@@allyswaytarot Maybe you can help me understand, I've been asking in several post now why she had to have the whole weekend to celebrate her birthday when she already had a big party on her actual birthday...
@@Blessed224her Birthday was the night they had the cake. That behavior from Tamar was Childish, and if anyone doesn't see anything wrong with that must b a child themselves.
connie ryan Exactly! It was a wonderful time to propose. While the family was all together to witness it. They are all always scattered and they were all together to add to the families happiness. What would make anyone feel that nothing good or memorable could happen to anyone else butvthem on their birthday?? A FIVE YEAR OLD or a pathetic attention starved nimrod.
@@nfinitymonet8257 - I think they were trying to move forward with some positivity. Tamar had been tripping from day one - even before anyone could celebrate her birthday. Complaining about what she'd better get and how she better be treated - WTF! Her narcissism is unbearable. And at the end of the day she needs some serious help and that's no joke. Now - try convincing her of that would be comparable to convincing Trump of the same.
@@Mmmt00. Yeah I see ur point and its not like she hasnt had around 40 birthdays already. I just wonder what got into trina's man... he knows what tamars like 😅
U said it all right there! The only time she wasn't mad and acting a fool was when Tracy was all hurt! Taybrat sat there eating all happy when she wouldn't even put her fork down during Grace the day before ugh I'm through
I am because I thought Tamar matured since her split from Vince she interviewed with someone I can't think of who it was now but she talked about her new love and how she changed but since that Instagram snap on the girl who said hello to her new man I beginning to think maybe Tamar was born with a disorder because she's old to be my mother well close to it and im shocked my mother acts nothing like this I never seen her in a moment like Tamar gets but Tamar is the baby correct me if im wrong she must have been some kind of spoiled where she never grew up it disgusts me that she embarrasses herself like that SMH
Gg Goddess exactly. The problem is that they’ve all spoiled Tamar and let her act anyway she wants cuz she’s “the baby” and they’re supposed to let it slide. She’s over 40 years old!!!! They need to address her as such and stop letting her disrespect people every which way cuz if they don’t do something she’ll never grow up and it’s their fault cuz they’re enabling it
@@zannia5510 I agree indeed it's funny cause I thought for so long she was in her 20s when I found out she was in her 40s im like WOW...You are right she needs some work and what other way besides her family who's a great support system for her since they created it...I feel bad for her raising that little boy but they say anyone can be a mother but not a mom and it takes a village to raise a child up...💜
@@eveleo5066 Yes I see funny how God works I just learned what a narcissist is it's sad I pray she gets it together also I thought it was the other sister that's always left out or you don't see as much when I seen that it was this sister I was like WOW... I would have never thought in amill years she would do that to her... That women been through so much and im sure she's still weathering the storm through her walk... Tamar is crazy SMH...
I remember Von posted that they partied with Tay on her actual Bday (March 17th), with Karaoke and drinks (I saw the video), they did this trip as couples later that month and did a Bday Dinner with Cake the night before (it aired lastweek on BFV) and that this was dinner night that was not just for Tays bday. He also said that Trina always said that she wanted her sisters around if he ever proposed and it's hard to get them all in one place at one time, so he did it then. Tamar's actions were very childish and If that dude of hers doesn't see the red flags, he will regret it later. It's been TOO MANY times that this 40+ year old woman has displayed her childish behavior and even this she's used to say Vince was controlling, she can not blame him for her reactions. This is all her and I don't know how they continue to not call her out on it. Well, at least Tracy does, the others seem to just tap her on the wrist not wanting to hurt her feelings, but she has no problem hurting everyone elses.
