BURNOUT - Is it time to QUIT YOUTUBE?

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This episode from our homestead in Portugal continues to answer a question raised in our last episode, is it time to slow down or even quit RU-vid. Its a question that has been ruminating for a while now and today we share with you all of our concerns and hopes for the future. Thanks so much for watching friends.
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@Mrscorreia74 11 месяцев назад

Maybe is time to return to one video for week. A little less work, more time to enjoy the process. Have a nice week!

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

❤️😊🙏🏼🏡🇵🇹

@karenmiller6088 11 месяцев назад

@@TheNewbys You've put the demands on yourself. Only you can remove them and lighten your own load. I've noticed a trend with RU-vid producers and I've concluded that people that consider themselves RU-vid producers for a living are not in a good space. They become a slave to "content" and do exactly what other producers are doing.... they start acting the same, even mimicking other content creators in a way that's rather creepy actually. There's nothing natural about filming and editing your life for the world to see essentially a false perception of who you truly are. You have to curb your words in order to not get demonetized and you feel like you have to constantly impress to stay relevant. It's sad really because it's not natural for you or your children. It's acting and acting isn't real life. It's an illusion of grandeur. I heard one content creator be absolutely honest when he said "dance monkey dance!" Ever since I heard this my entire perspective changed. I've had many family members and friends ask me to start a RU-vid channel because of all the projects I've got my hands in but I remember that this is my life to live and that life is too short to be someone's dancing monkey. Take care of your children and protect them. That's your greatest and most important job. RU-vid isn't worth it if changes you. I've not seen one person in here that hasn't been sucked into the illusion. I wish your family all the best. ❤

@amandamuller2839 11 месяцев назад

I'm with you on this one Silvia Correia, and in the future you may feel to 2 video's a week. Love your videos ❤❤❤

@annieclark571 11 месяцев назад

Totally agree with you on this. I look forward to watching both videos each week but once a week is also good and would definitely give you time to enjoy your life and family. A holiday sounds like a great idea too.

@decorDD 11 месяцев назад

Newbys , I would be happy watching a video every two weeks from you , I really would . If it means that you get a bit more time together as a family , we as a community would understand, I'm sure ! Your babies are tiny and demand a lot of your time and attention and they take priority for now . But I love seeing your progress on the farm and a peek into life in Portugal so I would hate to see you go❤ much love from Qatar

@wendyuhkrog124 11 месяцев назад

You blink and your children are adults. Time is precious. Don't pressure yourself with 2 videos a week. Take breaks when you need to and holidays, we'll all still be here when/if you post a video.❤

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

❤️❤️❤️

@sandraengstrand2784 11 месяцев назад

Honesty is the best policy, I definitely believe that. Just as you want the farm to be sustainable, you also need your life and lifestyle to be sustainable. Make your own way, and put yourselves first!! Love from Nashville 💕

@madst7521 11 месяцев назад

Good thing about going 2 to 1 video is also being able to build a bit of a backlog. Have something to post when the time is tight. Skip a few weeks here and there. Prioritize mental health over YT.

@karenges2666 11 месяцев назад

Agreed! I love see the progress and changes on the farm. Even a quick video showing the progress and a voice over. Or take a break for a week and take vacation. Recharge your batteries. I enjoy your channel and would be sad to see it go totally. I follow a handful of YT channels - and lots of them take breaks. Give yourself a break as needed. Lot of love coming your way from Nova Scotia. :)

@guitardee1 11 месяцев назад

I agree. Those little boys will grow up so quickly

@wendyironside1637 11 месяцев назад

Don’t worry about how you think you should be feeling. Follow your hearts , take a break ,recharge your batteries. Your loyal you tubers will still be here . We so enjoy being a part of your journey, sendings hugs and love friends ❤️❤️❤️

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thanks so much Wendy ❤️❤️❤️

@marciahughes8981 11 месяцев назад

I have a huge veg garden. You've run before you need to. So walk again. You don't need such a big garden. Bring it back to coping. Have a break......... I'm 69 just had three days away from my idealic cottage in Cornwall. Im back and feel energised and ready to have another go.

@karenannebell810 11 месяцев назад

Take sometime for yourself as a family… RU-vid doesn’t have to be your priority , maybe @ this time in your life … your busy with the boys , the farm project etc . Praying for rest & wisdom for your direction in the future.

@user-rh9nl6jz2k 11 месяцев назад

Dear Tara and John - 30 years ago we left the UK for Canada - leaving my family behind, taking my parents’ only Grandchild away - the guilt was overwhelming - took me over 10 years to battle with homesickness BUT you know what got me through - a wonderful husband, a very strong marriage and the knowledge that our son was growing up in a Country 🇨🇦 that was absolutely beautiful in every single way. You two (four) have all those things too. BE BRAVE, THINK BIG AND EXPLORE ❤. Enjoy your well deserved break and we will look forward to seeing you soon much love 💕🇨🇦

@allyirvine7537 11 месяцев назад

Don’t worry Guys, if you can only manage 2 videos a month, that is ok. Better 2 good videos feeling relatively less stressed. It’s hard raising 2 little ones plus renovating and keeping up a farm, never mind filming and editing. Something has to give. Also, people are human, it isn’t possible to be bubbly and upbeat all the time, especially sleep deprived! ❤️ Enjoy your well-earned break 😊

@skyeseaborn1170 11 месяцев назад

This is such a great comment. I agree. Sending hugs, and support, no matter what you need to do. Ask the hard questions. Live your best life.

@Feeoryne 11 месяцев назад

YES!!!

@celestine1964 11 месяцев назад

If you need a break, go for it. We, your community will still be here for you when you're ready to continue. Spend time relaxing and enjoying each other.

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thank you Kelly 🍉🌱👩🏼‍🌾❤️🙏🏼🇵🇹

@lindahedley9049 11 месяцев назад

Take all the time you need to live your wonderful life with your gorgeous family, we will all still be here when your ready. xxx

@Babylons123456789 11 месяцев назад

Take a much needed and deserved break. Enjoy your beautiful boys and we will be here if you choose to come back. No pressure but I for one will really miss watching you all😊 😊😊😊

@kathleencollings7021 11 месяцев назад

Yours is by far the best RU-vid channel I watch because you are such a “real” family. It is much easier to fix a problem when you know what is wrong and a positive mental attitude gets you over the hurdles. When you are “out of sorts” and can’t really put your finger on what is wrong, it is much harder to fix. Listen to your gut, take a holiday, leave the camera at home or limit filming to very short bursts and come back refreshed. We are not going anywhere ❤️.

@magicwendy210 11 месяцев назад

so many are feeling burnt out lately including myself, you are not alone, and don't feel pressure for having to keep pushing out videos so often, perhaps put some projects on the back burner and go down to 1 video a week for a while or even just 1 a month, so you can recharge and take time out for you as a family, we will all still be here whatever you decide to do, hugs x

@SJones-pr7tq 11 месяцев назад

I admire your honesty. I'm 70 years old and I've been where you are. Two toddlers and a huge garden to tend is an overwhelming task. Make less videos and do take more breaks and travel at least twice a year. We will enjoy those with you as well. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us and allowing us to be a part of your journey. The boys will be grown and off before you know it. Don't be too hard on yourselves. You are doing fabulously. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.🙏❤

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for all your support friend ❤️❤️❤️

@annreed1382 11 месяцев назад

So glad that you both are realizing your needs and the needs of your boys. Take the time you need to recharge your batteries and enjoy those young ones while they are young. They grow up too fast. Take it from me a 74 year old with children and grandchildren. It is a challenge figuring out how to stay financially independent. Blessings always. ❤

@TheMardi45 11 месяцев назад

Spot on. From another Nana who has been there and done exactly that. Don't burn yourselves out.

