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Boredom in metrimonial relation: |urdu| |Prof Dr Javed Iqbal| 

Professor Dr Javed Iqbal
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How to handle boredom in relationship with spouse: Prof Dr Javed Iqbal responds to a question in a session.
#wifeandhusband #metrimonialrelation
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Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers penal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, shot story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.

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Комментарии : 1,5 тыс.   
@mariachohan5703
@mariachohan5703 3 года назад
I gave my husband all whatever I can and I always tried my best to communicate whatever I m feeling but he always took me for granted and whenever I said him that u r so important for me u r world to me he said tou ab yh aik bt m sari zindge sunu ga kya nd it is not that I hv been saying this thing to him daily but on and off it is very difficult to make a man happy after becoming his wife according to him what he can gave me was just physical attachment 😢😢😢😢and then he left me for no reason! he didn't divorced me and also didn't want me with him .... It's my request to all who r reading my comments give love to ur wives and respect them praise them and make them realise that you love them!😢😢😢it's really hard for a girl to bear all this
@zorroali6303
@zorroali6303 3 года назад
Yeh rishta dono taraf se parwaan charhta hai, Sometimes women also feel that this man should br pressed max so that he can’t look around and he should act like a puppet... Women must make his men like a KING so that She can have life of a QUEEN.... 👍 BEST FORMULA 👍
@allaboutblender1647
@allaboutblender1647 3 года назад
Very sad, actualy he dsnt desrvs ur love and attntion, best wishes for your future.
@MK-yf1vk
@MK-yf1vk 3 года назад
I cn feel ur pain sis😭 Same happening with me nd im pregnant too.having the most severe depression i cant explain.he nd his mom emotionally abused me throughout the time on different issues.nw when i conceived he left me at my parents place nd didnt contact me
@thefooderspecialist4383
@thefooderspecialist4383 3 года назад
@@MK-yf1vk ALLAH ki zaat ki gai ziadti nai bholta
@alikazmi7525
@alikazmi7525 3 года назад
میری بھن اللہ کی زات اپ کی مشکلیں اسان کرے ،،پنجتن پاک کہ صدقے بی بی فاطمہ سیدہ خاتون جنت سلام اللہ علیہ کی پاک چادر کہ صدقے اپ کہ خاوند کو ھدایت دے اور اپ اپنے گھر اباد ھو جائیں
@faisalzafarkhwajazafar4188
@faisalzafarkhwajazafar4188 3 года назад
Cheating, betrayal, selfishness, indifference, disinterest and lying is killing this relationship these days. People lose interest and attraction in each other.
@munirmusawar8111
@munirmusawar8111 3 года назад
سر میاں بیوی کے رشتے میں اکتاہٹ صرف اور صرف برے معاشی حالات، مرد کی مردانہ طاقت کی کمی کمزوری، بیوی کا اولاد پیدہ نا کرنا، عورت کا منہ پھٹ ہونا اور مرد کا ہتھ چھُٹ ہونا ہے،. ان سب سے بڑھ کر یہ دو مختلف نیچرز کا ملاپ ہوتا ہے، اگر دونو کی نیچر نا ملے تو شادی کے دوسرے ہفتے ہی اکتاہٹ ہونے لگتی ہے.
@nigellaonceagain7453
@nigellaonceagain7453 3 года назад
I’ve been married for over 26 years Alhamdolillah and if you met us you would think we just met. A Marriage I feel is a cooking pot of a variety of ingredients with patience being the fuel,You will need a handful of respect including acceptance of your faults, a dash of passion, a spoon of empathy and compassion stir in some value add in a cup of friendship and allow it space to release its own individual flavour. Don’t over stir Or mould out of character. Spending time doesn’t mean shopping or eating out putting more strain on an already strained wallet, activities you can do together going for walks,simple picnics,cooking, gardening, playing games etc can bring closeness and laughter
@hellokitty-lw2mb
@hellokitty-lw2mb 3 года назад
Love the analogy you used here. This comment was a pleasure to read
@sheezariaz8920
@sheezariaz8920 3 года назад
MASHALLAH 😇
@hasbasmamavlog1280
@hasbasmamavlog1280 3 года назад
You are lucky ma shaa Allah
@shehnazbaig4977
@shehnazbaig4977 3 года назад
Maa Sha Allah subhan Allah
@thelaibslife1379
@thelaibslife1379 3 года назад
Yah most of the time we don't have enough money to go for hoteling nor for shopping but we spend quality time. We don't use cell phone when we sit together. Peace of mind is more important than luxury life we both are working and please pray for me May Allah blessed us with happy healthy kids Ameen it's 6th year going to our wedding
@ayeshamariyam1418
@ayeshamariyam1418 3 года назад
اللہ پاک ہر شوہر کو ہدایت دے اور اپنی ذمہ داریوں کو ذمہ داری سے سنبھالے
@traza2185
@traza2185 3 года назад
Our her wife ko bhi jo wo zalim hoti hien
@ZeeshanHaider33938
@ZeeshanHaider33938 3 года назад
Ayesha ap married hain?