Natalie RE man Tamar is an ole fool and where I come from they say it’s noting wrong with being a young fool just don’t be an old one and she is too old to behave this way I would never waste my good dime time or energy with her nonsense I can get all money back but my wasted time I’ll respectfully bow out
This is why I don't care for tamar..she too damn childish and selfish.I don't think we could be sisters..I wouldn't even tolerate her as a friend.🤦♀️👎
Tamar’s birthday is March 17, Von proposed on the 27th or 28th and They celebrated Tamar’s birthday with a cake, card, and gifts that she complained about the day before. It was not her Birthday, her birthday dinner, or her moment! Period! And anyone who thinks this behavior is acceptable needs help! 🤦🏾♀️
She's wild outta control and her sister and mother all contribute to her ways because they always bite their tongue not wanting to hurt her feelings but she's don't care for theirs. I never forget when she told Towanda that her baby father was a babysitter to her kids😑 and Townada fliped. I saw it right in that moment she has a reckless mouth and attitude to fit it
Bombshell _ No, Tamar just thinks everything is about her! She wanted everybody to celebrate her birthday every day in Napa and nobody was doing that for her spoiled ass!
Come on now. Tamar is special. She gets a whole damn month for her 42 year old ass birthday. Those sisters were selfish for trying to steal Tamar’s ‘moment’ when they should have known that they needed to kiss Tamar’s ass the whole damn trip. They forgot the pedestal that Tamar was supposed to stand on all weekend? They forgot the pony ride and the clowns? They forgot to invite a marching band and buy her a Burkin bag and Manolo shoes? Shit. No wonder Tamar is upset. #sarcasm #tamarisrotted
Ok be mad, but why she gotta say "f**k her, I ain't talking to that b***h!". Why she have to talk like that about her sister. Anyone else catch that? That's sad...
It's sad! This world is filled with enough hatred. But, to act that way to your sisters on tv is a disgrace. I can only hope evelyn stepped in once she saw that aweful episode.
Saphaaryi Lynox don’t matter you should not react like a CHILD maybe this was the only opportunity he had to surprise them and have all the family together
Please! It was tacky of him to do that. If he really wanted it special, he would've gathered her family in another surprise gathering for Trina and not during her sister's weekend celebration.
I 100 percent understand her frustration and also feel that wasnt cool but dont make a scene like that... express how u feel like an adult. this is coming from a 15 year old
I love how Trina falls into her big sister Traci's arm for a warm embrace. She is the only sister I can see that actually gives her the true love and respect that she deserves!
Gurrrrrrrl.....grow up. Then she cussing And storming out. So disrespectful. But she will continue to get shows because people tune in to this foolishness
Tamar this world doesn't surround around you boo boo. 😔 Congrats to Trina and her fiance. 💍 . Toni tried to help Tamar. I see why they call Tanar ( monster 👾. Tamar need to act like a grown woman.
This proposal was tacky. My man better not propose to me on someone's else's celebration day. I want my own shine and spot light. And his face better be filled with joy and not dismay.😒
L it’s just a Fuxing day! She had 40+ days that they celebrated with her. You can’t be happy for your sister and at the same time let her know about herself! It’s not that deep, you probably have the same poor attitude as Tamar
@@Dekthagr8 I don't have a poor attitude, what I do have is consideration for others. Dude could have chosen 364 other days to plan a thoughtful proposal to his queen. He chose to be lazy about it. Don't get me wrong, I'm not sticking up for Tamar. She could have faked the funk but old dude is the one I'm giving a side eye to. But hey to each their own.
I don't understand the confusion about why Tamar got fired from THE REAL wouldn't y'all fire her too!!!! She's way to disrespectful, confrontational, and childish and ain't no employer putting up with that on the level that Tamar dishes it out.....
The fans see your a crazy Lil girl and David should run the same way Vince did before you break his bank account and feelings like you did Vince. This bish is crazy
TAMAR YOU ARE NOT 5 !!!!!! He didn't try to upstage her everyone was there he just figured it was a good time to pop the question! ERRRRRRTIME TAMAR states she's going to do BETTER......just wait 4 mins...thennnnnnnn IMMATURE.... BULLSHITTTTTTT?!!!
If it was my birthday party and my sister got engaged at My function. I would totally be over the moon and happy. This is sad! Such selfish, jealous behavior on a whole new level #shocked!
@Tina Hang And thats a good excuse to call your sister a b**ch? And behave that way?..Normal ppl would let their sister have the moment and talk about it afterwards.
