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I had the same thought. I would love to sit in a box with my situationship for 12 hours. And try to get them to be honest for 5 of those seconds.

What is a situationship?

@@doms.6701 a non official relationship i think

This 😂

Oh yeah. I've been in a long term situationship and well.. it definitly would end in an emotional disaster 😂

lmfaoaoa

Susan you are not decorating that corner we are here to talk and interact, Susan, stop, no no no

Bit evil

ohh that would be so good

@C0rpseClown 😭😭😭😭

Did you ever find a follow up because I am fully invested now as well lol

@@melissaatwood6172 hahah no I dont think I did but I havent searched recently- if you find one let me know! Thanks for bringing me back to this video hahah

​@@melissaatwood6172 I am invested too lol.

lmao same@@melissaatwood6172

Yes that wasn't right and he didn't really seem proper to take advantage of someone like that! It made me really angry that he took advantage of that moment and only brought it up when it came topic. He didn't even register it and that's scary!!!!

I would expect nothing less from someone who says "I want to raise my children Christian"

@@kerrin6633Agreed. But he did register it. He literally talked about the whole thing and apologized for it.

🙄​@@Pogueconductor

@@kzeetha Roll your eyes all you want. Christian trama is a real thing. If you want to see who is fighting to KEEP child brides look no further. Talk about child grooming

Ikr 😪😪

This deserves to be the top comment 😂

So this is where they found the little asian baby from the show Shameless....from this chick

@@eatermckinnon4644 lmaooooo

no cos REALLY wtf

What bugged me was that she was like "it's MY identity." Yeah bitch, that's the point; it's not HIS identity. Boundaries.

@@DA-js7xz exactly!! She’s literally saying I can’t change but I expect you to…

Still too much. If you don’t believe in it you shouldn’t be asked to go at all. She’s so pushy

I believe that your suggestion would have been a fair compromise.

@@Mila76778 I agree

What’s her social media ?

We need you to find the guy in Korea.

Or mid chewing a whole mouth full of food

Lol right

Dude omg exactly

love the twenty one pilots pfp

So I work in a restaurant and man it happened like 5 times today 🥴 I felt mad uncomfortable lol

This is so right, like he already isn't disagreeing with her faith and if that was me I'd be constantly debating that faith with her because I don't agree with it. He's already so supportive of her faith and she should give that to him in return.

It's so interesting that she would prefer a Christian man, when she herself doesn't live a Christian lifestyle (e.g. having sex before marriage, kissing lots of guys in one night). It shouldn't come as a surprise to her that the men she attracts are non-Christian men given that the life she lives doesn't reflect that of a Christian's.

I know of couple where the wife is a regular church attender, I think probably has been most of her life, and the husband wants nothing to do with it. I don't believe I've even ever met him because I only know her through church. However, they make it work somehow. Certainly not ideal, but props to her for being so strong in her faith yet so loving towards her husband.

I agree. I can see it as a thing you want your partner to see, your hobbies, or in this case something more to her, but it doesn't mean he has to come to all of them as hes not religious in my eyes. I thought he didn't like that idea but swallowed it to compromise to be with her. Then again not my relationship.

Your right, but she did say that it was more of a supportive gesture rather than him actually believing. In my case, my dad is an atheist while my mother and i are christian, we dont expect him to change his beliefs, but we do find it sweet and thoughtful when he agrees to go to church with us, not because it makes us think maybe he will convert, its because it makes us feel loved and greatfull that he cares enough *for us* to join us in this thing he may not agree with.

Dam

Thanks for the info

that could be editing or they just didnt ask him though.

@@zazuch They asked a few different ways, his responses are not all edited either. But its just my perspective

For help with the baby

He also uses the phrases were so he's just wanting to clear the air

I think they share the full 12 hrs on their website

This. He's not into her like that and we could tell. She's holding onto something that's not there anymore. Friendship yes but I don't think he could give her what she wants in a partner. She's definitely hopeful for more.

She tryna have a bunch of kids who are international lmao 🤣

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@@illestgyal She's holding on to finding a baby daddy lmao

Guys who are highly dramatic and emotional are very hard to date long term. They are a lot of fun at first, but the longer the relationship runs, the more difficult it becomes. I have a feeling they will do great... for a while... then the reality of his impulsivity and her having a baby will shut things down... not to mention compulsive weekly church attendance.

