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I thank God im a MAN an I love what I was born to b,making luv to a women is soooo SWEEEEEEET,i love myself .I could never, ever ,ever ,ever, ever would hate myself an become something I wasnt born to b.
Theyve been doing it for a long time. I just saw for the first time-- the movie Death Warrant with Claude Van Damme-- and noticed there was a scene with a black male kingpin and he had two male crossdressers acting feminine-- a black one and an asian-type male. They want all black and other men to be females so bad.
Each is on I'm not or gonna judge another man ,I'm just not go fool around wit a man its against my religion an I think its nasty 4 Adam an Steve to b carrying on like dat!
My brother is bipolar, and abusive to his boyfriends. The sad thing was when his bf called the police they would just laugh and leave. They thought it was funny to see a gay man being abused. Smh Domestic violence is never ok. No matter who is the victim or the abuser. Stop Domestic violence.
@Chuck's poke thank you for your kind words. Just knowing that someone cares enough to acknowledge your pain, and wish you well is wonderful. Peace to you as well.
I learned from ur mistakes and u are so right about a lot of things u say i live by myself and pay every thing what a great feeling and sometimes i want a relationship but don't like what comes behind it just scared
What's even crazier is MY DUMBASS was halfway through this before I realized dude was Gay!!! This popped up on my feed because of the bodyguard interview ! HAHAHAHAHA
😭😭 Your story bring back memories when both of my ex's beat on me on a regular basis. I was scared, nervous, and hurt. I had a black eye and I went to work embarrassed and ashame. I never told my dad or my syblings. I was in Texas living and my family was in Georgia. Then I became homeless sleeping in my car parked in a Walmart park lot where I work. One of my bestfriends to this day found out and had me to stay with her until I got back on my feet. I remember getting beat and my dad called me to tell me my bestfriend was killed by her girlfriend. I was in tears and crying and my ex stop and said what is wrong with you and I told him and he stop beating me but then want to sex all night. I'm like WTF. Domestic violence is serious. I felt less than a human getting beat and I didn't want to catch a charge either,but I was able to get away. Neither one of my ex's ever apologized to me and my bestfriend was killed by her girlfriend. I got in my car and moved to another city and my ex called me and then I changed my number. I love this video because men go through domestic violence as well,but it's taboo to talk about because society says oh he is a man he can fight off the attacker,but nobody deserves to be abuse regardless of what type relationship they are in.
You must stand up for YOURSELF!!! I talk with BULLETS!!! I refuse to share my body with someone who abuses it.. We can argue all day long but keep YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF!!! I am not going to hit you and you had BETTER NOT EVER HIT ME!!! Learn to LOVE YOURSELF!!! 😆!!!
Sounds like that dude is a Narcissist especially when he came back home like nothing was wrong and did not want to discuss to resolve issues. And yes, narcissists do get worse and will never get better. Conversation go in circles called gaslighting. Narcissists always try to turn the blame on someone else. Nothing is never their fault.
See, this what happens when you let someone take care of you. It sounds like that guy was the bread winner and because he provided everything, he felt he could treat you any ol kind of way. That’s why I could never rely on anyone taking care of me, because there are a lot of people that will take advantage.
Misleading headline , I thought he was going give us some more tea on Busta Rhymes instead we got a play by play of a lame fight between him and his boy. So this is what I missed True Crime stories on the ID Channel for? 30 minutes of my life I will never get back.😃😃😃🙃🙃🙃😃🙃🙃🙃🙃😉🙃😉🙃😉😉😉😉😉😉
That situation is messed up. I been telling my sisters this for years about having their own because a man for sure (or a woman) will hold that over you, and will use that to trap and abuse you. Which one of my sister's friends is in an abuse relationship just like that. I was talkin to a few people that had signs of abuse, talking to me crazy when we were literally at the very beginning of the talking stages, and a few people that wanted me to end my relationship with my friends and family to be with them. 2 people kept projecting what they felt I was (problematic), when I showed them I was the opposite. There was a person that literally basically tried to groom me to be their arm candy, I was like, YEAH, we good luv, have a good day, and was out. People out here crazy, so like how Maya Angelou said it best, when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time."
Exactly. When woman depend on a man financially that opens a door for him to abuse that woman's child, and her turn a blind eye to it because she needs him financially.
I met Busta once as well! It was Miami International Airport! He had flown in from JA and me from TnT! I saw him, greeted him and we hugged! He smelled so damn good! That's all!!! Love u Busta!!! 😘
@@marleyex2695lmao old people like you and OP are why nobody believes how disgusting these celebs are. Y’all are part of the problem. Yall remind me of the aunties who let various uncs play in strange ways with kids.
