CeCe Winans: How the Bible Explains Different Needs of Men and Women | Better Together on TBN 

My husband was abused physically and had cancer as a child, when i met him he stuttered so bad he could barely state his name. Today he speaks clearly, is cancer free, and a great father to both our children. The victory belongs to Jesus!!

This is good never leave God out! Every marriage is different but God is the same!!!

Marriages don't make us happy. We make our marriage happy! Thank you Dr. Parrott

Women need love. Men need respect.

To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind right now. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life. Amen.

“We are part of God’s Kingdom! We can’t take our ques from our culture or the world” Mehn that struck me deep, thank you!!!!

Only person who can make you happy is yourself. You choose if you want to be happy

I am 62 years old and have been married for 33 years. I asked God what to pray for during the first 3 days of February. I just realized that it will be Valentine's Day month. This is the second podcast that I have watched but did not search for about being a godly wife. Thank you Father for answering my prayer request. Thank you ladies for blessing me with this podcast. Blessings to you and your marriage. Something that I do every February for the last 20 years is everyday starting Feb 1, I put a love note in one of his pockets or lunch bag sprayed with his favorite perfume. The last week each note become more intimate than the day before😉.

I am single, 64, have been married, but I find each time I watch one of these relating to your husband talks, that I am learning how to relate to my friends and people better. Thankyou

As a single woman preparing for marriage this is so needed and healthy ❤

I feel so many Christians leave out what The Scriptures say about marriage & instead follow advice from psychological gurus. Even if we take counsel, The Scriptures say to seek Biblical Godley counsel. And not counsel from the world.

Thanks for the prayers, my husband needs prayers for addiction he's a good man he loves God but has a bad habit. PRAYERS 🙏

I keep being blown away by the importance of prayer and our own relationships with Jesus

For God touch our marriage and bring our relationship closer together and to heal us and to support us each other and to give each other space and to endure on the path and to work hard on the change, let's embrace spones and let's help each other to be the best that may God bless us as a family and let's be thankful.

The Bible does say, just ONE time to respect your husband...it says about SIX times for the man to love their wives. I think the respect comes when the men show love.

Great job ladies! Ce Ce is so beautiful inside and out. Ladies keep up the good work"

I'll be making 4years in marriage in April...two toddlers ..i find this so so ao helpful .. thank you servants of God..i love you all..cece your one of my role models since childhood , worship too, Laurie ive followed you too on tbn your such a resilient woman!! The other ladies ive met you here for the first time but i loooove you already... thank you for modeling this generation into Gods way..love from uganda east africa ❤❤

This is why The War Room was such a wonderful movie...it taught me to take my frustrations and disappointments to God not to my spouse...I didn't have to try to reprimand him or scold him or change him...God took care of it for me...thank you God for your faithfulness ❤❤❤

Peace/joy are very different than wholeness/happiness.

My Husband is truly my BEST FRIEND and I thank God for him!🙏🏾❤️Thank you for sharing Ladies!💕

what a master class. May God help us to be able to build our marriages

This is so rich and deep! I thank God for spirit filled women such as those in this broadcast! Thank you God for seeing our husbands and you see them. In Jesus Name, Amen!!

POWERFUL!!! I want to watch this over and over again!!! Thank you, ladies! God bless you all as you continue to advance God’s Kingdom, for Jesus’s glory!!!

I'm a Pastor and my husband is an Elder in our local church. He tends to get defensive when I ask to pray for us or about where he is in his walk with the Lord. This often causes hurt and pain, which in turn causes separation in our relationship.

The sooner you actually embrace God’s way. The sooner you will have a better life

drilling is necessary that is the deal for marriage so stay blessed

I love listening to such rich and godly counsel. Thank you ladies

Respect is admiration for someone based on their actions. Love is adoration for someone based on who they are. As Dr. Leslie said, everyone needs both love and respect, but God’s order shows us what roles we play in a marriage in Ephesians 5:22-33. The husband follows the Lord and acts on God’s behalf, while the wife is a display of God’s character to her husband, her family and to all those who interact with them. She is her husband’s crown.

Awesome message, although I’d argue with what Leslie said “we can complain to God (about our spouse)”. If you read the Old Testament, you see clearly that complaining/grumbling/murmuring absolutely enrages God! Rather than complaining, it is important to come to God with a spirit of humility, asking Him to give you wisdom, and asking Him to guide you in your actions, in spite of our husband’s actions.

6 years, physical, spiritual, emotional abuse in the presence of our toddler. Both believers and been to 7 counselors Christian and nothing changes. I am tired, weary, and hurt, and unsafe. I think when these episodes come, and I love Better Together, we cannot always assume both spouses are coming with a submitted heart to the marriage. I know this is not the motive of this episode but 😢 some of us are dying in marriages in every aspect of life just because we think women always are looking for a girlfriend in their husband. Hopefully, even in brokenness a wife could feel safe and not have to fight to ensure peace, reigns. I was a joyful single but everyday hearing putndowns and secrets and money hiding - marriage gets old!

