I am a 22 year old. Until now, I haven't smoked, drank alcohol, or done any other addictive substances. I have a lot of close friends who drink and smoke - during my 4 years of hostel life, 99% of the guys would smoke or drink. But I didn't, because I feel it's not right. I know that if I ever did those things, I would be ashamed of myself, and I don't want that. Let's talk about virginity. I am still a virgin. I do feel natural cravings sometimes, but I just can't ruin my character. I've had chances to lose my virginity but told myself not to, just to satisfy some cravings. So many people tease me for that, saying I'm not living life to the fullest. But really, they are ruining their lives. I am old school - I will stay pure for my future wife. Yes, I am still single, because I don't want meaningless relationships or flings. We old school people are always looking for something pure and permanent.✌️
@@sweet4sweet the thing is finding a girl who have value is tough these days and I did find some girl with value and morals but due to some reason I know marriage is not goona happen so I desided to step back.
@@prajwal_shindee not lifetime make girlfriends too but keep them as friends until you find someone special, I made many good friends. This way you'll also not get distracted and focus on your career with any rona dhona and drama
Leaving your girlfriend after she got r*ped is like leaving your partner in their worst time... She needs support at that time and not only as a boyfriend but as a human, you should support her.
But bro, in this generation we can't trust someone even after marrying. I've seen people falling in love, marrying immediately and getting divorced/cheated once their desires are fulfilled.
@@yuvrajbagul6690 It happens in arranged marriages as well. I'm just trying to tell you that just because we are married doesn't mean he/she is the right person. We never know when that person will cheat on us. It can happen immediately after marriage, 5 years later, 10 years later or 20 years later also. And of course I'm against these casual relationships. I'm a one man woman and I want my man to be a one woman man. But, life is uncertain. Nobody can be trusted completely.
Its really cruel. Because of marriage laws. Check the brought up of the girl. That matters a lot Usually I can see working parents, and the girl is humble. Knows what difficulty is Business parents daughters are far too entitled
Sometimes i feel, how there's someone who has similar thoughts, in my college too people consider me as old school, and i'm proudly an old school girl. Thought of people still having same pure thoughts in this generation gives me immense happiness 🥹❤️
That's why I like the wolf ..bcuz he choose only one life partner and live the rest of the life with her 🤧..... Are we greater than animals but worst than humans 👀
I have heard this same words from my professor in our lecture during my second year" we preserve our bodies for our spouse"..... And after 6 years, I'm hearing it out loud in a social media..... I'm really happy about this, that we gen z really have a good understanding of what virginity is, ( where we usually stereotyped as gen z, which i feel is a myth- atleast partially)
The actual point is not about the V!rg!n!ty, the actual point is about the person who has clear mindset on not to cheat or treachery to their future partner. A r@ed girl hadn't a mindset to cheat on her future partner, its an accident so it's not her fault
@@aniket3902 i said that everyone has there own pref. Btw i m in a healthy relationship for 3 years she was a victim of rape ,it happen to her when she was 10 yo
Bhairav, I think you might be wrong: marriage is indeed a big commitment, but the fact, that a woman or a man takes upon that commitment, it doesn't mean it's gonna work for life: some marriagies fail, some marriagies are taken too lightly, some other marriagies are either forced or are made by convenience (money, fame...) and some of these failing marriagies often end up in cheating rather than divorce; marriage doesn't have the same importance as when our grandparents married: mines still deeply love each other at 90 yo. This said, I've followed your videos for a long time and you have my respect for the message you're sharing from time to time.
Bro , the reality you told is truth, but here in this video, bhairav was relating marriage to virginity, that it should be satisfied only with the person whom you marry that was the point he trying to make! ( it turns out in this gen that there are many ex-husbands and wives wandering in the streets , so the only way to lose virginity with your soul mate is... by marrying the person you think your soul mate will be and wait till both of their age turn to " 80 " where you both will not even think of cheating, and you can have segs and hence confirm your soul mate! ... and have segs many times afterward😌(it's only my op))
@@Lonewolf-ui7dudo 90% of marriages end like this ??????? How many percentage of marriages did you see these things ??? Stop blaming marriage for this type of stupid things
I thought only I had this mindset but even my mentor has this. Of course, if a girl is touched without her permission, then there is not even 1℅ of wrong from the girl's side. Heads up siters, you have the courage to face this society 😊
Marriage doesn't give you guarntee that he or she will never cheats you,what if the person who was genuine untill marrige goeson to cheating after a few years of marriage,what the other person should do,is she divorce the cheated partener and live the rest of the life all alone? Is getting cheated his/her fault? Don't they deserve second chance?