@traza2185
@traza2185 3 года назад
@@ZeeshanHaider33938 app rishta dhond rhy ho aik mere liay bhi plz
@izharpuma
@izharpuma 2 года назад
عایشہ صرف husband کو ا
@muhammadjamil1597
@muhammadjamil1597 2 года назад
عائیشہ مریم. . . آپ کا نام کتنا متبرک. اور پاکیزہ ھے۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔اپنے نام کی لاج رکھیں اور عائیشہ اور مریم بن کر دکھائیں۔ ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ جب آپ اس دنیا اور اسکی ھر چیز سے بڑھ کر اپنے شوھر کو اھمیت دیں گی تو قانون قدرت یعنی عمل اور رد عمل برابر ھوتے ھیں کے تحت آپ کو وہ کچھ حاصل ھو جاے گا جسکی آپ تمنا کرتی. ھیں۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ اپ نے ایک بات دل میں سوچنی اور ایک دن میں کئی دفعہ دل میں دہرانی ھے۔ " اسمیں شائید. میری غلطی ھو " جس دن آپ نے اس فقرے پر یقین کر لیا آپ کی زندگی بدل جاے گی۔ازمائیش شرط ھے۔
@aimanali4634
@aimanali4634 3 года назад
Your wife is so lucky jisse ap jesi soch wala shakhs mila
@hasbasmamavlog1280
@hasbasmamavlog1280 3 года назад
True
@tahabaloch5281
@tahabaloch5281 3 года назад
Bilkul . MashAllah
@rafiqshani3006
@rafiqshani3006 3 года назад
yeah sab karne ki batein Hain is sianney ki bhi monh phula ke baithi ho gi sala biwi or Gaston ke chaudry me khas farak nhi har wakt un ki sachi jhoti tareefein hi karty raho biwi no razi rakhne ke liye jhoton or chaplooson me PhD Hona chaye warna monh phola hova dekh lo bhains jesi biwi ka
@janshair8474
@janshair8474 3 года назад
@@rafiqshani3006 itna gussa
@umairiqbal2880
@umairiqbal2880 3 года назад
Ghr mn ye bhe dousry merdon ki trh he ho ga
@wszaks3842
@wszaks3842 3 года назад
Mostly husbands does not like to listen this sort of communication but always said behs mat karo. so end result is anger hate etc
@everythingispossible9382
@everythingispossible9382 3 года назад
😞
@sanasameer486
@sanasameer486 3 года назад
I agree with you. I personally suffering from the same situation.
@muhammadumarhashmi3146
@muhammadumarhashmi3146 3 года назад
Aap right ho asa h hota
@muhammadumarhashmi3146
@muhammadumarhashmi3146 3 года назад
Husband's nami loago k biwi s kuch sunana achha ni lagta
@drhina8780
@drhina8780 3 года назад
That's true Communicating and discussing something to husband related to their odd behaviour comes under arguments
@lifeteaches4477
@lifeteaches4477 3 года назад
This relationship is dead in West & on struggle phase in Pakistan. I think smartphones have created a big challenge in such relations.
@saimarehman6573
@saimarehman6573 3 года назад
Yes my husband work at telenor and remain so busy.... Infact always his phone is everything for him
@DIG3T
@DIG3T 3 года назад
True....it is destroying my home and 18yrs of marriage as husband is into dating apps
@domesticmomlife7436
@domesticmomlife7436 3 года назад
Exactly
@kalsoomjaved4580
@kalsoomjaved4580 2 года назад
Yes bcz fn mn sb kch available hota hi awse logon klie.bad qisamti se jo limmits hmain Quran pak mn btai gai hain un ko cross krne ki wja hi rishton mn twazun khtam ho raha hi.
@searchfortruth6889
@searchfortruth6889 2 года назад
@@saimarehman6573 so the prob is not mobile phone, its materialism
@shahidmahmood6932
@shahidmahmood6932 3 года назад
جزاک اللہ خیر بہت ہی اچھی باتیں ہیں اللہ تعالٰی ہم سب کو عمل کی توفیق دے آمین
@kaneezaskari2062
@kaneezaskari2062 2 года назад
im married from 8 yrs Alhamdulillah my husbnd so caring,loving nd responsible person ...even when i hv some problem he take carr of our kids gv him food,bath everything nd he always says if u dont with me how can i live without u...but never say k 'mai tmse bht pyar krta hu, if i asked him do u love me he always says no...
@Vs0105
@Vs0105 2 года назад
Ma sha Allah❤️
@bilalcorner8567
@bilalcorner8567 Год назад
MashAllah.
@ravinderbhat6163
@ravinderbhat6163 3 года назад
Dr. Sahab has saved my marriage.....God Bless you Dr. Sahab.
@sadiaasad7513
@sadiaasad7513 3 года назад
Bhai keep on listening so you don't forget
@realknowledgeitv9542
@realknowledgeitv9542 2 года назад
Read Quran in ur language
@pa2359
@pa2359 7 месяцев назад
He just said set boundaries, how he save your marriage
@DontOpenThisChannel
@DontOpenThisChannel 3 месяца назад
Allah has saved your marriage.
@massagefortruth6811
@massagefortruth6811 3 года назад
💐Dr.sahb me aapko apne ustaz ki tarh sunta hu masha allah hme aapse bahut kuch sikhne ko milta he Allah aapse razi ho. 🇮🇳India rajsthan ❤️
@siddiqze
@siddiqze 3 года назад
I find it extremely disrespectful to share jokes specially related to spouses. This is the root of all relationships as all the relationships are created based on this relationship. Love your spouses for the sake of Allah SBT. Any injustice committed will be a sin on our part for which we will be questioned.
@iryaprince840
@iryaprince840 3 года назад
Sir agr spouse sunna hi na chahy to kiya kre??bar bar in ki ignorance ko ignor kr deti hu phir b whi sunna hi nae kuch b..kiya kits jaye
@raheelsharif6316
@raheelsharif6316 2 года назад
@@iryaprince840 dear madam find out the cause of the problem , Kon SE waja SE ho la taluq hogya haii ho reason dondo and cheating selfishness
@nighatnoor3472
@nighatnoor3472 3 года назад
‏بال، کپڑوں، جوتوں اور بناؤ سنگھار سے زیادہ اپنے مطالعہ، شعور اور گفتگو پر کام کریں...کوئی بھی دس سیکنڈ یا زیادہ سے زیادہ ایک منٹ تک آپ کے بناؤ سنگھار سے متاثر ہوسکتا ہے...اس کے بعد آپ کو گفتگو ہی کرنا ہوتی ہے....!!!🌸
@faizrasoolfaiz3827
@faizrasoolfaiz3827 3 года назад
Absolutely correct suggestion
@shahidtahir77
@shahidtahir77 3 года назад
Personally speaking..it's all based on mutual respect.give repect,take respect...love begets love
@sabaishfaq2309
@sabaishfaq2309 3 года назад
@@Curiosityoffsite aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
@PreciousLife1988
@PreciousLife1988 2 года назад
I am not to senior in Married Life but i judge that If you arrange an independent house then maximum problems became vanished from marital life.
