Thank you so much for having me in your video Ayane, I had a great time. Also thank you to everyone in the comments helping for helping me understand what "出る釘は打たれる" means, I get it now.
Omg heyyy thank YOU so much!! That's good to hear☺️ But it was actually 出る杭 instead of 釘, my bad I also have tell you that someone in the common section told me that she’s taken your class before and she loved your kindness and how are you make a student laugh🥳
@@ayane_eitole No worries. Yea I saw that comment, I wasn't sure if he was talking about me or the second tutor, but I do remember teaching someone called Ryusei.
Part of what I find really interesting is that the expression "出る釘は打たれる" would be ubiquitous in different forms with different levels in the world. I have heard Tall poppy syndrome as they call it down in Australia where tall grass gets cut down first and this notion is grown out of community-minded which we thought represents intrinsic japanese culture.
Oooh interesting! Yea actually after this conversation I looked it up to see it closely and it wasn’t necessarily about someone who’s not in the box. Instead it talked more about your skill, ability and stuff like that which is understandable worldwide. I’d say we’re just likely to associate it with the culture we are most familiar with. I can also say that tall grass in Japan is more likely to stand out than it is in maybe Aus or other countries that are competitive
@@ayane_eitole Thank you for walking us through and implicitly correcting my spelling mistake ;) *Glass→Grass Yes, I bet this culture is more deeply embedded in Japan than other countries, partially because it has been rooted in our traditional core practices in workforce (日本経営の三種の神器?) which basically focus more on fostering mere companies' slaves than helping workers excel in particular areas.
Hmmm after looking up that expression to dissect, I wonder if it reaches to an extent where it gets eliminated🤔 Some said it’s about how ppl get jealous of a sore thumb which is probably something they don’t have. But tbh the expression 打たれる sounds way stronger than that. Or it is just referring to the after effect of jealousy 😂
ん〜そうですね Read the airは意外と通じる気がするんですけど、もっとそこら辺の文化について噛み砕いていうならit feels like you can't say what you really are thinking if it's out of the box/ if it's not what's expected of you/ if it’s something that the majority of people don’t agree with とか🤔？
