The side chick will call you and talk bad about him only to be with him when you finally decide to leave lol. Let her have him and enjoy your stress free life.
Happened with one of my friends...she was living with the guy ..they had 3 kids ...he was still living with my friend when the other woman call to tell my friend ...that they (him and her) were getting married ...she wished them well ...the woman was shocked....
A leopard never looses its spot. Most cheaters are serial cheaters, ya’all it’s actually a personality disorder, a character flaw. When they do it once and don’t come clean they’ll keep doing it again and again until you lost count on how many people or times they’ve done it. Cheating is just like addictions, they need to commit to a behaviour change program so they can develop their character. Ladies always remember your man is not a project and you ain’t his therapist/babysitter. Go for men who are raised well and can take ownership accountability for the choices they make. Above all we need to elevate ourselves so high that we stop attracting the backwater swines and peasants who bring nothing but soul crushing agony and pain. Tony thank you so much for the work you do, we need more men like you to continue speaking up.
I don’t believe that cheating men can change. Zebras don’t change their stripes and “old habits die hard”. A person has to be willing to admit that their cheating habits have caused destruction to others and want to do better. Unfortunately, some people don’t care and don’t see anything wrong with their destructive habits.
Tony ain’t lying.. i’m 36 and I was talking to a 26yr old who was trying to holler at me. In one conversation he called me an old head” I snapped out of it so fast and came all the way to my senses smdh. Tony already tried to tell me.
Lesson for all the ladies. You can't do what men do. You can't just have fun. You will get caught up and like this woman, 11 years later still be caught up. DO NOT have children until you're married!
My male cousin, who has had two wives, and a baby's mother told me that he was disgusted by the process of pregnancy, I was HORRIFIED because he was serious! He cheated on both his wives, and the baby mama. They (the wives) would call, visit and cry to us (the family) about him. He wouldn't listen to us. He is now single and still has the same views. He is a superficial Narcissist. SMH :( IMO, Cheating is the ULTIMATE sign of disrespect. He'll say one thing, gaslight you (tell you what you want to hear-it wasn't like that, she didn't mean nothing, it was just sex or whatever). It will happen again. IMO Tony tells it like it truly is.
Tony, thank you for speaking on this topic. I have a son with someone who did not love me, and everything you said about that was the absolute truth. I have learned so much from this channel the past year which has been a blessing to my life. I left my son’s father, started to most importantly love myself and my son, bought a home, and is focusing on us. I cannot thank you and your wife enough for your influence in my life.
listen I am a RN for almost a decade ..i see this from a mile coming...these men never going to totally discard their meal ticket ..they will try to find ways to play you if you let them..the information is out there so any nurse thats falling for this is deluisional..most nurses i have worked with they man a waste man and not a provider and thats from white,black,philopino,spanish etc....dont get fooled by all these nurses getting married and engaged yall do not know the real story 9/10 its bad...I have seen nurses bring themselves to work meanwhile they husband home and unemployed and he cant even drive them or pick them up..Nurses really be going down bad from the outside it looks good but its a lot of smoke and mirrors
Mines was 15 years younger he was a great provider he was cheating well I have never caught him cheating though I know he has throughout our whole relationship he's was just good at hiding it I've grown and evolved as years have gone on I'm a registered nurse he was a pain in the ass he was competing with my children for my attention and affection I wouldn't recommend any woman date a younger man it's like having another child
No one has ever ASKED how to 💯 % bulletproof your Relationship as MUCH as possible BEFORE you even get into one. I'm 23. Waiting on marriage. I don't want to have to wait until something happens to call in. I want to make SURE I'm getting a real quality man worth my time BEFORE he actually comes along
Always sad and tough situations when grown boys convince women to fall (in love) but they are not there to catch them and then the woman has to go through years of suffering for either not paying enough attention to the red flags, or simply for wanting to believe in love more than in anything else. Ladies, as Tony once said, in the court of love nothing is true until proven beyond any reasonable doubt.
You can't convince someone to continue something... Women need to love themselves and use better discernment. There's no excuse to be uninformed in 2023
Tony can you talk about 30+ yr olds dating, waiting for marriage for sex and the realistic nature of most men who won’t marry without “sampling” I’ve watched your previous two videos years ago but dating in the roaring 20s is horrible for Christian women 😖
Do not lower your standards. Don't create unholy soul ties; cause you will waste years of "soul capital." Only God can uproot soul ties, but sis you gonna go thru it before u can heal. Your body is God's temple, but it's your choice to defile it. Maintain your standards.
I haven’t even watched yet and the answer is no! Lol they might change later on in life ...maybe when they truly give they life to Christ or something. Idk
My grown ex boy has Christ in his life and he still cheated. Maybe when he truly surrenders his life to Christ. I didn’t stick around to wonder if that would happen. I’m good!
My husband told me in the hospital after I gave birth, “you still look pregnant”. My life from there was hell, which includes prostitutes, family members, STDs, sister wives, transgenders, drugs and more, am thinking about writing a book, unbelievable!!!’