@Tina Hang How much celebrating does one grown person need...her birthday dinner was celebrated the night before the proposal and she wasn't happy with it because she didn't get a lot of expensive gifts. She refused to eat the cake because Toni didn't pull a plug out of it and that's only a few ways she showed her childishness. Toni was right Tamar needs to grow up, a whole weekend in a beautiful setting like that can be shared with other moments than your (what is this her 15th birthday...no her 20th...no her...40 something) birthday. Share the moments...they're getting older and life comes to an end.
She's literally acting like a twelve-year-old. Thank goodness I'm not Trina I would have had the wedding on her birthday just out of spite. #TeamPetty.
I'm beginning to seriously wonder if Tamar is just putting on an act for tv and to make the show interesting because can't nobody actually be that rude, nasty and toxic!!! EVELYN GET YOUR CHILD!!! 🤦🏾♀️
Intresting thing is they never run after Traci only Tamar this episode had me looking at the family a certain way. I know its all for TV and all but dammmmmmmmn
I genuinely thought at some point she was an act but with time I realize she got serious mental and psychological issues. It makes me worry about the child she's raising.
At almost 40 years old everyone is tired of her bratty behavior!!! Smh. Yes its ur birthday but still be happy and support ur sister. Especially after losing Gabe and having the courage to love again. Fast forwarding parts of Lame-mar when she comes on. Where's Iyanla when u need her??
This nonsense would have been prevented had Von, told Tamar of his intention to propose since it was her birthday, so I am still going to give a pass to Tamar.
U know Tamar is caught up in the life. She's worried about the fans see the proposal on her live on her birthday??? I have a cousin who has attributes like Tamar and it made it hard for me 2 like her. We dont speak. Tamar is so insecure its pathetic. How do people be friends with this girl?
@@imperfectlyguided8098 no this was Tamar birthday weekend trip not weeks later Traci birthday hadn't came it's shortly after Tamar's.. I feel like the whole trip was distasteful on the sisters part it wasn't even Tamar this time
No, he wasn't...they have celebrated like 3hundred and 50thousand days for Tamar's birthday...how much celebration does a 40something need...like someone else posted I'm exhausted with all the celebrating she's had for this birthday, and the sad part is she wasn't happy with what they did...(even before the proposal). She should have been happy to share with her sisters. They're not getting any younger...
Jalesa Jenkins I’m sorry but why would you do that on someone’s birthday. So rude init.... I would be pissed and think really you couldn’t wait till the next day or the day before ..
That's family, her own sister, I would be super happy for my sister. And I would be honored, that they picked my birthday to purpose. More good memories. People who get upset, need jesus.
It wasn’t even her actual birthday though. They had already celebrated her birthday on the actual day and had another celebration the night before he proposed. And why would that ever warrant you calling your own blood sister a bitch?
@@lovebrittt I think a lot of people are missing that. This birthday has been celebrated how many times now... geesh Tamar get over it! Be happy for your sister and share the moment...life is short.
Let me compose my thoughts. OK - Tamar has been a kill-joy the entire trip. So - others saw the opportunity to make it about something. I clearly have empathy for Vince after seeing the type of control she lays on David. Just wait intil those Nigerian women get her on their turf - have mercy. Tamar even went as far as to bring her fans into the fray - WTF. She's a selfish child that will never grow up. Just give her her own show staring her. She's a female Trump and thats about as sad as it gets. Never takes responsibility, never wrong - who the fuck has that right of passage?
I just hope his family saw those last two episodes and called him up immediately and so "NO..... Don't bring that woman here!" She is going to ruin him. Snap out of it David!!!
His proposal was a little off and should've been done with a bit more thought and taste. But I can't stand Tamar....she is always so tacky and over dramatic about everything! David is way too good for her -- hope he sees it before its too late.
Thank you! Look at his body language and attitude. He doesn't even turn around. He just looked at her like "B...are you going to clear the floor or what?'
