😂😂😂😂 No more than 2 friends, no FaceTime after 5pm, no chicken in the air fryer, no pink lip gloss, no using the dishwasher, no contact lenses, no shopping at Target, no Jamaican food, no braids, no singing in the shower, no open toe shoes, no dentist every 6 months, no Tide detergent, no reading books, no Colgate toothpaste users, no Netflix subscriptions, no ordering off Amazon, no car air fresheners, no talking to your sister on the weekend, no hobbies that he can’t pronounce, no laughing more than 6 seconds at a time.. HE AIN’T HAVING NUNNA THAT!!!!
I work at a country club and most of the members are million and billionaires. I’m a plus size bw and I’ll just say they tip very well just to have a good genuine conversation. They offer me life advice that has really changed my life for the better , and yes they tip well. They have been some of the best men to be around. They helped me realize how important it is for me to get healthy and take care of myself and most importantly to stay away from men like this. Ladies there’s a whole different world out there of men who are really amazing. Trust me when I say work your way to get around those men it will really change ur life.
@ourtruth216 when 1 of those rich men u talk about talk 2 u and ask u simple questions, do u respond like this or are u a lot more humble and compliant?
Jay 39 sounding like he's 69 from the cilvil rights movement lol. I don't know how somebody is going to cope with Jay with all that carrying on, but good luck to him. Jay cussed that girl out from the comments lol. He is who he is smh lol
YADDA YADDA YADDA YA.... Play your position, don't get out of pocket. And no woman would have a problem with Jay. You poke the BULL, don't complain when you get stuck with it's horns!
Not really understand, genuinely, why not being obese or even overweight classify all women as a 10. Even a slight puge gets women called chubby in my countries where any woman over 130 lbs is called fat.
First thing that came to mind. My father is abusive. Even to this day … I saw it as a child and my mother (who left him asap) has showed me the signs. Hes a red flag
The way he snapped with the “These women making me smoke cigarettes.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 (I fell out!) Jay is sick of y’all’s s**t!! What big girl hurt little man’s feelings??!! 😂😂😂😂
6mins in Bruh said no to outside. No extra curricular activities. No eyelashes. No BBLs. No fun. No laughing. No Not even a Uber eats order placed on his watch.
Here’s a tip: If you’re on a dating app, focus on what you DO want and not what you DON’T want. List all of the things you want in a partner to attract that person. Not only is he overly aggressive but that long list of dealbreakers will turn off a lot of good women. Every time I would see a man talk about all the negatives in their profiles I would just skip them. They look like complainers and pessimists. Keep your energy POSITIVE. You have plenty time to discuss all the things you don’t like on the date.
Excellent advice. He spending too much time worrying about the wrong things. I can't believe he called women on assistance welfare Queens. That was so disrespectful ...
@@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164maybe he's mad he can't get it I be mad everytime I pay 150$ for 6 items so I just order everyday instead cause I can get 4 combos with a drink, side n biscuits/dessert for25$ with delivery fees so it's cheaper than buying groceries honestly
Sorry, not sorry. Respectfully, as a man, this brother lacks character and absolutely has no personality. From the start he don't want this or that, or this or that for the whole duration. Then he wants a woman to respect him? Really???? Evil world we living in....
Your truth is refreshing. He's a very angry person, it's exhausting just listening to him. He needs to find happiness first before trying to date ANYONE
Everyone in a relationship is not blessed and lucky! Single is a blessing especially these days! You never really know what people are in the relationship for!! 💯💯💯💯💯
His requirements are not unreasonable. Men do not want a fat woman or a woman who is shallow and superficial. Maybe he is the wrong person to express this because he comes off so abrasive and angry.
Jay said something very profound, women don’t want regular guys, they want the street guy or the 100K professional guy. The guys in the middle, the average guys are ignored.
I really wanted to give him a hug. He's definitely solid on who he is as a person. I hope he's able to find someone who will fill him emotionally with love.
I think he needs to go see a therapist & I'm not even trying to be funny or sarcastic! Everyone is dealing with alot right & it helps to have a safe place to vent & process what you're dealing with! If he doesn't, it will manifest itself it other harmful ways! So, yea I pray he gets the help he needs🙏🏾.
@@gangsterofluv2990 cussin your partner out is verbal abuse. You people need therapy and learn healthier ways of communicating. You obviously didn’t know that wasn’t normal
I’m sorry, he wouldn’t add anything to the life of the type of woman he wants. A gorgeous homebody who makes enough money to support herself FOR SURE isn’t about to listen to that every day lol.
Everybody gonna skip over the fact that he definitely didn't "hold frame" and just say he was being straight up lol bout to have a Myron moment on Kendra G lmao
After watching the whole thing, I like the fact that he admitted to being a big abrasive and he was open to hearing what Kendra had to say. I respect that.
You can't tell alot of them that though because they hit you with the typical response of, "well thats because they just treat us better", "they're not masculine", "they treat us like a king", "they're not problematic", "they don't blink or breathe too much" (insert sarcasm)! And before the keyboard warriors come for my comment, no need. Lol Smh 🤦♀️
It's OKAY when a woman speaks out what she wants for herself. But it's a PROBLEM when men speaks what they want. And I agree with this gentleman. Don't settle for any woman that weight is more than yours!
I actually like Jay. I could tell by how he came off, that he has been hurt before. With some tweaking, I think Jay can find what he is looking for. But it won't be the woman with the best body. She nay have a bit of a tummy. Or a little bigger than what be wants. Good livk Jay. He's funny and is aware of his flaws.
Ladies, if you're smart steer clear of this 🥷 he is CRAZY... His mood was all over the place. Can you imagine trying to watch TV at home and this fool comes in screaming.. I thought Kendra was gonna need security when he started talking about his flaws and his cigarettes. 😂😂 🚬 🚭 🚬 🚭
He has been hurt. His next woman will be murdered if he don't get help. He is an angry person. Only Jesus can help him. Date him at your own risk while walking on eggshells. Did you see him at the end making the gun signs? Ladies, run. He needs help. Remember you cannot change this man. Jesus Christ is Lord.
He was definitely hilarious, but let’s be serious he 39 wearing a batman hat then came back in a mario hat having a severe conniption! i’m sure if the avg 39yr old man stand next to Jay, women gonna chose the other guy everytime
