Catch Up on Your Skill Level 

Amen

*to continue to be even better

Absolutely

U cant keep blaming his childhood. I can see if he went bck to school or found a career but it just seems like hes sitting back and blaming his mom and childhoon for. Ot being successful.

how does anyone have not 1 but 3!! kids w/ no job???? i cant even feed ME and i have a hood paying job. also what woman was like, Hey i'll have baby w/ you! 30+, temp job, two kids.....

@Elyse George Don't call the man a loser because he never had any guidance in his life ...

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Her crackheaded ass isnt OWED shit

@Nyesha Harris He also shouldn't have to make excuses about his life either...

Just move from there, America has some awesome places to live

God bless them & you🙏🏾👏🏾

Foot in mouth

@@marciamarcia7449 true.

Yep..I agree

locafly ikr. She was running her mouth a lot

locafly Lol smh

Stop playing the victim. Ain't nobody forced anyone to sell or do crack. Tf. Hate a black victim

@@SS-hb3ct no such thing as a black person who is a victim? Tf you from?

You are absolutely right. "They" dropped off crack in the black communities, created situations of economic depression for our people and as a result, no job, no money, crack became an outlet to escape reality, temporarily.

Go to Seattle Wa and see 1000's of homeless white folks, some in their teens and most addicted to heroin which became easily available after the invasion of Afghanistan and the Golden Crescent. They're gonna get the same treatment when the results are in.

Amen is Hidden that was a choice, ours was force. Please dismiss yourself if you aren’t going to acknowledge the struggles she was speaking of. Are you black?

You RIGHT and we all as humans are going to have them 👌

Lol where has the father been tho ? SMH 🤦🏾‍♀️

People sleeping on Children of crackheads having PTSD.

HB 7 that’s true

@@SONJASAVEDBYGRACE Saved By Grace is true for all of us.

The son is suffering from PTSD, she stole his identity when he was a child & left him and his siblings to starve & now she's asking for money back from him? This man's credit is ruined because of her, she ain't trying to make amends, she's still being selfish and petty.

Why are you applauding her ?

@@the4cqueen148 I'd have a guilty conscience asking him for anything back considering how her addiction caused so much trauma in his childhood. Can never really make up for that.

Hmm it's fake love being empath has nothing to do with that Like all women you wanted to change him ... that doesn't work

Nothing new

@@vapaperboi Basically screwing the kid up before he/she can even get started. And he said he didn't find out until later on, that's horrible.

Rosie Q that’s what the older generation did, they could get by with it back then!!

And now asking for money. She don't have no conscience. She should know even if he ask and say he gone give her back give with the intention of not looking for anything back. Stupes

@@vapaperboi 11

GOOD encouraging 👍

Remember she was on durgs during his life she was in and out doing drugs from the time he was one or two all up to his twenties he may not can read he may have a learning disability and nobody was there to make him go to school nobody cared enough to make him go to school

I can take your advice thank you!!

Keep yo head up Brody handle your business go hard and trust in God you going to get it 💯💯✌🏽✌🏽

@@eloc000 Thanks!

Right and she owes HER KIDS BACK CHILD SUPPORT.. tf

she bold smh.

Exactly he already missed his whole childhood tryna support his brother and sister and got messed up credit because she put stuff an his name without paying it off. 🤦‍♀️

ugh i hate this comment. LIFE HARD FOR EVERYONE. and when you get an addiction it's hard to stop and see what's important, when you finally do stop and get a second chance you're still not supposed to just lay down and let people walk on you. they failed and neglected their children and themselves. each taking advantage of a situation, both coming out to be somewhat better than the past and its not easy, he did owe.

@@danbanbadans faaaaacts f*** they talking about 🙄

Island Girl Ruby - Black people are so judgmental of each other and get so angry when non-black people judge them the same way. Shame on you for minimizing that woman’s drug addiction. If you’ve never seen drug addiction up close, you have no room to speak on it.

@ Island Girl. She didn't say that all. But what she is NOT going to do is allow her kids to take advantage of her because of it!

Aries #1 Agreed. She never said any of that and never minimized it either. Kinda feel like I’m watching a different case sometimes lol. Her son needs help BUT also needs to learn not to try to get over on his Mom too.

Yes he did, very good positive stuff.

Real shit!!😒😒

I agree with you wholeheartedly

These type shows are formatted for entertainment purposes. So don't take this stuff to seriously.

I agree to a certain degree she can't owe him forever buddy in his 30s and still aint trying to better himself he got to try to stand and educate himself I can't let my parents being on crack stop me for progress he kinda a bum and love to bring up her past when clearly she's in a better mind state my parent still on crack till this day and I'm 31 he been blessed and don't even know it what a fool

Yep let that $1200 go but he does need to get an education and a skill

Like it was no big deal!

That was definitely wrong! Back in the day a lot of parents put utility bills in their kids names, I know a few people who had this done to them.