I haven't watched this episode yet but wasnt her bdae dinner the night before??when Toni didnt take the cake and she got mad 🤣, how many times are they going to celebrate her... I really dont know if Tamar does this for TV only but man I'm EXHAUSTED and I only see her for 42mins once a week🤦🏿♀️. Lord they are patient, Tamar wouldn't survive in my family 🤣🤣🤣.. I watched the episode and it's disgusting and sad, Tracy clearly has been holding a whole lot inside and this just sent her over the edge. I'm not saying shes perfect but shes been dealt some pretty horrible cards. I was actually disappointed the most by Toni, if Tamar had called Birdman jailbird or brought up his tax issues or anything from his very colorful past she'd have tried to choke Tamars dead body bcz Bird would have shot her on sight 🤣.
EXACTLY! I remember a video where they actually did a Karaoke Party for Tamar on her actual bday March 17th. They got engaged on March 26th! Yes, they did celebrate with a dinner the night before this it aired lastweek! Tamar is a mess!
Honestly he should have proposed on a different day! Now everytime they remember their proposal it will be tainted with bad memories. He should have went a little extra and made that day all about Trina not on Tamar's bday.
I AGREE, I am the same way about my birthday. its the one day a year where its about me and an engagement takes away from that, and her sisters should understand that.
I like Tamar but she is so darn childish. Like after all your sister just went through she acts a fool. I can’t do Tamar’s antics. Just bratty and disrespectful
This is the first time when I feel tamar is right. It is her birthday and it was her birthday dinner. It was selfish on trinas now fiance I guess to do that. Especially when he knew it was her birthday
Lol. Why Trina’s husband like this? Proposing like he a bouncer at the club. “Will you marry me” arms all crossed, chest out, nostrils flaring 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 He a trip 😃😃😃
I've really tried to excuse Tamar, however, this is team too much. Her damn birthday was the night before when she was pissed that Toni didn't put her cough hands into the cake. This girl is ridiculous. Run David. She is too immature for a grown man
it’s not a big deal to most people but to tamar it is. If you remember on Iyanla fix my life, she said that Tamar’s outbursts are triggered by feelings of not feeling seen, validated and ignored. So in her mind her birthday just got erased by the engagement. It’s a valid emotion to Tamar and she should have atleast been informed by the soon to be brother in law beforehand.
I keep asking the question...how much celebration does Tamar need for one birthday? That weekend was after her actual birthday...they already had a party for her...Lalah Hathaway sang. On this weekend they had a dinner just for her birthday and gave her a gift she did not appreciate. He saw a moment and took it the day after her dinner celebration. So how can her birthday be erased by the engagement when it's been celebrated how many times now... This not her 16th birthday or her 18th or 21st, this girl is 40something, it's time to get over not feeling seen, validated and ignored...it's time for her to let it go, grow up and realize she has sisters...they are not getting any younger and life is short.
Who she calling a bit++? It's not her sister's fault. What she suppose to do stop the proposal while in motion? Bet Tamar those type of people who announce every day for weeks that her birthday is coming...count down to b day basically. Then the day OF she acts like a birthzilla. Everything offends her the moment the focus is placed on another person.... Look at me, look at me, look at me!!!!! God forbid they use a minut amount of lip movement to wish their other sister Tracy a happy birthday. Does she want family members or robots? #rentafamily.needy #lovedontcostathing #juststop
Y’all crazy as hell acting like Tamar is over reacting I wish someone would get engage on MY birthday at MY party 🤣🤣🤣 wtf that’s mad disrespectful... I will say though calling Trina a bitch for it was outta line everything else understandable 🤷🏾♀️
All of acting like your f'ing birthday is so sacred. Is your name Jesus Christ and you were born on December 25th? No? Then celebrate your ONE day out of the year and keep it moving. Sorry but the world keeps moving...even on birthdays. Should we have cake and ice cream now?
Myronn Coleman the trip was set for her birthday, it was Tamar’s idea to have the trip. It’s still disrespectful and should have been some line of communication. Tamar fussin about her birthday not being celebrated right and thought it was the right time to propose 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
So rude of them to get engage on some ones birthday . i see why she got mad . wait till your at home or on your way home . your there to celebrate Tamar birthday.
Tamar is very selfish, this is your sister. Please don’t steal someone else joy. Birthday comes once a year but getting engaged comes once in a blue moon.
