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change doesn't happen overnight (unfortunately) | days in my life 

Lynette Adkins
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working on discipline, oversharing about my love life, weekend shenanigans. Use LYNETTE at checkout for 15% off your first month’s supply of @seed’s DS-01™ Daily Synbiotic: seed.com/daily...
i'm a very 0 or 100 person (maybe because i'm an aries?), and because of it that i often struggle to maintain a healthy relationship with discipline. in this vid, i share a peek into my daily thoughts as i try to get back on track with my healthy habits, how i've been setting boundaries with myself in my love life, & lots of weekend shenanigans to balance things out.
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0:00-3:35 current struggles w/ discipline
3:35 a new approach
4:39 gym + chores
6:15 morning routine
6:36 pls take ur probiotics
9:10 gym
9:36 steve madden event!
10:09 girl i’m tired
12:44 more of me looking like friday addams
13:08 feeding myself is a CHORE
14:27 gym + chores again
14:52 venting about my love life
18:51 they messed up my nails + budgeting
20:13 getting ready to go out
21:55 going out
22:42 complaining about america
25:06 picking out a look + quick performance
25:58 men are scary sometimes
28:33 saturday night
29:14 a lot of me working
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@marieleeart
@marieleeart Год назад
i was in the middle of a crisis and the title literally triggered me so muchhh. but your energy and vibe gives off so much comfort that im 6 mins in and im already feeling better
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
girl it's a lesson i keep having to learn 😭 glad you are feeling better now, sending love to you & whatever you are going through!
@CourtTV.
@CourtTV. Год назад
Same
@ArissaKing
@ArissaKing Год назад
😂Z🎉 ÷[ 66
@g.burney4714
@g.burney4714 Год назад
Miss Marie blessings to you young lady remember everything you go through? It's temporary so glad to see the support for you. Your best days are ahead of you. And if by chance no one has told you this lately, you can make it 💓 remember that, you can make it.
@prettikitti3764
@prettikitti3764 Год назад
I’m glad you are talking about this “all or nothing” mindset. that’s something that I struggle with and I think a lot of people struggle with when it comes to self-improvement. It comes from a perfectionist mindset. And in my opinion it’s a form of self-sabotage.
@thatsdestiny.
@thatsdestiny. Год назад
This is definitely one of my favorite vlogs of yours, you seem more authentic and comfortable on camera, your personality is showing through more! What you spoke about men at 27:00 is soooo true, they look at women as if they’re prey! Its very uncomfortable. Its even worse when they actually approach us, they come off aggressive and expecting you to want them the way they want you.
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
This makes me so happy, I love treating these vlogs like a personal diary lol! & yesss omg it can be so intense like i need a break
@lifewithkashmeere
@lifewithkashmeere Год назад
Yes her personality is bomb , & I hate to feel like men are the problem but they are crazy lol😂
@thehealingfairee
@thehealingfairee Год назад
I'm also in a bad habit slump, glad I'm not alone. We'll get over this!
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
yesss we got this
@annelisegregory
@annelisegregory Год назад
I never really have been one to comment on youtube videos, even with creators I really enjoy but I want to share how much I love your authenticity. I feel a lot of the times your videos sync up with what I am going through or contemplating in my life and it's so refreshing to hear someone speak on things with such transparency. You've definitely become one of my favorite creators. Sending you love!!
