The worst jesterMaxxers are one who's willing to bring other down thinking he might get status out of it. My dad is a huge jesterMaxxer but instead of making fool out of himself, he's making fool out of his own son to elevate his image.
@OP: Then he is the fool because you are his offspring, and he is essentially pissing on his own lineage by doing you wrong. Live your own life on your own terms. Run away ASAP and have no regrets.
When a woman says anything like how she likes humor, confidence, kindness, etc., she means that’s what she sees Chad as having. Chad can talk about rape and it’ll be the funniest thing she ever heard. A sub5 can tell the funniest joke and he’ll be seen as cringe or a tryhard.
That's all bullsh** any way. They like Humor ??? Confidence ??????????? KINDNESS?????????? HAAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAAHAH . Women don't use thier heads gentleman. When will you all realize this. She's just saying words. She doesn't even know what she wants. Why do you think it's always the same rhetoric they "look" for in a guy . Rite... Humor and kindness as the violent criminal who just got out of jail puts her on her back ..... Look at who they seek out.
@@loth4015 Yeah. I used to believe them though when they said that when I was bluepilled. I used to jestermaxx with impersonations, jokes, expressions, etc. Guys thought it was funny, but it never got results with women. I gave up when a strong independent woman I knew started dating this Chad for his “humor” even though his “humor” literally consisted of rape “jokes”.
Based ricecel. All you said in the video is true I used to jestermaxx and thought the normies were laughing with me but then I realized they were laughing at me
Never make jokes for someone else. Only make jokes you enjoy or find funny. Women don’t need to think you’re funny. They need you to be chad. If you’re chad and funny you’re the real deal, but if you’re just funny, you’re just someone for others to laugh at.
I'm sick and tired of hearing people say that you gotta improve yourself and have confidence, personality, go to gym, be funny, ect because if you even get to that level, you realized that it's the same thing before you improve yourself and you will question yourself a lotta things. Life sucks being an unattractive guy.
Honestly, even doing all that stuff as a decently attractive guy, the women are all pretty much damaged emotionally and ran through physically. All that work, self improvement for what? A trash tier, washed up wannabe Becky? Hell no
Sad that you think that I went my whole middle school and high school getting played by women and I was 5ft8 twig that suffered with horrible social anxiety that eventually made me drop out I had a lot of girls pass me by even tell me I wasn’t there type I found the gym at 16 started hitting a bag to try and improve my body for women it turned into a 4 year thing and currently going on now I love improving my self in every aspect I even gave up women to improve myself when I was 18 and 19 cause I totally forgot they existed I got a growth spurt to about 6ft2 which helped but I have buddy’s that are on my same path of improvement that pull 10s being 5ft8 and aren’t very handsome there just not worried about women there focused on improvement you would call them chads but at the end of the day those chads were once bullied skinny or dropped out or passed on by girls evolve yourself you’ll become addicted with being your best version and women will love it I have girls waiting to have sex with me and I rarely see them cause I’m working on being my best self self improvement and the gym isn’t about building a better body it’s about hardening your mind and enjoying life women are apart of life don’t hate them understand there nature but bitching about them fucking the guy that’s self improved himself is ridiculous and I myself was told I was a 5 and ugly now I’ve had 8s come up to me at my job asking me for my number telling me I’m drop dead gorgeous it’s literally just my dedication to self improving my whole self on a mental and physical scale so you might think your ugly until you fall in love with improving your self
Ask yourself this, did any attractive person ever need to lift a finger in self improvement. No they all experience everything through life, without hard work.
that's why your reason should be to do it for yourself and not for others. If you build a beautiful garden then the butterflies will come to you but if they still don't then at least you still have a beautiful garden.
