So this date was quite a bit different than many of our previous dates...do you have strong opinions or feelings about them as a pair? Let us know your comments and questions either here or on our Instagram. ( instagram.com/jubileemedia/ )
Catsand Rabbits I feel like you used a face compatibility-finder machine. Looked as if y'all tried to actually match people based off of physicality instead of pre-meditated interviews using mental/habitual simularites. They seemed more mentally than physically attracted. Interesting. ALSO PLEASE DO FOLLOW UPS with all of these people sooner than later 🤓
You guys dont know what the fvck yall doing with these matches! You match people on very different leagues that are obv. not going to be physically attracted to each other or are mentally in different places!
Jubilee this was hard to watch!! He's young and has a lot of growing to do, he seems to be struggling to have a conversation. She clearly has more experience in life and is able to carry out a conversation. Not a great match as friends or otherwise.
The difference between their maturity levels is staggering. He reminds me of a nervous freshman in high school who's acting like a "bro" because he's nervous and overcompensating
Your name is interesting, because it is really frequent here where I live. So I saw your channel and you finished 2nd year (i'm finishing too)....so i wish you all the best luck in the world
No, yo are naive. Grown woman don't care about what you say but what you do as a man. This particular woman opt out bcus, even though he is nice and stable, he's still need some work to do as in, to get himself together in many ways. The lady don't wanna do that with any one.
Yes! totally agreed...He kept on vocalizing a very cocky "we going to..." not would you like to...Confidence is great but that wasn't confidence it was almost pushy in an imature way
It’s playful comedy. I’m very serious and I know how to have fun and lighten up. Take a joke. It beats being with someone for 5+ years and they never even mention marriage lol
Especially after learning that he just got out of a relationship! Makes him come across as very needy and just looking for someone to fill a void, while her on the other hand is very mature and potentially looking for a life partner
Yeah he should've responded with something like "I'm glad you made it out in one piece", or something even better like "how long did it take you to emotionally and physically recover from that?". I had the exact same experience like her, so I'm sure she would've appreciated him taking it seriously.
Wowwww she literally poured her heart out in her story about almost dying in a traumatic accident His response: “YoU sTiLl FiNe DoE” Get me out of here. Now.
Huge no for him. I’d love to see her redo this with someone with a little more depth. Like is he even listening to her or just caught up with how beautiful she is?? I’m annoyed.
I disagree. Being calm and poised don't necessarily equate to maturity. Perhaps, she's a confident person, and he's more of an outgoing and extroverted person. Unfortunately, we don't have enough data to analyse them anyways.
They both seem like good people. She is definitely in another place in life as him. I think he is a little raw from his break up and comes off as needy/clingy. Maybe if they did this a year from now he could have some personal growth under his belt. His nervousness and enthusiasm were cute. She is a strong, self aware woman. She is a breath of fresh air. She was aware that they were not in the same place in life and gently let him down on her thoughts on further dating. We got a small glimpse of their interaction so who are we to really judge who they are truelly.
Jenny Morris Wood I agree. From this it seems like an athlete fresh into college and a student fresh out of graduate school had a conversation. There isn’t anything wrong with either but they definitely a demeanor about that woman that she’s happy as she is while he’s looking for something to make him happy. It was interesting to see.
David Simmons I can only imagine. You are braver than me. I was asking myself all the questions you both got asked. I thought I would only really like to answer all the questions with my husband or my Mom. You did it for millions to see!
i feel like he was just hearing her to respond, not really listening to understand. their attitudes and expectations seemed to be totally different, i don’t see this one working out. i feel like she deserves better tbh, not that there isn’t someone out there for him, just won’t be her.
