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I’m. A straight older woman returning to the dating game after divorce & a long dry spell who is thankful for you educating me about what is out there.
DL men are really scary. They have so much anger inside them. They are a ticking time bomb always , be careful y’all, thank you for sharing your story ❤️
The problem with DL men is that they are afraid to accept themselves and it makes them bitter and lonely inside. I always say just accept yourself be who you are, it's a feeling that will never go away so no matter what you do or try to act it will not change..
@@kiasportage3180 I don't think anyone was saying that a DL guy should come out, if he is DL.. he is.... the choice is for a person whether or not they want to what the fact is that don't treat others like they are crap because you are afraid of being exposed.. I always say when you accept yourself you will be more comfortable and will respect others.
It took me a long time to be comfortable with myself. In a submissive person and I am a little soft. It's hard for me to find the right guy for me. I may be soft but I'm still a man
I believe there is (at least) one person on this planet for everyone. He’s coming don’t sweat it, Desmond! Stay up, glad you’re comfortable with yourself now though that’s step one when it comes to finding the right one.
I've had similar experiences in Detroit and I've grown tired of having to play a role to help others feel comfortable with their sexuality. I am a dude, a masculine dude, a dude who isn't afraid of his feminine side but knows he's a man and wants to be with another man. And as far as dominance goes between two men in a relationship I think that if you truly respect each other it comes down to doing what's right for the relationship and respecting and supporting the man you are with. Bless you my friend, I'm glad I've found your channel. ❤️🐻
Loneliness has many gays pretending just to get some attention one way or another. Perhaps “Just be yourself” is easier said than done. Perhaps we don’t feel like we’re “enough “. We as a community have work to do.
God bless you and thanks for sharing your story. Very relatable! Just came across your videos. Throughly enjoyed this one. Keep em coming. You just won a fan👍🏾👍🏾🖤
WoW cousin!!! Thanks for the transparency. People need this example value who they are,and be connected to people who value them. I have been tempted to just except just somebody but in the long run its not a good thing. I love you cousin, be encouraged!!!
for any of the younger gays dudes , dont live in a house or apartment with a man that you know wants you, then have the nerve to make up excuses or turn the dude down u asking for problems
Al W. Exactly cause he curving the dude that likes him and that wants to do right , so you bringing somebody else to this man house deserves a slap lol
A lot of these young dudes do this and it’s not cool. I worked my ass off coming up. I would have never considered couch surfing for free. They go online and they meet these folks and then they end up getting some free housing after a date. NOTHING is free.
@@alw.8849 there’s a whole culture around this. I never knew. I met a dude who was volunteering for an organization I worked with. I ended up being a bit of a mentor to him. Boy did I learn some things, but I had to set him straight. I called him a straight up grifter. And he was kind of shocked that I called him on his bad behavior.If he wanted to go on vacation for free, he would just pick a place where he wanted to go, strike up a weekend date with somebody and go there and have a free place to stay. Had my head spinning!
I have just recently started watching your channel and I must say you are an amazing person and very truthful and real. I've been through several things you have been through smh, what a blessing to be able to share your truth and thoughts with us, thank you, thank you so much for your realness.
I Enjoyed your story man. Thank you for sharing with our community. I've been in the life for a long time so I understand exactly what you are talking about... "PEACE BE WITH YOU MY BROTHER" Much LOVE!
Yo I'm glad that you are alright and nothing happened to you!! That's why I dont want to meet people off of stuff like that cause it's so many crazy people out here!! And you right you gotta watch who you bring into your space!! And Yo you still made me laugh cause at the end of the Video jawn you said wash your hands and your ass!! LOL😂Funny Dude! Well thanks for another Good Video!! 💪🏾💯✌🏾
My young brother! I appreciate your realness and learned wisdom. I wish someone like you had been around and my mentor When I was around your age. Keep your podcast rolling. We your followers...cousins are EVERYWHERE. MUCH LOVE TO YOU!
Trip you were on point man. I personally was in a situation similar but it was the opposite. Keep doing what you doing you are definitely helping someone.
A dl guy pulled a gun out on me because he portrayed to be someone else online and when I met him he wasn't who he was and still wanted to freak and I wasn't having it ...luckily I used my charm to get him to put the gun down and cuddled with him until he fell asleep and I dipped so fast and never looked back ...ps this dude has been stalking me through social media ever since then and this is why I stopped using those apps and only meet dudes In person ..
This gave me a new respect for Gay niggas. Tbh its easy as a straight man to automatically percieve a Gay guy as softer or weaker. Much respect to you bro!!
Okay, Mr. Tripper, first let me say "thank you" for your transparency in sharing your DL experience. It really takes a real stand up guy who identifies as a gay man, yet presents himself in a real masculine way and can still share that he is attracted to men and enjoy being sexual with men. You're my type of guy!
That was deep and scary. I'm happy you pulled thru. I went thru something similar years ago and will never again let anyone into my space without knowing them thoroughly. God Bless
Unfortunately, masculinity is fragile for a lot of men. Straight, gay, bi, whatever. Too many gay men feel the need to emulate heteronormative gender roles. Too many fem men wanting what their homegirls have, and masc men thinking that it makes them less gay if they're 'the man' in the relationship. How is your masculinity challenged by the man across the table from you also being masculine?! Yet, you wonder why straight people ask ignorant questions like 'which one is the woman?'. Smh.
