I got queer vibes from her, but she's been dating men in public, so I didn't want to assume anything - even if as a bi person myself, I knew dating one gender doesn't mean you can't be attracted to other genders, too. It's good to know my gaydar isn't always wrong.
“wasn’t it obvious?” as a very new fan (barely a month) who just knew of her and would see her around social media and events and stuff, yes billie, it was obvious lol dw
Not only for the girls. She said on her Instagram that she likes boys and girls both. I'm surprised you didn't even know that at this point. I'm sorry to say but you are literally very very slow😂
Because humans do not possess the ability to transition genders.... so you can be a bisexual woman, but you are not a bisexual man (assuming by trans man you mean born female)
I had a feeling she might be bisexual or lesbian;but I didn't want to assume what her sexual orientation is and sometimes I don't trust my gaydar. I mean because Billie dresses like a tomboy sometimes ,but that doesn't mean you can just assume what her sexual orientation is based on that. I mean I'm a somewhat macho guy who plays call of duty, halo, & battlefield and I love racing games and movies like fast and the furious, yet my bisexual ass still gets turned on regardless whether I'm seeing Henry cavil shirtless (damn he's gorgeous omg😍) and muscular in a movie or Whether I see Kat dennings cleavage in a skimpy outfit in a movie (that woman has an amazing figure and her bust is distracting to say the least she's to beautiful for words) People wouldn't know I'm bisexual unless they asked me, honestly Id come right out and admit to being bisexual, unless I felt unsafe and like I was surrounded by homophobic people or in an environment wher I can tell who's an LGBTQ ally/ fellow member of the LGBTQ + community and who isn't. which in that case I'd refuse to talk about it, because I don't want to lie, but I'm not putting myself in the cross hairs of gay bashers,because I don't want to have to worry about being the victim of a hate crime. Knowing my own experience as a bisexual man has made me aware that I shouldn't judge a book by its cover.
Ok so I learned a valuable lesson from heartstopper! There’s this weird thing society has normalized so if you’re not straight, you need to tell your friends and family, like you owe them it, but you don’t. You can just be who you are, if someone asks, tell them.
As a straight person: coming out is such a weird concept when you think about it. I've never had to declare that I like men. I don't have to shuffle awkwardly towards my parents and say "mom, dad... I think I like guys with humor and intelligence..." It's kinda weird that you are expected to announce your type like that, if that type happens to be the same gender as you xD
@@LittlexEarthling Oh I know that. I've only had to 'come out' as straight once, because I was in a very queer space and people just assumed I was gay or bi. I don't mean that I don't understand why coming out is a thing for LGBTQ+ people. I'm just saying that it shouldn't be needed, in an ideal world.
@@Roozyj exactly what I think but it's so engraved in society that everyone is straight unless they say they're not that if you don't come out it looks like you're trying to hide who you are like wtf no I'm completely open about it but just if you ask me. I'm not going out of my way just to tell you that I'm not straight.
She was giving me lesbian vibes, but was always only dating men in public, so I was blaming it on my gaydar malfunctioning and didn't want to assume any further. Glad to know I can still recognize one of us
Kind of sad that people still have to "come out". For all that it affects anyone else, who you prefer sexually should be about as relevant to society as what flavor ice cream you like.
@@Asami_Real I'd go along with that except that there are so many people who are sh*tty about it for no tangible reason that while it's sad, it's still something that is needed.
@@bryanalexander7571 yea, there are quite a few assholes in the community and honestly i find myself getting much more upset at them becuase they just give the transphobes and homophobes ammunition, like reality is, people should be able to be gay and thats it but its a big deal becuase of the homophobes and the lack of gay or trans representation, like every single romantic relationship is either straight or over the fucking top gay, its almost never subtle, so i agree, it shouldnt matter but people be ignorant
Being gay is not something to hate. It"s just how you"re made. Men loves woman because they"re programed that way. If a man loves a man it"s just how they"re programed. They can"t help loving the same gender. But having literally infinite genders is just stupid it doesn"t matter how you feel you can"t be a they/them or ze/zer it doesn"t make sense. And also some gay people act like a self absorbed girlish idiot to act like a girl. Males and females don"t act differently they just grew up to act like how society expects them to act. Just be your self
Well she is only doing it for her album release and since it's the big social thing going on rn. She dated xxxtentacion, and her families personal groomer. But has always been for the girls, okay lmao. Just another JoJo siwas and Taylor swift
I once had a teacher that told us that no one should have to come out, we should be loved and accepted no matter what. That no one should ever assume who we do or do not love and that we should never be made to feel hurt or endangered because of it. She also chased off groups of racists and antisemetics that were protesting and causing a ruckus when we had speakers talking about the holocaust at our school. She was so chill, she made sure we all knew that if there was anything at all that we needed help with then she would always be there for us. Be it dealing with bullying or harassment to needing certain contraceptives or advice. I loved that teacher, I’ll never forget you Ms Falk!