ok but ur still gay if u dont workout and theres no better/healthier cope than lifting even if you gain nothing besides muscles. like if ur alone at least be a lonely man not an involuntary troon
If being funny was what was really important for women, then guys like Jerry Seinfeld or Larry David would be fashion models instead of boring but good looking guys like Chris Helmsworth. I’m in my 30’s. The few good looking guys in my high school eventually got laid and had girlfriends without much trouble (none of that dating coach bullshit, they just had genetics and kept a good figure). The couple of very good looking guys (not even tall, just much better looking compared to average) got free, no strings attached sex, dates, submissiveness from girls both younger and older during high school. Even teachers made exceptions for them, gave them better marks, easier grades, more time off for extracurricular activities/sports team to rep the school, etc. while every other dude struggled to get by. Girls didn’t care about those high tier normies or Chad lites’ awkwardness, lack of jokes, not being that funny, or any of that. They simply like them and all of them wouldn’t turn down sex with those boys. It’s just that simple. And this sort of easy pass in life continues into their twenties and thirties. Of course now that they’re aged, it gets harder to score the same quality of women but they have it much better than most men. Don’t be a jester. One of my best friends in high school was a jester. He’s the funniest guy I know. But no one wanted to date him. Being funny won’t get you anywhere with women.
I fall into the high tier normie category(once lookmaxxed). I will never jester again. The mental trauma speaks to me and gives me nightmares. I also figured out that dating women and them being conpliant requires 2 things, sexual attraction via looks and behavioural attraction. The 2nd one is more in line with how you present yourself when your walking side by side with her. Are you sexy, confident, chill or weak, scared, and unsure. Everyone needs to up their looks and for those you can reach 7-8, you’ll have the confidence to not give a fuck about anything and live life by your rhythm. It’s not about becoming a model, it’s about casting the halo effect. Stay strong my brother and may you survive the upcoming dating apocalypse.
I've been a jester my whole life. I wish somebody told me this when i was younger
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For what it's worth, I think there are different ways to do it. There's nothing wrong with being "the funny guy" as long as you're not sacrificing your dignity.
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@ZayyanShaibu, I don't think guys like Anthony Jeselnik, Bill Burr or Jim Jefferies sacrifice their dignity... that's a pretty weird take, dude.
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@ZayyanShaibu, I guess you also didn't talk to me this time but I'll respond to you anyway. Maybe you should not say sh*t you don't mean if you don't want people to challenge you on it? I don't support jestermaxxing you effing muppet, I'm saying you can be funny without sacrificing your dignity (something you literally said is impossible), then I gave examples to support my statement. But sure, your _"just trust me bro"_ is just as good as any real life example of the opposite. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I don’t see the problem I like being funny and cracking jokes. It has made me friends and lead me to have deep connections/conversations with other people.
I had an ultimate jestermaxxer in my college class. He was of Albanian origin (somewhere in a gray zone between a white person and an ethnic), 5/10 and short. He orbited all the girls and long story short ended up getting friendzoned by all of them. We were mostly laughing at him and not with him, as you described in the video.
@@MrRed-tf7bv Nah, they are Turkic. It is only European country I don't consider white, at least not fully. (The Christians from there are white, whilst the Muslims would be of Turkish ancestry) Also the dude himself looked close to an ethnic, hence why I made that determination.
Jester maxxing is not necessarily a bad thing on its own. You should follow some rules tho, first of all make sure you're tall enough at least, second of all ensure you have decent facial bones structure, you're not bald/balding, then sure Jester maxxing may give some additional points to your character. But again, the common mistake that people fall into when try jester maxxing is to rushing to it without being good looking and then gets pissed off, people should meet some requirements first.
Chad just gets to live life on easy mode. Doesn't have to study for anything because he already gets his happiness from all the stacies which want him. Their is no struggle for chad its just so easy for chad.
