Brenda Delgado (Kendra Hatcher Murder) | Insidious Love Triangle of Death 

Amen. In Texas, it isn't about rings. it's common law. This means a guy you slept with 2 years ago who lied about being married can now tell people that you are his wife and keep you from dating. You wouldn't really be his wife if he was married when you stayed with him. or if he did not live with you anymore. Likewise, a woman could do the same and take a man's car or home because he allowed her to sleep over the weekend at his place. Now gender prejudices are awful, so it could be a man taking resources or a woman trying to lock down a man who is tired of her, but people I talked to say the man wants to impair dating nearly 100% of the time even if he doesn't want the woman anymore.

Same as being engaged but far from setting a date. Then, you're not engaged.

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Absolutely Tracy!

This is so alien to me, if someone doesn't like me, how could I like them? I don't get it. Her mental health issues may have been the reason for the recall of the promise ring. What a shame nobody noticed anything out of the ordinary.

If you truly love someone you want them to be happy; if their choice is someone other than you, you wish them well. It hurts, but you move on. If you can't let go and accept it it's more about obsession than love.

Yeah it's harsh getting rejected but every human being alive has been through it and learns to deal with the emotional backlash. This woman must literally never have heard the word no before that time ! Parents do not do their offspring any favours by giving them every single little thing they want.

@@kayzbluegenes and committing murder, just no.

you were smart to do that!

Absolutely. I learned this one from experience, I'm sorry to say.

Run girl. You did the right thing and I am proud of you.

What is a promise ring supposed to signify anyway? I promise to commit to you in the future if I'm still around?

@@JC-sg5uo It's for high school when you're too young to get engaged...but this guy is a Grown Up Dentist, and then took the other woman on expensive trips. Of course he was never going to marry the promise ring girl. Too bad she didn't just let it drop. She could be a Dentist now too, if it weren't for the whole stalking/murder plotting/murder thing....sigh...anybody who is brave and smart enough to figure out how to get to Mexico on a bus can be a Dentist!!! Girlfriend should have called me first...I would have told her to just let him go, you'll find another dentist or whoever you want!! No Stalking!!

But, you aren't wrong. That's exactly what the concept of the rings were. Instead of guys losing class rings. Because they wanted to "go steady". That's why they are inexpensive. So high school kids could afford to buy them.

Yeah, I didn’t know it actually had any meaning in adulthood 😂

@@angeleyes3386 It Does Not. If you're out of high school, you should not be giving or receiving a promise ring.

@@gigi9301 It was said as a joke! 🤦‍♀️

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Very well said Rejane.

You did a great job of explaining that. Thank you for your input.

Rejane; that was an excellent comment. Thank you so much for your insightful and informative words.

@@cottontails9003 Thank you Julianne, you are always so kind.😊😘

@@sarahalbers5555 Thanks Sarah!

@@ToyotaGuy1971 lol welcome to the internet.

I laughed so much at that! Hahha

😂 this comment killed me .

They should be. Giving such a ring to someone is gaslighting at best.

My brother did a promise first with his wife She loved it 🤷‍♀️ now they are married with a cute little girl.

@@sarahbishop3416 A highly unusual result of a promise ring........

I don’t think so! It’s called a promise ring but doesn’t necessarily mean marriage!! It can symbolize ur love for that person! Or it could be because like most woman demand rings it’s a okay shit up for a little bit type of thing! Y’all so negative

@@plamenapetrova9672 .... Huh?? So promising things in the relationship is gaslighting?

You are a smart woman with a great mom💔❤

As a mum, I would have done same thing 😁

You're a woman of self respect. Good on you.

Goes to show how tribal people can be. They see out-group people as non-entities.

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Nice lol

Most likely the prison food. ;)

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They understand fine but they don't care. That's the nature of a psychopath.

@@eadweard. yes, but what I understood from your logic is that, anyone who understands but doesn't care is a psychopath, is that how you perceive it?

@@paintthesky3770 I dunno about that all I mean is that everyone already understands.

There are mistakes on both sides... You ou have to cut of all ties with that person he still kept her as a friend on reserve..

I agree. As the master mind she should have gotten the same sentence.

Mexico wouldn’t have extradited her if DA sought death.

U can thank Mexico for that

He pulled the trigger.

I agree.

Nakuona baba!

@@archipiratta where are you from?

In Nigeria, we also love the good Dr!

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Indeed :(

From the beginning, it looked like Brenda was being selective. She was extrenely inexperienced, conservative, and I don't really see what was wrong with her that he didn't marry her, but apparently he DID see it, as she was capable of murder! I was totally shocked by that part!

