My neighbor’s son lost a match to a girl his age last year. Then they met again for a rematch two months later. The girl exclaimed “I’m back to haunt you”. Sort of chilling language for an 11 year old girl. Anyway, She was right, she beat him again.
I taught that he would win the second time cause you sounded like you are going to write the biggest plot twist of the youtube comment section xD. Why did you writed this then :D.
These girls today have the mental game as well as the physical. They also have the confidence to say that to boys. BTW, were these wrestling or BJJ matches?
@@kcr3862 Listen to me im gonna say this only once, martial arts have absolutly nothing to do with principles, courtesy or whatever you think it is, Hollywood taught you that,it was made to legimetly hurt other people until they dont move, its about dominance, you come with intent to kill, and if u dont you will never sucedd at this sport, kill or get killed, thats how the history of martial arts begined, gladiators time, and thats why i love doing it and i dont give a fk if you boo me when i try to end someones carrier everytime i fight
@@franciscopereira5760 You are what we call a poser in the arts, you are not and never will be a martial artist, you may train and fight ( doubtful ) but not in the arts. Discipline and respect are the core of all the martial arts. That boy is an example of what the martial arts are all about and you are trying to make it about you, thus the term "Poser" ( fake ). I am a life long martial artist and fighting is the least of it, sadly you will never understand that because your a "poser" with no real discipline or self respect. I have yet to meet a self proclaimed badass ( you ) who could actually keep up in a sparring session much less an actual fight, grow up.
You don't see the ethical problem with combat sports? You literally attack your opponent. It doesn't even matter that he or she agrees with you attacking him or her, or even that he or she loves it as much as you do: the fact of the matter is this: you can only win by applying moves and holds that are designed and meant to harm or take out your opponent. And during the fight (notice it's not called a match or a game, but a FIGHT) you MUST suspend all love or friendship or empathy and go for it. If you don't do that, you'll be the victim instead of your opponent. Again, the two opponents loving this activity doesn't take anything away from these facts. Oh yes, you can say there are rules and a referee. And if you are in real trouble, you should tapout. Ask yourself why these features are (and must be) there in combat sports. It's very simple: they actually prove and confirm my point: without them things might go too far and injuries or worse would be the result. They are absolutely necessary for safety. This is very clear in MMA, but basically, it applies to all combat sports. Even if they totally don't look as brutal as MMA, like bjj... So, yes, I'd call ANY attacking move or hold "hateful". This being said, I do suspect the word hateful has been chosen to advance some kind of feminist agenda here. That and serving as clickbait...
@@jessiecherall5041 it's called a match, not a fight. fight is the incorrect term. my goodness..... are you really that much of a coward? geez man.. just tie some pillows all over your body and be really really careful when you have to wander outside.
@@jessiecherall5041 Would you prefer people just grab a sword and a trident and fight to the death? A contest with a referee and medical personnel is the safest way to test fighting skills. Our species is hardwired to test our strength and agility against other humans. This is the best you are going to get. And like I said, it’s safer than options in times past.
What are you talking about?! 😁🤘He gets to tell his friends he got between a girl's legs, felt her boobs and everything! Hell once they stop teasing him for a girl whooping his ass they all gonna line up to sign for the girl-wrestling-class!🤔
@@kuya5000 lemme guess - you all got triggered and appaled by the very notion of a teenage boy getting sexualy arroused while wrestling a teenage girl roughly his age? Do you people actualy reproduce or do you simply spawn from Joe Biden's colostomy bag?
@@frank7704 this guy here on school gets bullied for losing to girls instead of fighting boys, because he is soo trash, he never got a girlfriend cus of it poor loser
Experienced fighters know the voices they should listen to. Sometimes advice helps, other times you look up and shake your head because you can feel it won't work. But a coach outside the match can sometimes see what you don't know. It doesn't matter to the experienced fighter either way, because one only hears what one hears!
This sum small brain shit that women is their coach she's supposed to instruct their student I do jui jitsu and am going to Vegas for a fight and the coach is doing a great job just gotta practice and get good at listening whole fighting
Huh? I used to think that too, but it actually helps a lot during a fight. Sometimes things are happening so fast, and you obviously can't see yourself. I've heard coaches tell me to make certain adjustments, and it lead to escapes/victories.
