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And then she was fired

@@joshuameyer4013 🤣🤣🤣 no still in the game

Thank you for sharing this ❤

Hope she took your feelings seriously and made an effort to help you. What employers many times do not understand is that their employees wellbeing at work is their responsability, and it's good for both parts. You were brave! Big hug :)

I did the same, I had to, and felt good ❤

If you are accomplishing those things, then you are demonstrating leadership qualities in your own way. That naturally shows outwardly. Taking care of yourself is not a selfish first step. You do you!!🙏❤🕊💫

I find the same thing with every time I hear her speak!!💯👏❤️

so if you twist Brene's words buying the right clothes and car is the exact same thing as trying to learn something from people you admire? interesting.

i think you are inspired by them which leads you to aligns better with your true self that wants success and happiness

Please, please read the book “The Tools” by Phil Stutz. This video tells you what is important in life and that it will make you become a better person but doesn’t really give you the tools to make that happen. It doesn’t make it easier for you to tell this man you’re in love with that you are trans. You’re fearing rejection from him because that would mean he might not want to be a part of your life anymore and that probably scares you more than anything. This book completely changed my life. I used to be so bad about micromanaging people and I came off as an asshole. The Book helped me realize that what I was doing doesn’t help the person at all and only makes me hated. I’ve since learned how to communicate to my team better and use my knowledge to educate without being a threat. To make their job easier and more efficient while still doing a quality job. I’ve learned to say sorry and admit when I’m wrong at things. I can now tell myself “I am not perfect, and my way is not the only way” “You can’t control the outcome. You can only control the effort you put in. This may be hard to accept, but it’s also liberating. It means you don’t have to be perfect-just determined.” Phil Stutz When using this quote in your situation you can see that of course there’s a chance that the man you’re in love with doesn’t love you back, thus being the “outcome you cannot control”. You on the other hand have full control of the actions you can take “controlling the effort you put in”. Example “you’ll never know if you don’t ask”. By always running different scenarios through your head you become overwhelmed and put in no actual effort to take action. The sooner you put yourself through the uncomfortable situation of telling this man your truth, the faster you can move forward with life whether that be in a relationship with him or not. Rejection happens to every person in every form all through life. Some people experience more rejection than others and it might feel unfair at times but it’s how you deal with that rejection that determines what kind of person you are. The most successful people in life are the best at facing rejection because it allows them to see new experiences and reach bigger and better goals. I seriously wish you the best and I do hope this man remains a part of your life after you tell him but if that isn’t the case just know that you are strong enough to continue moving forward. ❤

Probably Daring Greatly as a book. Her TED talk on vulnerability is great too 😊

@@julietshepherd8852 what is her very best most useful practical book?

Braving the Wilderness!! She quotes it a couple times in this. I just finished reading it this week and I 10/10 recommend. ♡

Rising Strong.

It’s the easier thing to do. I do the same thing

Please please read the book “the tools” by phil stutz. His entire book is 100% giving you the exact tools to put this into action. All the amazing things in this video that are said to be important in making change happen, the book teaches how to do. For me the book has helped me to not nitpick things that are not that big of deal. Things that don’t need escalation. I used the book to stop being a micro manager. I instead use my knowledge to educate and help my team accomplish things correctly and efficiently instead of scolding and taking over. It’s clear that you have identified there is change you’d like to make. Side note, I know this might sound like I am affiliated with this book but honestly it’s just made me a better person and I want everyone to achieve the same. ❤️

She's gives a few different examples of shame but they're not the real point. We all have our own box that we build around ourselves and blame others for being in. Left unchecked, shame, in whatever form the human experiences it in, is not good for us.

He has no shame.