@brightstartiktok2m925
@brightstartiktok2m925 3 года назад
There is no doubt that the future of our nation must and will greatly depend the type of education we give to our students......
@doua-zia-
@doua-zia- 3 года назад
Dr sab app 100% such kah rahy hy.jab her waqat tahzek orr byintha tanqeed ky rawaiye ka samna karna parta hy to insaan zinda Laash ban jata hy orr phir rozana jab shohar boly main to aik laash ky sath rahta hon tooo insaan roz marta hy .......😢😢
@themultitasker9332
@themultitasker9332 3 года назад
Sometimes communication creates fights
@s.alaghari6222
@s.alaghari6222 23 дня назад
Dr sahab ap jesi soch rkhny waly mrdon ka kaal h Pakistan m..
@muhamamd784
@muhamamd784 3 года назад
This relation is so beautifull plz guys always respect girls they r so cute
@iqrashahzad6366
@iqrashahzad6366 3 года назад
I6du6
@junaidmuhammad8266
@junaidmuhammad8266 3 года назад
haahahaha!
@hamzamalik7305
@hamzamalik7305 3 года назад
😊
@hafizumer251
@hafizumer251 3 года назад
Zabardast sir
@naveedmemon4055
@naveedmemon4055 3 года назад
Hahaha
@sohailshaikh1334
@sohailshaikh1334 3 года назад
Pataa nahi insaan Kyo nahi samajhtaa ki ye duniya hamesha kaa thikaana nahi hai.. Dil bahelaane ke liye Jannat hai naa ?? Allah Taufeeq de.. Ameen
@syedahijabzahra4092
@syedahijabzahra4092 3 года назад
بےشک۔۔۔۔آخرت کی زندگی
@shhhh9780
@shhhh9780 2 года назад
Jis nay nhi chahna hota usk liy kuch b krlo wo nhi chahega, sabar Nmaz aur bachon ki khatir brdasht krlyn, dil p na Lyn, aur Allah sy ajar ki khatir iss Duniavi zindagi myn brdasht krlyn dua kryn k Allah uska dil bdal dey, kbhi b hurt na Hon blk zayda khubsurt healthy happy rhyn, confident, tundi bad mukhalif sy na ghbrah aey aqaab yh to chlti H tujhy uncha uraany k liy, na jhgra kryn, pyar pyar sy achy ikhlaqi sy rhny ki try kryn, phr b na bny to usko usk Hal py chor dyn, bahir sy dhky kha k ya to aqal a jaygi ya phr Allah apk liy so darwazy kholdyga agr chor b dey to, so never b hurt yourself please.
@IMN0tVer3
@IMN0tVer3 2 года назад
u have such a positive thinking about this relationship...if every man understand these little points so every house will be paradise
@InfoRangOfficial
@InfoRangOfficial 3 года назад
سر آپ بہت اچھی باتیں کی ہیں اللہ تعالی آپ کو سدا خوش رکھے آمین..
@farheenanjum8901
@farheenanjum8901 3 года назад
اسلام علیکم جناب اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو جزائے خیر عطا کرے اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کی حفاظت فرما آپ کی عمر دراز کرے آمین یارب العالمین
@muhammadarsalan8859
@muhammadarsalan8859 3 года назад
I really appreciate you(sir),you are spreading maturity in society through your knowledge and giving our society a new and broad way of thinking and analyzing things
@user-jj5ei5sz9c
@user-jj5ei5sz9c 3 года назад
مجھے میرے شوہر کے ساتھ رہنا وقت گزارنا بہت اچھا لگتا ہے اور شوق ہے مگر وہ بیرون شہر کام کرتے ہیں مہینے بعد آتے ہیں تو ساس انکو میرے لیے نہیں چھوڑتیں اپنے ساتھ مصروف رکھتی ہیں ۔اس بات سے ان حرکتوں سے میرا دل دکھ گیا ہے کبھی لگتا ہے کہ میں گھر میں ہوں ہی نہیں پھر چپ کر کے روتی رہتی ہوں ۔میرا دل ٹوٹ گیا ہے ۔ میری شادی کو سات سال ہو گئے ہیں میری خواہش ادھورہ ہی ہے بہت رونا آتا ہے کہ مجھے سمجھ نہیں آتی کہ میں کیا کروں۔ اگر وہ مجھ سے بات چیت کرنے لگیں تو ساس کہتی میرا دل رکنے لگا ہے چلو ھاسپٹل لے کر ۔۔۔۔۔ پھر میں ان دونوں کے درمیان نہیں آتی ۔ساس اپنے پاس سلاتی ہیں شوہر کو ۔۔۔۔۔ کیونکہ میرے سسر فوت ہو چکے ہیں 😭😭😭😭😭😭 خدارا میرے لیے دعا کیجیے
@sadiqaminkhattak3058
@sadiqaminkhattak3058 3 года назад
Phr bety ki shadi q karwai hy ? Shadi na karwati ,to sari zindgi sulati apny bety ko apny sath,pata nhi kesi maaye hoti hyn ,k doosron ki betyon ki zindgi barbad kar deti hyn ,Allah poochy aesi maaon ko ,apni betyon ko to damad k paluwon se baand k rakhti hyn ,or bahu ko bety se door,
@aminaraza4060
@aminaraza4060 3 года назад
Allah pak apke liey Asaniyaan paida Karey...ameen
@kashifsaleemchudry8018
@kashifsaleemchudry8018 3 года назад
Try something new
@parvenakhtar4791
@parvenakhtar4791 2 года назад
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@deebars7413
@deebars7413 3 года назад
It’s the best of luck if you find a loving and caring person in your life as a soulmate , a husband or wife . Both have to be flexible and honest with each other. Marriages take a long time to settle. Communication is the key. I was so shy to communicate when I was angry about something and used to get silent and never say anything. My husband gets the credit that he changed me , he helped me changing this annoying habit of me. I had that self pity self harm habits but I worked hard to get rid of them and be positive.