@Mynameiselectra
@Mynameiselectra Год назад
‘U not about to recognize me next week’ i feel that HEAVY im an aries rising sidereal and i JUST learned this week that trying to overhaul my entire life in one day, is unrealistic 😭😭 and id be disappointed… But now im focused on mastering ONE thing at a time and allowing my self room to surprise myself…
@MarleeRayeW
@MarleeRayeW Год назад
The timing of this is wild! I planned on posting a vlog every day this coming week so I spent the past week working really hard and then boom…all the footage and editing I did is gone. So I’ve been pretty upset all morning because I finally felt really good about how productive and on top of things I’ve been lately and now I feel completely defeated and like I want to give up. I’m only halfway through the video but it’s already made me feel so much better! Thanks for all the work you put into these, I know it’s not always easy 💕
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
Oh no I'm so sorry to hear that! I know how heartbreaking & frustrating it can feel to lose work like that, especially after you had everything planned out. I feel like everything genuinely does happen for a reason though so don't give up, you got this! So glad the vid could lift your spirits a bit❤️
@Xavier_Greatness
@Xavier_Greatness Год назад
Your authenticity is unmatched and I feel the same way sometimes about having those bad weeks your know but it's all about balance and getting yourself back on track. Without bad days good days wouldn't exist.
@haleyrampage6540
@haleyrampage6540 Год назад
“indulging in the dance of life” is so good, this vlog came at the perfect time because that’s one of the main things i struggle with is putting too much pressure on myself to maintain healthy habits and don’t have any grace for myself when i slip up..this was so refreshing to see i needed this vlog real bad😭
@driiaaa
@driiaaa Год назад
i'm also a cancer moon. noticing i'm following a lot of people who have similar placements to me & i love that. i always feel everything you're saying
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
that's so crazyyy, having a cancer moon is pretty intense in terms of how we deal with emotions so that's probably why we relate so much!
@angelspit111
@angelspit111 Год назад
When I learned I had a cancer moon I had a minor identity crisis and then everything felt like it made sense
@Gugzzr
@Gugzzr Год назад
i totally resonate with the going out part, whenever i explain the "intense energy" I am immediately told I am being full of myself but like... bruh im just sharing my experience da faqqq ahahahah
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
No girl energy is real & sometimes its too much!
@AboutBritney
@AboutBritney Год назад
Omg I so agree on being good as long as your foundational habits are good. It can be overwhelming trying to incorporate every good habit being thrown at you. Sometimes you just need to sleep in to recharge. Definitely not a waste. I'm usually in bed most of the day on Sunday.
@JenFarrer
@JenFarrer Год назад
No shame in only liking to talk to one person at a time. Do what makes you most comfortable & happy❤ Great video 💕
@DigitalSofia
@DigitalSofia Год назад
I started taking Seed 4 months ago and it CHANGED my life. My energy levels, mood, regularity… I swear I’m a different person. I jumped when I saw you are not sponsored by them 👏👏
@daniellesfinsta7099
@daniellesfinsta7099 Год назад
the working out comment is so true. I went from working out consistently for months to doing it once a week these past 3 weeks (if that) bc of law school application stress and I’ve felt *awful*
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
it's crazy how much it can affect your mental 😭 it's okay tho bc we will get back to where we need to be in time!
@g.burney4714
@g.burney4714 Год назад
Blessings to you Miss Adkins so appreciate your honesty in your presentation. It made me think of myself when i was 340lbs (yikes) now down to 205lb.What changed? I found my why, its my wife even when i was eating food like it was free she always encouraged me. Don't be hard on yourself because we all go through a periods where we need some encouragement. As i head toward 70 i feel free great blood pressure 106/67 and iam currently training for my 18th marathon. So what 2 words keep me going? (Its Possible) keep focused in your journey blessings to you and your future ❤
@NateshasAmbience
@NateshasAmbience Год назад
I love when you decided that you’d still have a good day! That’s right! It’s all about the mindset and setting intentions. Thanks for being a living reminder. 🙏🏽❤
@imanir.6627
@imanir.6627 Год назад
The way I feel so connected to you is crazy! Every time I come on this app to check your new videos, you literally always post things that resonate with me. Perfect timing! Always. Thank you for being genuine and authentic, there’s not many who show the raw and uncut challenges of life ❤ you’re amazing
@Jackiesdaydream
@Jackiesdaydream Год назад
Ok I’m so glad to hear about the energy that exudes when men stare at you in public!!!! It’s so uncomfortable and I always thought i was tweakin. I just had to learn to live with it but sometimes I don’t want to
@postgradisrad
@postgradisrad Год назад
Lynette I feeeeelll you on the dating stuff!! I also go back and forth 😖 - but I’ve been single for 8 years and I JUST now in 2022/2023 have started to TRULY enjoy my singlehood and I really do love it now. The first 4 years were ROUGH, the next 4 I would go in and out of enjoying it. Now I truly feel so good. (That’s just my experience tho) Don’t be so hard on yourself!! You can be single and still be a lover girl and want a relationship but also know being single might be good for you but also want to be cudddled - like duality. You’re doing great!!!
