This Is Why You FEEL LOST, LAZY & UNMOTIVATED In Life... | Brené Brown

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Dr. Brené Brown is a research professor at the University of Houston where she holds the Huffington Foundation-Brené Brown Endowed Chair at The Graduate College of Social Work. She has spent the past sixteen years studying courage, vulnerability, shame, and empathy and is the author of three #1 New York Times bestsellers - The Gifts of Imperfection, Daring Greatly and Rising Strong. Her latest book, Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and The Courage to Stand Alone, will be released Fall 2017. Brené’s TED talk - The Power of Vulnerability - is one of the top five most viewed TED talks in the world with over 30 million views. In addition to her research and writing, Brené is the Founder and CEO of BRAVE LEADERS INC - an organization that brings empirically-based courage-building programs to teams, leaders, entrepreneurs, change-makers, and culture shifters. Brené lives in Houston, Texas, with her husband, Steve, and their children, Ellen and Charlie.
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@keithlee7735 4 года назад

About 10 days after this was published I attempted to take my own life. After some recovery, a friend suggested watching Ted talks - I used them as a distraction to take my mind from my life. Then, I found Brené's talk on vulnerability and shame. I wanted to hear more and so found this interview with Lewis. Through Lewis, I found Tom Bileyu. These people have guided in changing my mindset and are helping me to save my life.

@toveelisabethsveen644 4 года назад

Wow! I love to hear that!

@dawnjewell1960 4 года назад

I'm glad you were unsuccessful in your attempt to "end it". I I understand that depth of despair.

@annewalker9221 4 года назад

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@dapsolita 4 года назад

Same👍💓

@zenamatthews9380 4 года назад

I'm sorry, Keith, for what happened to you that led to your attempt....I'm glad you found a way out. I hope you find happiness! A world with Keith is better than without :)

@CultureFuzz 5 лет назад

To the 1% reading this... I wish you nothing but prosperity and success

@KatieMonk 4 года назад

Same to you 🙏🌈

@kittyreese6269 4 года назад

May you receive 10 fold back. This is going to be an amazing year for you!

@JennaLeeAnderson 4 года назад

Thank you and the same to you too

@keepcreationprocess 3 года назад

Huh? What is the downside of this..

@kathleen4376 3 года назад

Culture Fuzz likewise! Blessings

@sharlawells7829 11 месяцев назад

“I belong everywhere I go, no matter where it is or who I’m with, as long as I never betray myself. And the minute I become who you want me to be, in order to fit in and make sure people like me, is the moment I no longer belong anywhere.” - Brene Brown Wow! That’s life changing!

@kristinmcnulty518 3 года назад

"I belong everywhere I go, no matter where it is or who I'm with, as long as I never betray myself."

@jollymollyramram9702 Год назад

Love this👏

@stardust7176 8 месяцев назад

Yeah but it is very lonely

@SteadyruReady 7 месяцев назад

@@stardust7176Tell that truth

@My_Mental_Algorithm 5 месяцев назад

That's the highlight for me

@mattm8765 2 месяца назад

Can be difficult to find the balance between being yourself and adapting/being open to other ways of thinking. I guess it’s just important to stay alert to it and, as long as you’re respecting your own perspective while still being open and willing to change it if necessary, you’re facing in the right direction.

@lisalph8922 4 года назад

So proud of Louis for being publicly open about being sexually abused. This happened to my husband when he was around 11 or 12. After a few years of dating he told me, "I have to tell you something and you may not want to be with me after you hear this." He told me how this friend of his uncle's convinced him to sleep without anything on and then he woke up to the man raping him. OMG, my heart went out to him so deeply. How could he think I wouldn't want to be with me because some rapist took advantage of him when he was a kid? I felt so bad for him that he carried a false sense of shame about this for so many years. It wasn't his fault! Why did he feel responsible for the depravity of another human being? Please know that if you were ever abused as a child, IT WASN'T YOUR FAULT!

@hopester19 3 года назад

The way she stops to think before she answers - so natural and sincere.