@raheelsharif6316
@raheelsharif6316 2 года назад
Nowadays communication is totally lacking in our society .instead of blaming another partner one should find some mistakes in ourself then try to blame ..this is the biggest problem in our relations now
@irumemaan976
@irumemaan976 2 года назад
@@raheelsharif6316 ............0.........................,................................................................
@dramnarasul-dermatologist366
@dramnarasul-dermatologist366 3 года назад
Very well said sir, Spouse is the Best Relation in the world 👍
@ajambashir4263
@ajambashir4263 3 года назад
Great sir .......sub sae pehli baat feeling hoti hae ..feeling not want money.........aap ke baat Bagair kahay samaj jaye aap ke khushi mae khush aap ke dukh Mae aap ke sath it's real relation of husband and wife.....which not between us last 30 years my deeply experienced.....practically things settle kerna too much difficult in life ....wohi samaj sakhta hae jis pee guzarti hae.........Allah bless you
@AliAhmadAwan
@AliAhmadAwan 3 года назад
Bht Zabardast baat! 👏
@brightstartiktok2m925
@brightstartiktok2m925 3 года назад
Love you
@sumairavirk1466
@sumairavirk1466 3 года назад
Yes Ali bro
@adnanasrajpootji7195
@adnanasrajpootji7195 3 года назад
Love day par rakhte Hain 🖕🙄
@tahabaloch5281
@tahabaloch5281 3 года назад
I always watch ⌚ your videos and liked your channel......Ali Ahmed Awan
@mubasherzaidi8286
@mubasherzaidi8286 3 года назад
Dr javed ap bht qabil doctr ur ak achy insan hain keep it up mein apsy milna chata hn kc din mein khd be dr hn phd kr rha hn
@asimfiroz4527
@asimfiroz4527 3 года назад
ماشاء اللہ بہت خوب آج سے اور زیادہ توجہ دونگا
@aqstarrzz415
@aqstarrzz415 3 года назад
Kis pe ?
@foodwithmood9924
@foodwithmood9924 3 года назад
@@aqstarrzz415 😆
@aqstarrzz415
@aqstarrzz415 3 года назад
@@foodwithmood9924 😜😜
@muneebkhan7465
@muneebkhan7465 3 года назад
If you really love eachother's company you will never get bored.
@syed__.
@syed__. 3 года назад
Sir ager koi asi bt Suny na shoher bt hi na Sunay to
@IkPtipolitics
@IkPtipolitics 3 года назад
Dil cheer dia apki is guftagu ny. Asa laga Jasay Mari hi bt hurai hu. Main St kuch nh nh sakti. Allah apko ajar dy
@BushraComputer55
@BushraComputer55 3 года назад
Sir "Allah" aapko lambi umer se nawaze......🤲
@scatteredpearls4483
@scatteredpearls4483 3 года назад
سر یہ شعر حفیظ ہوشیارپوری کی غزل سے ہے۔ دلوں کی الجھنیں بڑھتی رہیں گی اگر کچھ مشورے باہم نہ ہوں گے
@faizaaslam7125
@faizaaslam7125 3 года назад
Sacrifice krna parta ha. Is relation ko everlasting rakhne k liye apko sacrifice krna parta ha. Husbands need full attention. They are just like a child. Treat him like a kid he ll treat you as a queen ❤️
@_farhatkadri_1003
@_farhatkadri_1003 2 года назад
Ma Sha Allah... This session was really beautiful. Actually very little communication creates miracles 👌👌👍
@KanwalsLife
@KanwalsLife 3 года назад
MASHA ALLAH stay blessed Sir Apki videos sy hamesha positive vibes ati hain 😍 I wish k hr insan apko sunana shuru kar day to sary fasad hi khatam ho jay families ma
@umairiqbal2880
@umairiqbal2880 3 года назад
میں تو کہتا ہوں پاکستانی مردوں کو شادی سے پہلے کورس کرانا چاہئے کہ بیوی کو کیسے رکھتے ہیں اس کا احترام، اس کی خواہشوں وغیرہ کو کیسے سمجھتے ہیں اور پورا کیسا کرنا ہے
@parvenakhtar4791
@parvenakhtar4791 2 года назад
💯
@umairiqbal2880
@umairiqbal2880 2 года назад
@@parvenakhtar4791 tnx
@umairbinarif728
@umairbinarif728 3 года назад
دلوں کی الجھنیں بڑھتی رہیں گی اگر کچھ مشورے باہم نہ ہوں گے حفیظ ہوشیارپوری
@aminaraza4060
@aminaraza4060 3 года назад
Bilkul sahi...
@MUHAMMADYASIR-pl2qr
@MUHAMMADYASIR-pl2qr 2 года назад
@@aminaraza4060 hy
@Mahaahmedvlogs
@Mahaahmedvlogs 2 года назад
Kia bat hai sir aapki...♥️😍amazing logical example I hope sab ko yeh bat samajh ajaye jinki life me AISA Kuch problem hai...sir Muhabbat to miljati hai but izzat se Muhabbat Karna or usi izzat se rishte ko nibhana hi Kamal hai
@lifewithmrswaqas
@lifewithmrswaqas 3 года назад
Bilkul Sahi kaha ... Who agree ?