She specifically said that she would want him going to church every week as support but that he doesn’t need to believe but I personally would not want to go 💀

Yeah hope they could work it out but I couldn’t. Im not going to church once a week for anyone

Religion is not a deal breaker but expecting the other half to fully support it or go to church with you is… my partner of 10 years is religious and I am not, we are super strong together and he doesn’t push his belief onto me. I will never go to a church again after my bad experience and he is fine with that.

thats why christians should be with christians so then no one is "forced" to go to church or pressured to stay at home

It's so interesting that she would prefer a Christian man, when she herself doesn't live a Christian lifestyle (e.g. having sex before marriage, kissing lots of guys in one night). It shouldn't come as a surprise to her that the men she attracts are non-Christian men given that the life she lives doesn't reflect that of a Christian's.

Lol great idea

not sure murder is approved on youtube

@@Naturalhighz I was just going to say the cleanup on that would be pretty extensive.

Or a Bear?

@@draedon_ okay

I think cheating is a crimson flag

He did cheat but throughout the time I’ve been going to therapy, I don’t think cheating has to be an end all be all unless like you give somebody something or you get pregnant. I’ve forgiven my person for cheating and we talked through it and went to therapy and did a bunch of stuff to work through it.

They give them prompts and most likely cut ask her to say a couple of those things but i get what your saying

except he cheated and touched her sexually while she was unconscious. but people will always ignore men’s red flags if it means they can focus on women’s.

@@jaeminton2931 I totally missed that part , I’ll rewatch

Christianity is the only truth

@@victorino7113 believe what you want. But pushing your believe on someone is wrong.

@@faysmit4799 no it’s not it’s human nature everyone pushes their believe on everyone. Like the belief of the current agendas that are pushed so hard on us in society and we now accept them as “normal”

@@victorino7113 stay in your close minded bubble. Have a nice day!

@@faysmit4799 ironic cause I’m 18 and always debate so you can say I’m pretty open minded but sure if you say so. I’m probrably “close minded “ because no one can disprove me with statements 🤷🏽‍♂️

That's literally what I was thinking

@@iwannabeacow6853 right! I hope the baby gets to know the father somehow

@@biNoelle yeah same!

That's Cherry-Picking. Welcome to 2022 ...

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I completely 100% agree with this she’s pushing hard she initiated going in a date, she initiated the thought of getting back together, then she initiated the act of kissing again in my opinion she’s trying to seduce him in a round about way where it can’t be recognized by the average viewer

@@aunknownspecies4153 that wasn’t round about that was blatant lol

How do you know what the real intentions of this guy was? He clearly had a emotional and physical attraction towards her. They even kissed there. If he would be super uncomfortable with that, wouldn't you think he would build some distance? To me personally it didn't look like that he only wanted to apologize what he did in the past. I mean why would he invite her to this place there to have such a deep conversation just to apologize. You can also hear out from this conversation that they always had been in contact through digital chats. I believe he wanted to find out and explore where they are standing today.

Absolutely !!

FACTS

Exactly and the way she told him he’d have to go to church if he was with her while he has trauma makes me so uncomfy

Exactly

they are both trash. He plays the soft-spoken sensitive guy yet touches her without consent, she does the things you mentioned. Its crazy how toxic couple are.

Right I’m like 😮

Some would argue that using abortion as the solution to maintaining control of your life is a dangerous mindset.

@@87enoughBULL yeah idiots for example 😂 don’t let anyone control your body religion is so creepy

lol nah. 2 weeks ago, I found out I'm going to be a dad. It wasn't planned, not for a year or two at least. If you don't want kids, wear protection. If you don't, it's your responsibility and consequences, and not your right to take away a life you accidentally created lolol

@@roybaartscheer8872 Protection fails... Accidents happen.... Crimes happen.... And it is not alive yet. It is a clump of cells.

That’s just her outlook on life. I like to think everything happens for a reason. She chose the path that she thought would be best for her, there was nothing wrong with that.

she said so many times that she isn’t pressuring him, AND she literally acknowledged that he had religious trauma. wanting your partner to support you in your religion and POSSIBLY come to faith isn’t pushing religion onto them. especially when you want your child to be raised in that religion. y’all always think speaking of wanting someone to be part of your faith is disrespectful, but it’s not. it’s our identity, and yes it is a deal breaker for people, because that’s what our entire life is based upon!