@johnlombardo7816 Год назад

Omg that is my favorite part of her! So genuinely thoughtful and mindful of everything she puts out ❤❤

@manzil3242 Месяц назад

I hope you have a great life ahead ❤

@ultravioletpisces3666 Год назад

"Be smoking hot and brilliant but don't ever look like you're putting any effort towards it." 💅 nailed it 🔨

@sannajohanna5579 3 года назад

There is one simple word to tell who you are, Brene and Lewis: you are LIGHTWORKERS.

@kalinshic1 6 лет назад

I love how she has the courage and the confidence to take the time she needs to answer a question. By letting the Silence BE she gives even more POWER to her message. #INSPIRING

@adelekamelmarcsheldon-moti3451 6 лет назад

Agreed!!

@FallenAngel-wb4ub 6 лет назад

Yes, I noticed this too!

@anadampling666 6 лет назад

Valérie Djoumessi yesss

@madeinaotearoanz 6 лет назад

Agree, and she's so comfortable with sharing her own vulnerability. She's incredibly inspiring.

@IanMcCausland 6 лет назад

you know this interview isn't fluff and talking points, she's doing the work right in front of you.

@slivertoe 5 лет назад

"The opposite of belonging is fitting in." That's... I have no words. Wow.

@malibongwemdwaba Год назад

I know this years ago but please help with locating this line

@kairosculturedfoods 3 года назад

this man is an absolute sweetheart I love how open he is

@pe9147 10 месяцев назад

“Belonging is the courage to stand alone and to belong to yourself above all else”

@stardust7176 8 месяцев назад

Ok, and now tell me where to find people who like that too so I'm not so alone. People have problems with honesty and authenticy. They back away from it.

@kristinmcnulty518 3 года назад

"No one wants to be vulnerable and everyone wants to be brave. It doesn't work like that."

@misslollypops187 Год назад

I have been the lowest I have ever been in my life recently. I've been soo vulnerable it has been hard to talk to anyone at all but I started speaking to someone I know from decade ago that called me brave. I didn't see what he meant until I listened to this. I shouldn't be ashamed of being vulnerable it is my strength

@Klein101 Год назад

Sorry to hear of your struggles...I have been going through similar times, very up and down, but I realized it's because I'm growing and changing for the better. Look up Dark Knight of the Soul.... might help... be kind to yourself.

@nanaman Год назад

I have been trying so hard to make sure everyone else is doing OK but I’m so miserable …. I can relate with this

@beatrizpaula9432 Год назад

First of all, i'm so proud of you for taking the iniciative and talking to someone even though that its hard for you, (and i have the same problem with opening up to other people and asking for help, just like you do, so i tottaly relate to that), but you were able to put your fears aside to put yourself first and that is one of the bravest things someone can do. And second of all, a lot of people NEVER realize ao much strengh it takes to be vulnerable and never leave the stereotype around vulnerability, and YOU DID, so you only have reasons to be proud of yourself like i am for you❤. Be safe, TAKE CARE of yourself and keep being brave. Happiness is something that is ALWAYS worth fighting for because at the end of the day...that's what we live for💞

@beatrizpaula9432 Год назад

@@nanaman Hi 👋i know that you probably are never seeing my coment and that i'm just a random stranger to you, but i couldn't be indiferent towards what you said about your situation. I just wanted to let you know that it's ok to NOT BE OK and thar your never going to be selfish for putting yourself or your happiness first for once. It's amazing that you want to makw shure that the people that you love are doing good, but i'm pretty shure that if they like you and care about you, they would want you happy and they certainly wouldn't be mad at you for taking care of yourself for once, because your well being matters as much as theirs and they'll support you. Taking care of other people is important but taking care of the only person that is gonna be with you forever is even more. DON'T BE AFRAID OF ASKING FOR HELP!! Because putting your fears aside to put yourself first is the bravest thing someome can do, trust me. I'm here for you, you're not alone and you never will be. You'll get trough this❤ I believe in you❤

@erinmorse9053 3 года назад

"Our tolerance for discomfort is zero." Amazing quote!