@gumfiffybon 11 месяцев назад

Everyone needs a break sometimes and that is totally fine! ❤Your community appreciates your content BUT you don't live life for RU-vid and it's not worth putting that much pressure on yourself either.

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

❤️😊🙏🏼🏡🇵🇹

@teachtravelvlog 11 месяцев назад

Hello Newbys! I think it is important to remember that RU-vid is your job. A job that makes your everyday activities extra hard because cameras must be set up, things must be explained, and videos must be edited. Everyone needs time away from their job, so it's good that you will be taking a break. Thank you for your hard work! Also, don't forget that homeschooling is an option. Plenty of RU-vidrs travel, farm, and homeschool. :)

@kerstinwallace9854 11 месяцев назад

I would like to echo this comment. I'm a grandparent now, but I cannot imagine how difficult it would have been to film and share my life with strangers, when my children were little (- I ran a tour guiding business from my home). Youtubing, the way you are doing it, criss-crosses your private and work life all day long. It seems to me, you have not much time off during your week. And then you have to read all this feedback - it blows my mind. I think it's all too much. Yes, for the immediate - enjoy a break! You deserve it. I hope your neighbours and community will look after the farm, at least the essentials while you are away. Some of that gorgeous produce will need to be harvested soon. When you return, why not consider going down to once per week. And here's another thought: have you considered organising a string of travelling volunteers to assist with the myriad of jobs around the place. Have a great trip and all the best to all four of you - you will come through this low patch. Take care 💚

@sarahjanewheatley5472 11 месяцев назад

Dear John and Tara, all of us have bad times but very few of us have to justify those to thousands of strangers, albeit mostly supportive ones. Take time out from the outside world and recuperate the love of building your home. We did this 30 year ago in Spain but not on YT. We are still here, welcoming our grandchildren into the farm life we’ve built.

@suepumphrey1559 11 месяцев назад

The thing about Tara and John is that they make us feel like we are a part of their amazing life journey and not just strangers. 💙 I am living with a lung disease and cannot get up and do much, so watching the Newbys for me is a gift. 💜

@candacecaldwell6719 11 месяцев назад

@@suepumphrey1559PRAYING 🙏 THAT "G-D IN HEAVEN" SHALL HEAL YOU TOTALLY ~ SUE! ! !

@Hollybank5 11 месяцев назад

There isn’t a working parent on this earth who hadn’t felt like you do right now ! A work/life balance is such a challenge …. We will still be here when you decide to post a video- so , go relax at the beach, drink a few beers 🍺, meet some new people-- adventurers like you guys , need that excitement to renew your soul ❤. 27:11 Life is short , children grow up so fast … and everyone gets to decide their own path to happiness 🥰😘

@cathcuthbert2011 11 месяцев назад

You two are one of the most honest, decent and hard working couple I've ever seen on RU-vid. I'm in awe of what you've achieved in just ONE YEAR. Of course you're going to feel overwhelmed, you've had so much change in such a short time. John, I honestly don't think this community would mind if you didn't film so much of your handywork. Just absorb yourself in your project and film when you're able. The end result will, as always, be amazing. Tara, you're a mother of 2 little ones and that in itself is a full time job. The fact that you manage to get so many other projects completed is astonishing. Cuddle your babies, take them travelling and enjoy them while they're so small. You're so right in saying that there will come a time when those tiny toys won't be scattered around the farm. This is long and I know how busy you both are so, in short, live in the moment, take time out and look after yourselves.xx

@siboneypeltier2307 11 месяцев назад

perfectly said! xoxoxo

@jenaemarieAZ 11 месяцев назад

I completely agree! 😊

@c.l.sherman211 11 месяцев назад

Perhaps having a caretaker that lives on your property, caring for it in your absence and doing chores to help out when you are there might be an option. We have a caretaker at our ranch, it helps us care for two properties. Farming and ranching is a full time job and it never lets up, just as having our babies that need us 24-7. As you have shared, life is about the process not just the finished product. Love to you all.

@catherinecullen1897 11 месяцев назад

Tara &John you both have done an amazing job in achieving all that you have done whilst rearing your two beautiful boys . .just take a step back and savour everything that you have worked so tirelessly in one short year .....just remember Rome was not built in a day and you have your full life ahead of you to achieve your dreams . ..but u need to be kind to yourselves. Pachk up and take a holiday and you will come back revigourated don't feel your letting anybody down because you are not take a breather you certainly deserve it luv from an avid admirer from Ireland ❤

@lisabullock5864 11 месяцев назад

Something else to think about might be dropping it to one video a week instead of two for a while. Give yourselves a bit more space. It's been a busy year with lots of pressures and big things happening. Give yourselves some grace. All the best on the travels Newbys and thanks for keeping it real ❤

@sandycollins3613 11 месяцев назад

I don't think there's anything wrong with hiring someone to help with the farm chores if you can afford it to give you both a break. Having 2 small children is a full time job on itself. I absolutely love you your beautiful family and all you have accomplished 👏👏👏

@11orana 11 месяцев назад

Asking for help is hard, but a little more help in Portugal will be easy to find and absolutely perfect for people like you with such a dynamic work ethic. Joao and Mario are already such close neighbors and have helped you so much already. The other neighbor lady who has the air BNB you stayed before the house was ready to live in could easily manage your tiny house while you are on your travels.

@marinagarcia8524 11 месяцев назад

I am a Nurse working full-time in the NHS and I have been feeling a bit off lately. Booked myself a beachside holiday and I can't wait to get away from the grind! I hope you all know you aren't the only ones feeling out of sorts. Please know that you bring me great joy and no one will ever judge you if you need to step away! See you all again on Wednesday and thank you for brightening up my days one video at a time ☺

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

We are so glad you have booked a little getaway Marina! You deserve it friend. Thanks for all your support ❤️❤️❤️

@susananderson5435 11 месяцев назад

marina garcia enjoy your holiday xx

@siboneypeltier2307 11 месяцев назад

@@TheNewbys You have achieved so much on your farm, it's amazing and you have made it so beautiful, you are also travelers at heart, time for a travel adventure! take me! cheers! xoxoxoo

@LadyMass 11 месяцев назад

Definitely not the only one feeling off. The last few years has been really rough on so many people. Plus it’s so hard to do projects with toddlers “helping” 😂 feeling you there.

@sofiareis1414 11 месяцев назад

Olá Newbys! We all understand that you must feel exhausted, even if you're doing what you love. There are no super heroes in real life and life isn't perfect. Sometimes all we need is to get away from the routine and do a reset. As you can see, you have all our suport and we will be here when you return ♡ Apreciate your hollidays, have fun and... relax! Beijinhos to all the family 🌿

@hanneliestrydom3717 11 месяцев назад

John and Tara, you are truly working so hard to keep a lot of balls in the air, and I think there's to many at the moment. Keeping everybody happy, that in itself is a 'humongous' task! I realise that youtube is very important for this stage of your lives. Maybe if you take the time for travel as you said. Please take time to enjoy the travel with the boys. Time is most important when your kiddies are growing up. Time is precious. I for one would hate to see you go, i love the adventures and experiences you get to share with the boys. Work on that memories! That is priceless!