Powerful Thank you for the encouragement. Single waiting for marriage ❤

Absolutely!!💯🙏🏽

Amazing insights. Thanks for sharing

The husband is the leader in the relationship if he is walking and guided by the lord Jesus christ

Amen. God should always be our number 1 priority

Thank you ladies .I thank God for this message today.

Awesome WORD! Thank you, Better Together Team!

Amen! This was so good and needed. To God be the glory! 🙏🏽🙌🏽🥰

Actions are my cues, and I have to go off that. Can't just stand up in the pulpit on Sunday pumping people up, then come home and want to choke the dog. Not agreeing with "wired up different ". Embrace ❤

Yes!! Amen v Amen!!! 🙌🏾👍🏾💃🤸‍♀️🏃‍♀️💯🤓

I think we keep making excuses for men. God called them to be head of the home and to lead their families. We embrace and set expectations, that they fail to meet. Just look around and you’ll see how many women are leading the home.

So important, time to build our marriage

Such a timely message. God bless you so much lovely women of God.

“We shouldn’t take our cues from the world or our culture” but from God - very important. The word of God is our manual and reference for direction in our marriage. God wants us to enjoy our marriage and make it work through Him.

This was lovely. I notice the word 'magic and 'magical' has seeped into our language in the body of Christ as normal. It affirms certain things in our children that it should not. I want to always point that out so we catch it. My kids catch themselves and say 'Miraculous' because the power of life and death are in our tongues. Myles Monroe made a statement 'The enemy changes the language right before the take over'. I pray this post helps. I love this broadcast. ❤

And all the men said - AMEN!!! 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼😅😅

I so needed to hear this. 🙏🏾

This was AWESOME! Thank you❤

Such a timely word! Thank you so much for this post. It really ministered to me❤

Yes Amen

Thank you, ladies! The takeaways: 1) Communication is better than fumbling your way to a solution 2) Prayer helps us to gain the right perspective in relation to our partners and the situations we encounter in marriage 3) Don't try and make your partner fill a void that only God can fill 4) Men crave respect like women crave shoes 😜😆 Just kidding 😜 Like women crave loooove 🥰 I know these things, but I think it's valuable to remind oneself often. I plan to continue learning how to be a great wifey, even after I get married. Especially when it comes to a relationship that is meant to weather all of life's joys and storms, yet come out stronger. As the time for 💍 approaches, I'm becoming more aware of the practical input needed to turn romance into an everlasting, satisfying, and joyful commitment ☺️🥰

Amen. Great teaching and informative conversation.

My husband is a wonderful father but not a great partner. He is not Christian, neither was I when we met 13 years ago. He loves our daughters and is so loving and gentle with them. With me, he can go for years without intimacy and laughs in my face when I express that I need his help with keeping our home (we both work) and he is not very emotionally intelligent. His parents also sent hatemail about me 10 years ago, and he never stood up for me. He would go and visit them without me. This killed my respect for him. I feel so ugly and unwanted.

Thank you ladies. I really needed it this message.

Thank you for this counsel, especially about changing me. It really works.

VERY POWERFUL WORD!!!

Wow!!! This was so affirming and on time. Thank you ladies for your vulnerability and insite!!! This is my second time watching this and I always learn something in these broadcasts. Thank God we ARE "Better Together"

This was great I love all these women of God!❤

What a masterclass! ❤

Wow, love them out of the overflow😊

I'm looking forward to the nuggets of wisdom enveloped in this message. 😀😄😁🦋🌺

This is my first time listening to you women of God l like what I heard good information very important in a marriage. Thanks so much and may God bless you all..🙏🏽

Timely message. Great reminders. Thank you!

