I hear of women saying he won't let me go. It's not about him letting you go, it's about you taking control of yourself and leave. Show him he's not in control.
Men know a good woman however, that doesn’t mean they deserve that good woman. Was in the same thing for 8 years. Luckily, I was able to escape and change my life. You can do it too.
A man saying he wants a good woman is all relative. To some men, "a good woman" is someone that will lay on their back all of the time. It's important that us women are clear what a man considers what HIS definition of a good woman.
My ex was getting closer to a woman at work. Eventually I could see he wasn't really in the relationship anymore. I broke it off after 3 and a half years. He still wanted to be friends after this , but I told him no. My reason , " No, If you can't be a friend to me in the relationship then you're not going to be my friend out of it."
You hit it. Don't be a side-friend or a side-chick because they just want benefits whether it be emotional, mental, physical, spiritual or financial. Nope.
My ex called me regularly and visited me, for 2 years after he broke up with me. Would cuddle me up, go on trips with me, say I love you, etc. But while I was waiting for him, he was out living his single life. Was always interested to know if I was dating anyone even though he was for sure dating around. I was always holding onto that hope with all my might but it eventually the disappointment and toxicity made me say enough is enough and cut him off. He reached out to me months later, trying to see me and acting like I was the one in the wrong for cutting him off. Selfish people are not going to let you go as long as you benefit them so you have to find the strength to let them go. Know your worth and don't be desperate.
I agree ... maybe the block doesn't work on her phone 😞 once an older woman told me to don't let him he a priority while I remained an option ...... never did that again ....only had to tell me ONE time
Exactly, it's easy to blame them for holding on to you but you have to take responsibility for chasing after them or standing there being their placeholder.
He doesn't want to let you go because you are an ASSET You do not know your worth, that's why you're still entertaining him. You are a valuable asset, he sees your worth. He knows that he doesn't deserve you, but he's holding on to something he should not have.
OMG "I Yield I Yield What Must I Do To Be Saved ?" He Knows Your Worth He Knows He Doesn't Deserve You.... !!! Sistah Gurl U R Giving Me LIFE RIGHT NOW !!! 😭😭😭
So true. I stopped cooking for husband, sex, cleaning (to a certain degree), including, caring and overall checked out. I'm just waiting for the lease to be up in August so I can move, just me and my son.
Women should stick to their guns because men are sticking to theirs. He even has a limit and a cut-off time if he's not getting what he want so women need to stick to what they say and do the same. He values his self enough to do so.
My ex is a liar. I was basically with someone just like my father a liar so I ended things again. He will try to get back with me it’s what he does. He will cause a scene, he will probably even pretend to lose his mind but I’m done. He never changes.
See. This is why I don't play those going M.I.A games. We were in a full committed relationship and he went 2 days without responding to text and not returning phone calls. I quickly walked away, respectfully. 🏃🏾♀️🚶🏾♀️
My husband did that alllll the time. Days on end wouldn't answer my calls, return my calls or respond to texts. After I left... that's when he wanted to call and text. My my my how the tables have turned 🤔
Literally in tears because I keep allowing an ex to treat me like a yoyo and your vid pops up in my notifications. You are always right on time Tony. Thank you 🙏🏽
You are entirely too beautiful 💛 A man only comes back when he sees you standing still. Move on and get to such a place in your life that he couldn’t catch up if he tried. He keeps opening the door because you haven’t changed the locks. Be blessed ✨
She needs to let him go completely, block his number, keep watching the videos and take the soul tie course. He’s ridiculous and doesn’t want to see you happy. Thank you and be blessed.
I am soooooooo proud of this woman for the fact that she saw her worth and said “I will absolutely never go back.” It takes a lot of strength and courage to leave a toxic situation. If it were so easy, there would be no need for relationship coaches and therapists. Great job ma’am for leaving!
“ It’s not a loss if you learned from it.” That is what every woman needs to hear so she can start acquiring the knowledge, setting standards, and recognizing her value. Thank you Tony Gaskins for your enlightenment.
Ladies, you know when you deserve better. If a man does not appreciate and love you......put on those track shoes and run. Thank you Tony Gaskins for all that you do to help women. NEVER GIVE A MAN YOUR MONEY!!!!
From my unfortunate experience, when there's pressure to give up your body, that's a demon looking to sap your soul. Wherher you give in or not, other forms of abuse usually follow that pressure if you stay with that man...
Wow, and I would sense that it was deeper than him just wanting to have my body. One time he even mentioned that men can place a sickness into a woman's body and it wouldn't show up til much later and even the doctors would not be able to detect it but she would know it's there. If doctors were to detect it they wouldn't know what to do with it. I thought, this man has a little too much knowledge on things like this. At first I thought it was because he was Nigerian but I'm not sure that was the only reason.
Confirmation!!! Toxicity in a relationship is a non-negotiable...Toxicity will always be Blocked and Deleted, because my Peace Of Mind is the most important exercise I can do to protect my energy! Stay Blessed! 🙏🏼
Felt this video the most, because it’s what I went through. Fast forward: wished my ex-fiancé well and then blocked him on all media. To this day, he tries to reach out and email me lol. Mate all I’ll say is, the only way a man will ever reach out to me will be by going through God. Giving Jesus the wheel and no longer wasting my time tryna love a grown boy who won’t appreciate me the first time 🤷🏽♀️
After a year of being put on his back burner after he broke up with me for another girl (on Valentine's day!) he insisted he still wanted me in his life and that I was his "best friend", I finally cut it off and blocked him after several attempts of disrespecting me. He always found a way back into my life but this time I'm completely done. He was never grateful for me and always loved to play in the gray area with me emotionally. I'm not going to wait around for a boy to decide when he wants to become a man, especially if I don't see any growth. Not my job. I do not have time for overly selfish grown boys. Making room and opening my heart to the man who can respect and cherish the love I have to offer.