@jeannineosorio6566 11 месяцев назад

Tara and John, I am truly amazed at all that you do each week. From being loving and teaching parents everyday to filming, documenting, and editing your weekly progress is just outstanding! But at the end of the day, you both are in charge of your life and that of your precious children. On top of all that you do, you make your YT family laugh and cry. So coming from a recently retired teacher who longs to move to Portugal, take all the time you need or want to stop and smell the roses. You deserve it and more.

@annekeolivier9646 11 месяцев назад

My thoughts exactly...I couldn't have said it in a better way. You are an inspiration to young and old all over the world🇿🇦

@valerieherring8575 11 месяцев назад

Dear Tara and John - two remarkable human beings, dealing with a lot of personal pressure, whilst raising a famly and restoring an abondoned farm. Thank you for sharing your brutal authenticity with us all, who love you very much. You do have a LOT on your hands and honestly, you do NEED to take a well-deserved break from the farm and us, your viewers. Please stay on RU-vid, but only tape once or twice a month. You too, have lives to live and to enjoy and life is calling! We'll miss you of course, but we'll be here when you get back. Life after all, is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy your trip with each other and your beautiful babies and be safe. 🥰🥰

@mimiwiz1 11 месяцев назад

It is refreshing to hear you expressing those feelings of frustration and uncertainty. So many of us share our world through rose colored glasses, wanting everyone to only see us at our best. Recognizing the need to recharge and rest is commendable. So, don't live your lives for us viewers, take care of your family. We'll all be here when you feel up to sharing, and support you, even if it's silently, from afar. Much love and best wishes! Keep being true to your beautiful family. 💖

@monikacarless_wordwitch 11 месяцев назад

Aww, Newby's! My heart just melted with empathy. I know from growing an online business myself that breaks and building it in a way that is sustainable is crucial. I hear you when you say that these times are precious with your children, and that the time to travel is now if done during during school months. I'm sure everyone would be just as happy if it was one video per week. Sometimes the format of the video can also make a difference. I really like seeing your sped up building segments, and just seeing a flower, a chicken, random moments on the homestead. Make it easier on yourselves, we'll be just as interested in your content. Sending you so much love and warm hugs. You should have time enjoying your lawn, and soon, your new outdoor kitchen. BTW, if I can grow a watermelon on Vancouver Island, you can grow one in Portugal! xoxo

@Paularhodes421 11 месяцев назад

Your channel’s growth is testament to how hard you guys work and how much we all love watching you. Your mental health and your beautiful family are more important than putting out 2 vlogs every week. Take some time out and enjoy your precious times - we will all be here supporting you whatever you do xxx❤

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much Jess 🍉🌱👩🏼‍🌾❤️🙏🏼🇵🇹

@mrsbrookwood5602 11 месяцев назад

I’ve always marveled at how much you get done AND be partners AND parents AND keep smiles on your faces. You WILL figure out what works for your family. You need no advice from me. Only encouragement that you’re amazing and your family comes first.

@wandatrollip8282 11 месяцев назад

Please don't quit! Scale down to 1 video per week or every 10 days, maybe, but PLEASE don't quit RU-vid. Remember how excited you guys were when you received your award that is so proudly hanging in the Tiny House. Drink your AG1 and push through. Like with anything in life, it sometimes starts to feel a bit overwhelming... You guys bring more joy and awe to us than you will ever know ❤ We value you all and your amazing videos! Lots of love from South Africa ❤ BE BRAVE, THINK BIG AND EXPLORE!😊

@ronaroamsdeniseandsonny3545 11 месяцев назад

You try and do what they do and then listen to someone (like you) saying "PLEASE" don't stop 😮

@wandatrollip8282 11 месяцев назад

I know... You're right. They should absolutely do what they feel is right for them as a family.. I am just selfishly thinking of how I will miss them if they are not here anymore 🤗

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thanks Wanda. We filmed this video a week or so ago, and since then we have been working on a plan of action to release stress, it includes meeting up with friends and going on a holiday. We will keep going. Thank you so much for your support ❤️😊🙏🏼🏡🇵🇹

@wandatrollip8282 11 месяцев назад

Take all the time and holidays you need! We will always be here 🤗

@neilbridgeman7768 11 месяцев назад

They won’t quit. It is just attention seeking.

@mikayla4842 11 месяцев назад

You guys are just wonderful people, hard working, with a beautiful family and beautiful dreams. No matter what you decide I’m happy that people like you are here on this planet and keep us real and grounded. Love from Sweden where we are going through the same thing trying to renovate an old cottage, working a garden, building an workshop. Hard work but so rewarding to work for ourselves. Chin up and get a good rest!

@stephaniehanuman-dale6279 11 месяцев назад

You guys have been working so hard with so many projects When you own a home and have gardens and orchards to maintain plus little kids the work is never done It’s a marathon not a sprint ❤

@elsmosseveld6125 11 месяцев назад

It is no wonder both of you are tired, you have some massive projects going on. 2 small humans to take care of, a big farm, renovating a house, making you tube videos and somewhere in between you also have to make some time for each other. That is a lot. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your family. You inspired me to make a move to Portugal as well. Better to be sorry about the things you did do, than about the things you didn't do

@lynnbfoster 11 месяцев назад

Tara, and John, I’m barely into this vlog but I just wanted to say I remember when my babies were little, only 15 months apart in age. The feeling of being overwhelmed on a daily basis and too little time, energy or motivation to get anything extra done. You both are amazing in all that you accomplish while still keeping a kind attitude with Crusoe and Sawyer. Hats off to you. I’ll be here in North Carolina on your team even if you decide to film less often which I selfishly hope won’t happen.

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thank you for your lovely comment Lynn. It has not been easy but it is nice knowing that we are not alone. Your support means so much to us. We will keep going, don't you worry. ❤️😊🙏🏼🏡🇵🇹

@angelogouveia2487 11 месяцев назад

I understand how hard it is live with 2 small kids and the rest ... not easy ..but life is not easy. Keep going, and we are here to support you. ❤❤

@kindlydude 11 месяцев назад

Once per week vlog that is a bit longer, instead of two... might be the compromise you're looking for. The Lord made a day for rest ...and sometimes we need a few weeks per year too. Breath deep, decide what is vital and carry on with ease and joy ....because you want to ...not because you have to. There are plenty of 'have tos' in life ...posting on youtube twice per week is not one of them. Tara, keep a journal ...I suspect that when the children get older, you'll have time to put together some "Mommy" books or books for children with your special art ...maybe even films of your children adventure books (?) With your popularity on youtube I have no doubt you would become a successful publisher. All your thoughts about travel, and the people of the world, the plants & animals as well. Life is more than just youtube!

@clairz679 11 месяцев назад

I feel that we are incredibly privileged to see whatever you choose to share with us, whenever you choose. As others have said, we'll still be here no matter how few the videos. I love your honesty, and the joyfulness surrounding your family brings tears to my eyes. Thank you, as always.

