Calling The Players, Macks, Lovers of Many Women 

Great content as always Uncle Rom. You said get your mind, finances, body up. I took those words to heart now these sisters can't leave a young brother alone lol.

Shout out to Rom!!! I'm 41 and I've enjoyed my time with multiple women in my earlier years....I never realized there were so many different aspects of what women look at. Your videos are priceless and I appreciate your knowledge.

I'm born in the 80s and the reason i watch your videos is to get a perspective from a older guy with more experience. Most of the time i agree with you. Girls chase me, i never have to do that EVER. I got this "mysterious vibe" about myself that intrigue girls, confident, look good (of course not all girls like my type), good posture, walk in a certain way, calm & a man of few words etc. I get attention without saying a word from all races, mostly white girls actually (i am middle eastern myself). I really hate to use labels to describe myself. Keep talking about this stuff man, it's great, even though i really don't really need to listen to this stuff but i'm constantly learning some new stuff from your videos.Keep up the good work brother!

It wasnt until i was about 19 where i started steppin to women face to face, complementing them and asking them out. Being rejected was no longer a fear for me. I always wanted to be CONFIDENT around women. In my college years I saw a difference in my level of confidence. In my early 20's i was reading books from Tariq Nasheed. That changed my whole outlook on Women!! Then listening to Tariq's podcast along with yours and Mr. locario has taken my knowledge/game to another level. Doing a lot of public speaking and reading has made my mouthpiece more crisp. The main thing I learned was to improve yourself first (career, better financial stability, social skills, education etc). Then instead of CHASING women, I started to ATTRACT women. You have a better shot at getting the quality woman you are more compatible with.

I listen to your archives at work like gospel. I can relate to most of what you say. Preach, Unc, preach

Great video yet again rom. I am still a working progress and you teach the right stuff I wouldn't call myself a player, but I have learned a great deal from you.

I'm one of those guys who didn't have trouble getting women. My interest is just for curiosity. However I must admit I do like the way you tell your side of the story. You remind me of an uncle who stories enable you to reminisce on your past player days with clarity. I'm married to a woman for 30 years now. She is from Trinidad and would rate as a 9+ back in the day, her values and morality is off the hook. Even though she is much older now, she still turns men heads and it took me some time to appreciate her for what she truly is. I was use to dating needy women and what some call today...Borderline women, "Cluster B - Crazy." I'm from Brooklyn NY, and just recently began viewing videos on RU-vid where brothers are schooling the young brothers about the trappings of life (The Negromanosphere".) Your videos along with, Oshay, Jap, Alan Roger Currie, Jaye D Black, Angryman, Obsidian and BGS, just to name a few have been instrumental in helping me understand why certain women and situations I experienced in my early days...happened the way they did. I didn't consider myself a player, but I learned what I learned from the streets. Plagued by mistakes, that I am trying to teach my only son not to make if possible. Keep telling it like it is, the young and older men are learning much from people like you. Great video!

I'm not saying, but I'm just saying... Play or be played... Much respect Unc

I think it'll be a great idea to do a message board with the players. I used to be on one along time ago learned alot of good stuff on there that I still use to this day

I'm here brother. Pimp'in ain't never been easy but pimp'in always been fun.

thanks for the reassurance. lol sometimes even though i have game, it's best to look up to the OG's for reminders and learn more.. cus sometimes we guys can slip up and start slacking in some areas. you can never go wrong with that with relearning game.

I have watched this one a couple of times and I still do not know how I want to answer it. Here goes. I love many women.... but the term player... never played a woman in my life! Am I a mack if I know how and love to talk to women? Am I a mack if I can get women to do for me? Am I a mack/player if women want to fight over the #1 spot? Is a pimp playing a hoe? He is not; he is pimping and she is hoeing. Most pimps find the women who want to be in the game... If a woman chooses someone else, learn the game, don't hate the player. I accept those who accept me, period. If she does not play the role, I let her go! If she chooses to stay, she know the rules to the game she must play.

Rom once I figured out the myth about women being emotional, I took a seat. Women are not emotional, they're dominant and the shit I've been through with them willing to do anything to try dominating me would make most men terrified of being players. The crying, complaining, destruction of property, and lies they tell to people comes from a place of dominance, not being emotional. They can have a whole family and husband at home but still will try to control you time and dick.. They can be single with 50 niccas in rotation they play like dummies but don't want another woman to smile at you. They'll even agree that you're right about how they shouldn't be tripping because you didn't deceive them. Think they give a fuck? You can not talk logic to women because they operate from a place of dominance 95% of times. Do men not understand the mindset of women being like that? When they start saying shit like, You just don't care, You don't recognize I'm a good woman, You think you can just stop fucking with me, just like that, Don't let me see that other bitch and etc. You'll realize all women are pretty much the same because you'll hear the next woman say and do most of the same shit. That Player Shit Not Fun

I wouldn't consider myself a player but these females become an issue if your dealin with more than 2 at time and they really ain't even worth the headache...appreciate the videos Rom keep um comin

What up Rom. The game exchange forum is a good idea. I'm all for it. My pops gave me your book when I was just a yungin. Did u used to go to Caravan Books in DMV?