@@pantherman8719 Stacy -Tutorial Becky - Easy Mode Sub 5 Woman - Normal Mode Sub 3 Woman - Hardcode Mode Chad - Normal Mode Chadlite - Expert Mode Normie - Veteran Mode Sub 5 - 24/7 Grinding, 1 HIT YOU DIE. STILL IT NEVR BEGAN; JUST GRINDING, GRINDING. STILL OVER for you Mate. Sorry - MODE Sub 3 - I WAS BORN AND MY LIFE WAS OVER MODE
The downfall of jestermaxxing occurs when it is used around people who don't fully understand self-deprecation or ironic humor. A lot of morons will think you are unaware of what you're doing and saying,and think you're just dumb. That's the key though, you have to be genuinely self-aware about it.
You know you can improove for your own sake, right? I read challenging books because it makes MY mind work better and improves MY personal life. Same thing with exercise, good diet, etc.
Nah going gym is one of the major forms of cope,in my opinion, There's nothing wrong with it but obviously it doesn't simulate the affection of a woman
I quit high school got a job and got my GED later on it's better that way beats going to high school and putting up with and dealing with all that BS takes less time to get your GED anyways plus you can stack the green while you're young.
your face is very interesting. at first glance , it would seem that you're beyond salvation, a trucel. but for starters you could go low on body fat and see how things reacomodate. then consider some strategic surgeries.
My first thoughts aswell. Dude looks like he's got dem bones (jaw, cheekbones, under eye area and brow ridge), only one way to know. Also his hair and skin are top tier. If anyone's taking this advice though, please look up how to lose weight properly so yall at least don't screw up your own metabolism with overly restrictive diets, and I don't mean just the most extreme mistakes like starving oneself. You can't cut several hundred calories off your diet too fast, or else you'll create a super resistant/resilient gut. Best to do it slowly and exercise if you want to accelerate the process and/or grow muscle.
*Dependence on likeability? If unliked, life in European societal matrix becomes very hard because here likeability and agreeability is preferentialised over competence.*
Yo you are young and. already super red pilled. Keep it up, you still have time to not nagasaki black pill yourself. You could potentially make the right changes to be in a better place before 25. Don't give up (yet).
Yes, i’m with you on this one. This guy isn’t terrible genetically, if he worked out, ate right, got his hygiene up as well as finding things that make him happy and getting himself to the six figure mark/ being financially independent he could easily see himself living like a chad by 25. Even though if chad did all the work you had to do he’d be way above you, most people are lazy and stupid. Most people, even given the answers right to them, wouldn’t be able to answer the question correctly. He’s really got a fair shot.
Jestering is a great tool to allowing yourself to build self confidence and throwing yourself out there instead of locking yourself up into being an introvert. I don't care much for main protagonist in games. No matter what you do, if the aim is to become popular with girls, every attempt will be completely transparent to them no matter what you engage in. You wanna play hard to get, well you'll come off as a try hard. If you're goofy and get the girls by doing that, you're they will look through you and ditch you within a week or two. But atleast you'd get some experience and punani. What girls everntually settle for are the carpenter type that never tried getting girls in the first place. They simply didn't care. They didn't come off as not caring. They genuinely didn't care. That's what woman eventually settles for. And that's not what I am. At best I am a failed Bill Burr character that eventually stopped caring what woman think since they're way below me in terms of intelligence. And if they are highly intelligent, well then they have so high masculine traits I wouldn't consider them women anyways. x)
this video is like a Jokers original story, maybe because of your voice 8) I'm not sure what is a Jester maxing, but as someone who is inteligent (130) I do my whole life a lot of jokes that nobody get and apreciate, but I guess I do it because I'm bored with people. Anyway, nothing good ever come from that. Most people want normal boring interaction and boring not deep relations, they feel weird if you doing something "not in line". Don't do that.
you need to be naturally funny, you dont need to force humour, to do it when there is no place for it, you just dont do this shit to impress girls, they know exactly what u trying to do when u are joking around them out of nowhere and believe me that girls dont like this shit.