@carolyns9687 11 месяцев назад

I admire you all for renovating, creating new gardens as well as taking care of little ones whilst trying to do videos & edit them. It takes an unimaginal amount of energy to keep up the pace! Time is precious , so please do what is right for you . We will be here until you are ready to share your adventures. 🇨🇦❤️

@juliemartin2971 11 месяцев назад

Having a young family although joyous is also hard work, and then added to the mix producing content for your channel must leave you feeling beyond exhausted. I would imagine that those viewing your videos like myself have become quite fond of you all and we wish you and your little family nothing but the best. If all of this is making it difficult to be present in each others lives, well then something has to give. Please be kind to yourselves and do what is best for one another. Much love to you all from Australia ❤

@mabbim2464 11 месяцев назад

Go take a break newbies, clear you heads, spend time with the boys and in no time you will remember why you started this new journey. We will be here when you get back ❤

@13576230 11 месяцев назад

Having two little ones is a full time job and running the farm is more than a full-time job. You just need a holiday and your energy will return.❤

@LifebyLiving 11 месяцев назад

Ahhh guys! 100% sympathise. RU-vid is a cruel mistress & I don’t think many understand the work & pressures involved behind the scenes. It takes its toll. We’re exhausted doing one a week, no idea how you manage to do two. Hats off to you both. Enjoy a well earned break & have an awesome holiday 😎

@stevefox5695 11 месяцев назад

It's OK to have blips and feel a bit down, even in paradise. We are all happy you share your story with us but no pressure to do 2 videos a week. Just seeing Crusoe spot the plum and then try to pick it made my day. Precious moments like this are what life is all about. You all take care.

@debbiekalynuk4217 11 месяцев назад

Perhaps you can give Crusoe his own garden where he can dig his own vegetables.

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Love that idea Debbie 🍉🌱👩🏼‍🌾❤️🙏🏼🇵🇹

@keagleeagle821 11 месяцев назад

I support this idea

@jojons6484 11 месяцев назад

I had the same exact thought as I was watching Crusoe dig up the garden

@dhopebeyer8 11 месяцев назад

Tara & John, you are AMAZING! You have done soooo much on the farm in this last year. It is absolutely incredible the transformation. I know the energy it takes to do this AND enriching you boys as well as the time & energy to film & produce videos (an enormous task). We ALL hit the wall from time to time! Take a Hiatus from the farm and go do something fun! EXLORE & BE BRAVE even if that means doing only one short video a week or less. GO do whatever makes you Joyful. We love you❤

@brendaanderson292 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for sharing your life with us through your amazing videos. As a newbie to TheNewbys community, ❤ I agree with a number of my fellow subscribers- take a break and enjoy your time with your little ones. And maybe one vlog a week. When I had my first child 45 years ago, my mother gave me a china mug with this poem - “Cleaning and Scrubbing can wait till tomorrow. For babies grow up. We learn to our sorrow. So quiet down cobwebs, dust go to sleep. I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep.” Take care. Hugs. 💕💕💕💕🇨🇦

@ReneeRichterthisonesforyou99 11 месяцев назад

My mother gave me same poem when I had my first son 41 years ago!

@judylangston3426 11 месяцев назад

John and Tara, follow your heart, it's time to prioritize your life goals, what is most important to you and your family. We, your community, will still be faithful to support you and look forward to updates whenever you are able. Just because we don't see you twice a week doesn't mean we don't love and pray for your precious family. I pray God's wisdom abounds in you decision.

@annesavage1211 11 месяцев назад

Don't stop !! Just put your cameras up and film what you do during the day without explaining things, just film what you are doing and the antics of that charming young man.😊

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

❤️😊🙏🏼🏡🇵🇹

@carolinecorey6473 11 месяцев назад

Just finished watching the the TeePee episode with the lovely Cotters and what a joy it was to see you having fun, enjoying friends and taking some time to hang out away from the farm. Those moments and that expat community is so important for your mental, emotional health and well being. Self-care is not Selfish. Love and hugs to you all dear Newbys 😊

@iJSabelle007 11 месяцев назад

I can tell from your latest videos that you are tired. Making videos is time consuming, the editing and finding your story plot or how you piece the pieces together is not easy especially with the little ones! We have joy in seeing your family and the kids growing. Don't pressure yourselves for us. Take a break. We'll be watching! Nancy and I love your story, and we wait for new uploads. Once, I was kinda worried why there's no new upload. Well, it was just a Tuesday! ❤

@hilaryholt3061 11 месяцев назад

It sounds like taking a holiday is just what you need! I’m sure you will eventually find the balance between excitement of travel, new places, new people, and the joy of developing your home and garden in Portugal…and as many people have already said sleep deprivation makes everything harder. Have fun!

@jilllangman9343 11 месяцев назад

Tara and John, you have given us your all for a long time and we have enjoyed it enormously. Thankyou. ❤️. You started out as adventurers and now you are in the thick of responsibilities and parenthood… who wouldn’t wonder what on earth is happening? Please dont stop sharing because we get more than you can imagine from your generosity. Maybe cut back to once a week. Love to you both from Australia. 🌈 🙋‍♀️ 🙏

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thanks so much Jill. That’s so kind. We love sharing this journey with you. We filmed this video a week or so ago, and since then we have been working on a plan of action to release stress, it includes meeting up with friends and going on a holiday. We will keep going. :) Thank you so much for your support ❤️😊🙏🏼🏡🇵🇹

@victoriamorgan5859 11 месяцев назад

Tara & John I so love watching your Big boy Crusio helping you both , he is starting to be a real chatter box😊 Sorry to here you are feeling burnt out no wonder doing all you do on the farm also completing two videos a week it would burn any one out. So whatever you decide we all will still be here because we love you guys. Victoria from Australia. 😊😊❤❤

@andil6784 11 месяцев назад

Hang in there you guys. It’s not a crime to take a break from it all. Keeping up the pace of churning out twice-weekly videos is leaving nothing in the coffers for you to enjoy personal time”. YT, as with all social media, will own you if you let it. Remember, you run your lives. 🥰

@galelawhead588 11 месяцев назад

To Tara and John: just getting caught up on your Vlogs from the past couple of weeks ( traveled to Portugal and Spain) and our hearts went out to you. You two are such special people. Kind, loving and so hard working! We are rooting for you to be happy in whatever decisions you make. We think the world of your family and wish you only the best. ❤

@traceybarnes4543 11 месяцев назад

Love seeing how you're doing, but you must put you and lovely family first. Take care xx

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

❤️😊🙏🏼🏡🇵🇹

@Paulaonthebeach 11 месяцев назад

I am 81. You are my favorites. You will make wise decisions. You have brought such tender beauty to our worlds. We celebrate your family, your farm, and your journey, and thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

@sunbab 10 месяцев назад

I had a similar problem with the grass growing all over. A friend suggested a simple trick. Mark your garden area, lay simple cardboard over it, if you have landscape fabric you can put it over or just add some wood chips over the cardboard, will save you a lot of work from removing all those weeds plus the area will retain moisture longer. hope it helps !

@where-we-roam 11 месяцев назад

Luckily for you guys, Portugal has some beautiful beaches/cities to explore. The diverse landscape from where you all live to the coasts, the islands, or the rolling landscapes of Alentejo might be enough to rejuvenate your spirit. Burn out happens to all of us. Like others have said, perhaps fewer videos and more time exploring your new home country will help. All the best to the fam.

