Bride Wants a Dress She Can't Afford! | Say Yes To The Dress UK 

SNEHA S. Only the UK one. They are always increasing the budget

SNEHA S. You just cant win when it comes to dresses.

it's for the drama☺️☺️☺️

But in this episode they didn’t show her the one dress she said she loved right away, it just happened to be on one of the many mannequin displays throughout the shop. And it’s not like they changed the price tag in front of her to up the ante. So many brides never take a looksee online beforehand to see the dresses that are within their budgets, that’s why the consultants ask upfront so they don’t get her hopes up on something she’s unable to obtain. Money talks bull$hit walks. They don’t work for free and it costs money to keep a brick and mortar shop up and running every month - it’s not charity work.

It’s because some budgets are really low that they basically don’t really have much dress options so they choose more expensive ones.

That’s what they do, though. Just like any salesman. Cars, houses, designer shoes. Get commission for everything they sell on their own, so more money = more commission.

I don't think he pressured her, just told her how it is. She wanted stuff that wasn't in the budget. She had her heart set on a dress that she seen, he never showed her that one. The one she seen is the one she ended up buying. That's why he said it's never a good idea to go looking around by yourself. You'll find things you can't afford and have your heart set on them.

I dont think he pushed her. She had very high expectations and she wanted a higher quality and more wow

He didn’t show her a dress to pressure her to pay more money because she chose that dress and said I want that dress at the start

He didn't tho? He simply told her that she could not afford the dress she had in mind and that being stuck on that dress was a problem.

@@hestermoon8953 gosh sjw, they are saying that the UK version consultants stretch the budget

hester moon no, they specifically said “the UK consultants” don’t get all triggered if you can’t fucking read

If I go there and they try to “stretch my budget” I’m gonna wear THEM to my wedding.

Which is why I prefer the American versions. I haven’t watched the Canadian version though.

Maybe, but the first dress (that was out of budget) was her own choice

he asked that because he knew that the dress she wanted was 400 more.

1300 for a dress is nothing lmfao ur probably think I'm crazy but I'm from NYC so everything expensive

@@hhenar062006 well some aren't that rich not like we can get 10k out of nowhere ik NYC is a fashion capital but 1300 is so much even for a crappy looking dress.

JOHN 3:16 lmfao u don’t have to be rich to live in NYC or places near there also it’s not that much lol u can buy jewelry with that

@@hhenar062006 ummm... You literally said 1300 is nothing for a dress if that ain't rich idk then.

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Ya! Absolutely true! Randy and lori are best!

Lori and rendy more respectful towards who is paying

Insert Gok! Gok is one of the best also!😊

I bet the store is bigger so they have more dresses and £ are worth more than dollars by randy and Lori are f'ing amazing not gonna lie

American here....we invented the bridezilla. The consultants would have an irate bride if she had her heart set on something out of reach. Not worth the drama

To be real though, she voluntarily went into a designer showroom ($$$) of wedding ($$$) dresses that uses mainly high class materials or can jack it up otherwise ($$$) some designs from overseas ($$$). She knew what she was getting into. If all of those things didn’t let her know in her head that shit was gonna be exxy in here and the clerks just want to make sales at the end of the day, is she really a victim?

They. Literally put her in a dress within the budget. She wanted a dress that was out of budget.

She chose the dress - she wouldn't have anything else

Merilyn Pimentel they didn’t put the expensive dress in her face, she saw it in the corner of her eye. Not the consultant’s fault

1300 is absolutely not enough to find that perfect dress. You’re very limited and she’s so beautiful she deserves that extra 400 pounds and if she’s not worth that to her mum she shouldn’t have had kids

@@jaydenlenton1547 already heard of budget? Or poor? Can’t afford it? If she want a dress , she pay for it. Mom was offering her 1300$ , don’t be greedy and pay the extra yourself. Don’t act entitled to someone else’s money. Even if it’s your parents

Kim Dupont they agreed to buy her the dress. It’s her wedding day ffs not a night on the town. If they can’t afford it then they should shop somewhere cheaper or get second hand 🤷🏼‍♀️

@@jaydenlenton1547 don`t be ridiculous, you don`t know her mums financial situation, she could be pretty bad off money wise and doing her absolute best for her daughter, that`s a really silly comment

@@Pussycatfeathers then don’t agree to something you can’t afford obviously

Her mother has a backbone, which is a rarity these days, so I’m not surprised.

I thought she was trying her mother to raise the budget, but good that the bride paid the difference because the dress was stunning on her.

Janathri Weeratunga that’s what happens when you are in London vs Atlanta. Everything will be more expensive in London or NYC vs Atlanta.