What is naturally funny? How does one become naturally funny? If I have to think about ways of being naturally funny then It’s no longer natural. Empathy is key. What one has lived or experienced may not be felt the same as others. Even with pain, people feel and interpret it differently. Life has and will always be unpredictable and unfair. We accept this fact(at least I hope everyone does). We humans try our very best to micromanage and have as much control in our lives as if our entire existence depends on it. Learn to accept that some things are out of our hands example, a woman liking you. Dating is a 2 way street. There’s what you want in the relationship and there’s what she wants aka what she finds sexually, emotionally, physically attractive in a man. Often times there is a misunderstanding in what both parties want so breakage of said relationship is inevitable. I guess people are DIFFERENT, gee what a shocker. I can’t naturally attract women much like I can’t conjure up humour, naturally. So what is the equivalence of forced humour in that regards. Perhaps money, resources, security in finances, a promise of stability. People ostracized those that differ from the norm and not being able to convey humour or understand it is a big one. Deep inside you, your sub-conscious knows what you lack and your primal instinct to survive kicks in. It has determined that having humour is essential in attracting women and making friends. Even though this is not something you are not NATURALLY familiar with you try your best to do it, because adaptability. Every animal adapts, humans are animals, we are not devoid of this. My point being, some guys are not “naturally” funny. Some guys(although the numbers are growing)don’t stand a chance with girls. Take some time to reflect on your character, perhaps challenge your very existence in this world. I’ve already realized that we are nothing in the vastness of the universe. With so much dread, how is it that I smile in my videos? If I’ve come to realized how shitty life can be, why do I or anyone in that matter continue to persevere.
@@livingyuuj6165 lots if valid points. All though after high school going into your career, if you start making good money and use natural humor to hit on women and then have sex with them. Maybe the better term is to call it charisma maybe? Having sex with with women using charisma even if youre not a chad is pretty damn good, and life affirming. I used to scoff at the idea of working out and running through dating apps, but in reality i was just scared to take the risk, when i never was scared to take the risk career wise/work performance. I just think humor can be useful to run through some women to eventually find someone meaningful. Not sure that i disagree with much of anything you said, only that not to over jestermaxx, but some jestermaxxing is useful, like you said balance.
liberate yourself from the suffixes ' maxxing' and ' pill'. When you stop running every thought through those filters you'll start thinking for yourself and not on behalf of some community on youtube that doesn't actually give af about you as a person. If you're a goofy guy, be goofy. If you're reserved, be reserved. You don't have to adhere to some incel flowchart. you actually really don't.
ye thats true, but at the same time this clown behaviour is clearly observed in ugly people that try to be popular. Just because this community has given it a label doesnt mean its not a real thing.
It's very different for later generations. It only doesn't matter if he's at average height, has good face and hair, and is hygienic. I'd say the cut off point is 5'7.
26:24 you need to be able to play the role. Obviously looks will carry u but I promise it’ll be easy if ur mentally more confident. You don’t know how much it kills me when a girl talks to me and I don’t know what to say . Mentally I still feel ugly
Focus on your college degree right now. Forget about women. But just focus on getting your college education. Don't let 4 years fly by just like that. Use your years well. August 2, 2023. USA.
It's only worth it if you could possibly make a career out of being a comedian/clown. Also only worth it if most of the jokes are people laughing at the jokes and delivery...not at you.
Whoa you’re toooo young to be into this stuff. You still have growing to do, eat right, sleep right and try to push your body through sport and exercise to hit your genetic potential. Also, you’re a kid, enjoy being a kid, including “gesturing” IF you’re doing it because you are funny and enjoy it. .You’re still growing up, drop the anger and bitterness else you’ll piss away your best younger years away. Enjoy being a kid and don’t put so much stock in girls and “being accepted”.
I appreciate the advice, but I think I’m good. Trust me, you’re not the first person to give me this kind of talk, and I say that, not to undermine your value of wisdom, but this kind of stuff starts to play like a broken record. I mean come up with something original and thought provoking. Be real with me for a second, the “go to the gym and focus on yourself” rhetoric has been overplayed way too many times when trying to help people.
