Tony Gaskins The pleasure is ALL mine's. Thank you for shining your light in dark places...don't suffer fools too much...the one that bark, is the one you hit!😉 Keep on rightly dividing the Word and swing that sword of truth!💪🏾🤲🏾
POWERFUL!!!! The devil is the prince of this world and he has convinced a lot of people to believe in this lie. For this very reason is why there are so many broken homes, so many children growing up in single parent homes, so many diseases going around and so many deaths. You are real. You are honest. You are true. You are 100% correct and I was ready to shout by the time you were finished. Thank you for this word 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Even most men know there is no such thing as casual sex, yet they lay down with the woman anyway knowing 9 times out of 10 he or the woman will catch feelings.
Men definitely catch feelings they’re just professionals at blocking them and moving on. Have a casual relationship with a man and end it...I guarantee he will eventually keep reaching out.
Wow! This was deep. Well, by God's grace I'm still a virgin and this message just motivated me more to keep my virginity until marriage... I will be saving myself a lot of trouble hey!
Esther Sefu Stay a Virgin. You have that power. Alot of women don’t respect themselves with their bodies. It’s good to hear there are still virgins out here.
When I tell you EVERYTHING he said in this podcast was THE TRUTH!!!! Thank you Tony for this man, I truly appreciate it. Great lesson, truth, and advice ALL wrapped in one. Much love my brother.
I love when you talk on this topic Tony! It’s so true you’re right! Friends with benefits is a disaster 9 times out of 10. Most times you can end up hurt or unplanned pregnancy. I know for a FACT. I will never go down that road again it’s not worth it. And you lose your self while going through that. I learned the hard way. Won’t go there ever again.
My ex, who didn't want kids, just had one with a friend with benefits. He accepted a better job far away from them and is not even a week end dad. He rarely sees his child and is Ok with that. Don't know about the lady. But I know for sure that she is not happy. Stop having friends with benefits. There are NO benefits, to friends with benefits, as Tony said.
Well I am a 45 year old Virgin woman. And the right person, my true love slept with a married woman. One night stand. I walked away from true love. Believe it or not people move on to others eventually. He disappeared from my life after the rejection. I am moving on trying to live my life with Jesus and fighting loneliness. I prefer it this way
Growing up I saw men mistreat my mom. So I would block my mind off and sleep with men. And drag them along and dumped them. I can say I truly don’t care about those men, but now that I actually want something real I don’t know how to actually feel anymore. Like I can’t be with someone and I don’t believe in love anymore although I want to. So Tony’s right, there is a cost and you don’t get up the same way.
@@teopistorsind9874 Nothing occult-like about it; it's just the channelling of energy. We all do this if you think about it, but just do it unconsciously and often negatively. Each to their own. I've found it helpful and I'm not a religious person, so I see it in quite a neutral way; unburdened by notions of occultism.
@@toomuchinformation You are not a religious person so how would you know? Like u said "to each theie own" But if she is reading this, please stay a million miles away from such stuff u will thank me later.
Im so glad youre Speaking on this. We were taught this in Church years ago. People don't Know the Issues of Promiscuity/Casual Sex. Unplanned Pregnancy, Diseases, Disappointments, Soul Ties, Strong Holds, Passing of Body Fluids etc; I have no problem w/ Celibacy. Listening to my Friends and Co Workers discuss their Personal issues I count my blessings
TONY, You are helping somebody in a major way. Sadly, a lot of people don't see it this way. However, this type of exchange can be spiritually damaging. Thanks for the Breakdown!!!!!
Amen to this Tony!! The ways of the world may change but our God is constant. I think some get so wrapped up in what's considered "normal" in sex & relationships that they begin to conform. I love that you are a constant reminder of what the good book says. Keep shining that positive light.
Listen here..He preached a whole sermon **ques musicians for praise break** 😂no but seriously this is the absolute truth!!! Soul ties are real! You rarely here these so called “relationship coaches” talk about this! You are the bomb Tony!! Thank You 😊
My brother done some bad things in the past. But he got saved and he is ready for love. He fell in love with a girl, and he wanted to be honest with her about his life (bcuz there r ppl that might tell her themselves). And she blocked him on all social media. He is really devastated right now. So, what you are saying is true.
Very few women can win the game of casual sex and come out unscathed. They also usually have scars but can hide it better. I have a few notches because it's hard to find love (social anxiety. Too nervous around someone I like, to put my best foot forward and to make a connection. I also have a hard time getting the job I want because it is the same issue. So I have settled for physical intimacy in the past. Please tell us how to not let our past define us and how a man is most likely to accept that you have a past but have always been looking for real love of one man and to be with him only. How come they can come around with their 50+ soul ties, but we have to be almost virginal?
