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Breast Cancer & Infertility (full IVF treatment) 

Eamon & Bec
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I have breast cancer and chemotherapy & other treatments may leave me infertile so we opted to first undergo fertility preservation via IVF. This is our fertility story. Thank you to Betterhelp for sponsoring this video. Get 10% off your first month www.betterhelp.com/eamonandbec
On December 21, 2021, I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer at 31 years old. To add to the news my doctor said that chemotherapy and other hormonal treatments have a high chance of sending me into early menopause and therefore lessen our chances of conceiving naturally. We haven't talked too much about our child plan with all of you but having kids has always been something we have wanted. So, my team of doctors gave us the option to undergo 1 round of IVF to hopefully freeze embryos to implant in the future (once I am cancer free) & preserve our chances of bringing a biological baby into this world.
We are grateful for this chance.
While undergoing treatment we realized just how many couples are also going through this journey for a variety of reasons. We hope that watching us go from confused, afraid and overwhelmed to learning how to take the daily injections all the way to a successful egg retrieval and embryo freezing may make you feel a little less alone ❤️❤️❤️.

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@eamonandbec
@eamonandbec 2 года назад
As you'll see throughout this episode, we are surrounded by so much love and support. We are so grateful to have our families alternating times to come and be with us at the cabin throughout this fertility journey and moving forward as we navigate chemotherapy and other treatments. To our extended family (this amazing community), THANK YOU for the outpouring of love, prayers and support you have sent to us. We appreciate you all and can genuinely feel the love. Please keep it coming. Together we can get through anything ❤❤❤
@johno30197
@johno30197 2 года назад
We are all on this journey together you got this guys sending heartfelt love n wishes❤💙💯
@johno30197
@johno30197 2 года назад
@isla Maher have some respect and get this garbage off plz.. surely youtube can stop these cringey posts showing up...
@dnonya5208
@dnonya5208 2 года назад
Bec....we have an Awesome God....you will be fine🥰🙏🙏
@coopernat1
@coopernat1 2 года назад
You have been on my mind for the last 2 weeks and I hope you feel the love from so many people around the world. Best wishes
@JenniferHayesJVG
@JenniferHayesJVG 2 года назад
🙏❤ You guys are going to make beautiful babies 👶 😍 You got this 💪
@perryeising
@perryeising 2 года назад
My cousin’s wife was diagnosed with breast cancer right after they were married in their early 30s and went through the same process. Long story short, that was 14 years ago, and they now have four beautiful boys with a healthy mom. You got this.💪🏻 Sending you prayers and wishing you much health and happiness.
@VeganVerse
@VeganVerse 2 года назад
So good to read this!
@kara.mcmaster
@kara.mcmaster 2 года назад
Such amazing words of encouragement! I was hoping someone was here in the comments with a story like this!
@tda5825
@tda5825 2 года назад
This episode is so beautifully done. Thank you for your openness and loving edit. It resonates with hope and love. Just finished my reconstruction journey as you were being diagnosed. There is an after and you will be well.
@AllAboutPurple
@AllAboutPurple 2 года назад
👍🏿👍🏿
@shonah4193
@shonah4193 2 года назад
❤️🇦🇺
@judithjones1911
@judithjones1911 2 года назад
My son was diagnosed with stage 4 Brain cancer at age 18. As a mother I had to hear he needed to save his sperm. 😳 He had the “easy” job as Eamon says. I can say now, 15 years later he’s been married a year and they are pregnant with their first child. So not only did he beat cancer, they got pregnant without frozen sperm! You’ve got such a great support system and a wonderful hospital, nurses and doctors. You can do this! Such wonderful comments and stories from us followers. You and Eamon are in the prayers of so many of us. Keep the Faith!
@leighgilmour1702
@leighgilmour1702 2 года назад
And the award for the world's most caring, loving and supportive partner goes to Eamon 🏆 So inspiring to see just so much genuine love and caring from both of you. Way to go guys, I am so proud of you 🫂 🤗 👐
@BonnietheBunny989
@BonnietheBunny989 Год назад
Ikr. Eamon is like the ideal husband that every single man should take note. I’m sure they argue but they are a team and 1 unit for sure. I so wish I had that.
@andzhela9484
@andzhela9484 2 года назад
"If we are meant to have kids,we'll have,if not we will adopt" is the most beautiful thing a man can say to his woman going through this!You are true gems!Wishing you only happiness and the dog is such a healing energy around you in this moment.I hope God we'll bless you with long lives,love and many children to run around you💛
@TJTimberhurst
@TJTimberhurst 2 года назад
Absolutely
@marshy1950
@marshy1950 2 года назад
Amen to everything you say here!!
@carolannelunan8331
@carolannelunan8331 2 года назад
Eamon …. This is a journey for you too. Please make sure someone holds your hand too.
@jmk1962
@jmk1962 2 года назад
How about they do both?
@tararuest4737
@tararuest4737 2 года назад
Absolutely agree.
@dncrHeather
@dncrHeather 2 года назад
“If we’re meant to have kids, we’re meant to have kids. If not we’ll adopt.” As an adopted child, hell yes. Either way, you’re going to be the BEST parents!
@nickrachjames
@nickrachjames 2 года назад
@Gerniyye______🍅 why post crap in a video like this or anywhere?
@jmk1962
@jmk1962 2 года назад
@@nickrachjames - You can report them. Just click on the 3 vertical dots and then click on report. I do this whenever I see them
@elwood10198
@elwood10198 2 года назад
@@nickrachjames Exactly what I thought spirit sapping trash.