Apparently, she should have kept her fucking hands to herself, above all!

Yeah, but Dr Grande...Please Do Not Promise Her Anything!!...

All the ladies here giving Dr Grande a "promise" ring 😂😂

For a doctor, he is stupid and gullible

Exactly. No rides, no dances together, no keeping you up on my new girl!!!???? How could this guy even bring up anything about a new girl. Trips we're gonna take???!!!!! My new home we are gonna live in???!!!! This guy was beyond naive.

Agree 100%! Many people would still be alive had they done this.

@@kaihunlu2345 👍 👍!

Victim blaming

It would encourage me to be armed at all times and well trained

@Eudaimonia This must have been sent by a female.

Agree fully. An engagement ring is what adults do.. adults who want to overtly show their semi-commitment.. it is the grown up promise ring

It's a placeholder for when the man cannot currently afford an engagement ring

Probably gave her a promise ring to keep her happy. He probably already knew she wasn’t marriage material

@@eadweard. dude is a dermatologist living in an upscale neighbourhood... I don't think he is going to be able to sell the "I can't afford it" card

@@drebk I didn't say anything about this guy cos nor did the OP.

She knew when she met someone called Chrystal she'd found someone who'd do it.

Me too! Brenda even threatened him she'd report him & have him deported. He didn't cave, what a good man❣

Hope your ok and it's not too serious Lily. xx

Feel better💙

Please get well and recover quickly. I hate hospitals, I got MRSA and bacterial pneumonia when I went in to get my foot stitched up.And now I have to have a multi level fusion in my lumbar spine before it distegrates Sorry for the rant. I'll be thinking of and sending you positive vibes.

Guy like those crazy wild women. Just like women that like the bad boy types.

@@lisaowen6103 Well, you know what they say about stupid games.

But I guess it was hard to get rid of her because she was wild in bed. Part of this was his fault, he had to know at the very least that she was unstable.

@@sarahalbers5555 Reminds me of murderer Jodi Arias. [Victim did NOT deserve to be butchered. ]She was nuts and he would try to break it off nice but then they’d have sex so she probably thought they were together again. Then she learned he took another girl on a trip. It was off again/on again

People stay friends with their exes all the time - it's not unheard of. She had the choice to reject friendship and move on - she didn't do that. Instead she chose to commit murder.

Finally I found a sane comment. He drove her crazy by mentally abusing her, she was acting accordingly which doesn’t justify her.

Yes a lifetime movie staring ... Tori Spelling. " Mother may I sleep with Dentist?" Based on a true story.

LOL Nick Z!!

@@steph7738 😃

@@lisaowen6103 Excuse me Lisa...but I think she said "Mother may I sleep with a plastic surgeon?"

@@Nan-Elle Ha ha perhaps that would work out better with Tori 😜

Yes I agree with this. Ricky has also his part of responsability in this.

I thought I heard that as well. 👍

Your user name is lols hahaha

good catch.

Oh, I hadn't heard that before. Hmmm, maybe he never got over Dr. Pimple Popper marrying someone else.

@@Nan-Elle Huh? How does Pimple Popper fit in here?

Women compete with women. She was the rival not him

She was her replacement. In her mind Kendra represented everything she was not. Rich, successful and a physician.

He should have suffered like she did. His dream had to be crashed like Brenda's did. She wanted revenge. Revenge is about making the person who hurt you feel the same way

That always has me baffled as well. What in their minds choose which one to kill? Some kill the exes and some kill the significant other in the exes life. Who knows???

How did he play her when *she* was the one stalking him and continuously inserting herself into obvious situations in an attempt to get him back? She played herself and she is 100% at fault. She should had accepted the breakup and moved on with her life but she refused. She felt entitled to him to herself and could not accept otherwise. Are you serious?

Yes he was the problem here.

@@rl4195 She murdered an innocent women in cold blood.

I’ve had my share of heartbreak too. Would never murder someone tho! Wine and chocolate combo with some chips is good. Lol

I hope that bar of chocolate is Lindt and not Nestle 😜

You sound well-adjusted. This girl seems to be a borderline case. I'm surprised Grande didn't mention it.

Wow, I guess the ring was just the cherry on top. I hope you were able to recover from all this.