£1,300 is different than $1,300

Janathri Weeratunga and it’s even crazier that £ is more expensive than $

@@zetyra8336 It's hard to compare London vs Atlanta/NYC because of the different currencies. However Lori's carries many of the same designers as Kleinfeld, regardless of the location the price of the dresses doesn't change.

Stop hating you bully

Kinda shady huh?

Yea I noticed that too

Might just be the fillers and Botox tho

Lol ikr and I was like a whole $1300

sachell parkinson its actually $1700 cause it’s in £

To make her feel ugly and make her think that higher price the prettyer shell feel

That's what parents are looking for in their children

Wow, I would be too! That was very sweet and honest of you! You could've used a little of it for accessories or something, but still! 👍

means ur mama raised u right 😌

Aww...good girl. I'm proud of you too.

500 is so much for prom!! Good on you for returning the money tho

Loooooll

Lol

Pshh, whose going to see her feet anyway?

@@jglobetrotter2830 😂 I guess so! But she might get cold 😀

Screw the veil and wear some shoes from yo closet. Lol

Its all scripted

Rashi Koranne True. It has to be.

shes willing to put the rest, so why not

They are not worth it because the fabric and workmanship has reduced quality.

True 🙋

Elley Henderson trolls 🤷‍♀️

Agreed. Most of them don't look even half as pretty as her. Jealousy ain't a pretty color.

I think her personality is fine, but her eyebrows are just way to high. Though I think she is pretty.

Elley Henderson I personally think he’s pretty.

I mean yeah, like she is very pretty + i love her teeth. They're cute

That's why I diy...

Carina Chan it’s true, the more you want added on, the more you’ll have to spend. It’s like that with everything

I agree, but more glam doesn't necessarily mean more beautiful. A classic or simple look is sometimes the best.

Carina Chan ya so horrible remark

Not necessarily more glamour but more money usually get more in almost everything that can be bought by money. That is the reality not only motto.

I just feel it puts pressure on her Mum to pay the extra. I would love to know if the bride did contribute to the cost in the end.

@@wilmaknickersfit They looks stressful about the price. Is that Normal about parents pay for wedding dress in that country? I don't know, For me I will pay for myself, can buy what I like. No pressure to anyone. Should be happy day.

More than when a bride looks at her mommy/daddy, head tilted and pleading eyes (like on the US show), and just waits for them to cough up the money?

@@grytlappar and 0.08 why she looks at her bridesmaid like that. Hahaha I like that she will pay more but dont really like her behavior. Dont know how to explain.

The_Zaiy_ Official a

Auntie Gok would have found a beautiful dress in the 1300 pound budget!

i see that this boutique has less options than those stores, not because David doesn't care about the budget

Yes but it might not ahev been her dream dress. Once a bride sets her eyes on a dress that she knows is the one, its neatly impossible to find another plus 1300 pounds isnt a lot of money and they went to a high end dress shop

Rhona, that's over $3,000 Canadian!!! I'd hope and dream to get this budget on a dress.

@Sarah Hamilton not everyone wants a courthouse wedding. If the mom decided to give her the dress as a gift, that's on them. And she contributed her extra $$. Maybe she didn't budget for a dress at all since her mom was paying, and she obviously didn't realize that $1300 at this store doesn't go very far. I'd love a courthouse wedding too!

+Sarah: The dress was a gift from a mother to her daughter, which to me seems like a rather lovely, sentimental gesture. And when the bride wanted to go over the budget she immediately said that she herself would pay the difference-she didn't look at her mummy, head tilted and pleading eyes like you see in every damned episode on the US show ("daddy always gives me what I want and what I want is this [fucking] Pnina _Tornai_ dress that's $17,000"); every single time-like a grown ass woman would do. I hope they don't read your (assy) comment; if they did they would cry themselves to sleep in the shower. (Not.)

@Sarah Hamilton surprised anyone said yes to your attitude. But not surprised that no one would pay for your wedding.

@@grytlappar she seemed confused about the costs and budget but once she got it she was down to pay. I still can't believe how much £1300 is in Canadian myself!

Emm.. she is most likely paying for her wedding. So I doubt she has much money too save.

What’s wrong with there budget??? They could find a beautiful dress for that amount! Not everybody can fork out thousands for a dress they are going to wear once

Me and my partner we getting married at the court house but not having our wedding now 0lus we saving up for everything

@@georgiastansfied190 nah but most brides with a low budget won't be as picky 🙈 or have as picky parents.then it's okey. Some girls have a expensive taste and no money yeah know

@@laurenscott6288 what has this to do with these comments? 🤷‍♀️

I love this girl! Momma raised her right!