@kathrynwitte3398
@kathrynwitte3398 2 года назад
Ditto. Adopted nearly 60 years ago after my mother had a hysterectomy at age 27 due to endometriosis, the standard treatment for that in 1950. Science and medicine has come such a long way and I’m relieved for you in that. Finding things for which to be grateful...
@kathrynwitte3398
@kathrynwitte3398 2 года назад
@@jmk1962 I did- but if I saw them too what are the odds they aren’t being removed after being reported repeatedly?
@mariazepeda1015
@mariazepeda1015 2 года назад
I mean throughout this whole video I’ve been oscillating between crying and laughing! You two have always been admirable but especially seeing you all through this adversity has been so more than ever! Love you guys and praying for good health, good vibes, and love most of all!!! We will get through this no doubt, can’t wait to see your family continue to grow🕺🏻💜🧿
@amydurham1150
@amydurham1150 2 года назад
7 years of infertility struggle with 3 IUI and 5 IVF cycles and this brought back so many memories and emotions. Our little boy is 5 years old. ❤️ wishing you lots of future baby dust.
@Shutterbuggs1991
@Shutterbuggs1991 2 года назад
“Ok we can take your last name “ was the sweetest moment ever. The amount of sacrifice and strength that Eamon sees in bec is so thick I feel like I can reach out and grab it. 🖤
@InessaMudrova
@InessaMudrova 2 года назад
My favorite moment too🥺
@HeyyBrey
@HeyyBrey 2 года назад
Bec is not just a warrior, but a whole freaking champion!!! I can see how concerned and worried you are for her, Eamon. Your love for each other radiates from both of you. You both are handling this difficult time so well. I think about y’all often and I’m still praying/sending all the good energy your way!!
@isabelladavis8346
@isabelladavis8346 2 года назад
Absolutely true, I fond myself all the time thinking about bec’s positivity through these challenging times and it reminds me to be thankful and grateful. Eamon was so right when he said she is someone who doesnt deserve this one bit🤧 Such an amazing soul im glad ive had the chance to watch and hopefully one day meet!!💗 Sending love and prayers your way each and every day
@isabelladavis8346
@isabelladavis8346 2 года назад
of course eamon as well didnt forget him!!💗
@lauralogiudice5160
@lauralogiudice5160 2 года назад
This video was so beautiful. The love Two of you have for eachother is wonderful. Sending all my love and prayers to you both. You are a beautiful soul Bec, so strong and brave. Hugs and love to you both. Much strength, care, love, positive energy sent your way
@giacchettitt
@giacchettitt 2 года назад
Well said and very true💪🙏❤️
@rumblechick73
@rumblechick73 2 года назад
First off, you look amazing with bangs, so cute!! Everybody already said all the best things, so I'll just do my little part of removing the porn bots that have infested your comment section. I stopped counting after 60. I think someone has found a way to block these from comments, but I don't think RU-vid itself is doing much of anything about it. Maybe check with Sailing SV Delos because I think they are using some kind of software to handle it. Osso is beautiful and I can't envision you turning him back over now that he's been with you thru this tough time. I really hope you keep him! ♥♥♥
@mommajan1
@mommajan1 2 года назад
I've been a breast cancer nurse for a long time and man, you guys are the best team ever!. Eamon has excellent injection technique and you are surrounded by love. You have a positive and resilient personality which will get you thru these times. sending you good vibes lady!
@daniellaw8999
@daniellaw8999 2 года назад
I've never considered myself to be very emotional. As a 46 year old builder I've never really been a cryer, and yet I've cried buckets watching this video. You guys have got this, and I'm looking forward to watching you raise little Eamon and Becs in the future. X
@joriboeckman7198
@joriboeckman7198 2 года назад
As a breast cancer survivor and IVF success, I understand how tough all of this can be for you emotionally, mentally, and physically. Please work with a counselor to help with your mental health. We send love and support to you both. ❤
@kristibeisecker
@kristibeisecker 2 года назад
did you watch the video? It's sponsored by BetterHelp and she mentions she does
@VeganVerse
@VeganVerse 2 года назад
@@kristibeisecker I confirm! I`ve also seen this in the video!
@markhurning8051
@markhurning8051 2 года назад
HOLD FAST! I’ve carried my wife into the hospital as she miscarried multiple times crying in pain both physical and emotional, but after 4 ectopic pregnancies we have our Hanna, and she couldn’t be more perfect. I’m crying with you two amazing people. Bec, hold fast, being a mom is better than anything you can imagine. Eamon, you’re a good man, it’s f@cking hard to see those you love in pain, but your bestie needs you Sir. Good vibes to you both, and HOLD FAST!!!!!
@afrprincess07
@afrprincess07 2 года назад
I’m crying from this comment. Bless you and your beautiful family ❤️
@jillk2316
@jillk2316 2 года назад
@@afrprincess07 me too
@Everybodyisasomebodysomewhere
@Everybodyisasomebodysomewhere 2 года назад
❤️❤️❤️
@hollyf8889
@hollyf8889 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing, glad you got to have your Hanna ♥️
@gebi4pejo1
@gebi4pejo1 2 года назад
Congratulations on your Hanna ❤️
@johndtribuna1194
@johndtribuna1194 2 года назад
"Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans." It took me a while to watch this latest episode as it hit a bit close to home - I have a number of folks in my life dealing with cancer and other medical problems. But, thank you for including us all on your journey. Wishing you all the best.
@4lliemac
@4lliemac Год назад
“We can take your last name if you want” got me on the floor sobbing. I love you two together and the strength you have individually and as a couple. Praying for you!!!