Having a sex before marriage will gonna lose that emotional and that feeling when we feel after having a physical connection which somehow gonna affect our bond with husband !!
@@Truthisbitter575 Bruh just stop generalising the complete gender just because of some fools on internet. A lot of women in this world exist with the same mentality. Just they don't open up a lot about this. Support, don't discourage or generalize like this.
Now !!! I'm relieved that there are few men out there ready to accept girls /women even if they are not virgin (raped) as a girl myself ,as a victim ....... I feel so happy right now bro thanks for an amazing video 😊
Hey Aj bhairav, i saw you first time in yt shorts and i liked your videos and now im watching your every videos... You are a great inspiration for us youngsters.... And you are the true social media influencer... Some of the social media influencers are uploading stupid contents to get more views but you are not like that.. Hats of you man👍🏻 Love from Kerala ❤️
bro, first i am big fan of urs and i am 21 yr old female who is single, even though I am 2k and GenZ ppl call me boomer cuz in my personal opinion i don't accept with this entire dating and boyfriend/girlfriend phase, i personally feel if i date someone and end up marrying someone i feel like cheating on both my ex and my husband (even though i have never been in a relationship till date) also if i am getting married (which will mostly be arranged marriage in future (hope so) ) i want to stay loyal and faithful to my husband alone and i expect the same from him. Also right now i am doing my masters and i want to get into a job so that i can make my parents proud. But having this mindset and living in this society being a psychology student people call me boomer, aunty and also paati, at first i felt really bad that except me all my frnds are in relationship maybe i should join the trend, but being a christian comes with its own benefits ig, i decided to wait for my future husband. (idk if u ever read this comment but yea :) )
Sister, if you feel so to be cheating, divorce would also feel like cheating? If you would not divorce in case of unfortunate, is it not a potential trap of a lifeview? I do not understand why you think dating phase is wrong if not with sexual activity.
@@adhiramahesh9783 bro when I was 11 I didn't know anything about such things when I was 11 even when I was 14 I didn't know anything. Nowadays 8 years old kids are having relationships like wth is happening in this world.
@@harpindersingh-ik6sh Let it happen. Just don't break the natural cycle. Everything has it's own time, 8 year old kids having relationships is completely meaningless. And same is till 17-18 or even till 25 if you ain't mature enough to handle it. Age might just be a number but it's true that you learn based on your experiences something like a relationship needs emotional maturity which can only come through experiences which youngsters lack and later they call themselves depressed when they break up. Better is to stay away until you both are mature enough to handle it. Best way is to focus on your career, if you like someone ask them to wait & wait for them to build their career too. If the other one is patient enough to wait for you. You found your soulmate
Bro you are absolutely right,but some girls are can't understand our sacrifice,emotion,feelings and everything we are gave them to her.No matter how much I treat them like a queen she is always ignore me and thought that I am wrong.Means bro my feelings was just a toy for her. Still all womens are not same.
Bro it is not me 😂😂 you mad e a misconcept he helped me to come out from a lot of bad habits and that's why I am saying thank you he thought me diff between love and lust@@KoralKaur4731
7:37 🙃🥀 yesss it's my fault that i trust him a lot and he used me💔 i can't blame him because i trust him blindly that's why i do that....after breakup i realised my mistake and decided not to marry because i don't want to ruin other person....i don't know if god will forgive me or not💔
It was his fault, not yours. We make mistakes, but learning from them is something preferable. You're not God to never make any mistakes. But being a human there is always a chance not to repeat the same mistake but to learn from them and progress. Trust, but avoid blind trust. Coz some deserve it & some don't & we can't determine who deserves what. Don't blame yourself & God is kind to everyone. God bless you, sis!
Bro these people are asking these kind of questions purposely,just twisting the vision of having loyalty, they think beyond that what if these kind of situation is happening then what's your opinion in this and that, and after hearing they'll decide to criticize those questions.. it's as transparent, anybody with kind heart will accept the girl if she is going through such situations..and they all know you're kind enough, but they still asked these questions to judge you again according to what you reply on those.
@@aliwaheedmomin5962 a teenager is not well aware of the world he/she doesn't have full knowledge of everything that's why that person asked the question to get his answer he got his answer and now he will be his gf side and also he will also influence people of his age for the same thing
@@aliwaheedmomin5962 are you out of your mind he is clearly answering a question and giving a suggestion to a person for a situation about which that person is not well aware. Is that wrong? And also he gave a good suggestion tho
@@JakeRobert123not every one has the same level of knowledge or mindset people learn things by asking questions either with themselves or someone else
Bro this is my opinion. Marriage doesn't mean they are some saints. Many men/women cheat even after marriage. You need two people to make a successful relationship. Just because you are married doesn't mean the relationship will succeed. And you are not obliged to have an intimate relationship with a person just because they are married to you. Both men/women should marry the person they love or love the person they marry and then think about an intimate relationship.