En there t Easteryet yum

@@danielleh8128 I'm not on narcotics lol! 🤣🤣🤣

💥 BOOM! 💯💯💥 Thank YOU for bringing this UP!! You see, this MIGHT be the Crux of the problem! YOU might be on to something!!! That particular question crossed my mind 🤔🤔! You see..I think that we as an " Audience" need to take a. CLOSER look at this. I hope that the Doctor Reads this particular Post!! I would like for him to give his personal Analysis of the Abortion 👍👍 Let us hope that he WILL do a further Analysis 🧠🧠🙏🙏❤️ Carpe Diem, Chandra ❤️

@@ToyotaGuy1971 YES Sir, it IS Sexist to assume that he wanted the Abortion! I definitely will AGREE with you on that 💯. But you see as a WOMAN who only dates High Value Gentlemen who are: Educated, successful in their career, successful in Life; successful in their own Personal Achievements , have assets in regard to Real Estate; whether it is a Collectibles ( cars, art, antiques,) etc. etc . I would NOT Abort a High Value Man's prototype!! I think 🤔🧐🤔🧐 that YOU will be hard pressed to find a Woman 👠 who would! Most of my friends would give the Baby up for Adoption; however, I know that some of the Women who went to Boarding School and, the ones who I attended the University with will Abort. You see in situations when a Woman is " SLUMMING" with a Low Value Man, and she Accidentally gets Pregnant that can be a MAJOR dynamic 🤷🤷🤷!! She does not want his Prototype growing inside her; and, she doesn't want to have to deal with the Low Value Man for the next 18 years!!! In this PARTICULAR video....we see that this particular Gentleman is considered to be a High Value Man; therefore, I can come to the CONCLUSION that she would not Abort his " seed". NOW.....do YOU see Women aborting babies from: NFL, NBA, NHL, and from the Entertainment Industry??????? Did Salma Hayek? Did Steven Tyler girlfriend?? Do a survey for yourself with other Women and you WILL see for yourself 🤷🤷 Carpe Diem 😇 .

@@ToyotaGuy1971 ALSO Sir, remember the controversy surrounding Padma Lakshmi?? If you can remember she was told by her Doctor 🏥 that she could NEVER have 🍼🍼 babies. Well by the Miracle of God 🙏 her Womb healed and she got Pregnant by the Billionaire Adam Dell. The Pregnancy was considered high Risk; however, Padma Lakshmi went ahead with the pregnancy. The comments from the Regular Average Joe was shocking!!!! For some odd reason they could not come to terms that God answered her prayers 🙏💯!! They wanted to be the FATHER of her children. She just happened to get pregnant by someone who is " Top Dog" . 🤷🤷 You see.... She is what a lot of Men would love to have as a Mother of their CHILD. Sadly, only Top Tier Men have Access to Women like herself. Steven Bing and Liz Hurley: another example. The Grandfather wanted Liz Hurley to Abort; she stated " I want my Baby"and I LOVE Steve Bing! Read up on both of the cases. Carpe Diem 😇

yes that is exactly what happened. i was 17 and an E 2 in the army. so so stupid I was, but I laugh now

Agreed! He should Never have started up with her again at the dance class, and should never have accepted rides/help from her after he started seeing the next lady. Of course that doesn't mean she had the right to stalk and murder, but He was sending mixed signals...kind of trying to keep the door open....This is Dangerous!! I have had a couple of stalkers, and the earlier they are shut down/shut out completely, the better!

Your rambling about how entitled you are to a legal agreement really solidifies my opinion on marriage. You just want some leverage when you find a new flavor of the week.

@@oliviatree You are right, and if the victim were a woman, would we be so understanding?

The only thing he was gullible about was thinking she was a grown woman and had gotten over their last break up, and now were friends. How could he know she was a stalker and a murderer? Poor guy. He broke up with her. Why didn't she just scream and cry in her room eating a pint of french vanilla ice cream for a week or so, and get over it, like most people do?

While I understand that visible tattoos are more acceptable these days, he does appear to be an individual who could handle prison life.

For a hit job the rate Brenda paid to the woman was $500, to the male $3000. Pay gap inequality at it's finest 🤣🤣

Makes perfect sense:)

How did he throw Kendra in Brenda's face? She was stalking/snooping, not the other way around. I'm just curious and easily confused sometimes, sorry.

I can't verify this, but I've heard that Dr. Ricky went into a sort of isolation after this whole thing. But he emerged pretty well, after inventing the Ring Doorbell. He's been very successful with that.

That is a great suggestion.

Spellwreck strikes again.

Watching from Pilsen, the Czech Republic :-)

Or any murder at all?

@@teeahtate I dunno man ... forty percent of homicides in the US remain forever, unsolved.