@thisisdeeyah
@thisisdeeyah 21 день назад
A few days ago, i've been indulging in my bad habits as well and then youtube recommended me this video. And watching this motivates me to get back up as well so thank you so much. Also, when you mention about the stares- i can totally relate. I was just thinking about it this morning. Like i agree, it's like walking into a room full of hyenas. It's so uncomfortable.
@claudia4578
@claudia4578 Год назад
There ARE a million and one options out there. Spend some time alone, you'll start dating again or meet a cool person again once you actually want it. There is no doubt about that.
@Lanikka_
@Lanikka_ Год назад
I DEFINITELY agree with you when you were talking about the energy you feel resonating from men at the club. When I used to go out, I would feel that energy too and I hated it. It made me feel so awkward and off.
@Mskatmorales
@Mskatmorales Год назад
First time I've been this early on a video love your channel ❤
@yahosephbenyisrael917
@yahosephbenyisrael917 Год назад
Hey Kitty
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
🥺❤️
@annaspeaks373
@annaspeaks373 Год назад
change happens every day then those tiny changes make difference
@taliahmoring4693
@taliahmoring4693 Год назад
I really appreciate you keeping it real because I’m such an “all or nothing” person too. when I fall back into the bad habits I get so upset with myself. But you’re right, there’s a balance to discipline and it’s all apart of the process 👏🏾
@jasmineromero4221
@jasmineromero4221 Год назад
Girl I feel you 100% on the men staring when you go out! It's so annoying, I blame part of it on my social anxiety but also you can just feel the thirsty energy from them LOL
@VIEWSBYNESS
@VIEWSBYNESS Год назад
Omg thank u for this message cause I was just getting so hard on myself about being “off schedule” as well…I too went to Vegas 3/9 bday weekend to see usher concert and got drained dry lol but you are right sometimes we just gotta go with our flow and if energy is low then that’s just what it is. Don’t be so hard on ourselves ❤
@carmenella
@carmenella Год назад
lynette, I love your content so much! your vlogs are edited so nicely and your content that focuses on certain topics always engage me instantly. as a fellow spiritual baddie into astrology- I had no idea you were an Aires sun & Cancer moon, I share those placements as well and I find myself relating to your personality expression. I feel more connected to you now because I understand the intense dichotomy between having an aires sun and cancer moon haha, you should make a video talking about your placements! anyways I'm usually not a commenter but just wanted to give you some uplifting energy
@GianiMartin
@GianiMartin Год назад
I completely aligned with the moment/rant about the Cava order. lol love love love these vlogs!
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
ok good i almost took it out bc i was complaining heavy 😂
@GianiMartin
@GianiMartin Год назад
@@LynetteAdkins lol no it was so real 😂❤️‍🔥
@LexusIvana
@LexusIvana Год назад
I love this video! and completely notice the change in restaraunts and how certain things are no longer available even the quality of food has gone down in some place because companies are starting to use less expensive ingredients. I 100 percent feel you when you say change takes time. Im currently taking steps each day to become the best version of me.
