@@KingTechHD Why the hell are yall making it a sex thing. Thats black people problem now pointing blame. IT IS WRONG FEMALE OR MALE. You freaking special ones.
Not wanting to get married is one thing, but saying your scared of marriage but not afraid to have children with women you don’t see a future with, while admitting you would like to find someone to marry and have even more children is ridiculous. 😅
Getting cooked in real time is rough, that therapist was 100% right, don't say you're taking your time finding a wife but you popping kids out left and right like having the kid isn't the decision that you should have spent more thinking about.
He has no foresight. He'll be one of those dudes trying to settle down at 60, then wondering why no woman of value wants him. He better make sure he's still well off because if not, he's screwed.
@@quizman5 sex and marriage have no relation at all. Hence cam. Kids and marriage have no relation at all, hence cam and your average joes. This is 2024. We about pleasure and money and divorce. Nobody has to get married. What does that say about the women who slept with him?
I can't lie. She had Cam looking foolish. She put a lot into perspective that all of us as black men need to really sit with ourselves and consider. Women too.
Shut up, most men don't have money like cam has to tick on these women to have 8 baby mothers. 8 women pick the same man, and that's the problem the women picking losers, then blaming men. Then u got u diddy simps who say whatever to the woman because u weak and can only get box if u lie like a coward
Ngl, I left my ex bc he was willing to try to get me pregnant but not put a ring on it after a decade. I married non-black man and got married 10 months later. 🤷🏽♀️
Right. I think it’s their egos. They are afraid of looking foolish to their peers and marrying the “wrong person” .. and ending up divorced, or being played. Also, they are more concerned with their money and image than they are with their kids
@@shonda0413 women believe raising a child in a single parent household is a flex 🤷🏿♂️ trashy people meet trashy people and complain how ugly their own reflection is.
Nobody is telling the man to get married, he actually shouldn't because he would probably make a terrible husband. It's the fact that he and many others see marriage as too much of a permanent commitment, but creating human lives isn't lol
Yes, to be honest being MarriEd doesn’t equal a successful relationship. You have to be a good person. He’s not a good person therefore, he will never be a good husband, unless he becomes a good person.
He was closed off cause them words HIT Hard. He is selectively creating Broken Homes cause every home can't have Poppa there. As a Man and an Active Father you never want to intentionally cause harm or damage to your children. Also Emotional Damage is harder and may take longer to heal, sometimes those wounds don't close.
Homes aren’t broken because the father isn’t in it. Homes are broken because the family is broken. There are plenty of families where the father doesn’t live in the home but they are still there for their kids 100% and they have a healthy family dynamic. Let’s be honest relationships don’t always work out and that’s okay people are not doing their kids any favors staying together JUST because they have kids.
@user-hh6pb7ct5s if a man has money and resources he could have 20 baby mama's if he wanted scoot your neighborhood pookie and Ray Ray have zero dollars and they be having 3 to 6 baby mama's 😅
Cam is going to be in his 60’s talking about ‘I think I’m ready to settle down now’. Sad thing is, him and millions like him are out there making broken homes with no issue. Neither him, Nick or future will change their minds on this.
@@BeautiifulliMade and women will still allow them access to their body and keep bearing them children just based on who they're and what they have . So women are the issue here. 🤔
@@lexaneli yes, the women that are having his kids.. shouldn't they be held accountable? You know your having a baby by a man who has no plans to be with you.
cam’s views are exactly what’s wrong with our community and why we so behind 🤦🏽♂️ y’all ain’t ever seen asians or indians have these views on marriage and kids….😪
And its people like him that wonder why they'll never get married and for women like myself wonder why we're scared again relationships with people like that
Stop equating one black man to all black men. 😂 Thats insane. We have men like Cam who don't want a marriage, men like Nick Cannon that got pushed out there marriage, and black men like Will Smith who fight for there marriage. Etc we come in several varieties, so please love us. And also when a man does fight for his marriage please don't call it corny.
Yes.... she does her homework and has solid opinions on topics. She really should take over "jess with the mess" permanently because her stories do grab your attention.