So me and my friends were goofing around on discord after a DND session and found this video after messing around with a music bot. We were intriqued at first and ended up listening to the whole thing together, we found ourselves both loving your voice for the narration and your wise words and advice. You have definitely gained a few new subscribers.
Great video Tripp. Sorry you had to go through that situation. But how are you.? And that one line you said was funny. (Wash your hands, wash yo azz.)😄👍
I understand completely, this is why I definitely keep a very low profile. I make very calculated decisions now. Don't change who you are, you seem like a very cool dude. You just don't take no shit! I appreciate your honesty. Speaking of honesty, I look forward to your storytimes. We've been through some similar situations. One thing we have in common, we just want to be loved for being unapologetically your true self. Something that is rare in our generation. Much love cousin. I appreciate your transparency!
Listening to this situation REALLY REALLY made me rethink my behavior and THANK GOD that he kept me through some of my foolishness from the past yo. This post was so refreshing in the sense that I take life for granted. As a gay male, it’s soooooo hard to find the right matchup with dudes, but I’m still encouraged yet cautious. I use to think it was just the gay community with so much ratchetness but it’s in any walk of life if you’re trying to find the right one to date, befriend, or hook up sexually. Anyhoo, I appreciate this story and it definitely opened my eyes and ears !!!!!
I just stumbled across your channel and I find it very refreshing, glad I stumbled! I appreciate your perspective on things. I agree with much of what you’ve mentioned. I think the only thing that I really don’t agree with is the stigma that masculinity is some how synonymous with strength! I am certainly NOT the most masculine guy, by any means, but I seldom have any issues with asserting myself. Much respect to you and good luck with your endeavors!! ✊🏽
Ty I don’t think I said that masculinity is synonymous with strength. I don’t believe that at all but I do believe that some straight people believe that it is. In a lot of minds femininity is a female trait and people see women as weaker than men physically. So it definitely is a stigma. I however don’t agree with it all the time. But thank you for watching hope you subscribe
Tripp man I always enjoy your comments and story time I appreciate you being so upfront and honest , gaymen, DL men ,straight curious, and bi-men can all benefit from your comments and wisdom keep up the good work and you will receive more blessings than you imagine!!!
Damn Cousin ! The first story I heard you tell, the dude pulled a gun on you, now this dude slapped you ! Geesh, be careful, ppl wild AF out here. All ❤
Hey my Cuz Tripper! I never had a favorite cuzin until I stumbled on to your channel. You are definitely the cuz that I never had. All my other cuzs they were always so stand off and I never felt that I belonged so, I went out into the world choose my own family. Much luv to you cuz.
when he slapped you I knew that wasn't going to be the end of it. I knew you were going to get him back. Glad you're okay though it really could have turned out much worse for you.
Cus, another good story, keep them coming. Stay safe, as u say, it will pass. We just have to think 🤔 of our fellow men in times like this. We as Americans have gone though many trials and tribulations, we will overcome.
I love your personal narratives, you are very articulate and intelligent when you speak, your analysis in addressing individual-differences when it came to Masculine vs Feminine attitudes, is what I had predicted even before you brought it up. (Don't change who you are, always be your self) My assumption is that the hood guy you met, went to extreme lengths to try to impress you by convincing you, his a "hood thug" it was a technique he used, so you would be even more attracted to him, not realizing in some ways it could backfire. Some DL and fem boys can behave very dysfunctional in their behavior, sometimes this is caused by unstable-relationships or poor environmental upbringing, not knowing 'from right,' from 'wrong', can lead to a lack of empathy for others. My argument is that it shouldn't be about Dl vs fem guys, it should just be about the things you have in common with that guy such as Genuity. Than you for being brave ad handsome, London England xx
I’m a woman and so felt when he punched that nigga! Straight out yeah don’t ever slap me and never even put your hands on me I will get ole girl from under the mattress and click yo radio off!! On my Moma! 🤟🏽
Dang Cuz,That was messed up Cuz. That dude was to aggresive. A winning birch too. I'm proud of the way you handled it though. Thanks for the heads up.🤔👍🏼
Good that you left the situation unhurt. I preferred meeting people at a neutral location first. You assess them and then connect at your place. While you can still have issues, it's another level of protection. Stay safe.
#GreetingsMyCousinTripper It's always good to see you 🐞 WoW this story is deep and thank god you learned from it all DL huh? Alot comes with a DL man but hey. Crazy how most of us don't want the person that's good for us or who is right for us.So many if us get caught up in thinking the grass is greener on the other side all to find out that on most times it's not. But learning from stuff like this is key.Thanks so much #Tripper for another bangin video much🐞❤
Tripp am so glad u got out of that horrible situation, this is why I don't really do much with these dl guys, we have to remember these men will never be comfortable in their space because they spend all of their time living a lie,so whenever u hook up with them,they bring their baggage which they themselves can't deal with,I met dl men who think that am some kind of pushover where they think they can beat the hell out of me and get away with it, this is why dl men needs to come to terms with their sexuality, because in the long run, they will know that the lie they live will blow up in their face,be true to yourself is the best advice we can give to anyone going thru struggles of identifying who they are,be safe and keep your game up tripp,and to my dl cousins, don't use situations to hide who u really are ,man up live up take care.