@mbselliott6800 5 лет назад

This interviewer is so filled with love it's just amazing. And he is actually humble.

@IvanaSkoko 4 года назад

I agree, it's so easy and enjoyable listening his interviews

@TheBatman777 3 года назад

And judgement of others. Very politically assuming.

@nataliephilippe7771 3 года назад

@@IvanaSkoko qqqqqqq000000000000000000000qqqqqqq A

@jackhe972 2 года назад

He definitely won me over!!

@peopleperson4444 Год назад

Really? I had to turn off the interview. “Other people wanted you here, now they can stop asking” then proceeds to monologue. Not my jam.

@Aninram1985 6 лет назад

How incredibly real, humble and inspiring. Why don't we have people like this running our government??

@LizIsaacsLizWhoMotivates 6 лет назад

Love it, Brene for office :)

@samirasf3001 5 лет назад

It would be a better world to live in.

@narcissismcentral8228 5 лет назад

Marni M for that very reason

@gemelse2674 5 лет назад

how fucking good would that be. sorry for f word . I m from England and we could do woth her running our country too xxxx

@zhengpaul1456 5 лет назад

We need people to be this honest, and authetic, only when you are being authetic could you attract others who are authetic as well :)

@awakeninganna 3 года назад

Ugh telling your kids “you always belong here” made me cry I grew up in a family of 7 and none of us ever felt like we belonged I am a mama of three boys and I will always remember to integrate this and instill this into them that we value them and love them no matter what! I also love how true you are to yourself the way that you admit to being a chameleon and how you practice not trying to be who others WANT you to be in order to belong, wow such an amazing and admirable VOICE you have thank you for being authentic and raw. ❤️🙏🏼

@stephanieevans22 Год назад

Anna I am the oldest of 7kids so close to age and now we are adults we talk about how we never felt like belonging. Every single one of us are struggling with our own traumas

@laurenbarrett8394 4 года назад

I'm helping my inner child by listening to this and re-mothering myself

@Patriot1789 3 года назад

So, in short, you are using the same kind of techniques that good therapists use.

@helenaville5939 3 года назад

One of my favourite sayings is "It's never too late to have a wonderful childhood" and that includes nurturing the child within.

@keepcreationprocess 3 года назад

She is like a mirror and a healer at the same time...... She speaks about a human thing.... Our emptiness..

@unapologeticallyme7664 3 года назад

Me too

@angieholt736 3 года назад

Amen!!!

@Dariuspersepolis Год назад

As a clinical Psychological Dr. Brown is the primary source of inspiration I recommend to my patients. She is a national treasure.

@josephinelisowski6485 3 года назад

Fantastic and natural interview. No *agents* pausing the video, correcting her responses. Zero edits. No fluffy music. Lots of silence. SUPERB QUESTIONS! She TAKES HER TIME to reply. I don't think BB ever says ummmmm.... neither does Lewis. Yes, so many have commented how humble Lewis is as an interviewer! He obviously has a tremendous heart and learned a lot about females through his mother and sisters ♥️ female friends and the first breakup he shared about. He even *finishes* her sentences! Such a candid man! #Braveheart! 🤜🤛🥇💯 Talk about healthy!!! Beautiful heart. Beautiful. Raw and #legit dialogue.

@GoShiggyGo 4 года назад

2:25 "In the absence of love and belonging there is always suffering." WOW

@himal_pillay 3 года назад

Who else discovered this in 2020!? 100% Necessary especially with all that is going on. Thank you!

@jc1636 3 года назад

YES. Even after Biden's election, it still is.

@kellylauder2213 3 года назад

Brené’s research has always been so valuable and it is now more valuable than ever.❤️

@RenataSantos-oe2sq 3 года назад

Me!

@jessicapenuela6575 3 года назад

I just discovered it yesterday lol and it still ALL APPLIES!

@teresaportugal1663 Год назад

2022!