@@amw2005 she stated it would be very important for him to go to church every week to “support her religion.” Why can’t she respect his beliefs and go without him? He’s respecting her religion by not having an issue with her attending and practicing but she doesn’t respect his beliefs

If he had an issue with it he would of said that, go cry about not being religious somewhere else and mind your business 😂

@@BCl137 girl what 💀💀

@@amw2005 maybe he also wanted her to come to non faith, is it equally fair ? ;)

He called her childish and he wasn't responsible enough to ensure she was on contraception or to use a condom or to get Plan B (granted, apparently in Korea the process of getting the morning after pill is a bit more involved because their society has not yet decided if it counts as abortion or not) the morning after even when she had the feeling that night that she might be in the process of conceiving. His situation is still pretty rough but I can't bring myself to feel that much sympathy for him.

@@ShaunCheah u don’t know the full conversation leading up to him calling her childish. Her breaking up with him before even confirming that she’s pregnant then choosing to more to away with his baby knowing he has no say in it is childish. If he’s irresponsible then so is she but even with all the precautions it’s still fully possible to get pregnant

@@ShaunCheah Funny how you're solely blaming him for her getting pregnant. If they didn't want to get pregnant then having sex without any contraception was both of their faults. He didn't wear a condom. She allowed him to enter her without a condom. She wasn't on birth control. She didn't take the morning after pill. She decided against abortion.

@@janaeivory7914 If my girl broke up with me...then a few weeks later told me she's pregnant and she's going to move to a different country 10,000 miles away and I'd probably never get the opportunity to raise my own kid...I think "childish" would be the nicest of all the things I would call her.

@@tommyjones6866 CNUT? Lol

Great comment had me chuckling haha

Nah, he called her, that's the difference. And he broke it off with her after cheating (though she prolly would've, not implying like she wanted to stay together.) So it's not like she went after him cause she wanted him for the money, and neither of them expected to end up together. These are real people, not one of those "nerd gets rejected by prom queen, 10 years later pregnant prom queen begs nerd for a ride in his corvette" memes.

facts 😭😭

He still like her tho

@@victorino7113 it's actually the other way around

ikr💀 I wouldn't go to church WEEKLY cuz my partner believes in god

@@hdbevewhvebd4707 My dude I have spent more than twenty-eight of the thirty years of my life so far single and at this point I would be in the pews four hours a day six days a week if it meant I'd have someone who cared about me with whom I could spend the rest of my life.

Well she didn't force him to go ...she just said she would like him to go lmfaoo y'all reaching

@@maddiemaryanne426 "raise my kids christian" is forcing religion tho

@@maddiemaryanne426 She didn't force him, but he would have to force himself to go, to stay with her. And as for the reason why she cant care about his religion the way he does. Is because she is religious, and he is not. People have different values. Its very egocentric to ask why people cannot be like you.

@@kelvinopara7297 um they broke up because he cheated .they literally dated for along time with her knowing he's not religious so you're literally making no fucking sense 😅

@@Lilian040210 I mean I do agree on that I'm atheist an don't think we should make our kids be just like us because it's our religion.but that's a sticky situation because obviously she wants the best for her children an she wants to share her faith with them so idk

He's going to and then she's going to blame it on him

Once he realizes he doesn’t want to be a cuck and raise a Korean baby he will cheat on her again. Can’t blame the Korean for knocking her up though, she was probably cute before this happened

yup

I’m Christian. However I completely agree with this

Especially because it’s not support. Her trying to frame it that way is SO fucking manipulative.

Yeah the only reason I went to church with my mom was because despite not being religious I wasn't an atheist. And even when I followed my mom to church and prayed with her I was never actively pushed to become religious. There were some who tried and my mom actually shielded me from them because she knew I disliked propagating. You gotta respect the boundaries man.