@sasajjad3437
@sasajjad3437 2 года назад
'دلوں کی الجھنیں بڑھتی رہیں گی اگر کچھ مشورے باہم نہ ہوں گے' یہ شعر حفیظ ہوشیارپوری کا ہے۔ غزل کا آخری شعر : حفیظ ان سے میں جتنا بد گماں ہوں وہ مجھ سے اس قدر بر ہم نہ ہوں گے
@syedibrahim3322
@syedibrahim3322 2 года назад
Agar sab log use samaj jaye tho insha Allah saare fasad SE Bach jayenge
@ahsanulhaque1092
@ahsanulhaque1092 3 года назад
Ma Sha Allah keep teaching of us like this and I love when you make understand openly ❤️
@AbdulMannan-mz4vk
@AbdulMannan-mz4vk 3 года назад
v. well convey your message. or yehi rishta hy jo jannat main b qaim rhta, so indeed this relationship is big blessing or gift for us. Allhumdullelah🙏
@muhammadshoaibchaudhary9504
@muhammadshoaibchaudhary9504 3 года назад
Communication with Truth is key step toward trust development with life partner.
@malakbarkatali3429
@malakbarkatali3429 3 года назад
Good wife is gift of Allah take care of this gift
@ammarhafeez5991
@ammarhafeez5991 3 года назад
Nice bt bro
@sheezariaz8920
@sheezariaz8920 3 года назад
You're an inspiration ❤️🌸
@amirshahzadshahzad3418
@amirshahzadshahzad3418 3 года назад
Assalam.o.alaikum sheeza
@Beholder31
@Beholder31 3 года назад
It (bonding)will become very strong if both partners will cooperate with each other 💕💕💕
@babarnadeem6090
@babarnadeem6090 3 года назад
ry well, 👍
@Soul541
@Soul541 3 года назад
ماشاء اللہ بہت اچھی بات کہی ہے ۔۔۔آپ اپنی بیوی کو اتنا پیار،اتنی عزت،توجہ دیں تاکہ وہ کسی اور طرف جا نہ سکے اس سے مشورہ لیں اس کی کچن کے کاموں میں مدد کروائیں کیونکہ یہ ہمارے نبی پاک صلی اللہ علیہ والہ وسلم کی سنت ہے۔
@drsyedarsalanjafri1597
@drsyedarsalanjafri1597 3 года назад
مرد کو ایک محبوبہ کی ضرورت ہوتی ہے اور بیوی محبوبہ نہیں ہوتی اور نہ کبھی محبوبہ بن سکتی ہے اور مرد بیوی میں محبوبہ بھونکتا رہتا ہے اور پہلی بیوی تو کبھی محبوب نی نہیں سکتی دوسری تیسری یا چوتھی بیوی شاید محبوب بن جائیں اور بنتی بھی ہے آپ دنیا میں بھی اس کی مثالیں ہیں جس نے بھی کبھی محبت میں تاج محل بنوانے ہیں یا اور بھی کوئی عظیم کام کرے ہیں تو اپنی پہلی بیوی کے لیے نہیں بلکہ وہ اس کی چوتھی پانچویں چھٹی ہوئی ہوتی ڈاکٹر صاحب اس پر کوئی اپنی ماہرانہ رائے دیجئے کہ ایسا کیوں ءوتا ہے
@asmapsychologistofficial2153
@asmapsychologistofficial2153 3 года назад
اگر کسی کو نفسیاتی مسئلہ ہو ocd یا بائی پولر یا کوئی بھی صحت سے متعلق مسئلہ ہو تو ہم سے رجوع کریں۔اللہ سب کو صحت مند رکھے شکریہ ..
@aqstarrzz415
@aqstarrzz415 3 года назад
Dimagh kharab ho gia hay pakistan ke mahol ko dekh ke or sun ke.....in sab logon ko fix kar do please 🙏
@rakshandakashif918
@rakshandakashif918 Год назад
May Allah almighty bring happiness of this world and the world hereafter in our relationships
@foziakanwal2866
@foziakanwal2866 3 года назад
Apki ye pyari batain meri dua h sab k dil pe assar kare ameen
@beenish434
@beenish434 3 года назад
We lack the appreciating attitude, so we loses the best relations, plus ego is another big issue among males
@aminaraza4060
@aminaraza4060 3 года назад
True
@fizanasif4625
@fizanasif4625 3 года назад
Fake...
@sanasameer486
@sanasameer486 3 года назад
It is true
@fizanasif4625
@fizanasif4625 3 года назад
@@sanasameer486 Then you women's don't have understood the reality of men's till today
@khurramali007
@khurramali007 3 года назад
Sir In-Laws Start Treating Daughter-In-Law as a Maid After Some Time.
@ayesha7766
@ayesha7766 3 года назад
That time won’t last forever, one day he would regret and
@waheedabashir4898
@waheedabashir4898 3 года назад
There are two reasons why parents marry their children off 1. to preserve ones chastity 2. To continue the next generation of offsprings Nowhere does it say to bring home a maid. In Islam no where does it tell you to be a maid. If your in-laws wanted that then perhaps they should pay for a maid. However, If you wish to increase the love between you and your spouse then you can support your husband with his family but it’s not obligatory upon you and one shouldn’t feel shy in expressing that.