@smiley9246
@smiley9246 2 года назад
As a nurse, l am proud of Eamon’s handling each pharmaceutical mix, sterile field and administration of each med. Bec you took each medication like a champ! I’ve had patients that would scream and then tell me they felt nothing. Constant prayers for you and you whole family. I wish most families can be as supportive as yours. Many love, prayers and hope sent your way during this journey. Thank you for sharing this part of your life. Many people don’t know how to approach others who are going through this ordeal. Thank you for being our heroes!
@ariellesoullighting4309
@ariellesoullighting4309 2 года назад
💯
@wanderlustaesthete4117
@wanderlustaesthete4117 2 года назад
I’m not crying you’re crying 😭 and thank you for your kind words. 💜
@StephanieGdwll
@StephanieGdwll 2 года назад
One of the things I thought about while watching this video was the fact that y’all unknowingly prepared the perfect home to heal in last year 💛 This chapter isn’t an easy one but I believe it will be the one that feels the most rewarding at the end! Continued prayers and positivity sent to both of you throughout this journey and thanks for sharing!
@eamonandbec
@eamonandbec 2 года назад
I’ve had this same thought many times Stephanie 💛. Very very grateful for the cabin ✨🥰
@melindadudik8935
@melindadudik8935 2 года назад
That was my first thought as well 🧡 how great that you have created a safe, comfortable space.. I always say that everything happens for a reason 🥰 (sometimes we don't know that reason straight away) Lots of love 🧡
@saphyr84
@saphyr84 2 года назад
Thats what i thought too when i saw the last video. What a great place to heal.
@Luvsake00
@Luvsake00 2 года назад
So proud of you Bec! You’re gonna rock this!!!
@dfsmachine6451
@dfsmachine6451 2 года назад
much love!!! Stay strong you guys got it!!! Gonna have a lot of highs and lows but just know you’ll be great and all of us will send thoughts and prays!!!!
@jessicaball8175
@jessicaball8175 2 года назад
Anyone else just in tears watching?! Seeing how supportive you two are of each other, the love and support of your family and friends around you both, paired with how difficult it has to be for the both of you. I'm truly so proud of the two of you. Bec, you are a warrior. Eamon, it cannot be easy having to watch Bec go through this, you are doing an amazing job supporting her and taking on this new caretaker role. Truly so proud of the two of you.
@genevievechoghari5987
@genevievechoghari5987 2 года назад
I cried the whole time…and felt guilty because they are going through so much..it’s just not f*cking fair..They are such beautiful people and it just breaks my heart…Thanks for letting me know am not the only one hurting for them..
@allisonboston5738
@allisonboston5738 2 года назад
Well said!!!
@katemcdonnell1856
@katemcdonnell1856 2 года назад
Bec, my sister and I are IVF babies. Thank you so much for sharing your journey, it gives me a small glimpse of what my parents must have gone through 25 years ago. Sending all my love 💛 xx
@kmmeno
@kmmeno 2 года назад
Congratulations overcoming this chapter!!! You both have so much support within the audience and especially your fans, not to forget your families.
@gabventure2039
@gabventure2039 2 года назад
Hey Eamon and Bec, be strong you guys, you can make it! We are all here to support you! Will include you in our prayers! I love you both!
@christinamora3409
@christinamora3409 2 года назад
I’m 5 minutes in and already laughing. “12 seconds later”. “Done already” “yea I’m quick” 💀😂 You guys are going through the most difficult times a couple can go through and seeing how supportive and positive y’all are is so incredibly inspiring. I just adore you both.
@flyingthenest
@flyingthenest 2 года назад
Oh Bec! I am SO proud of you! And five is such an amazing number! Sending all the love your way 💛
@eamonandbec
@eamonandbec 2 года назад
Thanks Friends! We’re very proud of our bodies and the way they responded to this process. Can’t wait to start thawing out our little babes so soon 💛
@wardaughter
@wardaughter 2 года назад
Sending love and prayers! Shared all do tears and smiles with you guys a long the way. You both are so strong! Emmy and Brio will be so proud when they see this one day :)
@endlessfreedomjourney7099
@endlessfreedomjourney7099 2 года назад
Dear Eamon & Bec, My fiancé and I have been watching you two for around 3 or 4 years now. We’ve loved watching you two grow and experience life to the fullest! You two and a few other couples inspired us to build out our own van with your free spirits and revolutionary lifestyle. During this time I had some health problems arise, and began a very deep dive into health and well being. During this time we realized diet and stress were huge factors to our overall well-being. The normalized diet of highly processed carbohydrates, low quality proteins, and unstable oils and fats seemed to be roughly half the reason for most diseases we as humans suffer from all around the world today. On the other hand stress levels also seemed to play a very important role as well in overall well-being. The science is clear that when we stress, even for a short period of time, our brain flips a switch and begins to produce completely different hormones than when it’s not stressed. These hormones interestingly enough shut off the immune system, and rightfully so since the body doesn’t care about healing itself if for example you encounter a bear while hiking. The body begins to produce hormones like adrenaline and cortisol to help you be able to get away from any immediate threat. The problem with today is we don’t usually stress from things like predators trying to harm us, but are constantly surrounded by emotionally stressful situations. For most people this has become a chronic problem. I realize you two must be under very high amounts of stress for many reasons like managing all your social media platforms, the C-19 lockdowns, and most recent of all the passing of your good friend Lee. Guilt and stress are very damaging to the body especially for long periods of time. I don’t know where you both stand on your beliefs, but this is an important concept to understand nevertheless. Forgiveness is our most powerful tool. Forgiving those who have done things we do not like or understand, and forgiving ourselves for things we’ve done in the past can free our bodies from heavy, damaging emotions. This was a hard concept for me to really put into practice, but after a few years I finally was able to make forgiving a habitual thought pattern, and it has made my life so much less miserable and much more joyful. Another point I would like to make is that energy cannot be created nor destroyed; it