I can understand him not wanting to offend Black women in general as long as he got his point across. Your statement, however, is on point. I couldn't have said it better myself.
@@TLACY606It isn’t just women on social media. Hypothetically let’s say you are right it is only women on social media. Data shows black women spend more time on social media than any other demographic in the United States. Spending 70 hours a week on social media will create delusion of grandeur. That’s why I have a qualifier no interest in a woman who spends an exorbitant amount of time on social media .
Women that listened to the Destiny Child song *Bills* and misunderstood the chorus by applying that the woman is asking her man to pay her bills when in fact it is the other way round.
That's because they're "OF" "IG" "Models" and "Dancers".... (Let them tell it) They have no idea what a real job is... So OT is not even in their vocabulary... 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Atlanta wasn't always like this bruh. I remember the old Atlanta 80s and 90s era. Where sistas were down to earth. After the 96 Olympics and freak'nic was over, then the music & film industries moved here, Atlanta changed dramatically. Everybody and they momma started migrating down here by the boatload and that changed the atmosphere of the "southern culture" of Atlanta. Theres more transplants in Atlanta than the actual native born Atlantans, believe it or not. 😢
Yup, OutKast and Goodie Mob Atlanta...when I wanted to move there or Oakland...now I see ATL as a land of superficial narcs...but it really was infiltrated.
All the northerners and west coast people moved here and brought their non hospitality culture with them….. Which changed what the South is really about. .
If her conservation isn’t FILLED with building with YOU after you get to know her, she’s a liability! Cut off all liabilities in your life men and that includes family!
If she's comfortable asking you to pay her bills so soon that means she got simps doing this for her which makes dating hard for men who aren't simping
The same reason many companies outsource work overseas is the same reason good brothers should date overseas...........you get a better product for a cheaper price. Yeah I said it.
I'm a traditional woman,and I love to cook and I'm the type of woman that knows how to take care of a man,for example if we're both working together and my man gets sick and can't work, Don't worry Bae I got it get better I got the bills until you get better
I think the whole concept of men paying is something that we were taught many years ago. "If you want to keep a woman, you have to buy her nice things, take her out, pay her bills," and men did that. But now, things changed and we have to get out of that mindset.
Where are they meeting these people? In all my years of dating, ive never had some girl ask me to pay their rent ever. And im in dc where things are much more expensive than Atlanta.
When it comes to "attractive BW" this is what you run into. It really doesn't matter where you meet them. They can't look good and be good at the same time in America. Stop trying to discredit someone's experience when there's 10s of thousands of us saying the same thing.
He’s meeting them in all the wrong places….then he’s saying it’s all Black woman….when it’s him going to the same type places, meeting the same type females. .
See everything he said was true. You got to do small meet ups and short outings before that $400 date he talking about. You have to have a quick elimination process in this market!
To be honest if a woman truly cares for you, she won't let you pay that much for a date. That's something you do when you've been together for years. But guys ruined it because they can't control their hormones.
He is preaching the true facts about everything he have said he is not lying my ex girlfriend was the same way she was always asking me to help her pay her rent light bill and cell phone bill i had to let her know i have my own bills to pay this is the main reason that i broke it off with her
These ladies in Atlanta needs to holla at Kenny Edmonds( Babyface ) he can buy you clothes, make dinner for you and pay your rent "As Soon As He Gets Home" from work
When I use dating apps I will match different races of women so I do well. Black women are the only race of women I matched with that we messaged each other and everything was great until I tell them my occupation (insurance underwriting) and they stop talking to me or unmatch immediately. It’s certainly not most black women but I noticed they were the only demographic that did that to me. In a way I can see what he is saying although paying rent is wild to me.
BW are the least desirable even on the dating apps, the only dudes that go for BW today are simps, no right man that stands on business would ever deal with any of them heffas.
Great video coverage Phillip 💯 The advice I give to the brother is there's 1000's of women in Atlanta and the surrounding area. In the words of Smoking Robinson and the my mama told me you better shop around
Women complain men are making the dating scene trash. Its often women who are trashing dating culture. When they are living by astronomically superficial standards and picking Pookies their bad judgement is on them. Many complain men need to get themselves together. Men that have it together wont deal with these women. Maybe when women look in the mirror and get it together, relationships will get better.
@@BlackMist123 Niki Minaj! Doji Cat! and all those other female Rappers have Destroyed! and Corrupted! The Minds of a lot of Black women!. It's the same as being in a Cult! they convince you to believe in something That is 1000% Evil! False! and Destructive!.
Its a Coke head alchohol city...Lived there for three years. ....Also if you black and actually smart and successful and not in the military they not used to that. Most people from there never been anywhere not even up to Houston. Dating there is the same lol
Ecclesiasticus 9:2-3,5-7 [2]Give not thy soul unto a woman to set her foot upon thy substance. [3]Meet not with an harlot, lest thou fall into her snares. [5]Gaze not on a maid, that thou fall not by those things that are precious in her. [6]Give not thy soul unto harlots, that thou lose not thine inheritance. [7]Look not round about thee in the streets of the city, neither wander thou in the solitary place thereof.
And they wonder why the passport bros leave and the trans women been winnin in Atlanta for years now. Oh well I'm up North but Philly ain't ish neither. Shout out to the hometown area code 732😂
Right, ain't no way I'm paying $400 on no date, dat 304 gone be selling something and the going rate for kat in Atlanta is bout $40-$80 for something avg. lol
I'm a lady and agree with you 💯 we as women should be able to take care of ourselves. This should stop✋️it's just as wrong as taking advantage of women.
A coworker told me that he just met a woman and she immediately said she had something she wanted to give him. Being curious, he said okay. The next time she saw him, she gave him her unpaid cell phone bill. HE GONE!!
I was raised by Tad,(Tell'em A Dream). In 1985 i would tell women they're going to get part of my 95 year old grandmas estate when she dies in a couple months. She's 136 now. It works so well, the women get impatient waiting on Grandma to die, and up and leave,until i post on facebook, "R.I.P Grandma" then they come pushing their Razor scooter real fast to house with Home Depot trash bags full of their clothes.
Gentlemen, please don't think all women in Atlanta and the Metro area are like this. We aren't. Most good women can't find a good partner/mate because they're being used and hurt by women looking for a free ride.
I think they try certain men. I’ve been in Atlanta for about 5 years now and I’ve had mostly pleasant experiences with women down here, if anything most of them offer to pay for me in a lot of cases🤷🏽
Being real dudes on the East Coast made them like that. I live in V.A, and these dudes be paying for everything. Country wayne even said it. He will pay for everything, even for her friends. Now, these younger dudes don't wanna pay, but your og's already laid the path for yall.
As a viewer, it's essential to approach discussions like this with an open mind and a willingness to engage in constructive dialogue. While it's important to acknowledge differing perspectives, we should also be cautious not to generalize or stereotype entire groups of people. It's crucial to address issues such as entitlement and financial expectations with empathy and understanding, considering the broader social and economic factors at play. Let's strive for empathy, respect, and open communication in our discussions on topics like this.
So are you great at cold approach due to game and PUA? Just curious. Some fellas say they don’t need to do activities to meet females. But everyone isn’t the 1959’s door to door sales type. Just curious?
Sadly, some simps help set the expectation. Don’t blame social media alone. People don’t ask for what they think they can’t get. OnlyFans exists because there are people willing to pay the freight. IG “models” think they are models because they get clout from thirsty men. Social media is a manifestation, not the cause. People often ignore what you say but watch what you do. These women heard (whether true or not) that they can trick for the bag so they trick. Men need to set expectations with their actions. Leave these tricks alone. Don’t entertain them.