On Point Video as Usual! There's definitely a fun side to this life as well as a dark side! Everyman is capable of being that player type but it's not in everyman to be that way. Like you said, it's a whole lot of shit that comes along with having those titles. Let the truth be told, the real players are the ones that's getting chosen on the regular without having to say much. They can just be out any where and that attractive women is going to give them that strong eye, that sexual look where they're making it obvious that they want you to approach them! Sometimes it can literally get hard to make time for all of those women. That's when you're really at the elite level of playerism!!!!!!!!!!

Good stuff

I hooked up with more than seven women in my life but I really don't think I'm the player type.. Matter of fact,I think I've lost all my "sauce" 3,4 years ago,women aren't really into me as they were before,I think it's a status thing,let's say I had a lil' buzz out there as an urban music artist but now that it faded away,it's kinda difficult to me to get any attention,even from the less good lookin' ones but since I found your channel (I was looking for reviews,critics about the #InsecureHBO show),you really helped me (and even people around from my cousins to my friends who I give "gems" everyday with the help of your vids) to be better at understanding the "Why's" of women not gravitating around me like they used to and so many other things so thank you. P.S : I'm french and from,an island called Martinique so your message goes way further than you might think. Thanks again.

I'm definitely not a player. I figured shit out late. In fact, at first glance, I'm non select. However, I never wanted to be a player because it takes a level of commitment that can be all consuming. I had career responsibilities and objectives as a late teenager that were equally or more important to me. Besides, I never wanted to become the mask. That much I figured out as a teenager. I just wanted to maximize the options in my space. Maintaining a small quality stable was always the goal for me and 2 or 3 fine women in my circle were always cooperative. As I learned more from reading books like yours and analyzing my wins and losses, I got better at recognizing those opportunities. Outside of awareness, it hasn't required game to attract women. However, game is required to manage the interactions. Staying in my lane is always a challenge though. By that I mean the way it starts out is usually the way it ends up. Sometimes I'd chase and we know that if you start out chasing her you will chase her forever. My father gave me that pearl of wisdom at eighteen. Books reinforced the idea that the game is called attraction for a reason. Only the fish on your line are yours. She liked the bait and swam right to the hook and she wouldn't be on the hook if she didn't like the bait. I grew into the awareness that I am the boss of my life and these women must be given a job description that I write. When I was a very young man I was happy to fit into their life in any way they allowed. I also had to accept that everything that happened/happens in my life is a result of my choices and failures. Men should chase money and their ideal self. Women should chase men. Men that chase women are out of order.

Rom, I'm in this space and have shown others. In my experience most men can not handle the level of commitment and pain it takes to become "good" if they are not "natural". I've seen men cry over the shock taken to their ego. The level of character necessary to really be in that category of men without flash(money) is underestimated. It was never about looks but the permission given to you by society to act a certain way. Understand your masculine presence and project that, women smell it a mile away.

good stuff

I used to envy the macks and players......that is until I found out the drama they went thru with the abundance of women. They may be lady killers but they are also Emotional Tampons

digging the Bossa Nova Unc 🔥

I think you've got an accurate view of your audience. I really like listening to your stuff because I tend to agree with 95% of the generalizations you make. Real recognize real.

Man.... 🔥

Shoot out to you Uncle Rom! You know I went through a phase of approaching alot of women to get hands on experience with my game. But I noticed that women that were choosing me saw a level of "neediness" in me and quickly lost interest. So I remembered before that approach approach game, I always had the FINEST women throwing it at me! No approach. I didn't have at that point though lol. So I said ok, I'm not going to approach to experiment. I kid you not women started choosing again like before. I had one approach me in the middle of my workout and one fine sister on pof which is unheard for most men. So Long story short, that's why I make videos for the younger generation since I relate to their issues alot. Actually a 16 year old commented on one of my videos and said he'd needed to hear What I said. So I don't have trouble attracting quality women (I admit I can't attract bad bitches aka rachet women but I'm cool with that) but I just like to expand my game listening to you man. Appreciate ya. I'm 23 years old if that mattered

What's up Uncle Rom

this game is priceless. Ron Ron my brother this player appreciate the game

Hello rom willis, the truth of the matter! These young, players are all married. The only reason it works for these so Called wannabe, players. Is the karma from being married? As in life, the only reason woman are interested in them cause there married, and they are playing hard to get! But really there married , and don't want to jeopardize, there married. Hint, the guilty, concsiouse. Goes a long way. How do I know this rom? I'm a 46 year old childless, brotha from another motha! Retired, disabled veteran. I still hang out at some of the spots. Seat in my wheelchair, talk, listen, and observe? And of course, dance cut a rug, for extra excercise. Things a young, retired, military, correctional, officer does for fun... pacthes tyron harwell

Women can sense desperation in a Mans game .. so I like to sit back see the field convince the one I want into thinking she wants me

Man big bro I wish I could shout myself out and help you build you potential platform but I'm not really the player type mainly because I'm very simple and selective when it comes to women. I've never been one to want juggle many won't simultaneously but I can respect a man who can because that I believe is a real skill and as I always say to be that dude(meaning a player) you have to really be that dude. Players are born hoes are made I once heard. lol.

