Catching your wife cheating is more straight to the point. I would get a divorce and then just go through the motions of how Sad and angry I am at this person then at some point I’ll just learn to move on and maybe find someone else. As for getting caught cheating it’s way more complicated as you will get intense guilt as well as having difficulty getting forgiveness from your wife and even yourself. So yea I would rather catch my wife cheating but I hope I never have to be in a situation where I do catch my wife cheating or just cheating in general.
If she cheats on you you feel like a schmuck and kick her to the curb. If you're caught cheating it means that you are a peice of shit. Could you look at yourself in the mirror and see yourself as a worthwhile person
Look at it this way, there’s 50 states. Thousands of different cities. Thousands of new chances with people that don’t know how shitty of a person you are. You forgive yourself for what you did and start anew 🤷♂️
Bill would join that huge prison gang we all know about - The White, Irish gingers with black wives... I'll bet he'd actually make it because they'd all know him for his comedy.
I'm with the men. I will never get over it and I won't ever forgive. You should absolutely worry if I decide to "forgive" you. There will be "slow singing and flower bringing". Believe it.
First question is a slam dunk. OF COURSE you'd rather catch the other person, because now you've got all the power. If she catches you, she'd have all the power. Isn't that obvious?
If you caught them, they might have contracted stds, they could be pregnant or in love with their affair partner and leave you. Then sue you for all kinds of monetary support and take half your wealth. What kind of "power" would you have? 🤔
If you get caught cheating, your partner may forgive you but then they'll probably cheat themselves 🤷. It's better to be caught cheating imo Either way not a good situation.
oh easy, i would rather catch you can at least be dismissive and condescending towards her while taking the high road and i would rather not get caught cause then crazy lady who happened to have a pistol i didnt know about shoots my legs then cuts my ...... well i dont have to get graphic but you get the idea
Rather be caught cheating. I've already been through that many times, so now it'd be a cakewalk. I just say, "Be done in ten, get out!" or, "Who said you could come in?" Being cheated on would bruise the ego. Thank God no babe ever put me through that