@klaudiakielak2459
@klaudiakielak2459 Год назад
Love you Lynette! 🤍🌷⭐️
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
love y'all!!❤️
@iamkaay
@iamkaay Год назад
Im a aries to. Every year after my bday I always glow really strong. Im currently working on discipline and getting to the basics. We got this ❤️
@kianaharris2946
@kianaharris2946 Год назад
I love you so much!! 😂😂this vlog was amazing, so real, so funny and I 100% understood what you were saying about the thirsty male gaze as soon as you walk in anywhere. It's a lot and you're not alone, 🥷🥷🏽 need to chill. Hope to see more vlogs like this, such a vibe 😎
@ItsStyleTheory
@ItsStyleTheory Год назад
I LOVED this vlog! It felt so real and authentic! Especially your chats with us!! 💕
@sydniebattie
@sydniebattie Год назад
i literally needed this. i was just journaling about discipline and actions compounding over time and the realities of creating new habits and a new version of life. then i clicked onto youtube and saw your video. right on time 👏🏽 thank you lynette!!
@user-gg8wy8qu5l
@user-gg8wy8qu5l Год назад
Girlll I just discovered your youtube channel and the way I relate to you sooo much! Then you said you're an Aries with a Cancer moon!? I'm an Aries with a Cancer rising! We are in very similar stages in life so I am really enjoying your content, and find much comfort in it.
@alexdiiane
@alexdiiane Год назад
one of your best vlogs hands down
@Bribella551
@Bribella551 Год назад
This video is so relatable! This makes me feel so much better! We got this! Thank you!
@Viibewithdiggi
@Viibewithdiggi Год назад
i really loved this one!! I feel like your personality shined through more, and the imperfections made it more authentic and relatable. your talks are advice are always helpful and appreciated, i think its equally as intriguing to see the human side too of not everything being so picture perfect.
@Mr.Sance-
@Mr.Sance- Год назад
Thanks Lynette for your light for just being a motivated young black? Woman on the grind living her truth. I'm on a seven day 16:8 intermittent fast, and just started a new job I'll hopefully like, so I'm definitely on the right path. I'm also dieting within my fast, and am about to read the bible!!! Cheers everyone🙏💚
@dalewaite6477
@dalewaite6477 Год назад
Girl lemme know what u decide on the dating vs. alone thing bc same
@Kaytube19
@Kaytube19 Год назад
Soooooo enjoying these vlogs!!! Please keep them coming 💕🙌🏾
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
Yay I'm so glad, I def will!
@rvvenelizabeth
@rvvenelizabeth Год назад
says ish, then says eating fucking ramen IM DEAD!! listening to this at just the right time- I always land on your videos when I need them most, THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING
@Slimjadey00
@Slimjadey00 Год назад
Ughh I love your vlogs sm! Honestly when you were talking about how you had to cut off your situationship becaus keeping him around for the sake of it wasn't serving I felt that bc I'm in the exact same situation now girlll. Thank you for always being so authentic on your channel and reminding this healing shit is really a journey not a destination💓💓 💓
@carmensmith9117
@carmensmith9117 Год назад
Aries sun here and I so feel your Aries energy! :) what's your moon and rising? Your channel is so inspiring and I'm sending lots of love your way!