Sounds like a awesome teacher dude.. atleast not like mine who says gays r pervert... actually i don't even think she knows what it means..i really don't like her that much and i had to have that teacher as a class teacher for 2 years dude believe me it was pure torture
As a bisexual man myself, I relate to this sentiment why can't LGBTQ+ people like myself and the rest of the LGBTQ community exist without experiencing homophobia & biphobia . We're just ordinary people trying to exist without being bombarded with hatred and Bigotry. We're not hurting anybody by simply dating and sleeping with the consenting adult partners we love that love us back regardless of their gender identity without being hated and persecuted for it. This video warmed my heart, And I related to the anxiety she had about coming out I was only 16 when I came out to both myself and my family and that was the most stressful but liberating experience of my life, but like Billie eilish I'm glad I did. 😊
yet people think that is someone that “turn” us bi. I have a gay boyfriend, and people thought that he force me to be gay, because I only had relationship with women before (and not much of them since I’m only 16) when in reality I’ve always been attracted to dudes too, I even had a crush on a boy in my classroom when I was 8. So what the fuck do they mean? People that I don’t even know that well told me that, but yet they pretend to know literally anything about me.
To me, all the tough experiences that so many LGBTQ+ people have been through due to their gender and/or sexual/romantic orientation, is the main reason I don't see myself as part of the community, despite being bi, lol. Not that I DEFINE the "right" to be in the community by having been in some way oppressed, and I definitely do not impose thst on anybody else. It's just a me thing because in order for me to feel like a part of a group, I need a shared experience, not a characteristics. So for example, I don't really feel attached to fellow Poles by the virtue of us having been born/grown up in the same country. But I do relate to the culture by knowing the language, having attended to schools, reading books, watching movies, learning about history etc. Admittedly, I've never dated anyone, and I've never came out irl, but not because I'm scared to do so, I just don't think it matters that much. Unless it's a subject of a conversation or something, but I mostly talk about this stuff with people online anyway. So yeah I definitely relate to "just let people exist" kinda thing. I guess if I ever get into a relationship (and I'm not sure I will anytime soon, got some personal issues to figure out first) with a woman, that's when I'll get to identify as part of the community, because there's definitely gonna be a situation or two where we'll get in trouble with some fine folks in public, making a scene about two girls holding hands, idk. For now, I see myself more as an ally.
@@Kasiarzynka i mean i get that but at the same time, lgbtq experiences differ alot, like my trans lesbian experience is definitely going to be drastically different from other trans lesbian experience, and i mean as long as you know your one of labels under the lgbtq community you have some kind of experience even if it isnt alot, and talking about it online is technically also an experience, and even if your an ally your still part of the community, the only people who arent part of the community are homophobes and transphobes, i get what your saying but you dont have to be in a relationship to be part of the community altho i will say i understand alot becuase it wasnt until i started dating my last partner who was nonbinary, that i actually felt like i was part of the community, for alot of people its a big thing purely becuase its new to them and they are simply just figuring it out, but i mean reality is, it isnt a big deal at all, but becuase the world is so well heteronormative, it makes it seem like it is
@@orlastarburstIt is not logical and it angers God . Problems may occur due to these bad things .Even animals think better than gays . Whoever does these things destroys his life and his nature.
What two or more consenting adults do in private is none of my damn business, but I'm glad this person is comfortable enough with themself to just get on with living. ❤ To explain the gender-neutral wording: I'm ~middle-aged, and the expert (my kid) suggested I stick with gender-neutral terminology if I'm unsure. Nothing against Billie Eilish, I'm just horribly unobservant lol.