just transforms. I know I’ve heard you both talk about Lee in your videos as if she can hear you, and I want to clarify from my experience that loved ones who’ve passed can hear us and are not truly deceased. Knowing Lee and what a wonderful person she is gives me no doubt she is with you both every step of this journey. Now for the health part of this post. I am in no way a doctor, but here’s what I can tell you for certain about most doctors. On average most doctors have had no more than 10-25 hours of required education about nutrition and how it relates to the health of our bodies. Someone might ask why this is. The honest truth is that the medical industry can’t patent naturally occurring compounds found in nature. The only way to patent something from nature is to isolate or break apart what’s found in nature, and recreate them synthetically in a lab. This leads to astronomically high prices for medical treatments, and sadly it’s not even as effective most of the time as the original naturally occurring compounds. I am no expert on these topics, but I have read many published articles, journals, and lectures from people who are experts. At this point over the past 3 or 4 years I am in the thousands of hours of research into health, and if you don’t mind I would like to hopefully give some tips to help with your current situation Bec. Cancer for the majority of the time is caused by oxidative stress on our cells. Once a cell has experienced too much oxidative stress it can mutate, and this mutation is what we call cancer. Oxidative stress is commonly caused by two different scenarios: highly processed or damaged fats/oils, and chronic stress hormone production from cortisol and similar hormones. Eating fried foods or things with highly processed oils have been damaged from the heat and these are called free radicals. These can cause cells to mutate into cancer cells as well as chronic stress hormones in the blood stream. This is how cancer is born. Interestingly enough cancer doesn’t actually feed off these free radicals, but they can cause more cancer to pop up anywhere in the body. Cancer actually feeds off sugar in the blood stream. Now technically all cells need sugar to survive, but cancer in particular needs 100x to 200x the sugar than normal cells to survive. I have read and listened to many people with all types of cancer at all different stages be cured and reach remission from a high antioxidant diet. This is basically a low-carb(only natural sugars and carbs in fruits and vegetables) whole food plant based diet. Specifically high vitamin C, high antioxidants and high phytonutrient diet. There are many videos on RU-vid of people who have beat cancer with this strategy. One man had stage 4 cancer and was only given a few weeks to live. Within 2-3 months of high antioxidant smoothies he was cancer free. That is just one example and you can find many more with a simple search. Warm lemon water, herbal teas, and eating as close to nature as possible will get you through this no problem. Also meditation has shown to be wonderful for cancer and reducing overall body inflammation. Being in nature is very important too. This can be as simple as sitting on the grass and just breathing. It’s called grounding and has shown in studies to reduce total body inflammation up to 20-30% in just 10-15 minutes, and up to 80% reduction in 30 minutes to an hour of just sitting in nature. I hope something in this comment helps you heal in some way Bec, and I want you to know you are unconditionally loved by your fans and your prime creator. We are all here to support you and are rooting for you every second of every day. Wishing you healing and abundant joy. Namaste. Sincerely, Lauren and Garret
@SW-tl8rb
@SW-tl8rb 2 года назад
Thank you for your wonderful comment. I can see you have done many hours of research and all of these truths will no doubt bring healing to many others as well as Bec 💖
@angelapower9570
@angelapower9570 2 года назад
❤️
@raekaye7678
@raekaye7678 2 года назад
"We didn't cry today!" Don't worry...I did for you. The two of you are incredible and your support network rocks! Thank you so much for sharing your journey - sending lots of love ❤
@1307scooter
@1307scooter 2 года назад
First off, congrats on 1 million. We all are hoping this journey ends with a little Eamon or Bec. You two are going to be amazing parents!
@juliecrete6280
@juliecrete6280 2 года назад
Im so happy. You sill with us you have bee my rock. So keep . Loveing. Your sfelf. That all that mater. Love julie
@sunday6371
@sunday6371 2 года назад
I am so grateful with the immediate healing I got through natural herb I got from Dr Abiola on RU-vid keep on good work Doctor 💃💃 #drabiola
@EmmaKentDance
@EmmaKentDance 2 года назад
Sending so much love to both of you. I’m so inspired by the vulnerability you’ve shown by sharing this experience - I’m so grateful that you have eachother ❤️
@davidlaidlaw2544
@davidlaidlaw2544 2 года назад
So excited for you guys and hope the chemo goes well to , love following you guys inspiration to millions of people going through the same thing . Love the journey ❤️
@Dania1217
@Dania1217 2 года назад
I literally got teary eyed when Eamon said “We can take your last name if you want.” Wanting to make Beck to focus on something else and feel better. It is so sweet how supportive he’s being through this extremely tough situation. What a blessing to have such a wonderful partner. You guys will get through this. Just one day at a time. Sending love and prayers your way!!
@laurenmusial3750
@laurenmusial3750 2 года назад
My husband and I went through our infertility journey starting over 20 years ago. Although it’s not the most comfortable thing to go through, it definitely was worth it as I watch my 16 year old son drive off to have lunch with a friend. So proud of you both and I’m praying that your journey turns out as wonderfully as ours has!
@sunday6371
@sunday6371 2 года назад
I am so grateful with the immediate healing I got through natural herb I got from Dr Abiola on RU-vid keep on good work Doctor 💃💃 #drabiola
@kyrar.j.4856
@kyrar.j.4856 2 года назад
Pretty sure that I cried through this WHOLE video. You guys are both so strong and incredibly inspiring! We are sending bunches of prayers, tons of love, and all the well wishes we can! Stay strong and positive, it will all be okay! Love you both :)
@sabrinarahman7409
@sabrinarahman7409 19 дней назад
Hello guys...very inspiring videos...Im also a new survivor...stage 1...Im also going through this journey soon...pray for me...I don’t have babies now but after this journey its must be came true...❤️ Good wishes for you guys 🌸 Thanks a lot for this updates...👍🏻it helps me a lot...