@ferret its pretty normal to have your corner attempt to guide you through positions in grappling. Its not like random people screaming "Punch him in the dick!"
This reminds me perfectly of a time when I fought in a match just like like this. Except I wasn't competing with a girl, and I'm not fit enough to do BJJ. In fact I wasn't fighting at all. Come to think of it, I actually did nothing
@@RobKinneySouthpaw he didn’t attempt to break her guard even once which is kind of sad. I thought it was an interesting example of how guard can be pretty dangerous if your opponent doesn’t know what to do though, props to her for beating a bigger stronger opponent
@@SandaBoxing I can assure you that boys that age want to get their hands on girls. Boys may not know exactly what to do, although with the internet these days they probably do. By the look on his face and the way he was so gracious in defeat, I bet the boy has a crush on the girl. He was not disappointed in the least that he had lost, in fact it seemed like he was just fine with it. Have a nice day.
I loved how she used her leg to trap under His leg during the triangle. Not only did it take away his mobility but it also allowed her to use his leg as a lever to deliver more power to the choke. The comments about the boy being weak is B.S. Strength will not beat a opponent with better technique who is conserving while you are burning. Great job young lady
kurtis vollert Me too. Helio Gracie said to watch a child to see the most efficient way to move something. A child will use the best form by using as much of they’re bodies out of necessity. I just learned something from this young girl. I’m going to use it too if an opponent posts they’re leg out. 😀
I thought "hateful" was the actual name of the move. What's especially hateful about it? I can't tell because I know nothing about this discipline. Looks like she beat her opponent fair and square, thanks to her hard work and determination.
Props to the boy was competing and being a sport. Unfortunately, he didn't know what he was doing. Tried to outmuscle her and everything he did was just wrong. He'll learn though. Just takes time. (Speaking of, this vid is 3 years old. Both are probably good by now.)
@@scottyboy6269 So was she. The green and yellow belt is for points in competition. The ref has an armband with the same colors, and signals points and advantages to the scoreboard with his hands. The hand without the green-and-yellow armband signals the points and advantages for the competitor with an ordinary belt, and vice versa. I practised BJJ many years ago, can't anymore due to an accident, though.
@Heino Heme oh so why does the girl in the back have her yellow belt on still and what do they do when kids are yellow belt? Because normally they just go by who is who and then no gi what do they do? She was clearly ahead skill wise so I think you're wrong here
I don’t know anything about wrestling, so I’m not even sure why it’s called a triangle, let alone hateful 🤣🤣 … I also didn’t know the girl had won, but in any case well done to her! Shame there wasn’t a bit more even handed cheering on too.
@@stuartr2764 its not wrestling its jujitsu lol, its called a triangle choke because the legs and shoulder block the neck arterys in a triangle shape, choking them out
Note we are not seeing any recent fight videos of this girl, did male puberty finally catch up and so she stopped posting? Honest question as she shows some talent but cant find anything recent on her.
I love watching youth competition highlights because usually at the end you get to hear the parents, who are filming, celebrate for their kids, and it's so wholesome.
Oh hell no it is not. At least until the parents start dunking on the other kids in all the worst ways possible and make it ugly. Hypocrisy thy name is Phillipsburg NJ. And Delaware Valley can take the oney thy bribe their refs with and move to Green Bay, they'd get along great.
@@katethegreat4918 Kate you seem like the perverted one here. When he said it's a win win, he meant the fighter took the loss and moved on without being pissy. Stop being an idiot!!
I think that age (12-13 maybe 14) is the last time when you can let boys play girls and still have some kind of an interesting match-up. As soon as boys hit proper adolescence they get a 99% win rate in most sports simply on muscle structure and strength alone.
Just showed my daughter this video, and she cheered at the end!😂 She just turned 7, and is closing in on finishing her first year in BJJ. It has been so freaking cool to watch how much she (and her skillset) has grown since Day 1.
That poor kid is tough. Someone should tell him that. And. He wasn't overly aggressive, which would have led to a much more embarrassing outcome. THIS is reality. A more confident girl, same size, same age, SHOULD beat a young guy who is sort of feeling his way into being a dude. THIS kid has potential if he loses like that, because in a competitive 'sparring' competition, he didn't act like a guy. He acted like a normal 13 year old boy. As for this young lady, she's really good. And she's really intelligent in a fight at a young age. This world is changing for the better through BJJ.