@nelehle683 6 лет назад

I've known Brene's talks and books for some time and I really love her work and personality. But in this talk I am especially impressed by and grateful towards Lewis. It almost never happens that a man openly lets himself be truely seen in front of other people. Sharing your story and owning it shows such a great amount of currage and strength!!! Thank you so much for you're honesty! I love belonging to a generation where men start to come back to life emotionally and claim the right to feel and love and connect authentically. As far as I know, Lewis has not yet been interviewd by Oprah, I'd love to see that interview...

@TheBeethovenrox1770 4 года назад

It is refreshing to see him make bold attempts to relate. He is well younger than her and yet she is listening. May we all have the courage to listen.

@keepcreationprocess 3 года назад

He has been soo open...

@unapologeticallyme7664 3 года назад

I agree. He's a beautiful person 💙

@JanetMacCallum 3 года назад

Yes, he's very impressive

@justevolving3780 6 лет назад

I've watched Brene Brown interviews for a few years now. This is by far one of the best, engaging, and authentic interview I have watched. I am not familiar with the interviewer but he just gained a fan. Great listener, excellent follow up questions, just overall superb job.

@JubileeCreatesSomethingAmazing 4 года назад

4 questions you NEVER answer and yet the road to deeper answers heal self and the world 1) Who am I? 2) Who/where are my people? 3) What is my purpose? 4) what do I need?

@centurygarage 3 года назад

3) What is my purpose? I have decided what my purpose is and now the hard work begins to realize it....

@hikeseek9624 3 года назад

“Own your story and love yourself through that process. That’s greatness to me.” -BB

@chuckabean1 5 лет назад

"The opposite of belonging is fitting in, because you are changing yourself to be what others want." BB

@donnafoster5215 4 месяца назад

That doesn’t feel right to me. I have boundaries based on my values, but changing just means I’m flexible.

@kellymatthews3732 3 года назад

I’ve always felt alone in this world never truly fitting in. Now I’ve found everything within myself and that’s enough. Truly at peace.

@Gringavaitecontar Год назад

🙏🙏🙏👏👏

@fredheimuli5913 6 лет назад

"you can lose yourself in the fitting in; but you can also lose yourself in the rebuttal of fitting in". VERY deep thought. I've seen this extreme with both groups--those who just want to be accepted by everyone and those who at every instance rebel against everything just to be perceived as revolutionary and relevant. And both groups are usually FAR from the truth. It's the biggest challenge of being social beings--first and foremost, being authentic and accepting of yourself.

@CRBCoaching 4 года назад

Totally agreed, it's taken me a life time to first "like me" then to move on to "love me"...of all the people on this tiny blue planet, I am the only one I will never lose, or leave, so the first and single most important thing to do, is learn self love, then we have love to share. . . Namaste'

@andymusicstudio2485 3 года назад

A key is to fit with a good and grow but not fit with a bad and shrink.. but it requires a wisdom and grace from Lord

@shivanthikulasingham6131 3 года назад

"To own your story and love yourself through that process. That is greatness to me." I have read all of her books and listened to her for years. She continues to amaze me! What a remarkable interview. Wow!!

@Dawn-tv1bk 4 года назад

"I'm adaptable. Adaptable is great. Anyone who comes to my home I can make you feel great. But if I become so adaptable that I change who I am so you will like me that's the moment I betray myself"

@jeselise22 3 года назад

"I can't imagine a way through what needs to happen in the next decade...that does not involve understanding pain." My God. Well. That's true.

@lorrettawesseldine281 Месяц назад

😮😢❤This though I am curious if I belong and Believe in something just myself but not something Greater than one’s self Our Worth Value Searching to Define this elusive “ it” A knowing Higher Power? God? Is then that a sense of Belonging ?

@yasebelik6072 24 дня назад

Greatness is to own your story and to love yourself through that process.

@KMarieLaVigna 4 месяца назад

This is an old interview, but i just listened to it today. I was glued to every word---very wise, loving and encouraging.

