch me in the face,i put my hands up and defended but she punched and slapped me numerous times,the police was watching the whole thing and after her boyfriend dragged her crazy ass away police wanted my name and an explanation? how bout throwing her i drunken arrest? her punches was like a little kitten and she said later she broke her hand ( karma xD ) anyhow, laws are laws and she was assaulting me and should got a night in jail like I would if I hit a man or a woman....
9 лет назад
enednas801 "how bout throwing her i drunken arrest?" say what?
I had a similar thing happen to me in middle school when I called a girl ugly privately when hanging out with a group of friends, then one of the friends who was her friend was there and ratted me out because he was a little bitch and I had to go to a different high school because her friends kept bullying me everyday for the rest of that year
+H1GHD3FF Top. Never thought of that. Throw someone else's beer rather than yours. You are a messiah. Nothing better than watching some bint covered in your mates beer while you casually sip your Jack Daniels over ice.
I guess I'm confused about what some people thought they saw in that video. I hadn't heard of it so I went and looked it up. What I see is a mouthy woman walking away from two men who then decides to turn around and flip them off stating "do you understand this in English" who then gets called a bitch and flipped off in turn, at which point she slaps his arm. I'm not sure where poking came in exactly. At which point she backs away then comes straight at him and throws her drink in his face at which point he begins walking towards her and she backs up into (presumably) her friends before he sweeps her leg out from under her. Based SOLELY on what I see in this video she deserved everything that happened. Incidentally a consequence of attacking someone is that you might get attacked in turn, I'm sure he knew that doing what he did...the important part is (hopefully) now she knows that too.
If I saw a guy walk up to another guy and start poking him in the chest and giving him sh*t I would be thinking "that guy's going to get hit". What guy is going to let someone put their hands on him like that? Why should a woman put up with it? I know exactly what she meant when she said that women can't fight a guy like that. So he got a drink in his face. Would he rather have had a punch thrown at him? Something tells me this guy wouldn't do that to a man. He put his hands on her first. Just the fact that being turned down in a bar makes that guy react that way shows who he is.
as a teenager in highschool once kneed me in the balls, i pushed her away and she fell, everyone was outraged and i got yelled at, if i wasn't well built i might have been jumped *to her credit at least she apologized when she found out about the misunderstanding, although either way she wasn't justified and obviously gained courage from being a woman
Most of the time women back down. And men tend to know that so they feel empowered to insult or dismiss women. A poke from a man to a woman is threatening because a woman doesn’t really know what might come next. Having said that and seen the video, I think both people were wrong in what they did.
I promise you he didn't treat her the same as he would a man. I don't condone men hitting women, and I also don't condone women doing the same. I would have let the drink go, but there is a definite double standard when it comes to domestic violence. I've seen too many women abuse their man to say any different.
im 50/50 on this. it wasnt exactly the right move to sweep her leg but you cant just do shit to men and expect nothing to happen to you. thats unbelievable amounts of bullshit. it wasnt the right move to make but she got exactly what she deserved