Investing trust from a place of reality and not potential. Accepting people for who they instead of accepting their ideal versions that only exist inside mind.
Thankyou for existing bro!🙏 Atleast there are some influencers who are posting meaningful contents that can have a great impact on this disorganised messed up generation and throw light upon such matters which are not happening in homes between parents and children.
All men with his mindset need to be protected.. for the girls with this same mindset.. I really hope my life partner thinks this way.. Not one of this generation
What's wrong with teenage love? Any love which hampers the growth of am individual isn't good, be it teenage or adult When you have found someone who priorities growth of both of you together, there is nothing wrong in it Me and my partner both of us have cracked neet, got a rank good rank, top government college of the state, while being in a relationship, and are now in the same college together, we have our ups and downs but it's a very healthy relationship And as you said lying from parents, Indian parents are not cool enough to accept love, it's all a waste of time for them, so you do lie about dating I don't feel it's wrong, because the relationship wouldn't be there in the first place if parents knew Don't associate lying to parents as a bad thing.
Bhaiya, thank you so much. People like u are going to save us, our future generation. ❤ Proud to be a subscriber. I'm in 7th grade rn (12 yrs ). Things r going rough regarding relationships and all to the point I think all this is stupid. But you, Brother, Made me Believe and realise True Love.
bro you are almost right, but please consider my comment : don't post videos at night bro! our generation thinking awake at night is common. You are a great influencer bro, just change this timings otherwise your's truely followers may think awaken at midnight is casual and normal. The one who awaken at nights has more lustful desires and cruel thoughts. Please read my comment bro. Anyways you are thoughts are amazing. GO further spirtually.
i had promised at my peak of sadness where i ended up being fooled by a girl her intentions was clear that she is going to cheat me when her ex comes again into her life and i was the one stayed loyal and serious towards the relation and ended up being not to go relationship until my death comes infront of me it's been 3and half years since she broke up with me. from then onwards i decided not to go into relationship because i thought one fine day she would just realize that how much serious i was about her soo staying for a girl who left you in a bad situation is it wrong or right bro, but one thing for sure that i hope not to go into relationship with any other girl and not to get married i love being single upto death , one wish to god that if possible in next life she would be my life patner as a correct person.if you read this thank you very much for saving young generation .heart from me brooo,❤
Just a curious question...what do you have to say on people who have been dating before marriage,got married, everything was good till a point and then he/she was engaged in an extra marital affair..let's consider he for a moment (being involved in an extra marital affair) what then.?? Even then aur trust goes in vain.. Even then we are heartbroken.. Even then we face the same consequences as we would have without getting married and not trusting completely... Let's consider that even in laws do not support you..what then??it's the same situation as without getting married...is there no phase in life when we can sit back and completely relax knowing we'll never get cheated on..and obviously they say theirs gonna be someone for you, who'll never break your trust blah blah..but in search of tht someone we have to cross paths with different someone who's gonna break you ,and hence you give up on love and may never meet the one!!!ughhh
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Sir i truly respects your opinion but in my opinion no one can be trusted fully cause even marriage have a end divorce in my opinion i don't want to have any relationship not even marriage. Let me explain it to you with a story (real story of my parents) so from my childhood my father used to raise his hand on my mother and never used to stay at home like even after work after a period of time my mother health started to get really bad because she was doing a degree at that and plus managing home and a lot of health issues because of her irregular time schedule and when i was eight . She got admitted in to a hospital. And got discharged after 4 weeks and after she got home my aunt said to my father that can you please stay to take care of her. Also for context she had some heart problems and had really low hemoglobin level. But he didn't listen and did not stay after 2 or 3 days my mother health started to collapse. And at night she again got admitted to the hospital thank to my neighbour who helped her. And after some time my mother got her first heart attack and soon after second. She died. And after three years of her death. I got to know the reason my father used to stay outside was he was cheating on my mother with another woman. So never ever trust even after marriage.
But he already mentioned about the relationship thing. If u r in a relationship taking it to a next level is only good after marriage, it's not like he/she will marry u so don't put so much trust in them that's what he said rytt. Also not as a relationship or a commitment he also mentions how individually virginity matters which is true (asf). At the end pf the day it's all up to the individual. (It is not a flex going around having sex randomly either)
Why the heck did you mute the words like rape, Anna? You're not using it for fun or dark jokes; you're just talking about the topic. When a parent and a teenager sit together and watch this video, the parent will definitely allow her son to listen to this whole thing.
