Publicly asking The Lord's forgiveness for being triggered by spiteful girls yesterday in a retail business and just letting loose rather than retaining poise and grace. I was just tired of it! Lord please have mercy on my weaknesses and forgive my loose tongue. AMEN
I'm dealing with work hurt and marital issues related to from it. I have become so bitter and extremely judgemental to the people who l feel havw betrayed me. I have let my anger be shown and my it has only affected me emotionally,spiritually and physically. I am truly a wreck. But the Lord spoke to me this morning and said to be quiet and watch me instead. I am tired of the merry-go-round. So keep me in your prayers as l continue to keep you in mine. Remembering that God is a forgiver and that his GRACE is more than enough,Also that God uses my weakness to identify the areas where l need him the most and yes l fail miserably , but there is no growth without pain. THANK YOU JESUS FOR LOVING ME IN SPITE OF MY BAD DECISONS. QUIET MY MIND,BODY AND SOUL. SO I CAN SHOW LOVE TO THOSE WHO HAVE HURT ME ,JUST AS YOU CONTINUE RO SHOW ME...AMEN
I know I'm not a wife but this just spoke to me on a different level. It allowed me to see that when your trust has been broken by those swore to protect you or even by those closet to you it can be hard to then entrust someone with your story even if you know you may be able to help someone else in telling it. Especially if those same people already weaponized your story or weaponized your words against you. My story is mine to tell or not tell and I pray more people hear this message and understand the realness in this message. Thank you for sharing this message 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
My brother in Christ has never ever, in years of marriage, said a single negative comment about his wife. He always raves about her and glows when he shares about her. He says ‘I love her so much.” He models the qualities of a Godly man who stands for God in marriage, and it has altered my perspective on showing up in marriage. So beautiful.
I’m a women of God. And I’m Extremely 100% Single :) and Jesus has always been my Everything. And that will never ever change. And I’m patiently waiting for God to bring an amazing Passionate Godly man into my life in His perfect timing :)@Better Together on TBN
There is a time and a place to be silent... In my situation, the Lord told me to speak up. He wanted me to speak the truth and not hold it in. This is NOT gossip or ill-talk when He is the one telling me to speak up in my relationships; it is godly. Also, keep in mind that when you say this to a group chances are that some actually need to speak up. ~ "my 2 cents"
They ended perfectly…don’t share it all to everyone. We know in our heart who to share with. I’m 63 and have 3 great friends I’ve known since age 12. All three are married, two for the second time due to abusive situations. One is very godly and always there for me praying. I could confide in any if these women in confidence. I love the gazelle analogy! As an early retired teacher I taught my kids that when u do the right thing only a few will follow at first but later they change their mindset mist times..not all but mist. I’ll be married 42 years in May. Since age 21, together 45. I am strongly working on following Gods word and valuing my spouse!
These videos are so wise and I just love hearing from these ladies! I'm also striving to be a proverbs 31 woman daily! I am currently in a relationship that is heading into marriage and I love this man! However I've realized it takes time and work to get there.
Parental trust too. My parent till this day shares our mistakes. Silence unless involving the offspring in a conversation with God or those involved. I hate gossip, even with family. Hear ye! More discernment. Lord You are so trustworthy and safe.❤😢
Yep....I talk to mine once a month..about 5 minutes because of that very reason. Her mouth. And all she knows about me and my life...is the good...learned that as a teen. She won't ever again and again and again have opportunity to do as described. She does it to everyone. If she calls me, it's only because I'm a new ear to hear gossip. I don't answer.
Thanks for this conversation I can testify how long did it take me to boast about my husband in friends circle and to build him instead of throwing his weakness in the open for fools to judge him keep secret sacred it will be holy unto our Lord shalom❤
Oh so good guys! Keep me in your prayers! This is so true a virtuous woman puts God first place and most before everything! We are not perfect but Gods love is so perfect for us all. God is a forgiving father! Amen!🤗🔥
COME ON NOW. AMEN. THIS IS REALLY GOOD. THANK YOU ALL FOR CHOOSING TO SHARE WHAT THE HOLY SPIRIT LED YOU ALL TO SAY. THIS IS REALLY BEAUTIFUL AND VERY MUCH SO NEEDED. THANK YOU, LORD JESUS. THANK YOU, LORD. AMEN. HALLELUJAH. THANK YOU, LORD. AMEN. HALLELUJAH. THANK YOU, LORD JESUS. THANK YOU, LORD. AMEN. HALLELUJAH. THANK YOU, LORD JESUS. AMEN. THIS IS REALLY GOOD. AMEN.