@lewishowes 4 месяца назад

Thank you!

@sarahsmith5045 15 дней назад

This popped up and I'm watching it now.. I'm crying my eyes out as a mother of 2 grown up sons 2 grandchildren whom I reared on my own.. both run successful businesses the oldest boy 35 years old told me he was abused at 9 years old by a in law family member. It has made him do things in his life because of this trauma.. my heart breaks as I blamed myself but more importantly I told him he's not to blame. Heartbroken to say the least. I can relate to this woman.

@KMarieLaVigna 15 дней назад

@@sarahsmith5045 yes it is wonderful. i think i am going to watch it again. much love to you.

@wow50plus9 6 лет назад

Our global problems and stand offs come down to issues of the heart; pride, thirst for power, desperation, fear, they are all heart issues. Come to the table willing to have clear conversations with humility, transparency and authenticity and many of these issues will be dealt with in a civil and agreeable manner.

@darkfeather6857 4 года назад

46:26 Wow! This woman is brilliant! Her ability to always find the perfect quote about a situation and then to explain in depth how the quote relates to her topic is amazing to me.

@thankfulforlife 3 месяца назад

Vulnerability is HUMANITY.

@hjkim8550 5 лет назад

I love that line "I belong to me", it's good, thank you :)

@cavelleardiel 6 лет назад

My parent's generation (they would be in their 80's now) experienced very tough circumstances and did the best they could. I respect how they parented now that I am older. I grieve for them in that they missed out on a lot of happiness and exploring their gifts and dreams because they couldn't. They had to survive.

@pe9147 10 месяцев назад

This particular part was profound: “the opposite of belonging is fitting in. Fitting in changes who we are betraying who you are. True belonging never asks us to change who we are, it demands we BE who we are.”

@paigemadison8421 11 месяцев назад

"Belonging is the acceptance of self"

@melissaarchie5686 6 лет назад

She's awesomely human, genuine and courageous. Appreciate you Brene!

@melonmint5683 6 лет назад

the Charlottesville portion of this talk, was amazing to watch. This was a perfect example of being uncomfortable, vulnerable and BRAVE. THANK YOU so much for sharing!!

@user-onyoutube868 6 лет назад

How very grateful Brene Brown must be not to have made the drill team. What a wonderful gift to the world it is to the world to have her beautiful heart to guide us away from "cookie cutter" attitudes that so many think of as success.

@muddyshoes4517 2 года назад

"I belong everywhere I go, as long as I don't betray myself or become who you want me to be. As long as I belong to myself." Yessss!!!! Love this work 🧡

@rocioruiz6210 Год назад

¨Greatness: to own your story and love yourself through that process¨

@NickoseLayne 6 лет назад

I love this woman for her work and willingness to share so lovingly. My heart was beating fast throughout most of this interview.

@jkg2088 Год назад

“Own your story and love yourself through the process” - that’s greatness. “Vulnerability is emotional exposure” “Own your story and don’t let your story own you” Great video :)

@danakizer-shands5345 29 дней назад

@brenebrown, your message is never outdated. I didn't even realize that this was 2017 until I looked for the date so I could search your FB live posted that you reference in this interview. Same thought applies to every day...always. Thank you for being you and sharing how we find our own way, by sharing the work you have done. ❤

@alejandrogaray2648 21 день назад

I may be late to this party, but I want to say that I love Brené. Thank you so much Lewis for this interview and for spreading good all over the world!

@lewishowes 21 день назад

You're welcome, thank you for watching!

@trinaflowers1675 8 дней назад

❤ Amen and bless this message.

@trinaflowers1675 8 дней назад

@@lewishowes oops! The thumbs down button should be disabled for such content. You thank others for watching... We should thank y'all for providing. Providing this sort of insight saves lives. I remember seeing my Marines at their lowest when I truly lacked the means to really save them. Pain is something we share... Sharing compassion as well might be an idea?