@user-cw5gc6sw5u 11 месяцев назад

Thank you for being so honest about how things are with you both at the moment. I echo what everyone else has been saying, everyone needs some time off to relax and you two are both no different.You have achieved so much in the short time you have had the farm, plus caring for two littles ones. It's good to take stock and just be. Little ones grow up so fast, enjoy them while as they grow, as you can't turn the clock back. It's okay to take a break from RU-vid, of course we will miss you, but if that's what you both need, just do it and have some precious time out.....

@abigailstone738 11 месяцев назад

"If you get tired, learn to rest, not to quit." Is a quote that I have to remind myself of at times. Sending you all love and I hope that your find the rest, refresh and change that you need soon!

@johoch40 11 месяцев назад

Ooh, John and Tara , understandably, you are exhausted after the herculean task to make the farm livable. Take your deserved break! The beauty of your videos comes from your spontaneity, your laughter, and even your tears. Obrigada for being you! Este mundo é mais bonito com vocês...do not quit just now. Blessings from the USA!

@amandagadd5603 11 месяцев назад

You guys work so hard on your farm and to create content for us all to follow and we absolutely love to see you family, by showing this sort of content for me I think it brings a real element to your everyday life it shows that you are only human and not everyday is easy, give yourselves a break mentally and physically, take time out for just you we will all still be here, we have a beautiful holiday home in Vilamoura which we are travelling to next week for 3 months and we cant wait, but you guys are always welcome to stay anytime of year if you just need some R&R a beach, a pool, and a pint of super bock 😊 keep being you we love it

@tammaragill9347 11 месяцев назад

Let me first say I absolutely love your channel BECAUSE you are REAL. You include the good, bad, and ugly, which is relatable. Before you had 2 children you both traveled all over the world. It has to be quite the adjustment to have 2 children and buy a farm. A holiday with a change of scenery just might be the ticket to recharge your spirits. Second, as for your weeds Tara, have you thought about weed cloth? It's a bit late in the game this year, but next year put it down to eliminate the majority of the weeds. You can also put a cover over the area where you want your oats (over winter) to try to reduce those plants taking over. Sorry this is such a LONG comment. With much love being sent from sunny Florida 🥰❤🙏

@teresamourao3602 11 месяцев назад

Meus queridos, só precisam mesmo de abrandar nos novos projectos. Desfrutar melhor do que já realizaram (que é muito); brincar mais com os filhotes e continuar a partilhar. Kiss

@carolinewelham4998 11 месяцев назад

You are correct you should grow peas inside the poles it keeps them in place tidy and growing well, don’t forget to plant marigolds amongst you4 carrots to keep the whitefly away. Please do not quite you tube I really look forward to sharing your pro grass and the children growing up , I feel like you are family so please please do not give in. Just take a break ,everybody needs to take a rest but remember just how much you have accomplished and what a fantastic view you have from your property , I wish i was your neighbour so I could be your little helper, sawyer is a good little boy just like our dear Crusoe I love when he is chatty. You are not whining and ungrateful you are just a little burnt out and look how happy Crusoe is and loves helping and the chickens. So I beg you please 🙏please 🙏 do not pack it in there will be such happy times to come and you cannot keep travelling when the boys need schooling and when the boys have left school you can travel to a few more places, just enjoy you wonderful property ❤️❤️god bless you , we love you 😘

@marciacarvalho8266 11 месяцев назад

You're just tired, don't cover yourself up so much, you're doing a remarkable job! Take advantage of this break to rebalance your energies and come back stronger. 💪😉 All of us followers want to see you well and happy. Have an excellent time out. 🙌✨☺️

@a2shillam 11 месяцев назад

Definitely slow down. Crusoe and Sawyer are the most important projects. It's hard to leave during growing season. If you can hire neighbors to take charge of different sections and someone to tend to the chickens, then steal away for ten days. No cameras. Just you four. BE with each other. Refresh. ❤❤ You have no idea the depth of what you are modeling in family life, just by being you. So take a family break, nothing exotic, maybe another part of Portugal. Make it easy on you all. Then come back. We will be here. Much, much ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️

@kindlydude 11 месяцев назад

Dear Newby family, I believe your relationship with each other is co-equal to the one with your children. As parents we would do anything for our children, even sacrifice our lives if necessary. In the old days extended family lived in villages or lived near by ....and helped each other with the chores and everyday needs ...especially when the children were/are little. No wonder so many couples get burnt out & babysitters alone don't cut it. Parents need their moments when they can snatch from busy schedules to be alone together (which is almost impossible with a nursing baby) ...but is doable even for little 'date nights' when one has either family or close friends who can fill in. (Also) Many people around the world live in 'intentional communities' & most don't succeed or work well unless they are centered around core values or religion like the Amish ...or family & farming like the Kibbutz farms in Israel ...The point is they are all pulling together for mutual goals. I think you Newbys may benefit by gradually developing a physical (3d) community (not just the on-line community) ...multi-skilled people or just willing-helpful hands on the farm that come for occasional weekly-monthly ...or just weekend or day -visits that they pay for themselves, but either teach or learn about farming by DOING like they do at 'Camphill' or 'Waldorf' or 'Bio-dynamic' farms across Europe and the world. If one day (after you have built your own home) you-all think this might be a viable option then you could build not-so tiny homes with several bedrooms & a community kitchen and a couple of bathrooms for visiting teachers or "scholars of the soil". I believe Camphill, Waldorf Bio-dynamic and other kinds of farms thrive & almost couldn't function without these short-term visiting helpers. The houses could be far enough from the main house to ensure privacy and safety (vetting the people somehow beforehand). This way the farm would almost run itself ...& eventually (maybe sooner than latter) you could hire a skilled & experienced farm-manager that co-manages the farm with the Newby-management (with your ultimate say-so). Perhaps this could be something that evolves over time ...& maybe not until the boys have grown a little, or even when they're already teenagers & could help run the farm & manage people themselves. Safety first always. And again maybe this is not at all what you are aiming for or would ever consider. Anyway, I used to visit such farms when I lived in Minnesota, and also visited Camphill & Waldorf farms in next-door Wisconsin. There was so much produce at one Camphill I used to visit (only on weekends) that at the end of several hours (usually four-six hours) when a certain designated chore/task was finished like planting, weeding, mulching, fertilizing, etc ...we got to bring home a box of vegetables at the end of the day ...so my teen-aged daughter and I didn't even need housing. The farm benefited from our help ...but so did we! We LOVED getting away from the city & enjoying the farm & nature. Sometimes my daughter's Waldorf school rented a very large two-story cabin near the farm and would come help pick on produce day when they sold their vegetables by the box & delivered them. We'd also go canoeing down the nearby St. Croix River, as well as hike and learn about wildflowers & wild-edibles and honeybees & prairie preservation in the meadows. We went with the school or just as a family. In fact there was a hiking trail down to the St. Croix through deciduous and pine forest with gullies, hills and a large waterfall and stream where we went swimming. At the time they also took young people from many area schools horse-back riding through the meadows and forest. Like your property (except bigger) it was a kind of multi-faceted flora & fauna paradise with different kinds of terrain & purposes. With so many farms going under in America these kinds of farms are thriving. This particular one I used to go to most is called Community Homestead (,org) ...but there are many many others like these across America and Europe (especially Germany where Waldorf & Bio-dynamic farming got started). I am only sharing this info ...with no expectation whatsoever, except to share what is out there. I don't know if they ever read my comment (which wasn't as long) ...but I shared similar info with The Voyagers in Italy since they may be near these kinds of farms and benefit from ideas & farming-practices they may gather by visiting them. Warm greetings to you Newby family, and have a wonderful time away from the stress and work ...and breathe deeply the joy of your blessed life and appreciate all you have accomplished. Whether you stick w/ YT or not ...we have benefited and enjoyed the journey with you! ~Tara (Kindlydude's wife)