Tony youve never lied. When you said once you've gotten yourself together and ready for love the person that you want will say no cause of you not respecting your body. Its the truth and it hurts. All you can do is move on and do better. God gave me a second chance and im not taking it for granted. Single and healing. I got out with no std and children. But that pain and scars on the heart are no joke. 24 years old and finally seeing life for what it is and healing the damage ive done to myself
That’s what I’m going threw even tho in my 40 yrs I’ve only had 4 men and this last one has put me in bad shape with deceitfulness. I’m scared of being alone since I’ve been with him 9 yrs knowing he’s not the one and he’s even said it I deserve better smh . So I’m learning after listening to you these two days I’ve been crying knowing I put myself in this I should have left him alone years ago. FACTS
Be Blessed! I needed this video I am currently in the process of breaking the soul-tie with my son’s father. But I am growing and learning so that I won’t make the same mistakes again. Thanks for this video.
Tony you are not closed minded. You are speaking the TRUTH! I can testify to everything you are saying from a female perspective. Again, sadly we don’t realize when we are young and dumb, living life footloose and carefree but ultimately very reckless “with our bodies” We don’t realize that there is a mind, body and soul connection and although we think we can separate them all we can’t. God is wise and when He created sex He knew in His infinite wisdom that sex was not to be #casual or simply a #friendswithbenefits situation. That was not His ideal. I’m here to tell anybody and everybody that only God can break a soul tie!!!!! Trust me and believe. I’m starting to think even some mental illness and instability that many people suffer from is from the result of the transference that happens during sex that you speak of.
The words you speak are Divine...Meaining straight from God. You never have to defend yourself because you are only a mouth piece from the True and Living God!!!!!!!
thank you for being committed to the truth i have never seen life from this perspective just wow and i will spread the truth to my family by my words, actions and sending people your videos and courses
Your info is life changing! I just want to say THANK YOU! What you said about principles is so true! Most people these days ain't even got the common sense to comprehend that, hopefully people open the eyes and see the light lol. Humanity is at stake here. Ain't gonna lie similar situations we have regarding our marriages, tho I have been with my hubby almost 18 years married almost 14!! God has blessed me over and over even thru it all..Again Tony,I thank you. Blessings!
I already listen to this a few times before i made mistakes and i forgive myself im not perfect God forgive and cleanse me. Im learning healing and growing i have changed my life. God want me to hear this again and again. You are telling the truth so real this is so powerful message wow. Thank you God and tony for this real powerful. 💯👏👏👍👍🙏🙏☺
You helping me so much with these videos 😊 I avoided a casual sex (Friends with benefits) situation because I put myself first for once 🙃 I know I want more..I want a husband 💜
Preach the word Tony and set the captives free! 🙌🏽 I had to get up from my bed and give you a hand clap after hearing this, lol Forget the naysayer, continue to do what you do and speak up for what is right and true. He who hath an ear, let him hear!
Fay Marie Amen. We live in a time where popular opinion governs truth and what you stand for. Prime example when Black Pastors have to explain their reason for being at the table to discuss prison reform to those who are probably doing nothing. It is a known fact black men are more likely than any other race to be incarcerated so why not discuss reform and sentencing. Same way Tony taking a stand on casual sex and other misinformities on relationships. Kudos to him.👏👏
And when you try to tell people this they get offended. People don't like the truth they would rather stay ignorant. At least you learned from your mistakes because many don't and never will.
Tony Gaskins, I love tuning in on u tube listening to your teachings and your teaching on casual sex is so true what you said it's true . Having sex with the other will form soul ties and feeling will be there. Soul ties are real ain't no way you can sleep with someone and let your mind tell you or you block it out that it's not feelings like you said you a lie. Thank you , always for speaking true coming from a male perspective.if we only had more men to come forward and stand up Truth.
You have laid it out on the line with this one in such a powerful way! Thank you for explaining this exactly the way you did; I couldn’t have said it better myself!! 💯
Mr Tony Gaskins , Sir you are an excellent coach I came across one of your videos few weeks ago and I have been watching your videos ever since and subscribed !!! Wow 🤩 you done knocked the ball way outta the park. Sir with this message !!!! All 💯true ! God bless you and your wife as you continue to teach / coach and change peoples lives spiritually. 🤩
Thank you for sharing "Truth and Wisdom" to the world through the avenue of social media. I am greatful that God is using you in a mighty vocal way, please don't ever stop! You are and will always be an inspiration to me. God Bless you, your family, and every area of your lives. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you:)
Absolutely true, TG, and spoken passionately! You keep on pressing truth, and I pray God's continued blessings and favour on your life, family and work.
Dear Tony I've been listening to your videos a lot lately. I have listened to other dating coaches but you are something special. There is so much power in your words and performance and so much truth. Big greetings from Eastern Europe!
Amazing Podcast!!!!! Thank you for sharing Tony I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS ON TODAY🙌🙌🙌🙌. With tears in my yes...I have been helped on today. #REALJEWELSDROPPED
Thank you Tony for this advice. I wish i knew about you in my teenagers years because you break this down so eliqulily that I realize that soul tides are serious. Soul tides are nothing to take lightly
Yepp that’s so true. That’s why in slave times the masters continued to abuse the slaves. That tore there spirit and it transferred into generations to come.
I am glad you are on you tube my friend bought me your book being single is not a curse you talk God they have other people who talk about relationships but they don't talk about Gods way I am a Christian raised in church have preachers in my family everything you say is true I try to talk to the young girls about sex the boys don't care about them men the same then they don't want to use a condom today is my day off I'm going to listen to your messages they are powerful