@ted606
@ted606 2 года назад
“12 seconds later” 😂😂😂 that had me in a crease…. You two are so inspiring ❤️💙 you’ve got this!!! ✊🏻
@gabriellebranchaud3079
@gabriellebranchaud3079 2 года назад
I was sobbing the entire video. It was so heartwarming to see the amount of support that you've been receiving through this whole process. And I'm not just talking about the cancer diagnosis, but the fact that so many people showed up for your fertility treatments and held your hand through it. I'm so proud of you both
@tvommy
@tvommy 2 года назад
brb crying and praying fot you, and hopefully everything turns out all good, wishing the best for you bec and eamon aswell
@raquelporras5895
@raquelporras5895 2 года назад
Bec, so proud of you. Sending you love and positivity throughout this journey ❤️
@Brittnewy
@Brittnewy 2 года назад
I love this longer video. Not a minute I didn’t wanna watch. Feels like I’ve known you guys forever ❤️ what a couple of years you’ve had. We love you so much!
@mandaleemilly6367
@mandaleemilly6367 2 года назад
I hate that you guys are going through this but it’s comforting to know what an amazing support system you have. We’re all pulling for you Bec and I hope you feel all the love! ❤️❤️❤️
@Itme
@Itme 2 года назад
Fully agree.
@ohiostategirl13
@ohiostategirl13 2 года назад
Aw bec youve got me crying and feeling so deeply for you and eamon♥️ you are so strong you dont even know how much you sharing this journey with others is impacting the world! This is a reality that not many people share so openly and honestly and for you to do that just shows your strength and bravery even more! I have been watching your guys channel for so very long and i feel like i know you both personally its crazy the impact and connection you have created. I know that myself and each and every person that is watching your channel is in spirit right there with you and eamon holding your hands 🙌🏻 and rooting you both on! So many people often forget that its not just one persons journey its everyones. When going through something like this each person around you does there best to help carry a small amount of the weight of everything on their shoulders and in their heart too♥️ watching dr/nurse eamon in this video and the last and his endless amount of love and support for you is so beautiful. I lost my dad just last year to a horrible cancer he battled for so long and my mom and I took care of him at home on our own for soo long and then my grandma my dads mom came and stayed with us for almost a year and helped up to take care of him too and then we were blessed enough to be able to have the opportunity to have in home hospice care help us to take care of him as well. When you started crying in this video during your injections and looked at eamon and said im just so tired it hit me so hard. Ive heard those words before and i felt them in my core♥️ One thing i want to share with you bec and eamon is that POSITIVITY is SOOOO IMPORTANT! Now more then ever! One thing my dad was always good at was staying positive no matter what he was going through. He constantly said how having a positive attitude made it easier to bare and I truly believe that having that positive attitude and mindset like you both already do will help so much during this process and journey. Also never be afraid to ask for help or support or reach out for assistance when needed. You’d be surprised just how many people come when you call or even just respond and ask what they can do to help no matter how small. ♥️ Hang in there both of you I pray that god give you strength and that he watches over you both ♥️
@KandicePolut
@KandicePolut 2 года назад
Sending you guys so much love and positivity! I’m lifting you up in my thoughts and prayers…..you are overcoming all these challenges and you WILL HAVE A LONG AND BEAUTIFUL LIFE TOGETHER, filled with happiness and all the children you desire! ❤️❤️❤️
@colleenbalch328
@colleenbalch328 2 года назад
Hey Eamon, here’s some love for you too. For being Bec’s rock, for your insane focus to handle all those injections (because we all know that focus can be your challenge), for every loving affirming thing you say at the exact right moment. Well done.
@theresafuelling4155
@theresafuelling4155 2 года назад
Tears are streaming down my face…I just relived my infertility journey. Dr. Retrieved 12 follicles, 8 viable. My twins will be 30 in April. You got this Bec! Continued prayers for you and Eamon.
@Faeley
@Faeley 2 года назад
Keeping you all in prayers and know that your sharing this experience is definitely helping someone else get through this too. All this shows is what a hero you are to others and to your future children.
@veronikavelikova1919
@veronikavelikova1919 2 года назад
OMG guys, you rock! Sending lots of love and good wishes! I just admire the support Eamon is giving, such an amazing partner!
@mattgirgenti3595
@mattgirgenti3595 2 года назад
Having been through infertility AND breast caner, my wife and I can totally relate to everything you just posted. Roller coaster is an understatement! Some chuckles, some memories, some wounds giggled. It is all good and we truly appreciate you sharing your story. We were both paramedics, which provided us a twist. Needles, shots, etc., was more normal versus scary. Having doctors share the unfiltered version often landed right between the eyes with no warning. Bec, the strength and endurance of women will never cease to amaze me. Anyone whose has ever been through either situation knows men are simply not worthy or capable of it. Period. Eamon is awesome, amazing, and would do absolutely anything for you. The journey is still mostly yours on every single level. Please know how much it bothers him that he can't take the hard moments away for you, and that he would do anything to change spots if he could. Took a long time for both of us truly understand the other positions, desires, limitations, and finality of what can and can't change. LOVE seeing your amazing support team literally wrapped around you. What a blessing!! Now, the awkward/funnier side. We have had to most vivid, uncensored, and "situationally incorrect" conversations about all sorts of bodily functions, collections, and processes. This usually happened sitting at a public dinner not realizing those around us. Oops. Shy was never our thing (part of being in medical field), BUT going through one or both things you find yourself sharing all sorts of normally private stuff with absolute strangers, not to mention the funny conversation with parents/siblings... and the conversation between each other. If you know, you know :) P.S.: LOVE the dog!