@DC-ue4ym 11 месяцев назад

You haven't asked for advice but you welcome comments...as a mother of two and it's now 30+ years later I would remind you of how fortunate a life you are living now, have lived prior to Portugal and even your most recent experiences to Morocco, Italy and Zimbabwe in the last 6 months! (wow) Not many people have these opportunities. You are young, there is still plenty of time to do more travel in the years to come. The best education for your children never happens in a classroom (keep that in mind when you worry about pulling them out of school to experience a travel experience). You are not in some race to finish the farm projects so relax take your time and enjoy your family. It really does go by quickly. Suggestion: How about taking a day or two off and head to the nearest beach for some R&R or go and explore more of the region and area where you live. I'm sure there is plenty to discover. Make some new adventures happen close to home. You don't need to jump on a plane and fly far away to have fun and adventures. It doesn't have to be all about work projects on the farm. Balance is key. Side note: We have a beautiful garden/yard/home that stops people who walk by and we get asked many questions about it...Yes, it was a lot of work to get it to this point but I'm very clear, it took us 16 years and counting :) All the best to you Newbys family!

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

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@EsteeWalts 11 месяцев назад

You know....the grass.......being greener elsewhere........ 🙃 If there is one thing i learned in 71 years of my life it must be: counting my blessings.

@lesleycooper6523 11 месяцев назад

I think you are both suffering from a lack of quality sleep! It’s been tough with a toddler, a newborn, and all your projects! Take a well deserved break, unwind, relax and recharge! You deserve it, you both work so hard to create such an idyllic homestead for you and your little boys and it’s lovely to be a part of your journey, I do hope you don’t decide to quit RU-vid, I love my Sunday mornings with a coffee and The Newbys!

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

I do think getting some sleep will help a lot Lesley. Since recording this episode we have come up with some solutions to help release stress, one of them being a little holiday which we are all so excited about. We will continue our journey on RU-vid friend ❤️😊🙏🏼🏡🇵🇹

@nonibbs 11 месяцев назад

@@TheNewbys Whew. Holidays sometimes help one to see things differently. I expect also having travelled so much - you miss the open road.Praying for you.

@cathyholt5215 11 месяцев назад

I recall when my kids were 2 & 6 mo (I had just gone back to work full time) I sat at my moms kitchen table and cried & pondered 'why did I want this so bad?!' I was overwhelmed. Now sitting here 35 yrs later in my big quiet house alone (my kids grown & gone-husband passed) I realized that earlier time in my life was the hardest most magical time in my life that I loved. Do what feels right for you and your family but just know "this too shall pass " hugs

@lynnbfoster 11 месяцев назад

Exactly! It’s so hard to believe it will get easier when you’re in the thick of it

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thanks so much Cathy, you are quite right friend. This too shall pass and it is part of our journey. Since filming this episode we have come up with some solutions to release stress, like meeting up with friends and going on a holiday ❤️😊🙏🏼🏡🇵🇹

@lynnbfoster 11 месяцев назад

I just want to encourage you to BE BRAVE, THINK BIG AND EXPLORE. Maybe a trip is in order? I feel the same way when I’m overdue for a vacation…nothing is right in my wonderful beautiful world when I feel the need to get away. You’ve also spent all this time building your YT audience and I’m sure it will pay off financially in the future. I’d hate for you to lose your momentum. Wishing your family all the best!!

@jpennturner 11 месяцев назад

Hi I had children in 1975 1976 and 1977 it was all I could do to get out of bed, I think you are wonderful people and parents!

@jasmine24477 11 месяцев назад

Cathy Holt This brought tears to my eyes 😥

@allisontison40 11 месяцев назад

Gardening and farming are very hard! A lot of people will put down cardboard then add sterilized compost from bags. I think this would really be helpful for the areas in your food area where you have a ton of difficult weeds. Also for really big areas you could just cover with black thick plastic sheets . By putting it down for the entire summer you could kill weed seeds. It gets very hot, it’s worth a try. Also, any flowering plant that reseeds itself( perennial) is a blessing as well. Fruit trees, strawberries, orange trees, and cherry trees seem to be a good bet in Portugal. When I had a wood stove I used to dump the wood ashes in my garden spot. It really was remarkable how much food we got out of a little 20 foot by 20 foot spot. Tomatoes to can, zucchini by the hundreds, yellow crookneck, okra, and tons of cucumbers!

@fwfarms6674 11 месяцев назад

We watch your channel from Vancouver Island in Canada where we are renovating home and garden without toddlers, infants or filming pressures. We totally respect your need to post fewer videos and stay sane and balanced. More sleep would certinly help all of us. We have renovated with toddlers and have no idea how you can add filming to the mix - very impressive. We would love to see you make videos of exploring your local Portugese environs - the market, the football pitch, the lumber yard and vineyards and beaches would be interesting to see. We liked your shopping and olive oil pressing adventures. Gardening tips from your neighbours would be good too!

@sarahwaters5475 11 месяцев назад

Hearing your honesty, willingness to share your thoughts with us draws me to you, and I love what you are doing, sharing your family with us and the chickens. It is big joy. Having time away, to sleep, relax, unwind is part of keeping healthy and I am glad you are doing that. The building of the kitchen is a huge project and is one that needs careful attention to every part of the construction. Maybe one video a week would free you both, and enable you to enjoy the farm, the children as they thrive, and your partnership. Keep well, be safe, and love life's adventures. With grateful thanks to you both

@mariaameliamagalhaes8239 11 месяцев назад

Gosto muito de ver as vossa reformas, mas editem quando puderem, não é preciso estarem stressados por não conseguirem fazê-lo sempre. Quando postarem os vídeos cá estarei para ver os progressos, sejam felizes neste pequeno país ( o meu) que é encantador e gosta de toda a gente que o escolheu para viver. Um abraço e até um destes dias.