I watched the full video last night and I must say it was very interesting. Dr. Bryant was too much for Cam intellectually. He was definitely taking things way to personal. She was hitting some points and he was hollering. He is a Low functioning High value man.
I agree! I cringed at his responses. He was really hurt by her saying he created broken homes. It's true. Instead of accepting it and doing better moving forward he tries to defend it and doesn't make sense. Even if his kids live with him their mom doesn't so that's still a broken home.
I get Dr. Bryant’s argument. Take it from me: from my personal experience growing up with parents who have multiple children with different partners does have an affect on the children. You might be active in their lives, which is good, but that doesn’t mean you can be there for them every single day.
Still haven't heard a solid answer of why ppl be quick to.have kids w/ someone but hesitate on marriage. And marriage is not for everyone, but why not put the same thought process in both decision. At least marriage you can divorce but kids you are locked in for life, regardless. Than the innocent human have to live w/ the repercussions of your bad descions making 🤦🏾♀️😭
Because men fear losing their money/assets more than they fear childbirth/having kids. Having children is more of a burden for a woman than it is a man. A man DIRECTLY feels the hit when his pocket gets drained. It’s a different type of risk that they would rather prioritize avoiding. And women make it easy for them by having their children with no real commitment.
And they can't use the excuse that marriage puts their finances at risk because #1 half of yall don't barely have anything #2 there is a such thing as prenup #3 having kids put you at risk of paying child support so you're finances are still at risk 🤷🏾♀️
@bigant4103 showing his arrogant ignorance, tried to cook but got flamed by Charleston White and the again by Bryant. He had no intelligent rebuttals with either and many times both put him on quiet status.
Cam shut down as she made him realise that he's not as smart as he believes he is. This woman wasn't blinded by fame and money. But money and status has allowed him to do what he has.
@@tobiaslawrence8928Doesn't matter, he's has a legacy, she don't. Marriage is a huge risk with these gynocratic judges and court systems. Since we are speaking on broken homes, speak to Pookie and Keisha first before Cam, cause least Cam can afford them. Pookie cannot, not Keisha.
She’s only there for a coin cause why else would she how can any woman talk against being a pick me and the. Become one if it’s not benefiting them. She’s not low. 😂
This is constructive criticism for Cam and many men who have children by different women. This Dr. was on point. You often hear men say, "All my kids are provided for." Some men think being of high value supercedes the importance of being a present father. They fail to realize child support and sporadic moments in a child's life cannot replace the invaluable time and love from a father under one roof. Simply showing up for special moments (birthdays, games, graduations, etc.) cannot replace the value of both parents' presence in a child's life. People will argue that the child is good, but I would challenge any father with several kids from different women to ask their kids how they really feel about seeing their father once a week, month/year, or receiving a text or phone call. Worse, never at all. I speak from experience as a grown man who experienced what it was like being one of five children from different mothers. My dad was not involved in my life and even to this day, it affects me. When I married my wife, I knew I would not want to be like him. I have been married for 26 years now. My wife and I raised two children who are now grown and doing well in life.
I don’t know why some black men thinks that it is ok to have multiple children with multiple women which is creating more single parent homes. We are the only community of people that glorifies this instead of creating intact families.
Cam is a professional narcissist who thought he was gonna gaslight his way through the interview. He shut down when he realized it wasn't gonna work. He literally started ignoring her while slumped in his chair, when she would ask him a question. She literally asked him "do you have any boys out of the 8 children. I'd assume you do, but do you?" N he literally IGNORED her n stared off into the distance out of irritation. So she just continued talking. He was highly upset that he lost control of the conversation n was not being coddled for his behavior n passive aggressive responses. I turned it off after that. Bc why are you now acting like a child n being disrespectful? Ignoring YOUR guest on YOUR show? Corny. He needs help. He's struggled the entire interview to reclaim his dominance over her n she wouldn't allow it.
oh that's not even the worst thing he did , after the interview , Cam then put on his page saying Dr Bryant is 41 years old but has no children ... errm what did that have to do with the subject he brought up to Dr Bryant , questions he asked her
Jess is the Best, Loren perspective sometimes is out of touch for me due to her age Jess is also young but seems more realistic with reality and she brings some comedy.