Maybe ur right but from my prospective she just disrespected her mom. She should have found a good dress within the budget. 1300 pounds is a lot of money. She made her mom feel low that she can't pay for her daughter's wedding dress.

@@manyasingla8383 y’all have anything to complain. some ppl make ther parents to buy dresses that over budget while crying and some ppl has said that they should put the extra money by their own. and this lady did that. why do you have to complain for everything

@@yohani2718 I didn't complain about it. I just kept my point and I know it's right.

LoveMe,com thank you for your sweet comment about me ❤️

Nuha Ly Exactly - shame on chubby David to embarrass her like that. She looked stricken! 1300£ is a lot of money for a dress worn a few hours. It was probably all she could afford.

Exactly what a way to put her on the spot.

I felt uncomfortable for her , that was so degrading behavior. Like she has to pay for her dress...even if its expensive.

It's her taste lol

Kacey Bella doesn’t matter, that’s still what she liked. Lol

I luv bad gal riri true but I wish she wouldn’t went with a better choice

Some people are basic

to YOU it is to OTHERS it ain't

It is strange that the two dresses she tried do not really look like the dress she wants. The overall shape might be similar, but the appearance is totally different. We saw her in two strapless gowns when the dress she wants is not strapless.

@@wilmaknickersfit Maybe all the similar ones were even more expensive?

*. .How does that make it fake tho. .?-*

I hope you get the car that you've always wanted!! :)

@@deborahk5433 thank you!! ❤️

Get a bycicle. It's cheaper and better for the environment.

@@SkylaSternenlocke it isn't feasible for me to bike around here in the winter

trinisweetie87 you can try to find the same car, but used? they sell it cheaper then :)

You too!

Lol

You too God bless

Because she had already said she wanted that dress which was over the budget

Alba i am sorry to ask, but why won’t your parents come to your wedding?

Mine didnt either because they didnt like the guy I was marrying. He and I paid for our wedding all the while remodeling our place to live. Your day will be wonderful even if they are not there because you will be together and at the end of the day that's what matters. Been married over 8 years and we are still going strong. Sure there are ups and downs in every relationship as neither party is perfect but make sure the tough times make your relationship stronger and you'll be just fine. It's your parents loss not yours. Don't be bitter at them just focus on your life and all the good that comes your way.

That's lovely and very reassuring to hear. Good for you, I'm sorry you had to go through this but am very glad to for you that you're still going strong.

No problem. I was with a very controlling man and emotionally abusive man for 7+ years but who really hid his personality in public. My mom loved him and kind of blew up in my face when I left him. My fiancé is wonderful and different from this man in every way, which I love, especially because he has a very caring and sensitive side. My Mom doesn't like him and constantly compared him to my ex, going as far as saying that he was gay and destined to become an abuser (not sure what she was basing her facts on). She even went on to say that he was very narcissistic (she's met him twice) and continued on to say that we were great together as I was very narcissistic as well. She hadn't spoken to my dad in 10 years (they're divorced and he lives abroad) and told him all these horrible things about my fiancé and how I was ruining my life and making bad decisions. He had been drinking and left me a horrible voice message saying that I was a coward and useless, that it was no wonder he was an alcoholic with such an incompetent daughter. He has disinherited me since, has refused to talk to me or answer my letter, has sent me random "fuck you" texts, and told me in a very insensitive text message that my grandfather passed away this week. So...there you have it (sorry about the novel)

Thank you so much for the advice, so sorry you had to go through that but it's awesome to hear a successful love story can blossom despite those adversities.

We’ve just finished paying our wedding off. I refuse to have a big wedding lol. We’ve spent about £600 total... including my dress. Totally agree weddings don’t have to be expensive. My dad told me I could have any dress I wanted. No matter the price. I chose one for £30... it was in the sale but I loved it. Unlimited dress budget and I choose the cheapest 😂

I personally would never spend a ridiculous amount of money on a wedding but we have to remember some people who can afford it will go all out and to each their own. Me I’d rather get married in a courthouse have a beautiful reception and an outrageous honeymoon lol

Santana Gibson we’re getting married at a town hall and not having a after do. Simply because with how many people we know with allergies. We’re just going to a restaurant with a bar after. Then everyone will be able to choose their own food with out having to worry about their diets and hopefully there wont be any complaints 😅

My entire wedding, dress, photo, reverend, food, everything was less then a grand. Married on a beautiful day on the beach. And didnt start marriage in relationship ruining debt ...