It's interesting I'm not what people would assume is a natural at it. But since about 15 I've constantly kept average and good looking woman. I'm somewhere between multiplying that number by 10 11 or 12 but people at first glance would never expect it.

Uncle Rom, I'm 23 and I'm with the hard on thots movement and I make it do what it do out here but I'm always open to hearing knowledge even if I know it already....I like the verification of my thoughts lmao

great video. my dad liked to use the term p***y hound. thank you for putting us youngstars up on game.

Uncle Rom you the man. Select young dude listening to you every morning in class.before anything else lol As an AA man in America we need this type of guidance because theres a lack of figures like yourself steering these young dudes in the right direction. I see alot of young dudes, peers, self destructing because they cant cope wit the realities of White America. 23 yo DMV native (Largo rd ) moved out to MIA the beginning of this year so what up moe lol. 7+ and I still feel like I be slippin on my pimpin. Most of your content is on point Big Dog. Im waiting for that next level shit.

im talking to 3 women (well i had to urge to see if i still "got it". The Tiger gotta check sometimes. lol) and boy this could be a headache. i was kinda bored since im not busy atm but im about to drop them all off. lol

Please do something for the true to the game players .... I am not making any claims... but I would like to be around and learn and converse with true players

I ain't there. I learn tons of stuff from every Rom-vid.

Dang under seven Rom that's unheard of....Player Problems good one lol...

Ive never had a problem getting women lol. My number is embarrassingly high (well to me anyways) l just like listening to someone who really knows the game. It makes feel less like of an odd ball, because outside of my group of friends I grew up with Im finding most men havent been with a lot of women. Sometimes you do say something Mr.Wills and Im like "hmmm thats an interesting perspective, Ive never thought of it like that"...Anyway whats the best way to put something in the collection plate?

has the age the time of the player expired or is expiring?

Looking and learning. Everybody has holes in their game.

I can't say specifically, but I am pretty sure that I have crossed the 600 line...

Hmm. Interesting video.

Yea yea yea playas n dawgggggsss!!!

I'm a new student. I gotta study more. Never had a problem getting women. Keeping them the hard part Lol 😂 I did get nice guys and players haven't started yet

uncle Rom I think I'm the good bar lol

Rom, Brother...You caught me off guard with the whole it's rare for a man to sleep with more than 7 woman in his lifetime. I had no idea, probably because I'm as young as I am. I've always thought it was pretty common for a guy to sleep with that many woman. I'm 26 now and I broke that number before I was 23. I don't consider myself a player or a mr goodbar though. Maybe I should rethink a few things...I also have a question. I was 14 when I first had sex. Would you say that's a common age for most men or no?

Because players appreciate Game. Squares don't wanna hear it.

Haha I will upload a pic to my account just because of this video

Satisfied basic guy. Low body count, minimal drama. Interested in the esoteric tho'. Wanna make her levitate and speak in tongues without touching her and s@@t like that.

I thought I was borderline select, but when he said “had sex with more than seven women” I may need to re evaluate that.

What's up Big Rom, The reason relationships and marriages are broke down because of female's behavior these guys aren't standing firm like at the beginning of meeting a young lady she knows when she gives you the opportunity to have your way with her attention you must put her in your rotation and don't look back you time your schedule it in a timely manner and don't get sloppy trying to be greedy and your appointment obligations will get fulfild maintain never let not one female predict your schedule most likely she's doing the same thing being the C E O of your corporation is a man's endeavors.

1st! GM bro☕🍩

For me it's just knowing I'm not alone in my thoughts and perceptions. Rom you mention guys getting a lot of sex from many women. Let's keep in mind it's mostly not because they have game or any true quality but most of them are getting a lot of sex because most women are looking for guys they don't see anything in due to their fear of intimacy. And for the guy that's an empty feeling because they know they're being used for no other reason. We know this is textbook psychology

Well I am not one yet. But I know what I'll be getting into. I am prepared to say no to drama women who want to stay over for 2 days cause we smashed the other night. Plus I've heard all the stories from the players. Women poking condoms with needles. Laying in a chicks bed when her ex drops by to win her back. Its wild. If you're a "nice guy" know what you're getting into if you want to be a Mr goodbar.

PLAYA CHANNEL by ROM sounds good 2 me!!! MEN couldn't do what we do if women didn't (VALIDATE) da GAME and da PLAYA.

@Rom Wills......bruh.....only 7 women...... i don't look at myself, as being a player....... but, only 7 women...... WOW...... thats a super low count.... lol..... smh

7 women is so low tho.

its a mans world james said it best!