@sherreeharris419
@sherreeharris419 2 года назад
Matt (and wife)...what a beautiful post you shared. I pray your outcomes have been positive. God bless you both🙏🙏💕💕
@trishengard8388
@trishengard8388 2 года назад
Beautifully said ❤️
@miraclebub
@miraclebub 2 года назад
Laugh when you can - it's so important. And when you can't, remember that you have over a MILLION people following this channel. And every one is sending back to you all the love and light YOU put out into the world. You got this.
@janietress4307
@janietress4307 2 года назад
Eamon and Bec you both are rocking this journey!!!! I am sending you good vibes and healing prayers for this next part and I will continue to watch no matter because I know you will beat this :) Thanks for sharing your lives with us all and giving me hope that we are all just human and all deal with the same emotions and feelings .
@roseannerayyan474
@roseannerayyan474 2 года назад
Always rooting for you two! You make an incredible team! Cheering for you on and keeping you in my prayers!
@andreastewartlauter5608
@andreastewartlauter5608 2 года назад
Wow. So impressed and proud of you both! As a nurse myself, Eamon definitely earned an honorary degree for his skill and interactions with his patient. I had goosebumps and tears off and on throughout. Just want you to know that there is so much hope. A friend had a similar diagnosis in her 20s, and is now a successful doctor and has 2 adorable kiddos grown from frozen embryos. Sending love to you both along with your future family.
@bodybord100
@bodybord100 2 года назад
IVF baby here, I've gained even more appretiation for my mother after watching this. thank you for sharing!
@patrickfoot4182
@patrickfoot4182 2 года назад
It is truly heart breaking to see 2 people as amazing as you guys being forced to go through this. It dose just show the world isn't a fair place. Sending all the love to you guys.
@peachykeen6185
@peachykeen6185 2 года назад
The support system you guys have is so beyond incredible and inspiring. Y’all have been in my prayers ever since I found out. I can’t wrap my head around this still, Bec does not deserve this at all. You’re beautiful Bec, never ever forget that throughout this journey. Watching y’all’s videos has gotten me through so many hard times including getting clean off prescription drugs, quite literally saved my life.. thank you guys so much. I could never repay the freedom y’all have helped me achieve in life. Prayers and well wishes always, y’all got this ♥️🦋✨
@Vanwives
@Vanwives 2 года назад
So proud of you both!!! Through your raw vulnerability, strength is shining shining shining through. Lots of love to you both. Cheers to no microwaves 💛 😂
@quinncarrington2569
@quinncarrington2569 2 года назад
15yrs from now - Brio: 'mom I don't care how many needles you got that does not mean I have to take the garbage out' ❤️❤️❤️ you guys are incredible, Thankyou for the continued inspiration
@cattjenn
@cattjenn 2 года назад
WOW! So thankful to you for sharing all of this. Well done on the video, but also, well done on all the hard crazy work and physical toll you put yourself through. Paid off too!! FIVE!
@ZacknChan
@ZacknChan 2 года назад
I've been praying over you guys. I love seeing the love surrounding you and your guys' relationship throughout your journey. I definitely cheered when you shared the phone call with 5 embryos 🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️❤️
@debweissler7808
@debweissler7808 2 года назад
Eamon, while many guys would be out smoking in the barn or downing a nip with their buds, you are right there for Bec. Thank you both for taking us along on this painful but hopeful journey. And to foster a dog at the same time! Blessings to you both.
@kadijabangurah6001
@kadijabangurah6001 2 года назад
I cried this whole entire video. Especially when Eamon said “she doesn’t deserve this.” She’s such a special human being! I also think y’all should keep him.. he’s already trained well it looks like and I believe that God places people and things in your life at a specific time for a reason. I fostered my Elsa when I was having a tough time and she’s still with me. He knew I needed her and she needed me and she will forever be my rock 🪨. Love you guys! Eamon you are such an amazing partner! She doesn’t deserve cancer but she deserves you 🥰
@kels0jade6
@kels0jade6 2 года назад
You guys are amazing. Bec, you are so strong! Not only for going thru this but your courage to share the whole process with the world just leaves me speechless. You're a freakin warrior girl. And Eamon, thank you for being so great. You are everything she needs in a partner. Like..yalls love is just beautiful. So is the support that you give each other and that yalls family gives you too. Everyone being there for you thru this really got me emotional. You guys are truly blessed. I know this situation may be hard to see that sometimes but you so are. You are gonna rock this chemo too I just know it. And you're gonna kick this cancer's butt!! Sending you love, strength, prayers, lots of giant hugs thru the universe to you both. Thank you for sharing with us. And just keep truckin. You got this!! 💜💚🥰🤩 Oh and PS..for you guys to also take on fostering a dog during this all just shows how big your hearts are. He's such a sweet boy too! I love seeing him have fun in the snow. So adorable.
@sandraderby1628
@sandraderby1628 2 года назад
You got this! Prayers for strength, healing and forever love!
@shawneemills
@shawneemills 2 года назад
"can't we just use our own freezer?" I laughed so hard at this! I'm incredibly inspired by you both. Eamon, your humor is the most uplifting thing ever... I hope you realize how invaluable you are. Bec, you've been one of my biggest role models since I started watching your vlogs years ago. I can't wait to see how hilarious and kind your first kiddo is one day.
@cluckgould2954
@cluckgould2954 2 года назад
I loved it when Eamon said that. Sometimes you just need that bit of humour in these situations
@marinw6932
@marinw6932 2 года назад
Whatever happens is meant to be!! Adopting is AMAZING and having biological kids is also AMAZING, either way, you guys are going to be wonderful parents. So excited for you!!!