@zurbafpoppyzurbuft9366
@zurbafpoppyzurbuft9366 3 года назад
Ap thora ca kam kr lain gi to mot nahi a jati...apny parents or apny lye bhi to kam krty han ap. Ladles admiyon sy sub kuch chahti han.....or family ko help out krty waqt selfish ho jati han
@ummakaash3380
@ummakaash3380 3 года назад
Sometimes?? No! All the times
@MNTL_Venomofficial
@MNTL_Venomofficial 3 года назад
@@zurbafpoppyzurbuft9366 app ki language bta rahi hay k app kitnay mohazzab Hain aur kis Tara treat kertay Hain logo ko
@arshiyamoin3584
@arshiyamoin3584 2 года назад
Iam blessed alhumdulliah mere husband bht acche hai bht support karte hai humdono bht khush rahete hai hala k hum saat b nie rahete hai vo Dubai mein rahete hai mein India mein reheti hu phir b alhumdulliah bht mohabbat hai sb kuch share karte hai ha kbi kbi galat fehmi hoti hai but uss masle ko wahi khatam kar dete hai risthe ko kharab hone nie dete mera aj tak aisa koi b din nie gaya bina mere husband k permission k kuch ho mein kbi kuch aisa nie karti jo k unke marzi k khilaf ho humlog k 2 bete hai inn sha allah zaroor mein koshish karungi k mere bete unke Walid jaise bane
@oneall2785
@oneall2785 3 года назад
Dil ko Thandak pauhnchti sir ko sun ker.. Doobti kachtiyo ko bachaney ko baat kertay sir hameesha. jis hud tak mumkin ho saath jurey rehne aur ALLAH per tawakal ki naat kertey sir.
@drzalikhairfan9046
@drzalikhairfan9046 3 года назад
Conditions getting worse when you r living in a join family and husband is more inclined towards his siblings and parents..uo apko usi tarah treat krna shuru kryega jaisy usky ghr waly apky bary ma sochty hai.pyr krna duur ki bat bs taunting behavior shuru hote ha bat bat pay...am a doctor.going to hospital in the morning and back to home in the evening..at home my husband is trying to find my faults and taunting me for everything..this makes me very 😢.. sometimes I want to get out of this relationship but bcz of my kids I can't take any step
@adeelkhan7065
@adeelkhan7065 3 года назад
Shohr tani hui rassi pe chalta ha joint family system ma.. Mgr m ye sochta hon k job k sath bachon aur ghr ko time dena ktna mshkl hota hoga apke leye.. Kya aisa ni hoskta k aap kch arsa job skip krden.. Phr jb ghr smbhal jaye to ksi moqa pr phr s shuru krlen Beharhaal sbr ksi b rishta ki kamyabi k lye bht zrori ha dr sahiba
@aminaraza4060
@aminaraza4060 3 года назад
Sorry for you..they have an ego problem..do not appreciate that u r working..may Allah guide n protect you 🤲❣️
@mohammad4548
@mohammad4548 3 года назад
Pursue your job so that you can get out of this tensed environment for some hours of the day ,, otherwise the house wives develope all the hypertensive diseases before age..n yes susral wants a deaf n dumb robot , who can't even breathe with her own wish n will.n they treat you like paun ki juti, even servants of the house have more respect...but mufaqat e amal happens ,it can take five to ten years or so but surely Allah rewards the sabir..
@sultansahib3304
@sultansahib3304 3 года назад
@@mohammad4548 jahan ye sb shuru ho jaye wahan mamlat ka Sahi ho Jana Aik mujza he hae... Warna bs azeyat he hissy main ati hae...ab wo sabar py depand karta hae k ktna arsa wo azeeyat leni hae
@ashowbizchannel4883
@ashowbizchannel4883 3 года назад
U are right..joint family m rhna aziyat sy km ni🙏🙏🙏
@arshdhiman9039
@arshdhiman9039 3 года назад
Love from india thanks ji 👌👌👏👏
@lifehacks9760
@lifehacks9760 3 года назад
Love from Dhanbad Jharkhand India ❤️❤️
@salmanzabha7428
@salmanzabha7428 3 года назад
What a amazing Explained
@lifehacks9760
@lifehacks9760 3 года назад
@@salmanzabha7428 bilkul
@sadiaalyas610
@sadiaalyas610 3 года назад
Lovely msg..very truely said ..investment zaruri ha rishte ki khubsurti uski mazbuti k lye or yhe hum chor dete hain.
@yahyagamerz2035
@yahyagamerz2035 3 года назад
ALLHA PAK hum subki zindgi pur skoon guzare..ameen
@quratulainainee2210
@quratulainainee2210 3 года назад
Sir if you see my comment please make a vedio of family behavior in which parents give more values and respect to earning child and always taunt jobless child and alwaya give examples of others
@muhammadharoon3591
@muhammadharoon3591 3 года назад
Ye un logon k liye ha jo parhy likhy Han ya un me kuch shaoor hy jahil logon ko izzat dy k daikha to wo khud ko pta ni kya samjny lag jaty Han aik parhi likhi biwi ko an parh shohar bht mushkil zindagi ho jati hy.
@saifuali2654
@saifuali2654 3 года назад
Very so much reality ........ Izat do tu ulta sir pr cherh jatay hain k hum tu ye hi izat deserve krte hain.....
@anonlinetech8506
@anonlinetech8506 2 года назад
The strongest people make time to help others,Even They are Struggling with Their Own Problems, Your One Click can make me happy God Bless You🤲❣k
@worshipthecreator9081
@worshipthecreator9081 2 года назад
The prophet (pbuh) said "The best of Man is the one that is best to his wife".
@saimaahmad9449
@saimaahmad9449 2 года назад
The Prophet (PBUH)
@muhamamd784
@muhamamd784 3 года назад
Bwain bohat poyari hoti hain insan mai akal hni chye only kesay bewian hamari itni khidmat krti hain
@queenfalak6439
@queenfalak6439 3 года назад
Bilkul bhai
@zafar6e
@zafar6e 3 года назад
دلوں کی ۔۔۔۔الجھنیں۔۔۔ بڑھتی رہیں گی ۔ اگر کچھ مشورے باہم نہ ہوں گے
@sumramajeed9211
@sumramajeed9211 3 года назад
I only cried when listening to u .... Because I tried many times to communicate but he takes me wrong and always say k behas NHi kro ...
