change one thing, change your life. 

"Nothing is ever enough...until you decide that it is." Happiness then...is almost solely a decision. That observation alone...that one sentence...makes this video a masterpiece.

I don't have parents. That means I had to come up from absolute nothing. The silver lining of living in poverty is being grateful for the smallest things and staying grateful. I realize most people are miserable. I am happy as can be. For real get grateful.

Damn, girl, you have no idea how you just captured the theme of my year now. I felt so entitled to everything and I kept on seeking the next big thing. I was never thankful for the job that was handed to me after resigning from a toxic environment. I never thank my self for singlehandedly getting my folks to retirement, and even reaching my fitness goals all in the same year. Instead, I kept thinking that everything ain't enough and I need to be more because I deserve more. You just made me feel heard and seen and for that, I thank you!

I just ❤ this lady and her persevtive cause it's extremely validating 😂. I pray her channel blows up and helps others we are not ALONE. In this human experience 😊

I've decided for end 2024 and all 2025 and maybe fwd. No more BRAND NEW NOTHING. SECOND HAND ALL THE WAY & LESS. Who's with me?

An elder once told me sometimes just good enough IS enough. 😊

Your outro was so relatable. I have days where I feel like I’ve discovered the thing or the feeling that I’ve been needing to make things better. Then I just go back to the same thing. Depressed. Anxious. Guilt. Etc. and it makes me wonder why. Why is that feeling only able to be harnessed without my own will? If I want to be better, and I know the steps, why don’t I feel better? Today for me has been a hard one. And tomorrow I could feel something better that makes me unable to understand my negative feelings of today. Like a switch I have no control over. And the awful self talk, specifically the word “pathetic” gets thrown around in my head like a ping pong ball. But all I know is tough. All I know is work harder. All I know is “if you wanted it bad enough…”. I don’t know how to be kind to myself in a way that feels authentic. I don’t know what that looks like, and I don’t know what a healthy relationship with anything looks like. Your videos are pretty awesome though, especially this one, because im so tired of hearing people who I cannot relate to at all talk about how great life can be. I don’t need that, I need to be understood. And seeing someone else of the same age say so many things I relate to, it’s just good to know someone on the earth understands.

You aren't ready until you are ready. I sobbed uncontrollably the first time I tried a loving kindness meditation. All feelings are temporary when you let them flow authentically

You’re in my list of favorite storytellers. Whatever path you follow please keep creating content.

"Nothing is ever enough until you decide that it is." Love this video. The authentic ending, too. Chef's kiss

Thank you for your honesty 🙏 i struggle with mental issues, depression and severe OCD and along with life's challenges it feels so overwhelming. I just try to go on doing my best even if it feels small and minor. I just try to live knowing I face these psychological issues and fully accepting myself because there is just no other way possible.

The fact that you managed to create such a wholesome, validating, and enlightening video without sappy non-diegetic music speaks volumes about your honesty. No bells and whistles. Your voice is enough. Love and magic, 🤍

To find the needle of gratitude in the haystack, you’ve got to become the magnet! I enjoyed watching this, sending love

"Enough" is such a personal feeling, and yeah, ultimately a decision... one that we all must slow down to carefully consider, to really uncover the answer for ourselves. 💭 Denser, darker, fluctuating emotions are natural and to be expected. Welcome to the human experience. We can't know the heights of happiness without also knowing the depths of despair. If we only live this lukewarm existence, never swaying too far to either side... just being in this perpetually neutral-ish, numb, "meh" state... we never allow ourselves to fully FEEL. So I'm of the belief that the deeper you're willing to go into the darkness, the further you're able to leap into the light. 💫

i love this video and your whole channel. i resonate so much with everything you speak about. i’m 27, working on my undergrad still, just moved to a new huge city that i know no one in. i’m from an incredibly small town, so all of these changes have been overwhelming. it can be hard to have gratitude when you feel like you’re in survival mode. thank you for helping ground me!

I really want you to know how much this impacted me. This is humiliating to admit, but I have been so disconnected from what gratitude feels like in the last few months. I have had a rough year and i didn't handle it well, I made it much harder for myself than it needed to be. And i allowed the circumstances to burn me the fuck out - totally unnecessarily - i think so that i could give myself the opportunity to feel sorry for myself. But something I mentioned to a friend recently, is that I'm able to recognize things I should be grateful for. I understand the concept, but I couldn't access the feeling. And my life reflects it. That i could turn my nose up at any of this is so embarrassing. Looking around at everything I have going for me while watching this video, i just imagined for a moment that it was all taken away. And how that kind of thing happens to people every day, and could happen to me tomorrow. I have become so entitled to this stuff and these people, because I have been lucky enough that they have been "mine" for soooo long, that I could even experience this complacency. I really feel gratitude right now. I have missed this feeling and I feel like this video was so divinely placed in my recommended feed. Thank you for sharing.

I'm so grateful I stumbled across your channel! Watching your videos makes me feel so much less alone. things are really tough for me right now. I'm 22, back home with my family in the countryside after struggling to find a job. I'm not in a good place, and seeing your seemingly perfect life used to make me feel even worse about myself. But your vulnerability and honesty about your own struggles make you so relatable. It's comforting to know that even someone with a life I admire goes through similar emotions. I truly wish you all the best with your life Thank you for sharing your real self with us ❤

I've been waiting for you to post another video. I'm so grateful to be able to get a snapshot into your life, thank you for sharing. You have no idea how much I relate to this and I'm sure hundreds of others are in the same boat. ❤

I definitely needed this. I've been feeling incredibly sad lately and struggling with the emotional hangover from cptsd. I keep telling myself that i am so lucky with what i have in life, and i feel guilty for being so ridiculously depressed, but i suppose this whirlwind is just being human. Thank you for your videos, you make me feel a little less alone when it come to being hard on yourself. Keep being you Grace 🌿

The last part is so real. Wanting to feel something other than what you're feeling is a common struggle of mine. Well said and great video .