@EmpressK5678
@EmpressK5678 Год назад
Girlll from the 0 to 100 mindset to being a lover girl all the way to Friday Addams this vlog might be the realest one of yours so far. 😭
@ashley63xo
@ashley63xo Год назад
I appreciate your honesty and sharing both the ups and downs with us!! It made me feel a lot better about my current struggles. I’ve also been exploring drinking and going out less. Good luck on all your endeavors!! Thanks for sharing your life with us! 🤗
@nancemarss
@nancemarss Год назад
wow this is crazy, i was listening to that same video of abraham hicks for about a month but i recently fell off and forgot about it, the fact that you’re listening it just reminds me that i need to get back on it but i would’ve never expected to see it on a video of yours 😭
@A_savage
@A_savage Год назад
Wow I’ve just learned to accept that it’s okay to love Ramen 😂 I’ve just been experimenting with brands that have less sodium and adding my own precut veggies to add some nutrients. Ginger slices also slaps in the broth ❤ 🍜
@jacksonbarnhill6707
@jacksonbarnhill6707 Год назад
winter reflection ---> spring rebirth
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
yesss❤️
@cafeinfinitysmiles
@cafeinfinitysmiles Год назад
febuary and march was pisces season which is definitely for me a period of rest and just enjoying the experience of life it self without any expectations ❤️ love your videos and happy early birthday
@JenelAmelliee
@JenelAmelliee Год назад
I haven’t been watching your videos and it shows. your content just kicks me into gear everytime!! Thank you for your transparency you’re amazing! Keep grinding
@ImaniKhadijah
@ImaniKhadijah Год назад
This vlog was literally so good, there were so many moments that resonated and I really appreciate how real you are with your audience. I was cracking up seeing how much fun you have by yourself because I'm the same way 🤣 Also, I get what you mean in regards to men when going out to bars and clubs. I love going out and dancing, but I will say I get a little uncomfortable by the desperate, lustful energy they give off since that really isn't my vibe.
@prerza
@prerza Год назад
proud of u
@Yocyndie
@Yocyndie Год назад
Happy Aries season beautiful ! New beginnings on the way. You’re the first cardinal sign of the zodiac. You can imitate anything you put your mind to. I’m a Capricorn, cardinal earth, so I understand your sentiments completely.
@hilljemima7834
@hilljemima7834 Год назад
I loved this vlog!! you’re such an inspiration to me and I’m grateful that you were so real and honest in this video ❤
@zeralynnpanesa7923
@zeralynnpanesa7923 Год назад
I knew I felt connected to you for some reason and to find out we both have a cancer moon makes sense 😭 I’m a lover girl too, and this out in the streets culture ain’t me at all. I was born in the wrong dating era I swear on it 😢. But we out here staying strong girl, I’m still dealing with a situationship that I can’t seem to let go just yet. Wish me luck
@HomemakerDaze
@HomemakerDaze Год назад
Don't date someone to get over someone else, I did that and then broke up after a year and what happened? The obsession of the ex just restarted.
@mirandas3822
@mirandas3822 Год назад
that little kendrick sample in the intro 🔥👌🏽
@kaliha.j
@kaliha.j Год назад
I completely understanding feeling like prey when out. It gives me so much anxiety sometimes it’s hard to enjoy myself cause ion wanna be perceived😭
@squissorhands
@squissorhands Год назад
it's so validating hearing your thoughts on the intensity of men in public
@jessicadeharo5242
@jessicadeharo5242 Год назад
girllll i needed to se this video! i appreciate your honesty and vulnerability
@ganjaprincess5408
@ganjaprincess5408 Год назад
this is sooo relatable thanks for sharing ur experience im in the same boat! everything definitely happens for a reason and seeing this is proof
@jalachantelle5413
@jalachantelle5413 Год назад
also I just love you, I always feel like were irl friends when I watch your vlogs
@miaxavez9340
@miaxavez9340 Год назад
you are cracking me up in this one
@Mariam-on5vt
@Mariam-on5vt Год назад
I needed ur video, love how u are
@IsaiahRTaylor
@IsaiahRTaylor Год назад
27:00 Coming from a man, I understand where you’re coming from. Truthfully, some men are just too easy, and that can honestly be tedious. Whether you’re out having fun with friends, or you’re looking for a relationship, that can be something you encounter with some men out here.
@rambothomas2209
@rambothomas2209 Год назад
It all depends on the type of change needed to make baby girl 👍🏽🙏🏿💕 2:50
@devonhoward333
@devonhoward333 Год назад
Where is your dress from at 10:02? So cute! Love that the long vlogs are back and killer song in this section too!
