TBH I think its nothing but rage bait responses, or women responding. Personally I wouldn't have bothered with the woman at all after 1st time she rejected and cut all contact. And how she had 304 phase, that's absolute deal breaker for me personally and I would never take woman seriously if they have had that kind of a phase ever.
I thought it was only the first reply, but noooo. Bet everyone who said YTA were either chads or hos, the only ones who benefit from this type of behaviour.
She basically used him as a last resort, thinking, ‘If nothing works, I have him,’ and made sure he doesn’t move on. He genuinely sounds like a nice guy.
You can tell that they are trying to justify their own actions with their manipulative language "your insecure" "leave all women alone" "you should be grateful", insults meant to belittle his status, rather than actually read what he wrote and talk about it.
Well it is the fourth wave feminist ideology. They have decided a woman can do what ever she wants while having standards for what kind of man she wants and at the same time they will deny the man the right to do what ever he wants while shaming him for having standards.
Story 1: This is the perfect example of what “The Friend Zone” actually is. It’s not a girl putting up boundaries and distance between her male friend that wants to sleep with her, it’s a girl telling the guy she knows wants to sleep with her “You’re my man” to make sure he doesn’t move on. She wanted the girlfriend treatment without giving him the boyfriend treatment, so she’ll manipulate him to keep him around and continue giving her what she wants. She’s a genuinely bad person, as is any woman (or man) that does this kind of BS
The problem is she kept him single just so she could have a chance when she was done letting everybody go to town on her. It’s not the fact that she had a lot of partners. It’s the fact that she strung him along with hopes of a relationship in the future. This guy is the victim and somehow the comments still paint him as the aggressor
Yup, this. OP is being really stupid and naive, but he is not an AH. She is, however, a huge AH. She strung him along because she loved his attention and affection, and I'm sure he paid for everything too, and she kept him from dating other girls while she was sleeping around left and right. Then she only asked OP to be her BF after the guy she slept with THE NIGHT BEFORE ghosted her. OP is just a backup and she will cheat on him instantly when the opportunity presents itself, like if the guy who ghosted her wants to get back together. The comments attacking him were absurd, but they were also extremely rare. The person behind this YT channel sorted the comments on reddit by "Controversial" and used the most provocative ones in this video to make us comment more. And it worked.
Even if she didn’t do this, shouldn’t her saying “it was easier to sleep with them cause their was no attachments” already a warning about how much she views sex, basically the most intimate thing
The girl is the town bicycle, it's just OP that didnt ride her. Likely has a body count higher than Hitler. She isnt relationship material....she will find it hard to pair bond. Total 304.
Story 2: "She has lots of guy friends, which I don't care about." "I don't trust men." Umm, OK. "She's perfect in almost every way." "She tried to manipulate me several times. She has PTSD and told me my boundaries caused her to have a full blown crisis. She also was suspicious of me cheating on her all the time." Bruh...
Dude, she used you. Don't ever take advice from toxic women who defend this type of behavior. They would never accept it if a guy did the same; they would just call him a fu*kboy and tell the girl she can do better. But when it's the other way around, now you're toxic and childish. Never be someone's backup man. Raise your standards!
"From the streets did she emerge and to the streets she will return. And i say unto you, she is for the streets. So be not weary when she must return from whence she came."
She used him for his time, energy and validation (and probably his resources too). Then she decides "he's the one" while f*cking half the town, and OP is supposed to be grateful? And it's wild that the commenters side with her while she's using him.
This girl belongs to the streets and she only had Op on the back burner as a "nice guy" And all of a sudden The Simps come out to defend her So pathetic Op deserves better
Imagine having so little respect for yourself that you need to go on Reddit or the Internet to ask this question. a lot of people out there are just sad excuses for men, it’s incredibly tragic
Story 2 - Her changing her story from vacation to conference sounds super suspicious. And why did she insist on going alone? It definitely sounds like she is weaponizing her PTSD... but Idk for sure..
She used him. She slept with someone the day before she asked him out. Fuck who said he was the AH in that bullshit comment about “can’t a girl sleep around” like huh? 6:22
story 1) most of the commentors are insane to think OP is YTA, i hope OP finds kind loyal love and i hope street girl ends up homeless story2) she is crazy and has so many issues, you dont need her, she clearly cheating on you so dont get back together with her
Story 1: The girl purposely stringing you telling you that you are her man, i am just talking to you, while going to multiple meaningless hook ups. And finally admittedly she just want to eat her cakes, after being tired of being used, she finally picked you as a good man. And the gaslighting comments supporting her and accusing OP are..just wow.
To hell with her. If she wants to make sure she sleeps with every other guy just to be sure then she is not the woman he should be with. SHe wanted him to be there for her when she was not there for him
I wanna say, technically in my opinion she did nothing wrong. He asked her out twice or three times I lost count. She said no each time so technically they weren’t dating when she was still hooking up with guys and going on dates with them so technically for her, it was just a friend thing.
Yet she kept referring to him as 'her man' when they were around other women to stop them from pursuing him and to keep him latched on to her as she was perpetuating a false relationship. You don't think it's wrong to string someone along who is just keeping you in their back pocket until they are ready for you? Even when they got together she admitted she only said yes to him cuz the guy she wanted didn't ask her out on another date. As a woman, behavior like this is really toxic and sad. No one should ever abuse other people's feelings just to get what they want
@@PrincessLunaSama I see your point. But also, he did let her. He could’ve just as easily said you said no or ass make it clear are we dating or are we not dating if we’re not and then do my own thing and talk to who I want to. So yes I agree it’s wrong but again as a guy. I also think he should take responsibility for that part. I had a friend that did the same thing and that’s what I did. I told her either. make it official we’re more than friends or I’m going to continue talking to other girls and I don’t care if she got mad.