Your husbands family wasn’t under any obligation to put up that much money for your wedding. You are shading them and that’s not cool. Most people I know, myself included, paid for pretty much ALL of our weddings. Be lucky and happy that you were gifted the 4K that you were because most people don’t get money like that. Weddings are a huge waste of money anyway.

If the want to why not?

@@arianastasiagrande8428 Oh they totally can but i thought every bride would want to feel unique and different on their special day and buying a dress that everyone buys is sorta the opposite of that..

Ishita Varma ok but like not everyone will have an unique taste they just want to look nice on their weddings. Imagine if there are different design for every bride, there wouldn’t be $$$ thrown into custom dress making would it?

Kenza Jallal then purchase the dress yourself and stop relying on mommy and daddy. You are getting married now which means you and your hubby should be independent and shouldn’t need financial help and if u need financial help then getting married now is not a good idea

Kenza Jallal 😭

I thought that dress was pretty and unique the first time I saw it but after the 100th time it has lost all it's appeal

Because they have it on the mannequin and all the brides see it as soon as they walk in the door? Although one could wonder why they do keep the same dress on the mannequin for the show and they don't switch it up, lest the audience finds it repetitive and think they're a one-trick pony... But it's the same on the US show; every season there is a dress they push like hell, e.g. that ghastly Pnina Tornai (oooh, Pnina!) gown with a seethrough corset bodice. For all those, you know, US _sexy_ brides. (Ugh). People look at wedding pics from the 80's and laugh and think they're horrible, but guess how these 'sexy,' lingerie corset dresses are going to look in their photo albums 30 years from now...

@@tazny3229 yes it's a pretty dress but now it's getting boring as everyone buys it

@@grytlappar hahaha i agree😂 That pnina dress is so expensive too. Seeing these two same dresses is getting boring. We want to see something new🤷‍♀️ I think they put it on the mannequin as thats the dress that sells out the most

But it is supposed to be the best day of your life

blue blur 64 It can still be your favorite day without a million dollar dress. Hell, if it’s really your favorite day about you and your partner, it wouldn’t matter if you were wearing a thrift shop dress.

@@natalier4053 true but some people go way too over the top

That’s because some people want a wedding while others want to be married

@@kaitlin2150 the truth have being spoken!!

I've always wondered about that. Does the price include alterations? In my dreams 😂

And alterations are never cheap.

@@wilmaknickersfit right??? I assume they may cover that cost for the bride, but that's as assumption on my end.

@@trinisweetie87 On the American version the alterations are definitely not included and are usually hundreds of dollars, but I don't know about the UK version.

trinisweetie87 sadly they are not included.

That's coz they've all got the same stencil 🤣

Nope 😂 I don’t have it maybe because I’m American and we don’t do that here

her eyebrows are even better than most

Not where I live they don't!

i love her eyebrows!

ConfideNMusic thank you !

You forgot... 100 per cent about her eyebrows😂

Mihaela it seemed for like she had tired to get her mom to go higher but her mom stuck with that number and she was upset her persuasion hadnt worked

Producers trying to find a plot

Because the dress is a keepsake If someone doesn’t care about that though, then more power to them

There are businesses where you can rent a wedding dress. But A) then I guess it does not feel as unique (though of course it's an illusion that you are the only bride wearing this dress if it's not designed exclusively for you), B) it's difficult if you are not average in height or size, C) a lot of people don't like wearing used clothes (I don't mind, but everyone is different) and D) some people dream of giving their wedding dress to their daughter one day. My mother sold her wedding dress after the wedding. I don't care especially because it was an 80s all lace dress and I hate lace :D

My Mom borrowed her dress from a friend (it was gorgeous!) but bought her own veil so she would have that part as a keepsake.

@@nriamond8010 i agree, especially about C, some people do have really bad odor too and it lingers on the dresses even when they have washed them. It ruined the whole mood of the wedding celebration, preparation etc

I don’t want to wear that was worn by someone else on my wedding

Yes, and veil and headpiece, shoes and earrings...

Niha, I think the Brits aren't always expressive. Also for older people, the fuss around the dress etc isn't anything they're used to. My mom would probably look the same 😂

Not easy for everyone to be on camera ...

Yeah, made her figure look way better.

Yeah, the simpler one was a lot more beautiful. She had a great figure anyway, she woudl have looked good in a potato sack.

As I read through the comments, I was starting to wonder if I was the only one who thought the first dress was better than the more expensive one.

love this show

Ewww filler face and those brows. Not cute. She looks like a witch

Jess lloyd everyone has a different opinion 🙄