Can almost guarantee you this kid was bullied something fierce after this. I know I've seen it happen before. Hell, even seen newspapers try that shit with highschool wrestling funny enough.
Excellent match! She has a viscous triangle and the young man did everything right to try to get an attack going but she was the better player on this day. Everyone gets caught unless you are Gary Tonon until he ends up in the ultimate with Gordon Ryan. Be patient. Gordon Ryan's equal just learned how to tie his belt today and struggled with shrimping. New level every generation. Take risks. Fail forward and fail often. Go hard and finish strong!
>and the young man did everything right to try to get an attack It seems to me that BJJ doesn't teach enough attacks from inside closed guard. It's just generally accepted that it's a "dominant" position, although you're literally on the floor with someone on top of you.
@@franciscopereira5760 He’s learning. Everyone loses when they’re new. Goodness gracious! Do you expect to be immediately amazing at everything you try?
Great job Aeri! Just curious; are you fighting at 135 pounds now at age 11? How tall are you as I'm having a hard time understanding the weight groups. Thank you and keep up the good work!
My uncle's wife competed with her husband and defeated him and almost broke his neck between her thighs. She said that before the competition, she had completely emptied her husband's back several times to reduce his strength.💘
Could be that he is just clumsy and not too good at bjj. At that age it still matters, but once they hit proper puberty even a clumsy male can simply body slam the female (even when she is clearly a better fighter) and win on sheer brute strength.
@@abdullahahmed3843 yeah to an extent, for example a trained fighter would ofc do much much better than an untrained one. Still there is a reason we have weight categories even in MMA even when we talk male fighters. The bigger the weight difference the less your training and skill matters.
@@abdullahahmed3843 I see what you mean, but I respectfully disagree at several points. Bjj is not a lethal weapon it is a sport (all be it a fighting one). If we want to imagine it as a killing weapon, brute strength again kills way more people simply because bjj is practiced by very few whereas strength to kill comes natural (to killers) minimal or no training needed. To state it simply, even if Khabib Nurmagomedov was a mediocre wrestler from Dagestan, and I a world champion at bjj, he could still kick my ass because his dad made him wrestle bears since he was a kid. 😁😅
I've noticed people talking shit about how they could have easily beaten her and how they could destroy people. Experience has told me these people rarely can back themselves up.
i still dont get why every youtube video shows a girl beating a boy where they arn't adults , so no muscle mass benefit to boys and the girls are way over powered (which btw is obvious from the video).i will genuinly be surprised if a girl within the same weight category would beat a guy "in the same leage",not a black belt 3 dan fighting a noob.
i once fought a girl and lost miserable (i was 11 then).i then hurt my ego and started to practice on my own after a month i went back to the teacher to set a re-match (in school i never practiced judo, i was just used as a dummy ).in the rematch i submitted her easy.looking back now both our techniques were weak and gull of broken guards. now im 16 and doubt any girl in my weight catagory could beat me .also im self taught and am a mix of tkd ,judo ,muay thai.in a streat fight i use knee strikes with grapling which is deadly.
These girls shows their own matches. Often their best matches. Of course others are allowed to show Their matches... Or some beneficial organisation show all matches. But this isnt these here girls problem.
@yxcvtfgjh lkjasdh Yeah, but BJJ is highly effective in combat. Don’t believe me? I’m sure you’re local blackbelt wouldn’t mind showing you. You’ll even get a nice little nap.
Kids under 16 are on a different belt hierarchy than the adults. Any kid that has a Green Belt when they turn 16 is automatically an adult Blue Belt. Once in awhile, you'll run across an academy that uses the colored belts with adults instead of the 4-stripe system at white belt.
So much respect for both these young warriors. Girl is a beast but the boy You can just imagine how respectful he’s going to be towards girls. This teaches them so much
Unfortunately the side effect is that this teaches girls to think they are equally dangerous outside the sport and then they get beat up by the street guys with no combat training, but pure aggression and lifting weights.
They both fought very well but to be fair, the boy kinda had the odds stacked against him. The girl he fought was 2 belts higher than him, so it was a of an bit unfair match-up but it was a good fight.