@@livingyuuj6165 look, I’m a stranger on a RU-vid comments section, I don’t know you, but can emphasize with you. You younger kids have it bad. You also have it good with all the information on the internet. While young, focus on EVERYTHING but women so you’ll be in a better position in your life later. Believe me, future you will thank you. Is Chad winning on easy mode? Yes. Is it fair? No. Life is one big Chad, cruel and unfair at times. Benevolent and just at other times. Trust life gets infinitely HARDER on a man the older he gets and the less his means, wisdom, experience and skills. No one, I mean ABSOLUTELY no one gives 1 sh*t about your feelings or shortcomings, none. If you think that’s harsh, you haven’t looked close enough at middle aged or elderly men with nothing to show for themselves. And yes, 🐱 is the LAST thing on their mind then and yes, there is such a thing as too late for him and “he pissed his youth away”. None of these guys cheering you on in these comments will be here for you. Put women to the side, and go live your life till your old enough to decide if it’s even worth it anyway. At least you’ll be deciding from position of strength, not anger and defeat. Good luck young man.
your not even ugly/sub5, you got great facial structure & voice man, loose the glasses, the weird haircut, about 30 pounds of fat and build somd muscle then your good
I hope not, but nothing is guaranteed in life. I only wish to share my experiences however many I garner through the years. I only want men to know that they are not alone. Lord knows I needed that in my teen years. Agree with me or disagree, you and I both know it’s overrr.
@@livingyuuj6165I don’t like how when an unattractive guy vents people say his ER and will think they gonna hurt a bunch a people. There’s no winning as a sub5
Im a sub (short) with an attractive face. Have a body count of 2. But like i realize life aint all women and sex. Women are like a pain, and evil. Develop a hobby which you really like. Make friends with people who have the same hobby and make that hobby your life. And if you have the opportunity, to compensate, become a farmer/ hermit and live with animals.
@@Joshwah_treebecause they have nothing of value to say, nothing to say you should take an example from, unless you want to end up like them of course. These are the same people too scared to look a stranger in the eye, to approach a woman, to confront their parents, to do things that make themselves uncomfortable. They have already given up on a life worth living, now why would you want to take advice from someone like that? Who would want to drag other people down with them because their misery requires company.
@@roy7o9 with the topic of this video aka being a jester maxxing baffoon. This kid is absolutely right unless you are very good looking and are a chad jester maxxing will work but if your average or worse a sub 5 male you will end up looking like a complete idiot loser trying to do it. I think the kid is right in this video 100 percent.
You can pick up girls without the self-confidence issues and anxieties you have. No need to be funny, no need to be a clown, you insanely generalize a group of traumatized people. Take normal people without trauma and self-confidence issues and it will automatically turn them into Chads.
@@Blackpiller4lifebro u dont need to be tall to pull. Like bro thinks avg guy is greek god. I am like avg looking indian woth a white girl no i am not rich i have also dated many women. And my height is 5ft7/8 lol.
You seem both depressed and angry. I'm curious; if you think you deserve attention from women, do you have real interests, skillset, or hobbies that can make you stand out above the rest? Or are you just sitting in jealousy over some men having 10/10 looks?
Did you just make a judgment of me, based on how I look, sir? Whose to say I’m not happy. How do you know I am depressed or angry? It’s not a matter of if I deserve woman, but rather if I am good enough for women. Because at the end of the day, women choose who they want to be with. If your a guy and you ask a girl out and get flat out rejected, don’t tell me you had a choice. The only choice you had in that situation is either approaching her or not. How you look is important. Would you be cool with hanging out with below average people and being judged negatively by other people. This stuff extends beyond dating. People are judgemental, it is in our nature. That’s not bad or good, it just happens. To answer your question. It is what it is.
Why would he need any of that to get people inferior to him. Women are not builders, providers or protectors. They have very little to offer this guy other than physical intimacy. They should be working on skill sets to impress him. He is smarter, stronger and funnier than them. He is the catch not the child in an adults body sauntering around in yoga pants.