@carolwhittington 11 месяцев назад

Wow there were some beautiful moments in this video as always. I imagine there is immense pressure to complete two videos each week and then edit them for our enjoyment and to do all this on top of everything you are doing on the farm and two babies to look after is incredible. I love listening to Crusoe chatting now. I think you definitely need a break from it all. Maybe your neighbours could help look after the farm while you go away. Go for it xxxx

@ronayneoreveee7613 11 месяцев назад

Hi there! Thank you for your latest video. I should think every person has & does feel that way. It's part of life! Wanting to be a free spirit, enjoying our children ( because yes, it goes so very quick, and then you want it back), but at the same time, you need to earn a living. Sometimes, also, most jobs become laborious and make you feel that little bit more trapped! I love having breaks, away from my job, home it keeps me going, gives me change. Even though i live in a beautiful place! If the time came that on my return, i didn't feel that love/comfort for home! And my lifestyle! than a change has to come! Maybe this is yours, possibly for the short term, until Crusoe starts school! Good luck. It has been a pleasure meeting you guys! Do what you have to! X

@paris0551 11 месяцев назад

You really are a genuine joy to watch, and yes, it is your honesty and realism that makes your channel special. I had three children under five, and looking back now, the broken nights and tantrums are not what I remember. I remember being on a beach and being tapped on my shoulder by a helpful person who told me my baby was eating the sand … Actually it was soon spat out, and no harm was realised, I often look back on that and smile, she also made a good attempt at eating an African violet plant 😆 I smile at the funny things they said, words they invented and we still use, I smile at the fun and laughter, and that is continuing in their adulthood and through my beautiful grandsons. Anyway, the point is, when you are in that place of little people, 24/7, it can be so tiring it’s debilitating. You definitely need a holiday, so enjoy yourselves, and re think when you return. Whatever you choose to do, I’m sure your community will be with you. As always, look after yourselves, take care, sending you all very big hugs xx

@kindlydude 11 месяцев назад

I too ☺remember those funny inventive words only children think of ...one thing my granddaughter used to say when the car went through tunnels was "Stop my bunny!!" I'm still trying to figure it out! Another was "Crickets hiding in the bushes" which makes more sense! 😉

@paris0551 11 месяцев назад

@@kindlydude my daughter had a word for when her hands were inside mittens. She had hands, she had mittens, but when she had her hands inside the mittens, she would say ‘hold my na-nats Mummy’. We never knew where this came from 😂

@alziraseveriano6024 11 месяцев назад

Tenho dificuldade em interagir por não falar inglês 😅mas ver-vos crescer na fazenda e o crescimento das crianças faz-me muito feliz.Fico com pena de não vos ver por aqui .Aproveitem uns fins-de-semana para saírem da fazenda e conhecerem um pouco de Portugal isso vai-vos trazer alguma energia.Muitas felicidades 😘

@debbiesearle8442 11 месяцев назад

Blessings to you both and whatever you decide know that you will have continued support from many. You are doing an amazing job juggling the farm and raising your beautiful boys. Sometimes you have to step out of one season before you can make space for the next season. Love watching your adventure unfold.

@MarionWinia 11 месяцев назад

Be brave ..... you told us how you are feeling , we understand completly.... think big...... go on the road , just for break ..... explore...... find the love in your little family and enjoy. Young parents, little sleep, lots of work, you tube twice a week ( take a summer break, one video the most per week, or once ever y 2 weeks, than you will refind your hapiness! You are a great couple! ❤

@Tigerlilart 11 месяцев назад

You’ve done such a massive amount in the last year as well as having a baby and manage a toddler. Geeze, I can not imagine how difficult it must be to add you tube on top of all that. Life isn’t perfect anywhere, just live each day and take time to catch your breath. I for one think you guys are amazing and would deeply miss your vlogs. ❤

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much Tigerlil ❤️❤️❤️

@amybruno5319 11 месяцев назад

Thank you John and Tara! I/we support you and your family on whatever decisions you make and we'll be here when you get back. The love and gratitude is mutual and after all these videos week after week we really do adore yall and are just so thankful to be a part of your farm, your family, and your world. Have a wonderful time on your holiday! Love from the US. 💜✨

@ingridcatalano4706 11 месяцев назад

John you're an absolute genius constructing with wood!!!! Everything you did was spectacular like the kitchen, the tiniy house and now the autdoor kitchen!!!! Your hands are very gifted!!! I also love watching Crusoe helping and playing with you two and soon Sawyer will be of the party too. With all you do is understantable that you need a break and thanks for sharing!!!! Great hug!!!!

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thanks so much for your lovely compliment Ingrid 😊🙏🏼🏡🇵🇹

@eileengizienski543 11 месяцев назад

Change is a constant in our lives. It did seem like your content production of twice a week was a lot for you two, with all the other responsibilities you have. Take time and regroup. If RU-vid is right for you, we will see you all again. Best wishes to your family in making the right choices and on your future adventures. It's been a joy getting to know you all. 😎

@walkingstickwoman 11 месяцев назад

Good morning. Thank you for spending time to video. I really enjoy it.

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much Nancy ❤️😊🙏🏼🏡🇵🇹

@leotatem4879 11 месяцев назад

Balance is something we all struggle with throughout our lives. And so mixing it up so that it stays fun and fresh for you makes a good deal of sense. I am now enjoying the special scale. You told us about last week, so exciting. Cheers!

@melanierawlings35 4 месяца назад

I don't know if this is a possibility for you or if someone has already mentioned it. My father was told watermelon would not grow in his area. He covered a raised row with black plastic, which warmed the ground and helped keep the weeds down. It also kept the watermelon from sitting directly in the dirt. At the end of each season he pulls it up, rolls it up and reuses it the next year. He was able to sometimes, depending on the year get some pretty good size watermelons.

@yvettemunoz3014 11 месяцев назад

Love your honesty as much as I love your videos. As others have said maybe 2 videos a week is too much. I think we can all appreciate how hard you are working on the farm whilst raising two little boys, and us parents understand it’s not an easy job. Enjoy your break, have fun and hopefully a good rest as well. Even if you release 1 video a month I will be tuning in to enjoy your progress. Hugs 🤗

@sandralnwebster3204 11 месяцев назад

You both are so innovative and positive with your new surroundins-you take problems in your stride and know you'll find a solution! Your little boys are so precious and a hope for the future❤. What you are accomplishing is amazing-give yourselves some pats on your backs!The marigolds will benefit your plants and add happy colours! Great growing! CHEERS Sandy&Andy😊

@wendysmith2742 11 месяцев назад

Please be kind and patient with yourselves. Take the time you need. It is an honor to watch your lives unfold. Whatever you decide for your family is perfect. Bless you.

@evalinawarne1337 11 месяцев назад

Wendy, LOVELY how you stated in just a few sentences. Honor. Took me many paragraphs and more to my mind. GOD BLESS YOU 🀄🛐✝️❤️🌹🥀🀄 FROM S E MICHIGAN USA 🇺🇸🇨🇦🀄🛐✝️ CIAO ❤️🌹

@mariannejensen5244 11 месяцев назад

Most of us are supporting you because we are watching your videos! Great job on those videos. I just found you guys! Here’s an idea: prop up your cameras as you work for some portion of your videos and do voice overs when you edit them! It doesn’t have to be for the whole video. It’ll take some pressure off as you work and enjoy your precious ones!! Happy videoing!!