Honestly we all need to be thanking Cam cause a lot of us needed to hear that. All jokes aside, as men we should be more willing to put ourselves in situations that will force growth. It was uncomfortable, awkward, but it was real. We never see anything real anymore so it was nice.
@@saundersdrakkar1996 yeah I think he felt it because he kept basically saying she comes from a broken home but he didn't so he's better. With that thought so many people will see his kids the same. 😒🥱🥴🥴🥴🤞🏾💅🏾🕳️🕳️🕳️
Cam Newton has always listened to respond, not to learn. I don't enjoy the content he puts out. The energy feels negative. Everybody doesn't mean you well. I wish him the best with his platform though.
Yep, when he told her to just tell him when he can talk, was very telling of him. I like how she didn't allow herself to be rushed and finished her point anyway.
why would you then wish him well with his platform Sir??? Words have meaning! If it's negative, let's hope it's is exposed for what it is and FAILS.....so the community isn't negatively influenced by it. We gotta start thinking critically and stop being scared to keep it a buck at the sake of seeming to be a "hater".
@@jayo208 I mean it's like you don't want to wish fir anyone's failure that said, so much disinformation and bad influences have been heaped upon us so it's stinging-ly needed
In broken homes majority of only thing a man can do is provide. It’s impossible for him to protect at the highest level when he isn’t in same household
Dr. Bryant was giving knowledge and education for the community! Constructive criticism is a gift, however, those who hate the truth would rather a lie! Cam was too busy competing and belittling..smh
Ninjas like Cam only talk about themselves and what they want. They never seem to concern themselves with how their lifestyle affects their children... then will get mad their kids have issues with them 😂
Because the children are not important to him. They're afterthoughts after he shot his load. If he cared about his children he wouldn't force them to share daddy in so many different households.
They are irresponsible! I’m not having children, but I have two dogs and I see how much attention I have to give them and it has to be equal or they get jealous. I can’t imagine having to give the same attention to children in different households
Im sorry, but as a female, accountability goes BOTH ways. If I want to get married I’m not gonna open my legs to a man who’s telling the world that he doesn’t want to get married.
Cam Newton: I'm not married and have 8 beautiful children...by 3 different women and I want more. Also Cam Newton: I'm incapable of being committed as a husband and father. I just keep having baby mamas and not a full time father to 8 children in multiple homes.
Cam thinking the way that he thinks is why low vibration men feel like they do about Russell Wilson. You Never hear high vibration men talking negatively about Russell Wilson.
If a lot of black men just sit down and actually think & talk about their personal beliefs to therapist, they would come to a better understanding of relationships in regards to cheating, baby mama/daddy culture & polyamory.
Dr. Bryant brought 💯% facts that Cam couldn't argue with. It's easy to question any woman's standards that it seems so high for any man to reach, it proves that men out here need to catch up to women.
She had Cam and Nick stumped they were getting annoyed with the truth that made absolute sense they began deflecting by making jokes and Nick started talking about his money and how he finesse women to sleep with them, sounding real childish....Dr. Bryant knows what she knows...
What I find crazy is he will be praised for this lifestyle yet the women who choose to have children him will be told they are worthless, no one wants a woman with kids etc. Such a broken world for anyone in involved in that dynamic. Lets aim to build homes with both parents!
Dr. Bryant schooled him on his own podcast and it was well deserved! I grew up in a broken home......which is one of the reasons why I don't have biological children
All kevin ever did was stop men from having the benefit of the doubt for single moms, who in their delusions would call him and talk about their dreams of bagging really handsome and wealthy men while they themselves provided nothing in return
@@jmar385 He did NOT urge men to get married in college. Men barely go to college. He himself didn't graduate. He promoted men making lots of money and working out so that they can attract the "Baddies" which he lied and claimed he could get. He was trying to teach them how to attract and then disrespect women.