Amen❤

Amen! I really enjoyed the conversation. 🙏

Enjoyed the segment. Thanks for sharing

Thank you for sharing your insights ladies. The reminder about perspective and taking it to the Lord in prayer is very important and timely as these are areas I had sometimes slipped up. However, I feel it's pertinent to share a little of my story here for the wife who needs to take this a bit deeper. I married my husband just over 30 years ago according to the will of God. We have 4 grown children who are saved having been raised to understand the gospel of salvation. Last year our firstborn and only son got married and my husband and his side of the family did not show up except his niece. His reason was our son did not go about things the right way (although, his words and actions appeared to confirm it was our son's choice of wife that he didn't like). Our son has never brought home a girl before and his wife is the only one he's introduced, she is also saved and from a Christian family. My husband initially raised issues about how things should be done culturally. He's a big fan of tradition, which I am not, especially where it contradicts the word of God. However, he did not provide any instructions on what we were to do, only criticisms of attempts to do things the right way by our son, myself, my extended family and the bride's family. Our Pastors and church leaders were called in to help resolve the matter early on. My mum and siblings also attempted to uncover any issues that could be corrected. However, all my husband said was he and his family had made a decision not to have anything to do with the marriage and they were sticking to it. After a series of meetings with the Pastors alone and with me present, he stopped attending church and taking the calls of all the well-meaning members. Early on it was hard to see his perspective as he was accorded the respect that was required, even now trying very hard, but no clear perspective insight. I ended up attending our son's wedding both registry, traditional and destination without my husband. Our son had apologised for where he had erred very early on even after his dad had made his then-fiancee cry. Even after the wedding, our daughter-in-law has shown herself to be a godly, forgiving woman and a wonderful addition to our family. Our son gave a short and precious speech about a lesson he had learnt from his dad growing up at his wedding reception and I couldn't have been prouder of the young man we raised. I say all this to let other wives know, that sometimes it's a real challenge to respect a husband who has clearly gone against God and godly counsel. Ultimately even in marriage, our allegiance is to God. What kept going through my mind during all of this was the outcome of the stories of Abigal and Nabal and Ananias and Sapphira. If I had any indication in my spirit that my son was doing it all wrong, I wouldn't have supported my son and daughter-in-law. I can tell you and it is confirmed by attendees even from the registry coordinators, that the registry was a joyous occasion. God also made the traditional wedding a grand and the destination a glorious affair. I'm not bitter or resentful, because I fully understand I can only control my own actions and reactions. I can tell you a lot of praying and fasting went into the preparation of our son's marriage and to God alone be the glory that the devil's plan failed because I had his grace and all this prayer support. Also, because God said vengeance is mine and he will repay, so it's up to Him to deal with the matter his way and get the glory.

Respect 💯

Sooooo good

Love this,needed this today❤

Wow so for me 😭 Ty Ladies I needed this

WOW! WELL SAID!!

Yes. Exactly.

This was so good! Thank you guys so much! ❤🙏🏾

This Master Class was Amazing I really learn alot. ♥️🙏

This is good 😊 Thanks ...

Beautiful ♡

I was just saying this early we cant take our cues from the world about marriage since marriage is Gods design ..we have to follow what the WORD says and not what the WORLD is saying. Godly counseling is always needed when it comes to marriage

That is true and a really good point. It is good that she chose to bring it up.

How can we preach let the husband lead but in the same breadth not give men accountability for what they sow into their homes and subsequently reap.

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My Mom just died yesterday from cancer... I sent this to her when she was going through intense pain! She was an angel through it all

I've gone back in time.... 1954 😂

I have satisfaction is christ

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So, I stumbled across this and decided to go ahead and watch, even though it’s geared for women. Women commenting about what it takes for a good marriage. From women. I’m 62 and been married for going on 41 years. Some of the comments from these women are nice but not quite accurate without the man’s point of view in all this. I’m a huge fan of CeCe, but I’m not familiar with the other women in the panel except for the Crouch name.

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Spouses have to learn to speak with a respectful tone.

What Will You Do with Your Life? The Kingdom of God draws nigh. Whoever believe, surrender, obediently repent and give their life to JESUS will have eternal life. Serve him with all your heart, soul and might. You’ll grow to become fisher’s of men and women for Christ.

It’s true. Our identity is in Christ and Christ alone. Ignore the outside influences and hold to the promises of Jesus Christ. Opinions doesn’t shape marriages. It’s the willingness of two people to “meet” each other in order to fulfill your God given duty all round. Don’t allow anyone else to dictate the principles of your marriage. What goes for one doesn’t go for all because every situation is different

My parents are divorced. My mom listened to the bible and the Christian ways in marriage. But my father belittled her and treated her terriblely. My mom did all the work in her marriage. He abused my mom, my siblings and myself. When supporting fathers who abuse their children, I see damgage and pain for the the wife and the child. I am not trying to force this on you. Please consider the roles in marriage. It is not all perfect and equal.

Why is it, that religious people think. That woman can't be called by the Lord into Ministry? You ladies should talk about this subject, in a future video!! Galatians 3:28 There is neither Jew or Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither MALE or FEMALE, for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.

He is not my Savior, and I am not his Savior.

It's funny how feminism has subtily entered the body. Your Husband is the representation of Christ in the home, the prophet and priest the leader. The woman's job is as help meet. God gives the man the vision for the family and his wife is to use her gifts to "help meet" the vision. The Husband is. NOT to follow the vision of his wife.The woman was made for the man not the other way around. Like CC initially said let's stick to the word and stop letting the world (feminism) enter the body. Your role is to obey your Husband in ALL things. The Most High NEVER said it's a partnership, it is a hierarchy, The man is not Christ's partner he should be obedient to Christ, and Christ is obedient to Yah! It's called order!

woman pastor CONTRADICTS everything they say------that figures...

drilling is necessary that is the deal for marriage so stay blessed

drilling is necessary that is the deal for marriage so stay blessed