This man is so raw and real,I m laughing my ass off. He is truly in a league of his on.please Tony don't ever change. You make my nights less lonely. Trying to live Holy. Thank you Sincerely.
You are so right in that after what I thought was my ex's first affair, there was actually around 30 women over 15 years. Even after we broke up, he kept cheating on whatever woman he was with. He has a lot of childhood trauma to deal with, is weak-minded, passive-aggressive, and has no boundaries. I wish him well but I don't think he will ever change.
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I was married to a cheater and one of the ladies he was cheating with called me to explain! It’s in I’ll have to make a topic on it. Thank you for your beautiful work 🙏🏿🙏🏿
She is living at work working those 12 hour shifts 5+ days a week to recoup the money..she is his bankroll for gambling..many nurses I have worked with have spouses that gamble ..how you gambling and you are unemployed and not independantly wealthly its because they stay working OT to pay for the debt because the guy asks to be on their account because they live together and he swipes that debit card like a NYC meterocard ..Nurses make good money but they live check to check it is really bad.
One of the most important issues here, is the fact he has had a child with somebody else. That a lone should be her ticket to want to be out. That's A LOT to have to take on. And if she doesn't check her heart she's going to have such ill feelings toward that child with or without that man. No matter if he says, he wanted that child or not. That child did not ask to be here or choose to be here.
To anyone reading this and willing - please pray for me and my young son.. I’m walking through the darkest season of my life. A “man of God” convinced me he was going to marry me, to leave a job I can’t go back to, and to move out of state to his state... and then dumped me. I don’t know where I’m going to live, I don’t have much family.. and I’m struggling with a broken heart and crushed spirit ... please pray for me
KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! HOLD ON TIGHT WITH ALL YR MIGHT! U GOT IT RIGHT! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH U AND YR SON! GOD WILL SEE U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U!( AND YR SON)GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD! AND TELL HIM ALL ABOUT IT ! GOD HEARS YR PRAYERS! KEEP YR FAITH IN GOD ALMIGHTY! KEEP YR JOY AND TRUST IN GOD! STAY STRONG! STAY CALM! STAY POSITIVE! SMILE ALWAYS! ( EVEN WHEN U ARE GOING THRU THIS STORM, THIS TO SHALL PASS) LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! AND PRAY FOR EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! WHEN GOD IS IN YR LIFE EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT!
@@mesozoicperiodvlogs8323 AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! GOD ANSWERS PRAYERS! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@@lindaanthony6008 Amen! So RIGHT! Yes INDEED! KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! ALWAYS! PRAY TO GOD OFTEN AND DAILY! GOD WILL SEE U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW!
Happy Belated birthday brother in Christ!!! You have no idea how God is using you in helping me with developing and growing!! What you’re doing is God sent and GOD FELT!! God bless you and the family❤️
Wow, could this message have come any sooner ... My husband wants another chance to make things right, after years of cheating on me 😔 throughout our entire relationship (4 years) claiming he has changed.
I understand what Mr. Tony Gaskins is saying but most people when it comes to mental health, People make money excuses and believe mental health is not a real thing but it is just because they can't physically see it on you.
Happy Belated birthday Tony Gaskins! I hope you had a great time, mine is coming up next week will be 52 years young, thanks for all you do, you are truly blessed!
HAPPY BLESSED B DAY AND MANY MORE BLESSINGS TO COME YR WAY IN YR LIFE! STAY STRONG! STAY POSITIVE! ALWAYS KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! AND PRAY FOR EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH U! GOD WILL SEE U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! SMILE ALWAYS! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL!
Sis, please don’t have another child with this man until you know beyond a shadow of a doubt, and he had done the work. Honestly no sex at all, he mans up and does the work...with a ring to follow. He needs to be all in! Know your worth, and love yourself....God will help you. Blessings Tony, another needed video🌸
Sis, please go get your peace away from this troubled guy before you get more than a phone call. Most women see pregnancy as beautiful. I never knew some men, who see that sacrifice, see it as unappealing. Thanks for that insight.
Solid solid solid advise! I hope she hears him. I went through a similar situation and it almost destroyed me. I sure wish I had some one talk to me like this back then. Be blessed and guard your heart.
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What a great video!I feel sad for the lady in question-she wants to feel that all those years and her suffering is worth it.Thats why shes still asking these questions.I love hearing how you changed things up for yourself!!!Inspires me so much!The kind of man I want is interested in making changes and watching courses/reading or listening to books to revolutionize himself!We not going backwards in life.We moving forward with only the best in myself and whoever else
Serious dating in your 20s as a woman is a waste of time, get your degrees, get your dream body, fix your (mental) health, fix your relationship with god and build your wealth. Start serious dating from around the age of 27 with guys 30 years and above.