A lot of parents back in the day did that it was easy to put a bill in a kid name now you can’t do that that’s why so many adults credit messed up from bills In they name as a kid

@@zadia1445 I'm not saying that there is nothing wrong with doing that my dad did the same thing to me but when I turned 18 all I did was write to the credit bureau and said that I was not even old enough to get bills in my name at 5 and they took it off so it's just about knowledge that's all but he didn't have his GED so he probably didn't know that it seems like a lot of people that I'm reading comments from doesn't know that the credit bureau will just calculate how old you were and see that she didn't lie

@@wtfwednesday2571 I know that's the same thing some of the folks I know they had to call and fix their credit too, and as you said they took it off.. It's crazy though because back then" parent's would use their kids name's for everything..smh...

HOW has she taken responsibility or made any amends?? By paying lip service? Pathetic.

Akilah you ring so true with that statement the Judge has come long way sits fine example ..this guy may not never have a skill.

Counciling doesn't fix! I know. That young man is definitely entitled to help by her. You cant ruin a childs life and then when you decide to get sober expect all the wrong doing just goes away... Nah uh.... No.... The damage is done! And its her fault!!!!!! Fkg drug addicts! Fkg alcoholics! They all suck! She owes him! And that's that. Too bad. Create a monster and then trying to expect it not to come back on you. Yes Judge.... she chose the drug over her kids. And no council on earth can fix the brokeness. I can not believe this lady is sueing her son. After all she did to them she sued this boy. It pisses me off. All drug addicts and alcoholics suck. They suck the life out of people esp the kids. I can't believe he awarded her. he rewarded her for destroying her kids. He sucks.

@@blackfootcherokeeirishwhit2390 he has to take control of his own life. Counseling can help him develop the necessary tools to function. What his mother did was unfortunate but she is not obligated to him either. Life is unfair and he needs to start taking the steps towards healing to get himself together.

@@blackfootcherokeeirishwhit2390 I couldn’t agree more #childofanaddict

@@blackfootcherokeeirishwhit2390 she had her time w him to raise and nurture him and she didn’t. So now unfortunately it’s his job to do it for himself. Not saying she shouldn’t support him her best through that journey but he a grown ass man now not a child anymore. Life sucks sometimes but what ya gonna do🤷🏽‍♀️

I am in the same boat

How is it a fair ruling? She is wrong. She fucked up peoples lives and got the nerve to still demand shit. Naw

@@Remnant.Garments7 are you looking for my year old comments just to debate my opinion? Lol. Yes she did wrong when he was a child but he is a GROWN MAN and signed a promissory note🤷🏾‍♀️ he doesn’t work, has 3 kids And has to stop using that excuse. Yes the ruling was fair because the judge only made him pay what he signed for lol

@Bree Yah I agree therapy and healing were definitely needed in this case and it would’ve been good to have a father present. He has to move past that now though because the past can’t be changed. I hope he’s gotten the help he needs

The same to you.

Same 2 you stay safe💕😇🙏🏽

Well thank you, same

Which God?

you aswell

He's a grown dam man now, he needs to man the fux up. Pay what you owe.

Alot of them are very self absorbed before and after I have a friend that's on it when she gets high she forgets she has children.becomes short patient and always cry broke when she gets 1000 dollars a month fro epilepsy from doing drugs so bad

People don't stop doing drugs because of their kids, they stop for themselves. That's nothing new especially for the older generation.

Ebony Hoffman he’s a grown man you can’t keep using someone else’s mistakes as a means not to be responsible. Get therapy and a job!!

This is baby daddy excuse 😭

Yes that's what i said

Ba ba thought so too

Yes she does OMG!!😂😂 Twins

She does

And in that order🤣🤣🤣

U must be a recovered crackhead with no accountability

God Bless you and your dreams. Speak it into existence.

@@MH-fv1ib thank you.Sending blessings back to you & your family.Exceeding abundantly above all you can ask or think.🙏🙏🙏

@@queenredbone7405 awwww thank you ever so much. 😊. God is working in our favor cause he will never leave us.

@@MH-fv1ib Amen.

Wow it makes me cry to😪cause no matter what! Thats still your mother🙏and lot us go threw these only GOD can judge!

She loved crack more. And she loves money more now.

Nadia R 💯

He needs therapy. You can’t just get over or outgrow childhood trauma.

Adulthood does indeed prohibit real adults to stop making excuses.

Kween Sheba Being a grown Man doesn’t go buy age. His learning and development of his brain is everything. As a human there is certain things you need to know time, name, and age. His growth as a human shall never stop or he will cherish

True story ,I recently went to the bank recently to deposit a check and before the transaction was completed the teller no less than 3 times offered me loan , so you're saying if I accepted the loan I don't have to pay it back? I think not! She said it and he knew it was a loan, but his logic is, she gave moneys to his other siblings so he's entitled to her money also without repayment . If I was in her shoes I wouldn't worry about that money, because his attitude tells me he would be back for another loan and that's when you tell him "go ask Judge Mathis"

Greek Sun right 😒

Same thing I thought

You people sound crazy. One has nothing to do with the other. She doesn’t owe him anything. Her mistakes or shortcomings as it pertains to his upbringing can’t be made up for. So she’ll essentially be a slave to his every request until the day she dies if she tried doing favor for his forgiveness. He’s a grown man who need to accept that his mother is human and just because she’s a parent, it doesn’t mean she’s automatically perfect and knows everything. Her loaning him the money was kindness enough. Him not paying her back is wrong and it’s stealing. The only thing he’s owed is an apology. The only person she owes anything to at this stage in her life is herself.