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thank you Marianne! 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️

@marietaadriao6409 11 месяцев назад

Hello from Australia You guys are so real , I’m an ex patriot and yearn everything Portuguese and your channel brings me so much joy, keep doing what you do and always be yourselves ❤️❤️❤️

@lydia2494 11 месяцев назад

Just wanted to say that if not for your content and beautifully warm family life, which, believe me, is becoming increasingly rare to witness, I would not have hope to succeed myself. I absolutely adore your innocent, casual, naturally curated life... it's like my therapy session...❤

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Ah Lydia, thank you so much for your lovely comment friend. 🍉🌱👩🏼‍🌾❤️🙏🏼🇵🇹

@joywhitley3141 11 месяцев назад

You are such hard workers. You've taken on a lot! Have a vacation and relax. We love watching your channel! ❤

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thanks Joy! ❤️❤️

@joywhitley3141 11 месяцев назад

@@TheNewbys 😍

@theholisticfamily7604 11 месяцев назад

Hi, about the grass. You could also choose to cover it a season (with cardboard or tarp) and plant in it next year after applying a big layer of compost to it. That would kill most grass underneath❤

@carriesmith5907 11 месяцев назад

You both have worked so hard to create a beautiful place for you and your family. When your in the midst of your projects it’s hard to see just how much you have accomplished. Pack your bags and hit the road, when you come home you will have fresh eyes and see all the wonderful things you have done!!! I guarantee you your farm will be more beautiful than ever!!! I could watch you guys everyday, but 1 video a week is enough!!!! Be good to yourself and remember we all love you guys!!! Safe travels ❤

@grahamredfern814 11 месяцев назад

For a couple who have travelled the world like you have it will always be hard to settle down in one place forever. Having made the choice to start a family and buy the farm will now be the centre of your thoughts and decisions. Just one of those is bad enough but with the farm needing so much work after years of neglect it has to drain you both at times. So, go ahead and enjoy your break.

@louiselage7740 11 месяцев назад

Dear John and Tara...My friends, I wholeheartedly support you taking a break away and having some much needed rest. I have been in awe of your accomplishments and being able to build, weed, water, plant, clean, cook, care for yourselves and the kids, dig and dig, film, edit, shop, organize, budget, decorate, host visitors, plan, and keep your family safe. And doing all of this on poor sleep! And there is so much more we don't see behind the scenes too! It is a lot to do while putting out TWO vlogs a week. I would also support you if you decided to do only ONE a week in the future. I know it's your income, but I will bet that your weekly viewers will be maintained without much change in numbers overall..... I have long felt that perhaps your pace was just not sustainable in the long run, and that cutting back on vlogging and taking time to get away would be necessary for both of you. As my dear Mum used to say.. (And I hope this translates properly!)...." As jy jou liggaam ignoreer wanneer dit jou tekens gee, sal die goeie Here jou geen ander keuse gee as om op een of ander manier te rus nie ..."🌄🌹🐞🐝

@marcosfigueiredo8515 11 месяцев назад

Exactly

@marcosfigueiredo8515 11 месяцев назад

One vídeo for a month, it’s ok. Do it

@trishapeden9953 11 месяцев назад

You guys are doing so many different things all it was and the fact that you're willing to share it with us it's amazing I really pray that you choose to continue to attend RU-vid because you show people that strength is in the daily drive not in the final stretch and success and happiness comes from enjoying what's right in front of you so I feel like your channel conveys tasting and it would be sad for them to go away you guys are super parents and you're so kind and gentle and loving to your kids you included and all of these things the world needs to see Mora and you guys show it to that

@kimbersmith145 11 месяцев назад

Life is a lot for most of us right now. We love the Newbys and whatever decisions and choices you make for your family will not change that. ☮️💜

@maxinekelly8417 11 месяцев назад

All of your projects have been huge and you have never missed a beat as well as having Sawyer life is super busy and lack of sleep is the hardest part of raising young children give yourselves time to smell the roses 🌹 the most important thing is that you both realise burnout is real and you need to take time out. Maybe back to one video a week. Remember you and your health is the most important thing. Much love and respect to you both. ❤️❤️🇦🇺🇦🇺👍👍❤️❤️

@paulacunha6792 11 месяцев назад

John e Tara é compriensivel vocês terem esse pensamento ❤ também concordo em tirarem uns dias de ferias e irem explorar o mundo ele é vosso .

@silvertonguedaywalker9116 11 месяцев назад

Tara and John and 2 Beautiful Lads. Nana Lin here. Not a lot Scares me in Life x but TIME does. Today our 7 Year Old Grandson Little Bud as i call him was helping his Pops Build large set of Bunkbeds i was in the other room and could hear them Chatting. Such a Lovely moments so Beautiful they are such good Buds.. I have seen.the Bra thing with Melons it works but i have never done it. I am here for you all, no.matter how long you need time to Work Rest and Play. i am 64 on 15th June i hated being 40 lol. I remember the First Vlog i saw you guys in. ❤❤❤❤ . John.i am so Happy that i am.apart of your Lives. Thank you for letting me into yours and Tara and your Beautiful Lads Lives. I will follow your Journey of Life. Love and Adventure x Much Love Nana Lin xxxx

@SJC49 11 месяцев назад

Hello, I am Nana Sally and feel exactly the same. My 6 year old grandson is nicknamed ‘My Buddy’. He has a 3 yr old bother who is ‘nuts’ (not really)! 😍 I am 74 and need to cherish every moment with them!

@emmaball8726 11 месяцев назад

8.00pm - guys my heart goes out to you all. Please, please take time out for yourselves. Enjoy your children and most importantly time for yourselves as husband and wife !!! So fundamentally important. I must admit I’m so envious at times watching the lifestyle you all live as it would be a dream come true for myself, on the flip side of that I am not envious of the many, many hours you both take to make your videos, which I would only imagine it can consume your whole lives from time to time. Take time, go off and rejuvenate your souls, enrich yourselves with whatever it takes to allow your cups to overflow once more. Your whole family are an inspiration to watch and the abundant lifestyle yous are creating is mesmerising. Much love from the north east of England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 ❤

@TheNewbys 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much Emma. We filmed this video a week or so ago, and since then we have been working on a plan of action to release stress, it includes meeting up with friends and going on a holiday. We will keep going. Thank you so much for your support ❤️😊🙏🏼🏡🇵🇹

@emmaball8726 11 месяцев назад

@@TheNewbys 💫💫💫💫

@joycady8325 11 месяцев назад

They do grow up quickly, the part where Crusoe is climbing on your back while gardening brought back so many sweet memories of my little ones that are all grown up and on their own. Always cherish every single moment because it truly flys by much too fast❤️

@jennymay4720 11 месяцев назад

I wish Tara had turned around and picked him up! Dont work so hard Newbys have a break!

@joosborn2231 11 месяцев назад

So glad you decided on a holiday. You know, I think its fair to say that not only do you work hard, you do it 24/7. Farming doesn't stop at 5pm with saturdays and Sundays off. And, doing it all in front of us nosey lot 😂. Enjoy your break x

@joaott1974 10 месяцев назад

Thats part of living, sometimes we get bored of things we do in a routine mode. When you travel, you miss your home, when yre home, you miss the travels. 😄We just need to break routine, thats the secret i think. Yre just a lovely family, and we wil be here to see your videos, no matter how long you take to publish. Love to you from Algarve- Portugal (sry for my english, im portuguese)

@portugal8513 11 месяцев назад

Love to see what you're up to each week but the time you have with the kids, these ages, the coming years are very important. Enjoy each moment. Maybe the community is happy with one video each week or every 2 weeks. Would it be an idea to place camera's on some key points at the quinta that record once you like it, remember key moments in date and time, not having to place around the equipment and be worries about recording takes the stress away. Just enjoy life, show the community some trips you enjoy in lovely Portugal and place your family at number one. You live in one of the most beautiful country's in europe, so take your time to enjoy the Douro region, many river beaches and the best foods and drinks the region has to offer. Changing the format doesn't mean losing many followers..