Great video Tripp!! Mannn....when he screamed & jumped out a moving vehicle....i laughed so hard!!! He cray cray! Lol. Man I would never treat you that way. Relationships can difficult at times but abuse of any kind should never be tolerated! This ya boi Jaye from GA.
Busta is from my hometown out on Long Island. He moved there from Brooklyn I'm guessing. He even went to my high school before I started going there (he's older than me). When I would see him around town and would try to say hi and he always had an attitude. So I stopped trying to speak to him. This was when he was still part of his group Leaders of The New School. My bf is still friends with his little brother who is much more nicer than Busta.
When i was about 14 i was taking my little brother (11) on a plane flight to australia and we happen to be sitting on the other side of the isle to spliff starr.. so we figure we follow him thru the airport abit when we land and boom he links up with busta rhymes in the bahgage collections area.. my lil bro gets all hype talking about an autograph but im not the type to ever ask for an autograph or even want one so i told him nah forget it. Anyway he runs off and goes up to busta to ask for an intetview and busta literally turns to this 11 year old kid and tells him to fuck off lmao it was some real scumbag shit. He could have declined the autograph but its the way he treated a young child that stood out
Yoooo, that's like looking into a mirror, I was once in a relationship like that, I couldn't leave because I wasn't in my Home State and I wasn't making enough to leave he was older than me and had me in the Palm of his hands and beating me with his first at the same time. I felt little, trapped, and hurt at the same time. I also forgot to love myself. It gotten so when I looked in the mirror I wasn't myself. Listen to Tripp he speaks the truth. I been there 💯💯
This message resonates on so many levels, your vibe is genuine. I'm not sure how old you were when this occurred but you handled it the best way you could under the circumstances...clap clap bravo!!! Present day, you can speak on it because it was a lesson learned and meant to be shared...blessed 🙌.
You’ve been through a lot. God is going to bless you beyond your wildest dreams! You have a great heart! What you’ve been through has made you a real #BOSS! Count it all joy my brotha! God is not through blessing you! The best is yet to come! 💪🏾
I only recently came across your channel and have been intrigued by your story time experiences, especially this one. You seem like such a straight up guy and I couldn't help but feel so sorry for you in that situation. I really hope you have since found someone that can truly appreciate you for who you are! I have mad respect for you and look forward to the nuggets of advise that you share. Much love to you my brother and trust that God will continue to bless you!
Man it happened to me too my dude was in my car on my phone talking to his ex. I snatched the phone and told him to get out my car. Dude just hit me straight in my face and glasses went out the window. I hit dude so hard he flew in the rear of my suv. I put him out my car and that was the end of our relationship.
Its sad the way these kind of guys reallt think theyre above you and theyre entitled to everything from everyone and cam treat you with 0 respect in return. They also think they have the right to touch you however/whenever the fuxk they want. Makes.you.wonder where this idea.even came from?
Thanks for sharing Cuzzy! Mmmmmm I thought the abusive relationship its only happened here at South Africa. Keep it up sharing your stories, it helps big time. Your pain that you went through helps us to realize that in life or relationship it's won't be forever easy. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I am so glad I found your page. I loved a man that tried to take my life. And after the situation couldn't remember. We can't save broken people. It has been 4 years and I want to love again but trusting someone is hard. I appreciate you sharing your truth. I just want to love again. Sending love/hugs from Maryland 😘
I’m very new to your channel, came across this video in my news feed and I’m literally trying to hold back tears even though I was never in an abusive relationship my cousin was and last year she died as a result of her now ex boyfriend beating her to death and this will mark a year since she died and I miss her. Also I was told by a friend of mine whom I met online and later met when he moved to my hometown that the guy he was dating ( who happened to be another friend of mine on Facebook ) brutally beat him I’m just glad that he was able to get out when he did and I’m glad that you did too, keep being who you are and just know you’ve a new subscriber much love - Aaron Scott from Austin, Texas ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💖
Thank you for sharing such intimate stories with us. Your voice is appreciated on your platform. You’ve mentioned the first relationship you’d had was abusive. Unfortunately you seen the abuse again in a relationship after your first. That old saying still goes though my man. What goes around comes around indeed. Thank you for being transparent, thank you for showing your wisdom and life lessons stay safe.
Wow Tripp I just subscribed. I wasn’t prepared for this story. But I’m very familiar with that type of toxic relationship. I’m from in Atlanta originally from Illinois. I saw the hurt in your face when you told that story. I’ve seen that hurt face before. I have learned you can’t treat people like shit and think they will stay because they won’t. Treat people how you want to be treated. With compassion and love and learn to listen. My heart was heavy in listening to this whole video. But there is also hope for us all to find a man who will love and respect us. Thank you brotha. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🥺✊🏾❤️
I really am grateful for running across your video because you spoke on some things I’m currently dealing with. From king to king - we have to uplift one another and support. Not manipulate, violent, and jealous. I’m glad you were able to make it out.