Jimmy Pesto you must of been a crack head parent 😂😂

Tosha Hill - I’m 25, I’m nobody’s parent and I’ve never done drugs. Not even weed like the rest of you addicts nowadays. But the fact that that’s where you decided to take it, shows where your mindset is. I don’t have to be on crack to see the mental toll it takes on someone’s body and mind. And even after getting clean, I know it’s still torture seeing the mess you’ve made over the years and having to live with that. He should be trying to help his mother and support her sobriety instead of guilt tripping her into giving him everything that she has. As if she owes him something. That wound that he supposedly has isn’t gonna be fixed by bleeding her for everything she’s worth. She’d die trying to cater to his childishness and still don’t fix anything. Me and him are around the same age so I’m in a position to say, I know it’s not always the easiest but he’s simply not applying himself. He’s running around with a sob story to excuse his laziness instead of taking control of his own life.

Disagree. My first car, my father financed it for me but I made every payment. Now I buy and sometimes finance my own cars, making every payment, trained by my father. Children need to be taught

@@blackreacher In truth -most kids will not repay you. It's a gift!

Joy McGuire depending on the situation. In this case yeah but in most cases no

@@joymcguire mmm no it's not a gift

@@blackreacher i agree with you

No doubt

Agree

If he agreed to pay her, then he should be a man of his word. He went back to his childhood because he doesn't want to be a man

@@blackreacher You have no idea what that man has been through. I am sure that your mother wasn't on drugs. Amazing how she believes that they owe her. They don't owe her anything. She won the Donkey of the Day.

He told us some of what he went through so I do have an idea and I have aunts who were on that mess, children raised by grandma, so I'm not a rookie to this. We lived in a house with no running water, had to take a shit outside and take a bath in an aluminum foot tub until I was 9 yrs old. I slept in a bedroom with my brother and 2 sisters, but I don't hate my father and mother because they didn't have a mansion. I instead pulled myself up, now bringing in over 120k net per year, still getting cash even during this lockdown. Honor thy mother and thy father, and you will be blessed

@@blackreacher But the key word is that "Your mother and father" raise you and they were not on crack. I am sure that that guy would have love to live in your house hold, including no running water, etc. You had parents.

Ok then. My brother had 2 children with his wife, they split up, she went back to an old boyfriend and started using crack. Children were left alone for days and my nephew began to break into homes, including Riddick Bowe's (Boxer) home. He graduated to robbing folks at gun point and now serving a 25 yr sentence. His sister, married and just had her 2nd child, got (or had) a good job. Life is about choices, it is what you make it to be

Not a damn thing! She owes him and her other kids!

Well she suing him so her attitude is bad it's her fault if she was not here.

lil puke intoiliet 🙋🏽‍♀️

She isn’t really taking him to court. It’s just an easier way to get the money she needs as the show pays the money not the defendants. That’s why there is usually no animosity at the end

It should be even for the fact that she destroyed his credits when he was young that's not fair at all😌

christine heitkamp Huh. Wtf does that have to do anything. So that doesn’t give him the right to use his mom!!! Gtfoh

@@austinabanidoni5835 it's hella embarrassing and I would never sue my children..especially after ruining their entire childhood...it's unbelievable

I think she did it for him to own up to it and also for judge Mathis to speak to him bc honestly Judge Mathis's words seemed to have woke him up about getting his life on track. At least she took responsibility for all that she's done and is taking the necessary steps to be a better mother and grandmother. I am proud of her and don't even know her.

You said it all

If the effects of your past actions still negatively affect people today(especially your own children), then yes.

Right!! I feel like of course he’ll always harbor some negative feelings about the past, but if you’re going to constantly remind someone of that past and use it against them you’re better off not cultivating a new relationship with them at all.

@@Wholeshowtv if God can forgive me than I can surely forgive others. I don't have to forget, but I can forgive and try to move on with my life in a positive way.

prettyblkgyrl74 he’s in his 30s if he hasn’t had the gumption to do it in his own 🤷🏼‍♀️

In Detroit GED is a free program Judge Mathis don't have to pay a free program.

Ms. Honey H -- I also referenced the trade school, which I'm assuming isn't free. But then again I'm not familiar with the Detroit school system

brooklynforever1990 -- if he was raised to be a survivalist vs with "gumption" as a core value, then I'm sure he's defaulting to what he KNOWS versus what he's been taught or shown

2020 was only 4 years ago....

🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

​@@virginiamelanin0510l think they meant as of 2020 that made 10 years now it should be 14 years 🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Ariel Ali how you know he slow?

Appears to be an average blk guy to me

He seems more nervous than anything being on TV Nervous does not equate to being slow..... You are reaching big time.

His mannerisms are normal... Who are you to say that this young man is slow? How is he supposed to conduct himself? He's not your average gangsta or domineering man. He's soft spoken and humble, I guess that makes him slow huh! SMH.