@EchotaisHealing 6 лет назад

This is the greatest interview I've watched in such a long time. I have no idea how I've not seen this channel before but Lewis, you are a spectacular interviewer - I love these thoughtful and meaningful questions. I was moved to tears several times throughout this interview - I love Brene, I love how she paused and really thought about her responses and how none of that is edited out. The silence is part of the space, and that's a beautiful thing. This just blew me away, every bit of it. I look forward to watching more of this channel, and reading Brene's book. Thank you RU-vid for suggesting this to me, finally something worth watching!

@cinziam457 2 года назад

I love how BB takes her time to respond to a question, answering only when she's damn well ready.

@selfgrowthvideos 15 дней назад

To own your story and love yourself through that process. Profound!!

@littlenikki15 6 лет назад

Dude, you are so good! I love Brene and was excited to watch HER but had no idea that I'd end up loving you so much too. Amazing stuff.

@sandrad.8205 5 лет назад

I feel the exact same way.

@iwnunn7999 6 лет назад

A lot of love but a lot of shaming when I grew up. I feel like I've spent my life repairing myself. It's crazy how profound the damage is

@orianagalardi-este9211 4 года назад

Keep digging my friend. Freedom is within reach!

@CherryBerryFashion 3 года назад

You are not a problem to fix, you are a miracle to uncover ❤️

@iwnunn7999 3 года назад

@@CherryBerryFashion the shovel keeps breaking.

@iwnunn7999 3 года назад

@Defy9 Ordinary how selfless! Thank u

@iwnunn7999 3 года назад

@Defy9 Ordinary I use and continue to use the "shovel"

@LD-mv3bk 6 лет назад

I just love her!! She is so authentic and she makes me feel normal because we have vary similar personalities!! Thank you for this

@lanawebster2078 3 года назад

Lewis, I know I have told you before but I will say it again. You sharing your personal story of being picked last and how it motivated you to become a sports super star but left you empty.. is so powerful at this time in history. We need young men like you to speak out and be vulnerable which is so attractive in relationships. You are on track. Thank you for being brave and vulnerable. And Brene, from a fellow Texan, so proud of you and your dedication to your sharing your results from all your research. You are an amazing young mind and I salute you! Thank you!

@robinfletcher6718 Год назад

"Every crisis is about our unwillingness to deal with pain...our inability to be vulnerable (actually) makes us weak" ----- TRUTH!

@leeny1708 6 лет назад

YEEEEES LEWIS THANK YOU!!!!!! You guys are literally changing the world with this podcast. So, so, so much richness and wisdom and juicy delicious truth and guidance. I am 25 years old and am soooo grateful that my generation has access to this kind of stuff. How extraordinary!!! Especially compared to earlier generations. We are changing the world and despite what some people say, I truly believe the world is becoming brighter and lighter and more pain- and shame-free every day. And it's partly due to content like yours. Connecting and healing, one step at a time. Thank you!!!!!

@hollycline2427 6 лет назад

leonaleo Well said , me too 💖

@eleanor4759 3 года назад

I hope so 🙏

@carableu 5 лет назад

That sense of aloneness and otherness is something so many of us struggle with...

@vanessap2814 2 года назад

She is humble, genuine, open minded, grateful and wholehearted. It is a good healing to watch her!

@SilviaHernandez-lx4zz 3 года назад

Today January 6 2021 I see there is 564 people who don't like the video and I think to myself what is it that they do not agree with ,their opinion, perspective.

@superjonz9958 6 лет назад

Brene truly explained the misconception about men at 48:29 ! That's on point and absolutely fact! We are all wired up with the idea and misconception that men are supposed to be strong, dominate and lead where in fact men are equally as vulnerable like women or any other gender orientations. Brene is correct by saying that the problem about men is to perceived as weak!!!!

@mjhaynes89 5 лет назад

"Discomfort is the great enemy of courage." B.B. I love that. I always take so much away from Brene, and this was a great conversation between you two.

@birgip.m.1236 2 года назад

I would say comfort is the enemy of courage. Comfort & courage don't go together.