Tripp, I have been following you for a while and I really like what you're about - this is a good video with a good message - hope you're having a good day - Cousin Frank in Los Angeles
I randomly found your channel and Idk how. But I’m glad I did because I’ve watched 3 so far. Keep it coming. You are really great at telling a story..🤗
Not tryna be messy, but this is not the first time I'm hearing about Busta and his antics. Kudos for sharing your story, which just shows how crazy life can get in the blink of an eye.
Come on, stop using that stupid word. Even Katt went to all those parties. And there was nothing wrong with those parties. Until you guys make it weird.
This is why I think that we, as Black men, need to seek therapy. We all need cultural-specific, Black-led therapy sessions before, during and after relationships. But, I do realize that those services aren't easy to find everywhere.
My dear brother thank you for such an awesome talk I was washing dishes and straighten up the apartment and listening to you intently on everything you said I look forward to hear more about where you're at and what you're doing with and thank you for your wisdom impartation handsome stay blessed and be well
Thank You for sharing🙏🏽I also have delt with a bi-polar narcissist who became violent then would act like nothing happened. I’m out but I know he’s going to try to come back .
Hey Cuz. Glad your guardian angel has looked out for you cause brutha was "touched". No one deserves to be treated that way. And the way he would fly off the handle; while he running in one direction, I'd be running in the other to get away from that madness. I know it's easier said than done, but when you put your hands on me, it's a wrap. Only discussion I will have is "get u sum help, and I'll be praying for you" Deuces. Love ya cuz. 💙💙💙💙
Damn. You know, I have commend you on your candor. It's not an easy subject to talk about and be 100% in explaining. I hope you're in a better place now. The honesty seriously blew my mind. Much respect and love 🙏🏽✌🏽
Sorry that happened to you. Same happened to my friend with the final straw being the guy bringing him over to Canada (where he lived) they fought, he stole his laptop, kicked him out so that he had to sleep on the bench with the homeless, and find his way back to Jersey.
Ohhhhh wowwwww am so sorry this Happened to you , you’re such a sweety smh . So glad you left this person that was a full blown nut , very insecure. He needs help not relationship. So nice of you for sharing this is very Inspiring , specially for those going through a hard time in an abusive relationships .. ❤️ 🙏 I adore you cuz ..
WoW!!! Cousin you have lived a lot of life. Great to see how you have grown and are able to share. Last Friday a young lady from New Jersey Bashira Tripp ( no relation to you) ran over her boyfriend at a shopping mall for leaving her. That's toxic. So violence is not the way in a relationship, nothing should drive a person to that. Thanks for sharing!!!
*The first guy I was ever with was bipolar and I had never encountered that before. But he also yelled at me multiple times out of nowhere. It was very hurtful even after he told me he was bipolar. Also...I have a question. My current bf who I've dated since January, cheated on me after getting high and very drunk. He explained everything to me about other issues he has from the past, etc. He decided he would go to a psychologist and maybe check into rehab also. But he's been slightly distant and I've noticed and he says he just doesn't want to hurt me again, etc... I'm trying to be patient and let him get help and hope it works out with us... But, what would you (or anyone else reading this) do in this situation? I've been very depressed ever since I found out but our relationship was literally almost perfect. We've never argued. He introduced me to his friends and family, came out to some of them and he's always been very caring and thoughtful, etc. It's just this one thing that happened and idk if I'm being stupid for trying to make it work and get him help, or just messing myself up more and setting myself up for future failure. Thanks for any advice* ❤️
Okay imma say this men make mistakes all people make mistakes. BUT ! A mistake is done accidentally if this happens again it’s not a mistake he’s now purposely doing it. Don’t lose ya man stand by him and I’m sure he will make sure too treat you how you treat him. If he won’t know ya worth and walk away you’ll feel better knowing you stayed by him at a hard moment in his life.
@@aliseanicole thank you for your reply! That's pretty much how I feel. I wanted to be different than the average person would be in this situation and not just leave. I wanted to understand. He definitely has some trauma to deal with and I think part of being in a relationship whether it's intimate or platonic, is that you're there for the other person at their worse and not just the when they're fun to be around. I appreciate your words 🙏🏾
George Harris you’re welcome and this would be a time to heal yourself from trauma and hurt that was caused by him and other people. Love and blessings 🤞🏽
If he continues to cheat leave. You can't put your health and mind at risk. You sitting around sad and depressed wondering where he's at and with you. Protect your peace.
