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Breaking the Silence of Male Trauma Survivors | Debra Warner | TEDxPaloAltoCollege 

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You have heard of the #MeToo movement. But have you heard of the #MenToo movement? Little is known about male trauma and Dr. Debra Warner explains that men are also suffering sexual assault. Dr. Debra Warner is a leading forensic psychologist, trauma expert, author, and speaker who specializes in male trauma. She is the spouse of a male survivor and authored “His History, Her Story, a Survival Guide for Spouses of Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse and Trauma.” She has devoted her professional efforts to helping men and their loved ones confront and conquer their long term effects of trauma on the male psyche. She frequently addresses issues related to the #MenToo movement, challenges masculinity stereotypes, and works to dismantle stigmas related to male trauma. She currently is a professor at the Los Angeles campus of the Chicago School of Professional Psychology’s Psy.D. in Clinical Forensic Psychology, and a sought-out expert witness, psychological evaluator, and consultant. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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14 ноя 2018

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@Jiffygal
@Jiffygal 5 лет назад
I love this!! Men suffer badly, too!!!!!!!! I know so many men who are abused who are afraid to speak up because they are afraid no one will believe them - even with tons of evidence!
@macman21
@macman21 2 года назад
I am a male who was assaulted by a female. It bothers to this day that nobody believed me. I was 21 at the time. She was 22. She applied pressure on me that broke me down so badly.
@janetburris5170
@janetburris5170 4 года назад
I work with men who have substance abuse issues. This is often the core...the real problem! Trauma is the disease. Addiction is the symptom! Thank you so much for sharing your work!
@errorsheep
@errorsheep 3 года назад
It's great to see women acknowledging our silence, It lets toxic feminists know just how toxic they're being
@Jiffygal
@Jiffygal 5 лет назад
Why hasn't this video gone viral? It deserves to be.
@ReneG0982
@ReneG0982 Год назад
I'm a male abuse survivor. It took me years to tell my parents, and when I finally did there was just silence. Most of my life I've been drawn to strong women, and I realize now that it's because as a child i longed for my mother's love and protection. And while I don't need anyone to protect me anymore, I so tremendously value the women who are able to see men's pain.
@buddyscott3490
@buddyscott3490 5 лет назад
I feel so human after listening to this . I feel so along and I’ve never told my story. I pray I live long enough one day to share it .
@rustecohle591
@rustecohle591 3 года назад
Most men are either in denial about their abuse or are reluctant to reveal it due to the shame or society diminishing their experience… so it’s probably much more than 1 in 6.
@theturkeyfarm9527
@theturkeyfarm9527 3 года назад
"I'm Robert's wife" I did NOT see that one coming
@petercoe1861
@petercoe1861 4 года назад
I couldn't contain my tears through most of this, thank you so much Dr. Warner for your research, work, passion, and for being a powerful voice for the unspoken trauma survivors. The fact that there are people like you in this world give me hope that I can fully confront and heal from past, and even maybe one day speak about it to others in my life without being overwhelmed with shame.
@DeadCatX2
@DeadCatX2 4 года назад
"How come we don't say don't hit anyone?!"
@JaredEvans91
@JaredEvans91 Год назад
I opened up about being molested by a girl when I was a kid, and was told to “get over it because it was so long ago.” I’m grateful for this TedTalk!!!
@greggeverman5578
@greggeverman5578 5 лет назад
Pretty emotional interview.
@blisslikethis4090
@blisslikethis4090 4 года назад
Wowww!! That was so powerful. I too work with male abuse victims and it is so sad to see the tremendous energy put into blocking out the pain because no one wants hear about abused men/boys.
@suristar835
@suristar835 3 года назад
I cried a lot... All human are needed to be respected. I hope every male survivors be happy, My first language is not English, so I feel difficult to express what I felt ):
@MyRofaith
@MyRofaith 3 года назад
Been there... emotional, verbal, and physical abuse... family have told me to not talk about it. "Don't bare out family business in public" they say..... I could barely talk about it myself. Finally did to a Pastoral Counselor.... He told me that I was the victim of an emotional terrorist. I couldn't have put it into more succinct words....
@princeofgreece9054
@princeofgreece9054 3 года назад
The fact that this only has 34,000 views is absolutely criminal. This may be the most important topic we could ever talk about. This isn’t a problem, it’s an absolute crisis.
@shaunlebedev8600
@shaunlebedev8600 5 лет назад
It never ends as whenever you say it out loud, you get looked at like you're weak and less of a man. So I keep my mouth shut. And I pretend to be okay. But I feel like a ghost that hasn't figured out they're dead yet. A part of me I will never get back died when it happened to me. I don't know how it'll ever get better.
@augustine9975
@augustine9975 2 года назад
I cried. I myself is the survivor and It really took 20 or more years for me to talk about it.
@internetflower9408
@internetflower9408 4 года назад
so many women need to hear this!
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