I agree with certain apsects in this conversation but not all of it including being able to share frustrations with your Godly friends and sisters in Christ about the struggles in your relationship to be able to get some godly insight other than just them listening. You have to evaluate your circle of confidants on what you speak about!
Be careful of words that you throw in environments that will not cherish them. 👌👌👌. Don't talk about others to fit in. Protect community by being confidential with information about people's lives ❤❤❤
Thanks for this discussion and prayer. I have learned so much from Mary's story and how she hid the thing that was revealed to her in her heart. I am now so protective of my loved ones and will honor the relationship by not gossiping about them or berating them with others. We have to protect them in front and behind their backs.
Thank you women of God, I receive these revelations and the wisdom and understanding thank you father for everyone of these women thank you thank you thank you❤
I really thank God for this video, I really struggle with keeping some things to myself. May God help me to be a story keeper and not a storyteller. 🙏🏾
I'm recently married and my mother who has issues with me due to jealousy (that's a story for another time) has demonstrated that she might be dismissive and rude to my husband, she has not celebrated our marriage, him or me in any way. She has never asked about him or his family, she actually seems angry that I finally found someone that has ushered me into wedded bliss. I'm in my 50s so it took me a long time to find him and I think she expected and was maybe happy in thinking that I never would. So, I told her she would never meet him if she plans on disrespecting him and I know she will. I know how to deal with her, but I am not going to subject him to anyone, that is within my control, that I know will not treat him well. Even with my sister, with whom I talk to frequently, I am careful about what I share about my husband because now we are one and he will always come first in earthly life even if we have children. We have had dust ups but we turn to each other to resolve them, and they stay where we left them. I thank God every day for the gift of marriage. Thank you ladies, for another great conversation.
Hi, sisters you have all taught me a lot today. God has not given me a husband as yet I take board all you have said today God Bless and Keep You All can I get a Amen ❤
Division in the church is a real thing my heart breaks and so does Gods! We must truly repent and Lord please remove our Stoney hearts and give us a heart of flesh remove the religious spirits & I rebuke any immoral and demonic spirits in Jesus mighty name amen!!🙏🏼♥️ We truly need Jesus’
What do you do when the information you hear is heavy? I know not to tell it, however, do we just ask God to help us carry it? I imagine being a story keeper can be trying at times.
I think in that case it’s important to pray over the situation and give it to God so that He can handle it and you release it in that way. We are to bear one another’s burdens but it should never be that in our bearing, it is now weighing us down. This is also where guarding one’s heart comes in. Shalom
I recently withdrew from my friendship with my cousin bc I could not tolerate her constant disparage against her immediate family.ifinally cut th pus relationship when I learned that she was doing this against myself and family.
I want to repent for not always being a story keeper and for ever fitting into a narrative that does not protect my relationships. Lord forgive me and help me to be a keeper as it is your way to guide and keep, let me as well in the name of Jesus amen 🙏🏾
Speaking from experience, when it comes to advice, it’s important to perhaps only have one person whom you know will not come with a spirit of condemnation but with godly wisdom in order to give you an unbiased advice. For me, that is my sister in Christ/best friend. She has always been my go to anytime I needed to speak about something that might be troubling me and it’s because she’s never condemned anyone I’ve ever spoken to her about or held any bitterness or resentment but instead would give practical wisdom for how to view or even handle the situation. And after speaking, she has never brought up a matter to anyone else. Which shows how trustworthy she truly is. My heart has always been to protect my husband. So approaching it that way helps one to be more selective with whom to confide with in regard to a matter. And then there’s also the question of well what is my motivation for even wanting to share this. Is it merely to vent or to truly get an answer to a problem? Shalom
GOOD AFTERNOON! WE CAN BE A GOOD THING OR BAD THING. WE CHOOSE. BE A STORYKEEPER, NOT TELLER. GO TO WOMEN THAT HAVE MAYBE BEEN MARRIED FOR MORE YEARS THEN YOU.
Wooooow!!!! My! My! Oh my!!!!!!!!!!!!! Titus 2 in play. Older women teach younger women to respect your husbands. This episode has soo much meat. I have to make meatballs and marinate it aka ill be back again and again.