@susanaperez524 3 года назад

Lewis has such a sweet loving personality. It's reflected on his face and reactions. I'd wosh to work for him and otherwise couls work on one podcast with him. And in the pause dance a salsasong. But actually the message is that I really like the way he communicates. He's is like a teddybear with all the respects. He is warm, open, tender, smart, interested and so much more. Thank you for all these nice interviews and example of being. 🙏

@hfortenberry 3 года назад

God I just love her so much and he's an amazing person and interviewer. Thank you Lewis and Brene. I cried like 5 times during this interview. There is SO MUCH love here. These are the faces of true heroes....showing up when it's not easy.

@sharongarrison9317 10 месяцев назад

I have met her twice in person. She really is as wonderful as she appears and perhaps even more so.

@brigittesutmuller3933 6 лет назад

Standing here in my little kitchen with tears of gratefulness and being touched in the midst of my heart❣🤗🤗 Thank you Brené❣ Thank you Lewis and team❣ Your conversation covers the core of my needs❣🙏🙏 May The All There Is bless you more than ever before💞 To me this is like a 'Soul-Erotic' as my Centre of Being feels at Home💚

@sharonkinsella7435 6 лет назад

Wow, such honesty and authenticity, thank you... What a beautiful, respectful, and deep human interaction. Powerful. ♡

@tomjones6709 6 лет назад

Sharon Kinsella

@mirelladlima5278 3 года назад

"I belong to me" this is so significant to our self esteem and self integration. We constantly feel the need to fit in, to belong but that does not work.🙏

@lisajane4330 Год назад

"I belong to me" that's so powerful. The challenge is real because we're social creatures who do need others. I found similar people to me while growing up, but I did have to suppress so much because of the religion I was raised in.

@codydaley9036 6 лет назад

A wonderful conversation by two inspiring humanitarians, Brene Brown and Lewis Howes. "Peace, love and global unity."

@jmorton2585 6 лет назад

Thanks for the insight of vulnerability to the guest Mrs. Brown. Thanks for all you do. I apologize for the long comments. I just realize so much more goodness in life exists, enough to move forward by listening to your show again and again. I am so grateful for your content, because I can keep getting a better sense of self beyond the little frustrations among the daily routine that can beat me down. Honestly, I never knew how well connected on RU-vid that compassion ever could be as displayed until viewing your channel. Makes me feel really better within to see the breadth of sanity in the world. And my fear of the world is subsiding.

@malcolmnicoll1165 3 года назад

"Yes, you will have bad times, but they will always wake you up to the stuff you weren't paying attention to." - Robin Williams

@wasvidtests 4 года назад

I say: Brene Browne for President! God, how I wish that could happen!!!

@phyliciatarver1401 5 лет назад

Just so beautiful. The entire conversation. The end nearly brought me to tears. So genuine.

@hollyking7999 6 лет назад

Lewis, thank you for interviewing Brene Brown, she has long been the voice of wisdom I look to when I feel lost, she radiates authenticity and that's rare. And thank you for being candid about your own experiences. I think what you're doing is amazing and you continually inspire me and a lot of other people. I hope you know that. Big love to both you and Brene

@moniw.6931 2 года назад

I really love how she stops so often and takes time to really think abou the question he asks and tries to give an honest thoughtful answer

@artwithmamafairybreadd 3 года назад

If my goal is “My intention of adapting is to make sure you like me”...I no longer belong to me, I have betrayed myself....

@adelekamelmarcsheldon-moti3451 6 лет назад

You can really tell you we're both in a secure zone of sharing, love this

@JT-zm3pn 6 лет назад

You've been interviewing really quality people lately. Keep it up!

@MissiFlow 2 года назад

I absolutely love the way Bre speaks about her parents. This transformative nature of living is often ignored and silenced. This portion of her narrative really triggers me but also gives me great hope.