@amberfloersch5607
@amberfloersch5607 2 года назад
I wholeheartedly agree! I have a 4 year old (Olivia) who is adopted (my best friend passed away and we began the adoption process when she was 7 weeks old). My husband went through a ton of medical issues and we didn't know about having a biological child... Along came Lillian... My now 3 year old. Having one biological and one adopted is AMAZING. We have such love and joy knowing our story is OURS and I feel that we have such a deepended understanding of what it means to be family.
@nata3467
@nata3467 2 года назад
I adopted my son and I wanted to let you know that any journey that leads to parenthood will be worth it
@Suprachiasmatic
@Suprachiasmatic 2 года назад
As a bio “mother”, thank you for adopting!
@thetravelingcurators7655
@thetravelingcurators7655 2 года назад
Yes amazing
@elwood10198
@elwood10198 2 года назад
@@Suprachiasmatic Just like a mother can have two children, and a child can have 2+ siblings, your child has two mothers. Someone may be caring for your child, but please don't ever think that you are relegated to being "mother" implying that you don't quite deserve to be called mother. I may be reading more into your wording but you did create that human life and had an excruciating 8 hours or so in the process. You're just as valuable in your child's eyes even if circumstances were against you. I hope I'm not being too outspoken.
@sdafergu
@sdafergu 2 года назад
The first shot that you had when your family was all around you and clapped afterwards gave me goosebumps. Love how your family is there to support you! Sending you positive vibes!
@LRHooper
@LRHooper Год назад
Long time follower here
@lornamurphy5243
@lornamurphy5243 2 года назад
As a parent of two healthy kids, I can tell you first-hand that fertility treatments work. You got this!
@sydneydowdle5456
@sydneydowdle5456 2 года назад
The “good boy count” really helped with the overall emotional impact of this video. I love y’all. Sending you positive vibes❤️
@conniebarnes7383
@conniebarnes7383 2 года назад
You are a ROCK STAR Bec! Thinking of you and praying for you through this journey. Great support Eamon!
@fionamckinnon
@fionamckinnon 2 года назад
Thinking of you both every day and hoping you know we are all here for you. Hope things are getting better and soon you will be Cancer free!!
@TimeBucks
@TimeBucks 2 года назад
Amazed at you and Eamon's positivity
@kimberlyearly8918
@kimberlyearly8918 2 года назад
@@jeniiee____3286 Go the f*** away!! This is NOT the place for this! Reporting comments from you!
@Suprachiasmatic
@Suprachiasmatic 2 года назад
@@kimberlyearly8918 it’s a bot. Report but there’s no actual person there to see your replies. 💙
@kishungamer4036
@kishungamer4036 2 года назад
Nice video has
@karrigirl
@karrigirl 2 года назад
I can’t wait to witness your pregnancy journey when the time is right for y’all. Much love and happy cancer recovery! It will happen!
@dabailey1000
@dabailey1000 2 года назад
Well said Karri. We all adore Eamon and Bec. 😍
@Victoria_Ashton
@Victoria_Ashton 2 года назад
It will happen, is right!! Sending love from a family in Canada also affected by cancer, we’re rooting for you ❤️ #f*ckcancer
@lesliephinney7617
@lesliephinney7617 2 года назад
My dad used to kid around with me that he’d buy me one off eBay
@sharonsteele6130
@sharonsteele6130 2 года назад
So excited for you! Five! That is wonderful news! Also sending prayers and loving thoughts for your next journey.
@julianapimentelfernandes5821
@julianapimentelfernandes5821 2 года назад
Soooooo proud of you! Going thru this and yet spreading optimism and good vibes! You are unique, blessed, strong! I am praying for you!
@mariahrodriguez8417
@mariahrodriguez8417 2 года назад
“We can take your last name if you’d like” had me in awwwwe tears, God bless the both of you. I pray for a seamless journey for you Bec, we love you and are here virtually. *virtual hugs* ♥️♥️
@taylor3200
@taylor3200 2 года назад
Time stamp?
@kathrynwitte3398
@kathrynwitte3398 2 года назад
@@taylor3200 about 17:55
@sydneyeichen2929
@sydneyeichen2929 2 года назад
i cried at this!!! 🥺❤️
@LifeSimplyLived
@LifeSimplyLived 2 года назад
The level of emotion I have for people I've only known through a screen is a testament to you guys for letting us all into your lives. Over the years of watching you and growing to love you, you've become a part of my life and I just wish you so much love and light on your journey and for the many journeys to come! 💛
@jvm1059
@jvm1059 2 года назад
Very well said Maria i agree
@jonas.zehnder
@jonas.zehnder 2 года назад
What a rollercoaster following your journey Bec. You’re such a champ going through all this and I‘m sending you and Eamon a virtual hug. Good job on Eamons support as a boyfriend, future dad and nurse. Love you lots and all the best.
@j_chua
@j_chua 2 года назад
You guys are amazing and the bond you have is inspirational. Sending you both (esp Bec) lots and lots of love. Will keep supporting from afar 💛
@SarahLinklater86
@SarahLinklater86 2 года назад
My husband and I are just starting our ivf journey after 5 pregnancy losses and no children. Thank you for showing your journey with ivf❤️ I know that your situation is different as you will be going through treatments after, but one of the reasons we have to do ivf is because my husband is a stage 4 cancer survivor (he was 13)and the chemo damaged his little dudes. Keep fighting! Us women are fricken badass warriors!!💕
@emilyk.3674
@emilyk.3674 2 года назад
I just watched this episode with my 18 month IVF girl sleeping on me. IVF is such an emotional journey all on its own. You are strong. Your body is strong. But it’s ok to have moments when you don’t always feel strong, that’s when your support team holds you up. Thank you for sharing this difficult time. You’ve got this!