@devonhoward333
@devonhoward333 Год назад
or some of your favorite shops (online or in person) that you get pieces from especially dresses. The red dress at the end is so cute too. Love your style. Thanks!
@Carrisakimble
@Carrisakimble Год назад
Thank God I'm not the only one. ❤ Thank you. You are absolutely right! ~Love~
@Mynameiselectra
@Mynameiselectra Год назад
You always post videos with the exact messages i need at the perfect time, its crazy
@IsaiahRTaylor
@IsaiahRTaylor Год назад
One of my favorite humans on RU-vid, I love you so much❤️!
@wubwzrd
@wubwzrd Год назад
love the way you create your own rules
@ashlynnicolebenson
@ashlynnicolebenson Год назад
The hungry Hyenas energy is very correct. It feels like your safety could be at risk if you’re not careful
@reyanicia
@reyanicia Год назад
i totally feel u on the energy of men's eyes on you at the club/going out! it's very intense. i don't like it! i also respect your honesty about feeling anxious and drinking more just to calm yourself to feel safe and comfortable enough to throw ass. i totally relate lol. blessings to you & your journey! here for iiittttt
@AvannaTheCEO
@AvannaTheCEO Год назад
omg I can totally relate to the part about being stared at in public. I literally decided to leave early saturday night lmaooo. I be feeling mad uncomfortable and can't even have fun with that weird energy.
@NadMartineau
@NadMartineau Год назад
I fell off as well 😩😩 trying to get back on track before I go on vacation thanks for sharing the full journey ❤
@thornfrederiksen8437
@thornfrederiksen8437 Год назад
ily ty for being so real.
@thatsdestiny.
@thatsdestiny. Год назад
friday addams is so funny lmao, do you mean wednesday addams?
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
lmao yes omg😂😂
@AmandaMalvazzo
@AmandaMalvazzo Год назад
Feeding myself IS A CHORE sis omg I eat solely for survival reasons
@bananitatropical
@bananitatropical Год назад
I am very grateful for coming across this video :)
@flexdollarbillz
@flexdollarbillz Год назад
stay single unltil your ready try a long distance relationship so you may work on your self you dont not belong to the streets stay positive and things will work out
@alext5235
@alext5235 Год назад
I hate that cava will be out online but when you go in they have it 🙄!
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
why do they do that omggg
@jalachantelle5413
@jalachantelle5413 Год назад
this week has been so energetically chaotic lol im glad im not the only one 😅
@YoursTrulyLush
@YoursTrulyLush Год назад
I love you sis!!! You're so inspiring❤
@thelmsproductionslms7523
@thelmsproductionslms7523 Год назад
Love your videos ❤
@LynetteAdkins
@LynetteAdkins Год назад
thank you❤️
@kacistushtv
@kacistushtv Год назад
I love you, you're awesome ❤
@nancy_onyao
@nancy_onyao Год назад
So grateful for your vlogs❤️
@justliaj
@justliaj Год назад
love this. needed this. all i can say is i feel you girl lmfao
@kiraoviedo333
@kiraoviedo333 Год назад
The Abraham Hicks is so real
@yahosephbenyisrael917
@yahosephbenyisrael917 Год назад
Hey Queen Lynette
@oprahn2237
@oprahn2237 Год назад
I needed this video sooo bad
@snzdrsn4812
@snzdrsn4812 Год назад
18:18 so relatable 😭
@gigicrawford
@gigicrawford Год назад
On time as always!
@KayleeCrawford222
@KayleeCrawford222 Год назад
you are one of my favorite notifications
@takemetopluto
@takemetopluto Год назад
I love how realistic you are lmao
@Shaantibihh
@Shaantibihh Год назад
Fire sun and cancer moon here too🫶🏽🌚 lover gurlllsss
@gianna5792
@gianna5792 Год назад
Ur so real
@n0tmarcus
@n0tmarcus Год назад
yay for curly hair!
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