This is prophetic! wish I knew about Tony sooner but better late than never. You spoke so much to my life and my current situation. Truly doing the Lord's work. God bless ❤
I was cheating on after being married to a man in which I knew when we started our serious relationship of 28 years, I had one daughter with him, while upgrading my nursing career, he got addicted to every addictions. Cheating, cocaine, gambling, drinking, and friends. I got sick with cancer, we became grandparents, I had to quit school due to my life spiraling out of control. He basically wanted me to stay married but he could do whatever. Wouldn't divorce me, so I had to divide and divorce him. I tried very hard to please him, because of the equity that we accumulated together. He didn't change. I was left to my own devices. He overspent, in every way. Now he wants me back and wants to now change his ways.
Happy birthday!! 🎁 Tony: “Get on outta here.” Wife keeps talking.... Tony: Get on outta here lost my point.. Wife: and spit in ya face...😂🤣😂🤣😂 Mrs. Gaskins was right on point!😂 You two are so funny..
TONY!!!! 😂 "Pregnancy is not cute, it look like an alien in your stomach.." Awwww heck noooo. Now I'm neverrrrr getting pregnant!!!! I'm sooo shooketh!!! I'm dying over here. 😩😂
Thank you Tony for this balanced and wise advice! I appreciate it not always being 'gone bout yo business' across the board, but giving men a fair chance to change -but only if they are willing to do the work.
Hey!Toni this is a good one! Be blessed!🙏🏽 "it's a Bad Habit" so if they have been cheating for so long: (No) only if they want to be changed and God is the only one that can change that!
"if you stand for nothing, you will fall for it all" - that's in regard to her not looking for nothin in the beginning but just taking him for the fun. Yes, we need to get a dog or a Barbie jeep perhaps.
OMG. I started dating a guy who was 19 when I was 22.. i left him the day I found out he was sexting other girls. He’s wanted me back every year. He’s now 27 & I’m 30.. talking to me daily for 6 months. He was talking about a future etc. Soon as I was like I need to be making some big life decisions soon what do you want? “I found out I’m going to be a dad idk what I’m going to do” I had a DREAM like the first time that another girl was involved. But after he said that my dream showed that he actually had a girlfriend. Haven’t went on Facebook for years. Went on that morning I woke up.. bam had a girlfriend! Who was a lot older than me!! With 3 kids previously looks like from different men. Nightmare became reality too but luckily I’ve got God watching out for me. Those dreams that feel more real than reality.. LISTEN to them. I feel for this girl. Crazy the parallel of the ages, I’m in health care etc. To be fair he has his career and house together at a young age. But Man! this makes me look at things in a new way. Needed this🤍 this all JUST happened past 2 weeks. Come from a pure place & God will have your back. He kept telling me I’ve really grown up😅. Boy you’re about to now. Lady gonna be in menopause in 13 years, 4 kids now. Karma
Yes, dreams are a real sign. I’ve been having dreams in the past years about my ex still being connected to his ex wife. I ignored all those signs and my intuition. It wasn’t until the start of this year I really listened to them, I had a dream they were still together and sure enough.... they were.
@@susanntillzxo3626 they’re so unbelievably helpful. You must be a decent person if you’re being shown those things to help yourself get into a better situation 🤍
Tony thank you for sharing. You are truly a gifted man doing God’s work. I like your analogies to make even the simplest thinker understand. God Bless you and your family. Tony you helped me got over my pass relationship and now I am engaged to be married to a mature God fearing man. Keep doing God’s work Tony. Be Bless
She's lost ,she's needs counseling of every kind, for her child. He needs a whole human being raising him. Please put your child's needs before your own. Give him a chance to grow up normal,and well adjusted. Please don't take that worthless individual back. Wise up!
My boyfriend actually came clean about cheating. He was never caught by me nor any of the other women. We was best friends in the beginning with benefits then and naturally fell in love without planning it over 2 years. he said he seen a future with me and needed to be honest. I gave it another chance because I stepped out as well in the beginning. He even said one of the terms moving forward is that we have to go to couples counseling, I agreed 100% & we’ve been together 3+ years now, he bought me a ring (As did I) I still worry like hell and I know he does too.
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I know Tony says that he is not a comedian...but he is hilarious! "Dat dere placenta"....had me rollin! On a serious note, we need to practice the art of walking away when we are not valued. I don't know if it's so important that others see our worth, as much as it is important that we should see our own worth. The inability for one to see worth in a priceless diamond is not a slight to the diamond...it's the fault of the one who failed to see it. But the diamond doesn't lose it's worth just because one doesn't see it...only if the diamond forgets who she is does she lose it, because somewhere along the way, she believed a lie. We have to remember why we were created. For GOD"s glory!!! If Jesus thought you were worth dying for...you're worth something...don't forget that. True love from The Father is really the only thing that can remove fear of being alone and tendency to be a willing participant in cycles that cause us pain. We really need to receive our Father's love so we can be made whole. Sit at his feet like Mary did.