@Spiral.Dynamics 4 года назад

Nailed it. Love and belonging come from within. If you try to get it from circumstance you suffer. Try giving love and acceptance to others instead of getting it from them. ✌️❤️🕉

@ayshaakif3784 6 лет назад

Thank you for your honesty Lewis so inspiring to hear a real man own his story and share it so that others know they are not alone, very powerful and as discussed, demonstrates your courage and strength 💪🏽Brene Brown is such a refreshingly honest inspiration I love how she is clear about who she is and explains how we must be vulnerable to be real, belong and give and receive love. I have discovered Brene and yourself this year during a particularly challenging time in my life and I feel so grateful 🙏🏼 Thank you Brene for acknowledging the power of your privilege to address the most important of issues even though you know that you will receive criticism 🌟you have both inspired me to be real and speak my truth and be kind to myself when I make mistakes along the way 🙋🏻X

@raybankes7668 5 лет назад

@Black Knight Fool why so much judgment sir for him owning his life story? lots of judgment seen from you so far. can u talk more about that and why its important for you to attack the person, with labels rather than the idea or content?

@kslight7602 6 лет назад

The end of that interview actually brought tears to my eyes. Such an amazing interview. Superb questions. Even the silence between the questions where she deeply thought about the answers where great. Her definition of greatness is the best answer I've ever heard!! Thanks Lewis! 👏🏼

@nicolajardine719 3 года назад

I never achieved anything academically and I certainly could of, my teenage years were full of shame, my upbringing was dysfunctional with a lot of domestic violence and fear. I married a Narc and that has ended. I have three great kids, at times I feel like the most shit parent, and then a friend or family member points out that you are there for those kids no matter what and they know. I have started swearing and never did in front of the kids. A lot of time I have no sense of fun. My career stopped with kids although now they are teenagers I have a reasonable good job, I often feel like an impostor but the one thing I do know and have learned is that I am me, I like me and I am a decent human being at my core. I love these honest interview- this is what we are.

@kathleen4376 3 года назад

The world needs more healers and peacemakers ... thank you !

@silviahoffmann158 3 года назад

Goosebumps. We all feel like we dont belong

@nosebirdy 6 лет назад

This is, without a doubt, one of the most deeply insightful interviews I've ever seen. I am in awe.

@nosebirdy 6 лет назад

I saw your Radio Station interview on HOT97; men speaking truth about their pain, that was something also.

@pi1810 6 лет назад

To me, greatness is a leader who remains in solidarity with the people who follow him/her.

@ellenroehl6022 Год назад

Kudos for saying "I think" instead of "I feel".

@jesicahurstel275 5 лет назад

Ok, I wanna hug these 2 people...hell I wanna hug everyone! Loved it!

@elvansavkli6186 6 лет назад

What I love in this speech is what you both said at the beginning of your talk. You both are still figuring out who you are. It is so refreshing to hear this. Where I came from everybody pretends like they are so sure of everything and they always say they know who they are.And as you could imagine this could be so so very confusing.

@nicksyb5920 3 года назад

'The courage to belong to yourself' just so powerful.

@sophiakh9590 5 лет назад

Family and friends of choice. Love, belonging, connection.

@sophiakh9590 5 лет назад

Love belonging connection. my own people

@NRLong 6 лет назад

I saw her during her book tour in Washington DC. It was life-changing.

@camillemcconnell9248 3 года назад

Thank you! I feel “safer” to engage in my life ...as an Introvert. A big whole is starting to get smaller after listening to this interview. I am weeping...

@andrearadcliffe1363 3 года назад

I'm so tired of being a door mat. I don't like who I am. There is a little girl in me who doesn't know how it feels loved safe value..im very grateful for you mrs.Brown. for in watching your podcast this is my starting point. To learn how to love and heal. I'm not my past, I do have a future

@localfoodjunkie 4 года назад

Men are lonely... YES!! That last line... "because we know you're lonely..." What an opening for true healing, and obviously courageous...

@erichbrough6097 4 года назад

21:00 YES YES & YES - when you're raised with 'trust no one', no progress can be made... _until_ at last you learn to reach out and ask one trustworthy human being for some help.