I haven't heard anything about Billie eilish in so long and now I'm in even bigger fan of her music from Rh monster 💀💀💀💀💀🤡🏳️🌈 wow wasn't expecting this
I've been a Billie stan since 2018 and back then people were sooo focused on labeling the poor girl even tho she stated so many times that she was straight. Im happy that shes comftable with her sexuality now🎉🎉❤❤
"Wasn't it kinda obvious" Wasn't she the one upset for people thinking she wasn't straight but then continued to say she was straight then after a while said something like "it doesn't matter"
That part kinda made me 🤨 too Like it’s fine, just say you figured it out recently or that you weren’t ready to talk about it before but don’t act like people weren’t supposed to respect your own statements on this over some stereotypes of how gay people dress and talk
I think that more than anything she didn't want to be the type of "gay or lesbian" stereotype but I still feel that she wasn't ready to go out back then and now that she's older and more experienced she can know what she is or what she wants more clearly
I got queer vibes from her since ever, so I'm not impressed haha. Happy for her, be free to go out with your lover without minding "omg, I can't, the paparazzi and people are here". In this case for the celebs is always hard, all eyes on them you know, so even if you're like "I don't need to come out" there will always be people asking forever ('cause they have no life). But hey, be free and YES LET'S GO GIRL!
I don't know if that's meant to be an insult to them anyway that's exactly what they were saying "We need to come to a point when we don't even need to come out" " I don't really believe in it" "I'm like, why can't we just exist?" So if you were actually making an observation of how people care too much about other people's sexuality then I agree, if that was meant to be an insult because you're bored and jealous that someone is getting attention cause you don't get any, kindly, stfu
I was gonna write about the fact that it's good that you don't care about people's sexuality because most don't understand that other people's sexuality is as relevant to society as their favorite ice cream flavour, but then I noticed your majestic pfp, from a fellow kpop stan, you got a new sub
I mean ever since the "qUeEr BaiTiNg" drama I've kinda always knew. Now with this new info, people blew that whole thing out of proportion and unknowingly attacked a queer person 😭
@@ordinary_outsider oh no this was just a reminder to everyone that they are beautiful bc i’ve been having trouble with body image and other things lol. i’m sorry if it felt that way
@@GodLovesyou11843 oh ok! i wasn’t trying to come off as accusing or anything lol sorry if i came off that way i really wasn’t trying to but thank you for the message it’s rly kind! :)
@@ordinary_outsider yw!! it’s all good i’m sorry if my message came out wrong in anyway! 🙂 for anyone who’s wondering the point of it was to tell you that ur loved and beautiful because ik how hard it is to feel unloved or not beautiful
Unpopular opinion, but just a guess. I feel like she looks so sad or out of place somehow, as she discusses these things- I can't help but wonder if this is part of her contract and this is a marketing thing. Especially after her queer baiting scandal.
That song was about a guy Billie had a crush on but he rejected her so she wished he was gay so it [the rejection] wouldn’t hurt as bad It turned out he came out like a month later!! (I can’t remember exactly when since I’ve only been a fan of her since 2021)
I guess you didn't did no research😂. She is not lesbian, she said on her Instagram that she likes boys and girls both. Why you can't keep up with the truth.
Nah, we can’t have it both ways. “Don’t question someone’s sexuality” And “I thought it was _so obvious_ that I didn’t talk about it” Huh? Girl, no. No no no
Why not? I mean, it's quite obvious that I'm behind my laptop right now. Nobody questions that and nobody talks about it (except for me since I use it as an example). Something being obvious doesn't mean we have to question it.
I like that. “Why can’t we just exist?” That’s how I’d like to see it. Love who we love, feel what we feel, love how we live. Why do we have to conform to some specification?
Because it helps. It helps put into words what kind of attraction you have towards ppl. Like narrowing your type of person. "Coming out" is stupid imo but labels are not. I like labels. I'm pan but that isn't who I am, but a part of who I am. Just something that describes part of me. I like what I like and that helps specify it not only to me but to other ppl. They aren't permanent and shouldn't be boxes. But yeah, feeling the need to announce,post, or sit your folks down to have this in depth conversation about the ppl you like is weird. If it comes up in regular conversation, like talking about types, exes, sexual interests, etc... I understand it being mentioned.