The fact that comments on a yt video are respectful even when disagreeing with op speaks volumes on the quality of the content and character of op. Props to you bro.
Vanakkam Anna, I've got a kinda of a situationship with my friend, My friend and a another r together, but the boy seems like he doesn't like my friend, but my friend loves him more than her own life. So now she's asking me for help bro,please give some suggestions so I can convey to her ❤
bro im 17m and i had a brief thinking on the same topic few weeks ago and i had the same mindset of yours. Being a kid living around "modern culture" friends circle who consider all these relationships and hookups are normal, there are very few of them who actually accept my opinion and im proud of it brother. Idk why i talked bout it but i thought of sharing it..... keep posting such stuff anna, you are the one who this society needs now! Love from chennaii!
Bhaiya I want to know your opinion on trans, bi, lesbian, gay people basically LGBTQ+ community. In my opinion idc who you are or what gender you are, if you are a good person, have a kind heart, respect every one out there then you I would respect and support you. Btw lots of love from West Bengal, you are leading us to the right path💗✨
Just like Salil Jaamdar, this guy is also in the rare race to teach values to this generation, and I really appreciate both of you. But, only those people will change who have some sense, and most people don't have it, which is really concerning. But still, these RU-vidrs are trying, which is a very huge thing. I feel strong parenting and powerful laws are needed for effective change in our society. What do you think? AJ, you are from Tamil Nadu, right, so could you please throw light on language wars and cultural hate in india???
1) I'll not cheat you bcoz I'm married to u. 2) I'll not cheat you bcoz I love you to the core. SAME SAME BUT DIFFERENT coz even after mrg cheating is possible if you don't love them🙃
Bro literally like me....his mentality, his words, his opinions, his pov....demnnnnnn, he must be my 'kumbh mei khoya hua brother ' 😂❤ love you broooooooo❤❤❤
Each word in this video is 100 percent true. but you said to trust your partner until he or she marries you...i would like to know more about your after marriage thoughts. i think surviving till marriage is one thing and after marriage is another. i see most of the marriages did not last just because of the problems that she face in his house. what would be your take on this. bhairav, i am afraid of marriage, I see many girls get married to someone and then she starts facing issues with his family and she cannot leave that man just because her parents wont accept that due to society. i know you will say let her be financially independent but in spite of being independent she cannot take that decision just to keep respect of her parents in society, would like to know from you. also dude, are you a psychologist, like I literally nod while listening to you as if you are really explaining me. I love your videos, I wish to meet you once I get monetize on youtube because that's the easy way to meet you, I think. lots of love.💌
Bhairav, I want you to address the p hanumantu topic that's trending in the telugu states.I want you to bring this topic up infront of the entire nation
I think that you should stay with your partner if they got r@ped, that would have been traumatising for them leaving them would be so stressful for them, if you truly love your partner then you will stay by them.
Bro marriage is not the end point..don't get married expecting sex..😅marriage is a huge commitment but you cannot measure ones sincerity with their willingness to get married or marriage doesn't prove anything for eg one person loved another person for 3 yrs,had sex with her after ring exchange multiple times..anyway they got married.. Slowly girl lost interest in him..but he never forced her..finally one day he realised that his wife was cheating on him..got divorced leading a single life now 😂Based on a true story..
@@sweet4sweet Now a days promiscuous modernised married population ( not everyone)try to defend and normalise extra Marital affairs with polygamy concept,which is getting popular nowadays And who knows may be after some 10-15yrs concept of open marriage will come into existence in our society
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bro i have to ask you something ‼️. I didn't have lot of friends. I am kind of introvert but i have bestfriends in girls. they are very friendly. one of them are committed 4 months ago but they broke up because of me. he texted to her like "you have to end friendship with him (me). I don't like when you talk to him (me)". she texted back "i can't do it he (me) is my bestfriend". they broke up with this reason. according to me I respect her and her relationship and I only talk with proper boundaries. me and my friend and this girl (thier is also another girl with us) walk back to the home after college . we talk each other a lot. funfact is that I didn't text her we only talk when we meet. I am so confused is this is my problem or her ex-boyfriend's problem. what you think anna. Thanks anna for inspiring us ❤❤
thank you so much brother I am a girl and i totally agreed to you casual relationship and hook up with multiple partner is not completely not good for me also I am very happy that in this generation also brother like you also exist thank you so much anna
Whatever you said is completely right. In my opinion better not to enter in a relationship before marriage. Bcause once you got involved in relationship, in most of the cases bf/gf s approach for seggs, even do emotional blackmail for it. Friendship is ok but not fwb