@S25ish
@S25ish 3 года назад
A relationship needs nurturing. One big obsticle is ego..another is how we are brought up and traditions. Parents train girls to be ready for marriage life like to treat a husband how to take care of ghardari and everything inbetween. On the ther hand men are raised to be served and obeyed and they are not corrected when making mistakes. Bacha hai bacha hai.. He then becomes a burden on his wife physically emotionally and mentally, and he expects her to chup chap sehti rahe. Society makes it worse because it overpowers religion
@MdImran-zs4cm
@MdImran-zs4cm 3 года назад
جاوید اقبال صاحب.......! السلام علیکم و رحمتہ اللہ و برکاتہ، میں محمد عمران قادری...... انڈیا کے صوبہ مغربی بنگال کا رہائشی ہوں، آپ کا ہر وڈیو بڑے ہی توجہ سے سنتا ہوں، میں آپ سے بہت متاثر ہوں، اللہ عزوجل آپ کو نیکیوں بھری طویل عمر عطا فرمائے اور آپ کو سلامت رکھے.......
@AbuFatima
@AbuFatima 3 года назад
Once a wise man said; You can’t live with a woman and cants live without a woman.
@Maria-vp6iy
@Maria-vp6iy 3 года назад
Ha ha🤣
@saqibhussain4021
@saqibhussain4021 3 года назад
You are really a wise man
@raashidakhan744
@raashidakhan744 3 года назад
Her insan ka apna experience hota hai jo dr sahib ap keh rhy hain wo her kisi per apply nai hota her insan separate tabiyat ka hota hai aek insan ezat deta rhy dusra usko pagal samjhty to bardast ki bhi had hoti hai
@mshahbazriasat
@mshahbazriasat 3 года назад
بہت خوبصورت باتیں ۔۔۔ شعر جو آپ نے سُنایا وہ غالباََ حفیظ ہوشیار پوری کا ہے
@safiafaisal4254
@safiafaisal4254 3 года назад
sir ap ke sari batin thek hain.. mgr yoh husband jo apni wife ko ar beechon ko time nhi dety .. joint family m rhty hovy ; parents ar bhen bhiyoun ke waja sy... un k bary m kiya khin gy..
@snackworld5001
@snackworld5001 3 года назад
😑
@romeoprince4164
@romeoprince4164 3 года назад
وہ کام👨‍🏭 ہی مت کرو جس 🎗️کو کرنے کے بعد معافی🙏 مانگنا پڑے👉
@mansoorahmed9578
@mansoorahmed9578 3 года назад
Sir you are inspiration to medical students plz also make videos for students THANK YOU 😍
@rightway5514
@rightway5514 3 года назад
Whenever any real change will come whenever any prosperity will come whenever any peace will come whenever any justice will come in Pakistan just form deeny Mustafa sallallah o allyhi wallihi wassallim so we should vote and support only for TLP without any greediness
@sshaikh8104
@sshaikh8104 3 года назад
Most of husband take it for grant
@fatimaali5622
@fatimaali5622 3 года назад
Right
@badarswati450
@badarswati450 3 года назад
Society me dekha jaey to ghaltiyan dono taraf se hoti hain. Hamara almiya ye hy k Females or males aik dosry ko criticize karty hain. But I think kisi jaga aik responsible ho to dosry case me dosra responsible hoga.
@muhamamd784
@muhamamd784 3 года назад
We take forgranted but when we think deeply how a lady 👩 leave her every thing for a man to give him new generation when i think i cry ....we cannot leave our home for a day and girl leave for ever so if someone do for u and go to that extend we males also die for such relation
@muhamamd784
@muhamamd784 3 года назад
But we as a males should give females some space they r not like males they r soft their minds are also diffrent from males we should give them some space in case they made mistakes
@Saida_Sithik_Ali
@Saida_Sithik_Ali 3 года назад
U r right🥲
@ARWORLDinUK
@ARWORLDinUK 3 года назад
Husbands aisa kuch sun'na b pasand nhi karty aur na he ye batain samjhty hain kash apki soch har mard ki soch hoti
@wow..2860
@wow..2860 3 года назад
Yes u r right
@ARWORLDinUK
@ARWORLDinUK 3 года назад
@@wow..2860 😊
@gulfamkhanam1976
@gulfamkhanam1976 3 месяца назад
Allah Pak apse razi hun. Aameen
@Nazriz5234
@Nazriz5234 3 года назад
Sir mera b yhi khyal hy.meri yeh wali soch bilkul aap ki trha hy.k yeh jo rishta hy bht aham hy.aap ki yh video ki iss waqt mujhy bht zaroorat thii.thank you sir.
@Badbuggycheater
@Badbuggycheater 3 года назад
ALLAH kray aap ka gher hmesha basta rahay Mom of m.ali
@mehsharhabib1692
@mehsharhabib1692 3 года назад
Love from india...
@lodhi9337
@lodhi9337 3 года назад
سول ہسپتال بھاولپور میں ڈاکٹرز کی دستیابی یقینی بنایں کرونا کے مریضوں کا کوی پرسان حال نہیں
@nasirshabih1405
@nasirshabih1405 3 года назад
Are you in your senses
@hcgdco2537
@hcgdco2537 3 года назад
Bht zabrdast ser...sari mery dil o dmag ki batyn ki hn apny...
@fouzianoreen9102
@fouzianoreen9102 3 года назад
Sir.....mashaAllah yr health n weight is getting more maintained ....keep it u... ( physicality )PQ is improving...