Um yeah of course he's focused on her body,your not gonna start dating someone who looks like they were on my 600 pound life just because they got a good personality
Dr Dwg I kinda thought so too... You can tell by how she was dressed that she was ready to be serious. Most girls just come in jeans and boots or sneakers lol... She was impressive for sure, but like... Not as warm or friendly. She could've disarmed him with her gentleness and smile, then he wouldve stopped being nervous. They both deserve a redo with other people 😂
@antonio you are not alone, i think everyone goes through this phase. What i meant by that statement was, he pretty much isnt fully himself yet. So in my opinion, he comes off a bit forced or too much because he is trying to overcompensate for any inadequacy he may have about himself. The fact he was pretty much putting words in the mouth of the lady when he stated "you are my new wife now, i decided for you.." it usually is a way of control. He may just be too young and thus immature and I may be totally wrong and thats ok for me. But from watching this it showed me he needs to first find himself, live a bit more, deal with his recent heartbreak and be at peace with his reality. I feel we all need to find peace with ourselves and be unashamed of who we are. I wish you the best on your journey :)
Nope I did not like the way he came across when she entered the room. Lol just like boy no. No no. No. And when she said that thing about the car accident and he was just like, "But look at you know, fine ass." WTF That was not even appropriate like no.
sam martin thank you for actually understanding idk I can sit and critique everything thing in this. I grew as an actor since this was my first published thing ever so I’ll have some fire content for the world Nov. onward
This guy is an annoying combination of cocky and insecure. He's cute but I wouldn't do the second date if I were her. She deserves someone on her level of emotional maturity.
I genuinely like this guy. I feel like his heart is at the right place, I don't want him to read these comments and feel bad about himself. I just feel like he can at times, be too direct and it can come across as being too overwhelming, especially if you're meeting someone for the first time. I mean, it could be that he's just very nervous or anxious but he needs to take it slow and study and observe before speaking. He can almost come across as being too clingy which can be a turn-off for some, but this guy seems to be a genuinely nice dude- I just hope he can do more self-discovering and mature more before going into the dating scene.
nah I personally don't open up entirely to anyone unless we have been dating or awhile and still then. I'd rather fight to keep my feelings to myself rather than opening up to anyone. Could it be previous relationship? Possibly, but yeah staying upbeat and making everything enjoyable by laughing is how i live my life personally.
David Simmons just be yourself! Some people can judge too hard, that's also a character I for instance don't like. We all differ. Glad you had fun😆that's what it was about
This guy is exactly what I don't like: overly proud and arrogant. I'll admit he is handsome but he is just so shallow. And it think he's insecure too. Simple remarks like " You still look fine" after she tells you she had an accident show no empathy. I think Nicole deserves someone better and I did sense hesitation in her agreement to a second date.
I wouldn't say he's arrogant or proud I would just say he's a little silly and immature! He's only human! Most people are 1000x worse than him! Trust me I've seen some evil things in my day
I think he was just overwhelmed by her beauty, considering his reaction when she came in. He allowed it to get to him. Look at the final part where he said something about being friend- zoned. I was like “Man! That wrong and unthoughtful.” even though he later admitted he was joking. Like that was crap. She clearly wasn't into such kind of jokes, I noticed at the beginning. And like I said, he was overwhelmed, perhaps the reason he didn't notice.
I love the girl! There is so much class to the way she presents herself and the way she talks. The guy is trying too hard to impress her and seems to be the dependent and needy type in the relationship imo. In the end she definitely friendzoned him but said it in a very nice way. He is like a little brother lol
I think she seems more mature, calm and collected than him.I love how she diplomatically responded to the last question. He on the other hand is pretty impulsive with what he says for eg: "that low key hurt my feelings", he misunderstood what she said so quickly. Misunderstandings are so scary imo.
He understood what she said just fine she hesitated and based on reading her body language and answered she doesn’t want to go on a second date and he read right through that what the hell are you talking about
Why are people going on the guy so much? He said he hasn’t found Himself yet. He said he was new from a relationship. He is clearly comical. He is just joking and playing around to ease the awkwardness. Try to imagine if it were you and the entire internet is judging on what they saw of you in ONE YT video. We are people, we have depth.