It's not fair for a girl to fight a boy. At this age, girls develop faster than boys, so it's not an equal match. Boys and girls shouldn't be allowed to fight each other. It's unfair to both genders. Emphasizing masculinity is important for boys, and if a girl beats a boy, it can cause significant damage to his mental and gender development. Such a match is unsportsmanlike. Boys have the same right to respect their gender as girls do. It's important to focus on each gender's development to form a healthy self-image. While some girls may think it's impressive to beat a boy, that's not true. Boys deserve protection and support for their physical and mental development, and we should not look down on them or assume they deserve to be defeated by a girl. It's crucial to understand a boy's physical and mental development process, as it could cause irreparable damage if ignored. It's time to stand up for the interests of boys.
Respectfully done. Good work little sister. Also kudos to the young man for his graceful acceptance of defeat. No honor lost. Now if you can figure out how to get her number...lol
Reread this and admittedly got a bit heated at some of the stuff i noticed or lack thereof in this instance. Well shit this was a mismatch within the first second of seeing this. You see a grey-white belt vs a yellow belt, theres already an experience gap that ill ne the first to say blows to be on the receiving end of. I used to be that one guy who'd never be allowedto climb the ranks of kickboxing due to favoritism (or lack thereof) but was so big and strong that i could never be allowed to fight people my own age or skill level because I'd just bulldoze through them by accident. Actually wound up launching a kid through the ceiling from my back as a 12 year old for context. So i was always fighting black belts all the time as a white belt and later a blue. With that in mind, how'd this match come about? Been out of the tourney loop for over a decade so genuinely asking, because last i remember, they actually paired people up based off of rank. Granted could be totally different here, hell if I know. Also, where the hell was this guy's coach? Didn't see them anywhere at all. It's even worse when you're up against someone with that kind of guidance in their corner and you have nobody while their coach is literally giving them a play by play on how to embarrass you in front of everyone. That'll screw with anyone on their best day. Combine both of those stipulations and everything they entail, and this dude is absolutely screwed from the jump. Although off the mat, can almost guarantee that he never heard the end of it for months at least.
He even not tried. He just wants hug the girl. Even i lose control with that beautiful girl. We love it to lose control with women bcz they r always goddess 😍😍❤❤
@@will6996 There are girls wrestling in high school that beat the boys. Mostly at the lighter weights but even some at the mid-weights. Videos here on RU-vid. You are looking for an excuse to explain how a girl can beat a boy. It happens. Boys do have coaches and get instructions. If the girl is a better technical wrestler and has good coaching, then good for her. Give her credit and don't look for excuses.
Why is the word 'hateful' in the title? No-one in the video criticises the Triangle? Is that from the poster? It looks like this might be her channel, so that would feel ... weird? What's going on?
The girl is a yellow belt so her skill level should be a lot higher than the boy a grey/white. This is the result we should expect if we believe in the system.
@@alina_ellaa that's actually a legit problem in many cases. Accidents happen in both cases, but it's hella stressful when in close contact with the opposite sex. Especially when fighting (sparring). Fighting as a male against a female loses you literally 30% of your striking surface... Even worse if for some reason hitting the face isn't allowed. Like where are you supposed to punch lol. Even the stomaches doesn't work since females are generally shorter so unless you are literally squatting or kicking you have to just run lmao
@@inertial_salmon it's not a legit problem unless you make it weird. I've trained bjj with women and it's understood that rare accidental touches happen and they don't mind because it's about the sport. If they don't feel comfortable they just skip you as a training partner. And it is super embarrassing to lose against a woman and very motivating to improve because you know that you lost only because they have better technique.
@@zoli11 well we are talking about completely different things. When I say "striking surface" I obviously don't mean grappling-based martial arts. If I can grapple, going against a female would be totally fine. The problem is when you are sparring and you have to rely more on punches and kicks, where you are both trying not to hurt them and land some shots. There you get some really uncomfortable height differences where your only option is head shots or chest shots because you have to physically crouch down 2 feet to get any actual body shots in
as for the actual BJJ aspect (which the video was on and I was just going off on a tangent) that type of stuff is less of a problem since you target anything that sticks out, as opposed to the body itself. It's also much less vertically imbalanced as it's very often on the ground