@samarbaloch263
@samarbaloch263 3 года назад
U r right sir Communication is key but man would say u r always complaining... even discussing in soft n positive way that what I'm going through because of your ignorance . Eventually they pretend they r victims and you r evil 😓 what to do in that scenario
@saimashahid9239
@saimashahid9239 3 года назад
@samar baloch this is so so true
@nageen90
@nageen90 3 года назад
What if communication is done but action is never taken even aftr communicating... doesnt tht bring more hostility
@samanrajputofficial8197
@samanrajputofficial8197 3 года назад
Same funda with me
@fatimarehman3031
@fatimarehman3031 3 года назад
Exactly ...action is taken and than again the same🤣🤣😡
@teena786
@teena786 2 года назад
Islam main husband wife k jo farz and right hn wo pory dono kren tu achi life guzary gy InShaAllah, and agr husband wife ko respect and muhabbat dyn ghar walon k samny beizzat na kren tu wife ko or kuch nahi chay hota, aurat apny maa bap relative sab bhol jati hai agr shohar acha ho, usy respect dy us ki madad kre apny ghar walon ko khush krny main apny ghar walon ko khush karny k lye us ki bazti na kre tu Wo dekhy ga us ki wife main positive change ay gi.
@mrsumer7753
@mrsumer7753 3 года назад
100 % durust frmaya . yh azmai hue baatain hain in se faida uthana chahye na k sun k unsuni kar dain
@yunusemre550
@yunusemre550 3 года назад
روزانہ نماز میں ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ میں کرتا کیا ہوں ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ ؟ اللہ کی تعریف کرنے کے بعد کہتا ہوں کہ اے اللہ.... تو مجھے سیدھا راستہ دیکھا.... اب اللہ پوچھتا ہے بندے سے اچھا۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ تو سیدھے راستے پر چلنا چاھتا ہے...؟ تو پھر میری کوئی آیت پڑھ ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ تو فرض کریں میں سورہ الحجرات کی یہ آیت پڑھتا ہوں اے ایمان والو بہت زیادہ گمانوں سے بچو- کیونکہ بعض گمان گناہ ہوتے ہیں اور ٹوہ میں نہ لگو- اور تم میں سے کوئی کسی کی غیبت نہ کرے- نماز کے بعد میں عملی زندگی میں جاتا ہوں اور اپنے نفس کو ان آیات پر عمل کرواتا ہوں جو میں نماز میں سن کر یا پڑھ کر آتا ہوں اور مزید درس حاصل کرنے کے لیے اور ان باتوں کو ذہن نشین کرنے کے لیے پانچ وقت مسجد میں جاتا ہوں --- اور اللہ سے کہتا ہوں کہ اے اللہ میں نے اپنے نفس کو عملی زندگی میں تیرے احکامات پر عمل کروایا اور اب میرا جسم بھی تیری فرماداری میں جھکا ہوا ہے گویا نماز فرمابرداری کی انتہا ہے - میں تو اس لیے نماز کو قائم کرتا ہوں ....مجھے یہ سمجھنے میں کئ سال لگے آپ کو اتنا وقت نہ لگے اس لیے شئیر کررہا ہوں دوسرا عربی میں الصَّلَاةَ کا مطلب ہی کسی چیز فالو کرنا یا پر عمل کرنا ہے
@shaguftahmoin1958
@shaguftahmoin1958 3 года назад
Agar koi communicate hi na kerna chahey
@sohailnajmi5118
@sohailnajmi5118 3 года назад
Ap hussband ko nakhra dekhaia karo
@BATen-Yaden-Masti-Nazaary
@BATen-Yaden-Masti-Nazaary 3 года назад
@@sohailnajmi5118 tum or mamlaaat kharb kro unk.... Mashwara de kr..
@areejtales
@areejtales 3 года назад
@@BATen-Yaden-Masti-Nazaary hehehhe
@malihmefeslamnzornhichhipa6624
@malihmefeslamnzornhichhipa6624 3 года назад
دعا میں بڑی طاقت ہوتی ہے
@arifmemon4461
@arifmemon4461 3 года назад
kuch time k lea dafa kr do khud he aqal ajaege, yahe to masla ha , ek simple se bt ha jb khana bht zeyada samne rakha hota ha to dakh k pet bhar jata ha, wese he agar orat mukamal mel jae to mard k je bhar jata ha to es lea kuch dore lazmi ha, fasle bht zarore hn taake mojodge or germojodgi k ahsas baki rahe. its my practice nd usefull.
@mumslife05
@mumslife05 16 дней назад
reading all the comments here seems like its not only me that is facing such problems or been thinking such things etc etc . its universal problem now a days ! 😐
@raheelsharif6316
@raheelsharif6316 2 года назад
This matreminial relations should be based on trust ,care and respect and it's the trusted name of honesty and compromise ..but highlighting your problems on social media is ridiculous .never ever involve third party person in your relation .only person which will be suffered will be your children's only .I will personally like to marry mature lady only with great educated mind and know how to handle the family and home and children's in my absence .
@mihbaarmalik5117
@mihbaarmalik5117 3 года назад
Wonderful propagation Sir. But with due respect, I'd like to do a little correction regarding poetry which you used. The poet's name is Hafeez Hoshiarpuri, not Tufail Hoshiarpuri and it's 'Dilon ki ULJHANEN bharti rahen gi Agr khch mashware baham na hn ge.'
@ryana8232
@ryana8232 3 года назад
Brilliant answer why don’t they teach all this in school every year every day then there will be zero divorce rate in Pakistan 🇵🇰
@ahmednaeem5966
@ahmednaeem5966 3 года назад
Reason to add social n literature subject is this type of training. However selection of material, teaching quality n methodology are poor
@shawakhan9073
@shawakhan9073 3 года назад
ماشاء بہت خوب جناب اللہ آپ کو جزائے خیر سے نوازے اور دنیا و آخرت کی خوشیاں عطا فرمائے آمین ثم آمین یا رب العالمین ابو عبداللہ خان
@sajjad3636
@sajjad3636 2 года назад
Bohat Acha massage dia ha aur bohat achi baat ki ha
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