@montanadrake5117
@montanadrake5117 2 года назад
The love between both of you is just showing what amazing parents you’ll be. You both got this, in the end all this will be soo worth it and your kids will know how much you fought for them. Sending love and prayers
@helenapappas7891
@helenapappas7891 2 года назад
Commenting just to say you guys rule and myself and my daughter watch every sunday! ( she's 4) i haven't been able to watch this one because i feel like it's going to make me so emotional, we have found so much peace watching you guys as fellow ontarians during the pandemic inbetween our outdoor adventures ourselves. Sending you every hopeful healing vibe possible Bec! Xoxoxo from just outside toronto. 💗💗
@bep5999
@bep5999 2 года назад
Your mom saying “finish this and then we can have a cup of tea” made me laugh sob, that’s exactly the mantra my mom had during her breast cancer journey. Even today if we have a bad day we always have a cup of tea. So glad you both have each other through this journey and I admire how positive you have stayed. I also appreciate you showing the not so positive moments, it’s so important for all of us to see the good, bad and ugly throughout this journey, and to know it’s ok to feel all the emotions! Unbelievably proud of you.
@KayRay1966
@KayRay1966 2 года назад
Eamon and Bec, sending you all my positive vibes. I have been through both the fertility journey and the (stage 3) breast cancer journey. I am now 16 years on from my cancer treatment and have two teenagers. I hope you can find a way to take it one step at a time because if you look at the entire road ahead it gets overwhelming. But that's pretty much true of anything in life. Big hug from Dundas, Ontario.
@calileitao6923
@calileitao6923 2 года назад
I love the fact that everyone’s so supportive I started crying y’all deserve the world
@tarynnicosie846
@tarynnicosie846 2 года назад
Love and Prayers Bec and Em !!!! Love your new furbaby !!! Praying for you both !!
@YoYoghurt94
@YoYoghurt94 2 года назад
Saw Lees lantern in the background and teared up thinking about how happy and proud she would be of your both! Thank you for sharing this challenging time with us ❤️ you’re doing amazing and showing us all the ups and downs of life and the importance of resilience and love ❤️💪🏻
@jodymcmurray6654
@jodymcmurray6654 2 года назад
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Zombosawr3000
@Zombosawr3000 2 года назад
Crying sporadically as I watch this, feeling a part of the emotions Y'all are going through. I feel you both, I can't even imagine the Rollercoaster of emotions being in either position you two are in. I am so proud of the both of you being so strong and positive throughout this whole journey. And managing to share it with us at the same time. Thank you for sharing. We all love you and I hope you know it is totally okay if you aren't being positive about it sometimes. We appreciate the raw, realness you share with us. Love and positive energy emanating your way 🥰🥰🥰
@eamonandbec
@eamonandbec 2 года назад
💛💛💛
@chelseaadams995
@chelseaadams995 2 года назад
You are an absolute champion Bec, and so blessed to have a supportive ride or die partner like Eamon! Sending positive energy and prayers to you both and your families :)
@ccrandolph118
@ccrandolph118 2 года назад
This is so inspiring! I'm praying for many babies and happiness for you both! 🙏🏽
@sponnydobber
@sponnydobber 2 года назад
Eamon & Bec, I know its unlikely you will see this comment, but I still felt compelled to write it. I wanted to thank you both so much (especially Bec) for being willing to share so much about the process and all the steps you go through physically and emotionally, I've not been directly impacted by Cancer, but two VERY close friends had a potential cancer scare, and went though the same process to put there eggs in storage, they did not share half of the details they were going through, so not only do I have more respect for them, I know there are many people who will go through this in the future and can watch your videos to help them understand and get through it. Love you guys!
@lnavarre6455
@lnavarre6455 2 года назад
First of all, thank you for taking us with you on this incredibly personal journey. You are both going through so much right now and I'm sure you are providing strength and inspiration for so many others out there going through the same thing. Bec, continue to have faith in what your body can do for you, accept help from others and take the time to accept the sad moments right along with the happier ones. Emon, what an incredible support you are. Be sure to take care of yourself as well. Also, I'm a nurse and I have to say, well done!
@mooseli4180
@mooseli4180 2 года назад
I love all of the real and raw info and footage from you guys. Eamon was so hilarious in this vid
@heidilegg1475
@heidilegg1475 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing such vulnerable and special moments in your journey! 💕 sending healing love Bec!
@Emberescan12
@Emberescan12 2 года назад
We had both our children via IVF, it's a hard, long difficult journey, but for us it eventually worked. Now they are 9 and 5 years old. We also got a dog, after our second failed attempt for our second child, yes we were compensating, lol. Well done for being so strong and you will beat this. My OH now has crippling Rheumatoid Arthritis, so we are now on a different journey. Life never allows you to take the path you have planned, just try to make the most of what there is.
@williambent9636
@williambent9636 2 года назад
I've got to say as amazing as Bec is, the support and absolute focus of Eamon just floors me. When the chips are down, he has shown himself to be the guy you can always count on. I know it's all gonna be worth it for you guys. Stay strong because it's all going to be alright.
@katebegley4331
@katebegley4331 Год назад
Your amazing bec just keep positive really hope your ivf works and your breast cancer free very soon kate x
@cindys3435
@cindys3435 2 года назад
I am sending you love, prayers and tons of positive thoughts. Eamon you are a wonderful nurse and I’m a nurse so I really mean it. The love you two share is what’s going to get both of you through this next chapter of your life. You are trooper Bec and so much stronger than you think. 💖🙏😇
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