He is an abuser, they never want to lose control. He hasn't changed he just know what to say to get her to come back.She has to block him and never respond to him EVER!
I never gave my ex money but he would never let me go. Always came back time and time again smh but actually ran into yesterday and it didn't phase me like I thought it would. He stopped and approached me but I simply just kept it moving. Gave him my heart and it wasn't good enough. So there's nothing to say. Had to go! Sometimes you have to let go of the life you have planned, to accept the life that's waiting for you. Thank you Tony for your word. It's appreciated!! ☝🏾🙏🏽
Our egos get a boost because we mistakenly think that he wants the same thing we want. He’s back because he has not been able to find an adequate doormat replacement. Don’t fool yourself into thinking things will be better. He has not changed is why he’s back for more supply. Run!! He keeps pursuing because she keeps listening to him.
He wont let u go cuz he kno deep down u the only one want him..n nobody eles really studdin his butt. Men wont let go when u the only option really..n the famous one we kno is they don't want u to move on wit a man better then them..
Girl same here, but power through it. I was just in a similar situationship as described so I got all types of frustrated listening but Tony does include empowering points.
Wow "Your virginity is the only thing you can give to 1 man and you gave it to someone who gave you...part time effort." TG It is never too late to learn. These words are for our growth, not our regrets. Be blessed 🌸
Great video and teaching ! ♥ Must-learn life lessons: 1. always know your worth. 2. always know the difference between what you're getting and what you deserve. 3. always know the difference between someone who wants you and what you have to offer and someone who values, loves and cares for you. 4. don't let anyone pressure you, manipulate you, mistreat you and take advantage of your kindness, love or trust. ♥ Thank God and Tony for giving us the knowledge and the game so we can change our lives !
The only thing she needs to understand is how she feels about that situation and what she wants going forward. She should leave the why to God and strengthen that block game. 😔
Tony got me HOLLERING!!!! Only excuse 1. Coma 2. Submarine 3. Space ship 🚀 bc even a man in jail can call 😂😂😂😂😂 man I dated a man in the streets and he would always have excuses about being busy handling business. You soooooo right Tony!!!!
As old as I'm, I am still learning! I am a long term relationship woman and thank God the men in my life were very respectful to me unlike that vermin I was once in love with! 🐍
Tony Gaskins...you are hilarious😂. God bless you Sis...keep your head up and learn the lesson...We all have been burned at some point like this...Put your crown back on and take back your power👑
It's not even as deep as he won't let you go. The Demonic Ego says "Who do you think you are to Ghost him, he was supposed to Ghost you, and he would've if you let him. Don't allow him anything else. Don't be weak. You misjudged and allowed mistreatment. Never do it again.
Tony I just love you, like a son, I’m 65 so let just add that😊. God has truly blessed you with wisdom and understanding in your profession. Sad you was not around in my day. Keep up the good work son.
I really love your message on no sex till marriage, I talked about it on my channel a lot it’s hard at times but you get used to it and it’s the key to healthy self relationships 🙏🏾
Tony this video still hits until this day! Please bring these videos back cause I’m getting a lesson and crying of laughter at work all at the same time 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can’t breathe !!! They finna kick me out the office !!!
Now LORD I ask that every woman that needs to hear this message and all messages that YOU have given Tony Gaskins to share with us, that they not only hear it but listen and gain wisdom LORD and that we as women wake up and know who we are through YOU CHRIST who strengthens us and the abundance of our self worth, in JESUS NAME AMEN.
Who else started crying laughing when coach went underneath the desk? 😂😂 Once again great delivery for a serious subject. (And then segway into information about the ads 😂😂😂😂) Coach you need your own stand up series! *********************** (Handing MBJ cash just for being him 🤣) *FILLET MIGNON*
After the manipulation, the lies, cheating caught red handed and still have nerve to deny a double life 🤦🏻♀️ AND try to still play like everything back to normal with both women 😂 🤡 it’s a dam lifetime movie 🎥 out here. 🍿 anyone?
I don’t know 🤷♀️ why most men are like that, it’s crazy and selfish. I caught him red handed he lied many times I was abele to leave twice he came back begging. And when I forgave him and got back with him, he’s doing it again and this time more serious. Yet he doesn’t want me to leave. Yet he told me I know you’re gonna leave me one day that’s why I’m looking for other alternatives.
I was once this woman giving my money to men to say I had someone. I didn’t love myself and was taking all kinds of mistreatment. But when God strengthen me, I walked away with my head high!! He kept calling trying to make it right, but I was WOKE!! I changed my number. I was so proud of myself for letting that toxicity go!! And now if I meet someone and they are not a Real man holding his own, I get lost quick!! I love me now and happy being single until.......
This is so sad to hear!!! My heart beats for this young lady, myself and all the others that may have a hurt heart!! We have got to LOVE one another people and stop tearing each other down!! Men and Women alike... we are much better than this 🙏🏾
I agree TG, sometimes you gotta go through it to learn the game. Only thing that matters is learning from it and recognizing it right away in future. I learned.
Soul ties develop from sexual involvement...we are spiritual creatures..we have to denounce..repent..walk towards healing leaving the past behind not holding to the plow looking back.
I love Tony because he serves the Lord and tells the truth in a way that is humorous. He doesn't hold back, he is totally honest with us as women and isn't that all we ever ask??? God bless you Tony and everyone listening