I really hate that people say Eminem is a culture vulture - He is a part of Black culture. He never pretended to be anything he’s not. Never paraded Black women around as props. He’s a great MC that just happens to be white.
@kdotname260 He can’t be a culture vulture. He put on 50 and D12. He’s actually put on more black artist. I can’t even think of any white artists he put on.
So I would have agreed but his old time raps degrading black women will always make him a culture vulture. He came in disrespectful and rode off the backs of black men.
Those men fearing divorce just create a prenup, and both agree that way both are protected. Having children with many different women is beyond irresponsible
She corrected him very elegantly in my opinion Cam just didn’t want to hear the truth about himself….Fearing marriage but not fearing different women raising your seeds is crazy work🙄🤦🏽♀️
You're absolutely right he was definitely was bothered and aggravated by the truth that she stated.. and he became very defensive and tried to explain his situation. This conversation actually made me think about my own situation in my own decisions good interview.
A lot of these men are more concerned about how marriage can negatively affect their bank accounts but not how sowing seed in the wrong woman can affect the life of their kids for GENERATIONS to come. A mature mindset shifts from “I need to protect myself” to “I need to best position myself to pass the baton to my kids”. It goes from “me” to “I’m part of an existence that’s bigger than me.” When this thing hit me I stopped having sex with for satisfaction and reserved sex for a man I would see fitting to father my children. I wasn’t a mother yet but my kids were continually on my mind. The next person I had sex with became my husband. We’ve broken so many generational cycles just by our decision to be married. My kids are the FIRST in my family to have a SAFE and stable home environment. That’s the biggest flex you can ever have in this life. That outweighs any fear I could possibly have of divorce because we are both committed to the same purpose. The moment I allow my feelings to tell me otherwise that “bigger picture” is what anchors me to my vows.
👏🏽 I'm so glad Dr. Bryant said to Cam on his platform what I've been saying for sometime now with those I've worked with and in my social and behavioral science thesis. Just like Cam, some others need to understand that having a high monetary value or claiming to be so-called "high vibrational" does not equate to being a high functioning person and mate for another. ☮️
We uplift people due to celebrity. They can be complete morons but if they are famous, they are automatically intelligent. The pride in Cam's eyes said it all. Simple as hell.
I’m glad a narc who sits and crosses his leg with such conceited energy and acts well read and smarter than the average bear, gets schooled by someone who sees a man and not impressed with his fame.
maybe but not having both parents in the household definitely does. so maybe before redefining why dont we start with the fundamentals. She literally spoke about black people trying to "redefine" things to skirt accountability for their decisions in the interview! Yall need to stop fr
@@StephHester Like I said, broken homes come in all shapes and sizes. There's toxic marriages with kids in the house, and there's healthy co-parenting situations. There's no one size fit all.
@@TTJJCC it’s not about “all shapes and sizes”. This discussion is about a particular shape and size. And your comment is a weak attempt to deflect from the accountability men hold in making decisions to intentionally create broken homes. There’s no world wherein multiple children with multiple women create healthy relationship dynamics. You can try to play delusional but we know the truth. There’s no back and forth about it. And since im guessing you’re personally invested in defending/ deflecting from intentionally creating broken homes - im just going to finish my comments here for the high functioning, literate, critical thinkers.
@@StephHester I don't think you understand what I'm saying, or we're talking about two separate things. I don't need to tell you that there are situations where 2 people with kids break up. Just because the parents are no longer together doesn't necessarily mean that's a broken home. Life happens. I don't know why it's difficult for you to acknowledge that. By the way, I'm not defending instances where there's 3 or more different "baby mothers/fathers." That's a bit much.
This therapist is spitting facts and statistics,this baby mama baby father culture is out of control,people real quick to have babies but not sure if they want to get married, it will never make sense to me.
Cam is acting like a child, so she knew how to handle him like a child. Unacceptable though..He’s absolutely shameful! This culture NEEDS JESUS CHRIST ❤!!!!!!! FOLLOW GOD, PEOPLE!!!! Time is almost up!!!! Eternity is Near!!!!!! 🙏