William Howard Taft The most awkward thing is people misunderstanding other people's character. It's not necessarily immature and no, it's not a personal attack. They just prefer to live with humor. Take in mind Chandler from Friends. Everyone loves him lol
also i feel kinda bad for this girl. she seemed uninterested from the beginning probably because of the first impression he gave her and her body language ex. her pointing her feet away from him and breaking eye contact shows she's just like "help"
Her skirt was too short. They were sitting on pillows. She had to bend her knees and cover the gap with her dress. Or did you want her to flash him the entire date?!
Coming from another guy, the dude is good looking obviously as well the young lady. His constant laughing, desperation & witty answers were cringe worthy while this lady is just in a whole different headspace. He’s overly confident which is fine but it comes off as clingy and needy. He seems like he hasn’t been through enough to be humble and mature compared to the other woman. While she’s been through trauma in her life, a peak of self awareness and spiritually involved in a church automatically sets this up for failure. I hope she invited him to church after so blatantly saying she’s “fine as fuck”. Dude you don’t use opportunity from someone’s tragedy as an advantage to compliment her to seem charismatic. No no no. Come again next year. 😂 Dope Jubilee.
David Simmons lol. That’s great. Wasn’t trying to be harsh or anything lol. You seem chill. Probably nerves lol. All the best onward! You got some recognition though! Let people know what you do so we can support. Lol.
Were you ever hungry or thirsty? Those are base instincts that are coming out! It takes time to refine and discipline those base instincts and most aren't even close to this
When she talked about her car wreck....he could’ve at least responded with “wow sorry to hear about that, hope you’re doing & feeling fine mentally & emotionally from the past trauma” but then again he probably couldn’t articulate that much 🤷🏾♀️
Definitely not compatible, honestly. She comes off as someone so matured and strong, the dude on the other hand, seems childish and a bit lost. Not a favourite
Great series. Keep in mind though, that the article is based on a real psychological experiment called The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness, by Arthur Aron, Et. Al. The point wasn’t to create lasting relationships, but a strong feeling of closeness. This version sets it up as a romantic date and follows up with the people with the expectation of a romantic relationship. This is a great adaptation of the experiment, but I highly recommend reading the findings of the original experiment.
I had a friend of a friend of mine who was like him and I taught him how to be mean and ruthless to most people except his friends because most people are arrogant and judgemental who refuse to see their own irony! He said he's trying to find himself and you laugh! Disrespectful little brat
I can’t understand why she says “I’m sure bad karma came her way.” The girl is entitled to saying no to a promposal. That doesn’t make the girl a bad person in any way.
So, I have watched this video to practice my level of attraction and body language spotting skills. What I have found: Before anything, David, if you read this, it's not meant to offend, I constantly analyze my own behavior to improve. That is the way forward! He was clearly desperate. He was constantly caressing his hands and waiting for her on a praying hands behavior. -As mostly everyone noticed, David ruined it when he mentioned her being his wife. He doesn't even know her! If you truly care about yourself, and about someones personality, and not just her body, this is something that is said much later on. -At the beginning she is displaying a flirting position (1:42) , but by 2:07 she is no longer facing him with either her torso or her legs, meaning she is completely uninterested. 2:47 - She does eye blocking behavior, most likely because he blames her that her attempts to improve herself would diminish him. SHe was like "wtf"? 3:45 - She is analyzing him as he is talking about another girl he asked out in the past. She is trying to figure out what he would think about her if she would do the same to him. 4:51 - She is happy with his compliment. 6:13 - He talks about crying about ex-gf. She is showing slight disgust. 6:54 - He asks her out. She talks about being friends. If she does so David, just move on and don't call her if you have feelings for her. It will just hurt you more. 8:14 - GOLDEN COMEBACK. BIG APPLAUSE. Signing out folks :P.
I honestly don't like them as a pair but Nicole has so much charm and intelligence in her that I just keep watching this vid. I love how she carried herself on this date.