@@sapphicalix it definitely can be support. but it depends on how BOTH partners see it. if he sees it as a betrayal to his own beliefs then it is unsupportive for her to demand he come with her. honestly it just seems like they have some very conflicting integral ideas

Same. I wouldn't go weekly but maybe once every 3 months (staying outside probably) or to hang out with my partner's religious friends and know them a bit would be ok, but I'm not really all that for pretending to be like I do believe lol, especially if I have traumas or bad experiences like its implied he did. Most likely, if people at the church found out he was an atheist they would either try to push him into religion more and more, or trash talk him on his back about how disrespectful it is to come to church without being a believer lol. Had an aunt who forced her fiance to accompany her to church, and part of the reason of why they broke up was that the church friends talked trash about the atheist fiance to my aunt every single day, and made her feel like it was disrespectful to god to be with an atheist, and if she did she was worth less as a person

best comment in here

I think because of his past act of cheating to her, I believe he didn't feel like in a place to make the first step into asking getting together again. He could only apologize and look out for the responds she would give towards him. Other than that he showed affection towards her as well and didn't express any emotional or physical distance towards her. So, I don't really think it was only a one-sided need for that reason. I mean he proposed her to meet there and have this conversation and you can also hear out of their conversation that they had been in contact all the time through digital chats.

I absolutely agree! The body language was directly opposing their words and there was so much uncomfortable tension.

ikr. And why cant she find a man at church? Thats sus

@@bevs9995 because most traditional christian men wont want a whore wife whos currently pregnant with another man's child

For real. She’s bringing a whole ass LIFE into this world when she doesn’t want to be pregnant just because of her toxic beliefs. That’s insane.

It ain't about need. Nor do you know them enough to say she'd definitely do that, we don't know maybe she would maybe not.

From another country too while strongly religious 💀 I’m v confused

I’m confused too… because they don’t have plan B in Korea?!

and not just any ex but an ex who cheated on her too... i thinking childish is definitely the right word for her...

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and then she says she isnt looking for someone to support her... how ironic!

Why did you write this comment?

@@CrnogorskiNacionalista y not

This!

Sorry but as someone who had a very similar situation to this guy , the guilt is what makes us seem "Not knowing" or leading people is not it. It's the now dreading feeling of failing someone you now see as perfect that fucks you up mentally cause you once did fuck up with them and caused them trouble. The guilt and self-work you need to do on yourself to better your wrongs is insanely draining. I find it very stuck up from you to judge him like this because obviously he has a big decision to make and he doesn't (I wouldn't ) feel worthy of her after what he has done, it's as simple as that. Not everyone stays evil and plays with people for fun, some are in bad head spaces , make mistakes and try to learn and live by them.

@@frostwindsgaming8645 damn, this too! Thanks for writing this!

WoW! Both of these POVs are on point. Damn

Yea I am 6 mins in and I can see she wants to be with him still. I get the sense that he doesn't know what he wants but he knows for sure that she is safe. If its intentional he is wrong for doing it. If not they definitely both need to seek help apart. My ex is this way. When he gets lonely or bored of whomever he is with he always texts me like we are still together. I don't encourage it becuase he hurt me big time and while I know I still love him. I am at peace loving him from afar. Hope it positively works out for the both of them.

How is the second one a wrong though? They weren't together so it's not like she cheated. If he doesn't want that responsibility he should've said no... I agree though that it seemed a bit like she guilted him because of his cheating...

@@tobene more so the Korean guy than him. She kinda fucked that guy over tbh which isn’t great either. He might not ever see his child.

Finally brother someone addressed it she prolly never heard of philosophy nor science the way she talks about the baby and how god planned it makes me want to dig my head under the ground

that's why i stopped watching... i cannot stand this way of thinking and how many lives can ruin

right?? its like saying its God's plan for someone to have chalmadiya and reject the medicine

right apparently it was god's plan for her to fuck some random dude while she was teaching in a foreign country and to not use protection risking pregnancy and disease

Did she ever even say she was pro-life tho? She said she wanted to keep the baby because she “felt like god gave it to her”, but she also said she was considering an abortion at some point. At the end of the day it’s her decision.

It aint like she fucked them all, do you really get insecure at spin the bottle? Like, man. She wasn't his girl and probably HAS fucked people before him, not a virgin either, like he's not any worse off than any of the other people (girls included) she kissed, like she kissed a bunch of people, and then started dating and having sex exclusively with one of them. "oh no my girlie kissed another little boy before me!" - said my goddamn little brother prolly.

Lmao trapped

You know nothing. The korean dude might not even want the kid.