I related to this video SO MUCH. I get so hard on myself for "pity-partying" or "leaning in" to my feelings as you say, but I'm learning that for me, if I do that in a healthy way, I can push through it easier/faster. I always say, I just need to feel it/cry about it, and then I'll be fine. I really did enjoy the entire video, but the end outro really spoke to me. Thank you. ♥

Have you been reading stoic philosophy? You're right on the money with negative visualisation, which means to imagine losing what you have to fully appreciate the things you have and who you are. Love this video. I'm right with you girl. ❤

The ending of this video spoke to my soul. Thank you 💜

It is always easier said than done, but that doesn't mean we stop trying. Look after yourself (also easier said than done).

Soooo appreciate your honesty here, we all feel this! I am in a sad period of my life and really struggle even if I have my 4 amazing kids, a farm etc Its feelings we need to allow to feel even if we can have good positive days, we need to embrace them all! I already looking forward to your next video when you feel ready!! Thank you!❤❤❤

I appreciate you grace, I really hope you’re doing ok. Thank you for all the honesty and taking the time to share what you’ve learned and how it affects others. This channel is easily one of my favorites❤and has helped me a lot. Looking forward to seeing the next one. Take care of yourself grace 🙏🤙🏼

Thank you for the honesty at the end of the video. I also have been trying to list things I'm grateful for in order to feel better, and it just doesn't seem to work. This then leads to feeling like something is wrong with me and more self-hatred. I think we should just be kind to ourselves and feel the way we feel without judging it. Hope you're feeling better now.

Validating yourself when you're having a hard time is a power move. You don't need permission to have a rough patch. Noticing that something stinks is the first step to figuring out why and getting rid of it. Gratitude can help make the stinky more bearable but if you never address the problem it's like spraying perfume everywhere. Still stinks but it can also smell nice if you try really hard to ignore the bad. There has to be a balance between appreciating the things that make your life easier and hating the things that make your life harder. Good thing, bad thing - who knows?

Nothing is never enough until you decied that it is 👊

I appreciate the authenticity. Pulling for you

Grace you’re such a blessing, your content is so refreshing…so real and authentic 🙌🏾 Thank you sis!

I love this channel, you say exactly how it is, and it always hits home, I wish more people wanted the honest truth, I hope this channel gets the credit it deserves but im not sure people are ready or want to be ready for real honest helpful people, like yourself, most people are happy stuck in a fake world of social media and consumerism, it's a shame the way the world is and how it's changed us,

Love your videos! You are so real and humble! Keep doing what you do because you’re helping so many. Life is a struggle and most of what you see in social media is usually not reality! Love you Grace ❤

The end is Golden 😊

"nothing is ever enough until u decide it is"

Thank you for this video and for sharing your experience to help others. I'm currently going through the same. I just quit my job and am moving back home with no plan as of right now. I am hoping for a positive new beginning.

What a beautiful message Grace. Speechless at your delivery ❤

It’s not your fault to feel sad. I guess it’s good not to take your feelings too seriously… neither the good nor the bad ones. But keep doing what you’re doing in terms of editing and recording ‘cause it’s beautiful to watch. Also all the things you say have so much sense for those who come here to hear them ❤️‍🩹

I've been so looking forward to your next video, and here it is! Its so wild that this is your 7th, you're amazing at being so open and vulnerable. 🧡

You are waking up ❤ These are literally my stoner thoughts!! Thank you for sharing 🙏

You are good with words One thing that changed my life is opening my heart to Jesus & developing a relationship with Him. I feel my worst when I don’t read my Bible or pray. I have two children who rely on me for EVERYTHING, but I can barely show up for myself some days. Being on social media makes me feel sad & mad at myself for not doing more. Being off social media helps me lean into the present. Thinking of an entire list of things that need to get done makes me couch rot for majority of the day, but writing a list of 1 or 2 things that need to be done helps me. I feel i have always internally suffered & made things harder for myself than it really was. I think what you are doing is beautiful, & I pray that a doorway is open for you that will circumcise your heart & renew your mind. Thank you for being honest & transparent. 🙏🏽 Don’t forget to allow yourself some grace 💜

You are a beautiful person ❤ thank you so much for your honesty

I love your content so much . Know you’re not alone . ❤ sending you sooo much love 💕

I luv this channel so much! I really hope that u r doing well. Thnk u fr your honesty!❤

such a great message! thank you for sharing this! the outro/conclusion is especially moving and offers really helpful perspectives and paths to healing well done!

Totally agree 100%

Thank you for the beautiful video. ❤ I’m greatful

Your videos are extremely cathartic, and i think you have a great artistic sense for camera shots. Hope you make more vids :)

Thanks so much for having the courage to share!

I just wanted to say you are a real 1. I love your videoz 📹 your authenticity & your energy, & i love how u don't hold bacc & u express how u truly feel in yo vidz. The wordz u speak is something a lot of us including myself can relate to, everything u said in this video 📹 here wuz 98.99% accurate on wut I've been thinking & feeling & after watching i feelz better about myself & 4 that i say Arigato. Keep goin & keep doin wut u doin & keep spreading the love & peace, much love to you 🫀🍉🍊🍍🥥🥭

This is the best video I’ve seen for years ❤

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The number of squirrels in this video is insane! 😅

I am happy content satisfied but not completely

How have you been Grace ?

Just look at sky thank god and you’ll see how insignificant you are

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Thank You, for your honesty. Keep being REAL because this world is lacking realness. I can relate to you so much. 🤗🤍

Thank you for this. 🤍

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