GEORGE HARRIS.... hello luv... my advice to you would be to let him figure himself out.. remove yourself from him... let him really think about his life period! He knows right from wrong he knew he's been in an relationship for a year so that means don't be peer pressured into cheating. He felt guilty that's why he told you and acknowledged that the cheating was wrong. Clearly he's new to this cause he even came out in the bringing you around the family and you feel like this is something fresh also cause your going thru depression and things... but you can't be a babysitter he's grown he has to make better decisions... that's why you need to allow him to figure things out...
Wàit, forget the violence for sec, he threw a roll of bills at your face & told u to go to Busta's party?? He must've been used to disrespecting you like this before. Sounds like he owned you. And yet u stuck around. This is classic co-dependancy & it is a sickness. This kind of relationship by definition is always toxic & often volatile. Glad you were able to break free before it was too late. 👍👍👍
That must be a Betta male type thing. Ain't no way you throwing money in my face and we not gonna run this fade. And what up with this nigga running marathons every 5 minutes. Run so much he ran out a moving vehicle.
The part where you said that you couldn't hit nobody you love like you would hit somebody in the street but they will do it to you, yep I've been there, until my love switched to let this niqqa have it and be done. I couldn't believe I was in such a relationship. I thought it would be better or get better but nope, it never got better so we had 1 more good ring around the Rose's with a pocket full of poses. Grass and mud was our friend that night and I loved it. I left smiling the next morning and never looked back.
OMG 😲, you were with a Bipolar Abuser !! Abuse is never alright. I pray you never return to him. I'm from NY, I can only imagine what that must have been like in the middle of the street.
My brother I'm a first timer watching your videos. You are so sensational my brother bringing your life experiences to light for others to hear. I feel like you're one of my brother''s from another mother. So much love and respect for you. I feel so inspired and share some of your similiar experiences. I will continue to watch. Definitely liked and subscribed. Continue your great work. Peace and Blessings to you my King.
i'm a new subscriber. RU-vid recommended your video to me and i just finished watching the whole thing here at my job. i am sorry this happened to you and i'm glad you are safe, alive, and okay 💯
It sounds like your boyfriend was trying to pick a fight with you; so he could be alone with his friend, and he didn't want to be honest with you. You didn't do anything wrong. 8-16-2020(Sun.)
I so agree, my first relationship was abusive and one day became physical and he pushed me down. He started punching me and I got up hit him one time and knocked him out. I started packing and was leaving. As I was walking out the door he threw a damn knife at me. I never looked back!
Thanks for sharing your story Tripp i have been in toxic relationships. I was thinking about a book but, trauma has a way in mind doing stuff. I don't have the means to do it. I definitely want to try.
Thank you for the important information . Always know your worth as a person, and man . I enjoyed watching you and your stories. Good information bro. Be blessed & stay safe in the covid-19 Watching your videos from Michigan. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
You should've just went in the club Busta invited you to & dealt with the bs later. Busta knew you weren't an A list rapper like him so it was what it was. If Busta invited you both in there shouldn't been a problem. Dude was going to mess it up for you out of hate.
GM Cuzn Tripp: (You may have caught me coming into the premiere a little late......I was driving to work when I first got to it), but I finally got the chance listen to the video. Tripp, you shared an important message for all of us. ( Well, I am a Cancer guy so blame it on the zodiac sign or whether im some ratched-hood empath ), but regardless if it was your acting abilities or you were just being genuine with your emotions with us, (Real Talk), I feel like I actually felt some of your emotions or how you remembered how you felt during that younger time of your life with that situation. I agree with a lot of the other comments, that the situation was really messed up and that person was very disrespectful towards you....But what really got me from listening to your story, I felt (hood-empath) like I was feeling some form of your former heartbreak and my heart goes out to anyone or if anyone knows of someone ( right now) who maybe experiencing such a situation (sorry for the long message. You can tell im writing from the computer and not from the phone...... BUT the story touched me in more ways then my heart/spirit could imagine). AS ALWAYS, Thank you for sharing this story with us.
Hi, Bam here from the Bay Area. Thanks for sharing your story. I have been there before. It's hard when your in the inside looking out but once you get out learn to love and value yourself before you give that power to someone else. Know your worth , don't allow someone else to place value on your worth✨
Omg bro you speaking to me. I totally understand how it is to be in a fight with someone that you love and they are trying to hurt you but you don't want to hurt them. I get that he's being violent to me but I still didn't have the heart to hurt him. I'm so glad that situation is over. He was my first relationship too.
This is NOT me poking you but, i've always believed that hyper-masculine, DL type, thugs will be more apt to pull shit like that. I'm glad you came out ok and with some more awareness about what isn't an example of love.
I'm Bill from Milwaukee. Thank you for sharing your story, a very powerful one. I was in a relationship like that when I was a teenager & thank God he delivered me out of it.