@@alexare6655 hence why I said “I need a whole video”

@@YHoll "that would suck if the guy couldn't interact or be there for their child"- that implies he *wants* to. Maybe he doesn't.

@@alexare6655 which is why I wrote “If” 😂 it’s not that deep.

@@YHoll your reading comprehension needs work but cheers.

im sorry to hear about your religious trauma, ive seen this same issue with a lot of people, im wondering if you dont mind telling what kind of church community you grew up around which inflicted this trauma?

not all churches are the same. just like not all people are the same. if i was raised by a chinese man and all he did was abuse me it wouldn’t make sense to grow up hating and avoiding chinese people. just something to think abt. you’re trauma is valid.

@@merciful9695 false equivalent, not the same at all. The basis of 90% of Christian churches is the same- the bible. That's the problem.

He’s a bigger man than I am cause going to church is off the table for me. She can go to church all she wants but I’m not going. That’s her identity. Not mine.

@@iamhere1523 the basis of like, 10% of churches is the Bible. 90% is the doctrine of the denomination and personal preferences of the pastor.

If you don’t know that’s OK. But some of us do. So if you know, you know and if you don’t, you don’t.

@@savageunitato100 oh i know i just don’t agree with it but to each it’s own

@@savageunitato100 God told me to tell you stop blaming him for your trash decisions.

I do know. It's dumb as fuck.

@@savageunitato100 god told her to do biggest sin?

“Very” hmmm

Imagine telling a victim pregnant child it's god's plan. BRUH

Its just her personal experience and beliefs on it, stop making it a bigger deal than it is 🙄

How is she manipulative? I can see him being manipulative but i didn’t really see it from her. She seemed more desperate.

The fact that she tried to guilt him into going to church with her. That’s manipulation. Both sides need to respect each other’s boundaries.

@@rowena0723 yes exactly. She is forcing her religion on him and making him promise to attend church. He’s not perfect either.

@@thatho3c0ri i don't believe in anything but yall took it way too deep just going to church w her shouldn't be a deal breaker yall will find anything and call it a deal breaker

@@opaliatzs but we don't know what he experienced to form such a response by going to church. he might have been publicly shamed, sexually assaulted or gaslighted into thinking a certain way. whatever it is, religious trauma is a heavy topic and it shouldn't be taken lightly. his trauma is valid and if he disliked going to church then so it be.

Seriously

Way more people think premarital sex is ok than an abortion is ok…

She shouldn’t have had premarital sex as a Christian but why would you make it worse by terminating the pregnancy? (From a Christian stand point.)

@@casualtyofrymes I see it as a lapse in judgement and a fuck up. She very well might regret having premarital sex and could've repented, frankly it's all just the way in perceiving who she is off limited talking, if she regrets having sex premaritally and doesn't want to dig herself deeper with an abortion, then respect, taking accountability for your Sid.

@@lotsclosed19 I agree, she should take all responsibility and not expect him to raise her child. That relationship would never work anyway with the different views of religion. The Bible calls us to be equally yoked and they just aren’t and that’s ok, but she’s pushing him farther away.

Yup…

Scared to date now because of it

@@Bluemoonjellyfishh this sht cringe af

@@Bluemoonjellyfishh Well you don't have to be scared to date, just be really careful about WHO you date. Get to know them first before going serious. That's all.

i mean yeah, but i don't think it has something to do with you. most of the people who cheat are people who are not really mentally healthy and they find cheating like sort of an escape. also many people are polyamorous and they don't even know. ofc it's always hurtful. but you cant take it personally.

thats how most of them are, hypocrtical and pick and choose what they want to follow

@@ItsDarkRightNow it's extra strange when she makes such a point of claiming that being a Christian is "her identity"

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Dude ain't it 100%. He already cheated. She cant parabond... She alpha widowed. The father will not be loved of her child. It aint looking good. She back for some good environment/help.

Wtf does this even mean what sauce lmao.

He reached out to her.

RIGHT! For someone with such strong religious convictions, she sure ignored what her own religion prescribed...

@@leahgal9387 Source?

Not letting the man see the baby completely aside, just focusing on the premarital sex. Going against your religion isn't toxic if it's specifically about YOUR relationship with your religion not other people. And sinning isn't contradictory to being religious. Obviously it's bullshit and nothing wrong with premarital sex, but respecting her, specifically the sleeping with someone thing, someone she might've been serious about or really liked, isn't toxic. Some religious person might say it's still wrong, if not toxic, and that's their problem they can go judge someone else though Idk. She doesn't regret her baby.

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This

She wasn't pushing she just said she would like it if he went.

@@alexare6655 She implied it was a requirement for their relationship to be rekindled. But even if she only preferred it, it is still coercion and a conversion tactic to subject someone to an environment so heavily saturated with pro-Christian views and ideology. Whatever his religion may be, it is clear it does not involve attending church on his own accord. That’s part of his beliefs. If she truly supports those beliefs, there’s no reason he needs to be in that environment, especially if he has trauma.

@@malum_1 exactly

I mean..I'm in a small town so I doubt I'd ever be asked to be on this channel lol but my now husband and I got married during covid. Started dating when I was 18 and we've now been together for 6 years and married for 4 in october🎉

oh I'm in Canada lol

This went over a lot of peoples’ head. She is not a good person.

Timestamp? Where did she say the father said that? I missed it

@@gladitsnotme 10:27 it’s insinuated. She told the guy I’m leaving if I’m pregnant and they got in an argument and he called her childish. It was before the test. So who even knows if the guy is aware of the baby at all

well, but it is her being pregnent, not the guy. I wouldn't want to go through pregnancy and childbirth in a foreign country, without support system and (i'm assuming) not knowing the language, that shit is way to scary anyway. The father knew he was having sex with an American woman (assuming again) not intending to spend her whole life in Korea

@@meode7677 exactky

for the first paragraph: well, but it is her being pregnent, not the guy. I wouldn't want to go through pregnancy and childbirth in a foreign country, without support system and (i'm assuming) not knowing the language, that shit is way to scary anyway. The father knew he was having sex with an American woman (assuming again) not intending to spend her whole life in Korea

@@meode7677 i get what you are saying. I think the fact that she just broke up with him and left without anything being resolved (I’m assuming) is kinda messed up. I hope she attempts to keep the father in the child’s life and find middle ground on how they can both be parents.

@@YHoll yeah, i would hope they talk and resolve everything surrounding co-parenting, especially if the father will want to be involved, it won't be easy, for sure. but they still have time for that, right now there ain't no baby and no baby daddy, there is a woman in an unplanned pregnancy. It is a stressful situation to be in and shaming her for going back to her home country in that situation is kinda ridiculous to me.

@@meode7677 you can also say she knew but she went ahead and got pregnant talm about God's plans. I just feel sorry for the kid. Having one parent ain't the kid's best interest.

@@yasuke4593 "she went ahaed and got pregnant" - that sounds like she tricked him into it lol we can judge them both for having unprotected sex and not using plan B (though i dont know if its accessable in Korea) - that's a totally different discussion than her going back to the US

You just described how i feel about my ex.

I AGREE

Yeah men are jerks

@Md. Jasim Hope so or he'll just end up cheating on her again

That's funny because to me it felt like she was the one leading him on lol

ikr. and why cant she just find a man at church

@@bevs9995 true to that as well. Also I know accidents happen but….not very Christian like to get pregnant out of wedlock

I really hope you are 12, because if you're saying this as an adult I feel sorry for your understanding of the world we live in. You need a huuge reality check.

@@mantaraylove reality to what? Your biased perspective on the world? As far as I could see this seems like a bad idea, with red flags already in the beginning of this video. And I’m just acknowledging that. The fact that your ignoring everything I just said, the details and explanation I gave. And in return your giving a vague, general statement of how “I don’t understand the world”, with no added information given. Your not refuting my point, your not even giving a different perspective, your just using an ad hominem and an empty statement with no backing. And your calling me a child? You sound ridiculous because even a high schooler could communicate their thought, beliefs or opinions better than this. Show your age, because I can tell you this right. Age does not define maturity, intellect, judgement or how correct your are. And your a perfect example of that. And obviously I’m not a kid, I just don’t have the privilege of being able to overlook certain things the way you do. And you may think I sound ignorant, but reading the comment that you posted, I can guarantee you that the feeling toward you is mutual. Please give me a reality check, I need to learn from you. Cause clearly you’ve got it all figured out.

Yup

They’re both kinda problematic