지가 뭘 잘못한지도 모르고 화내면 왜그러냐고 너도 똑같다고 막말하다 자리 떠나려고하면 사과함.. 그리구 싸우고있는데 눈치없이 지 혼자 웃고..;; 또 지혼자 웃기려고 애쓰는데 진짜 하나도 안웃김.. 몇십번을해서 짜증나는거야.. 그래서 안웃기다고 했더니 상처받고 짜증내고..하 내가 먹는거고르면 따라고르고.. (이런건 눈치 겁나봄..)
@@user-eu8pd5jq8v 흐음... 눈치가 없는게 죄는 아니니까요. 눈치 있게 행동하려고 노력할 것 같은데 그래도 사람이 잘 안 변하니까 잘 못 변하니까 하루 아침에 눈치 있게 되는 것도 힘들겠죠. 그래도 계속 시도는 해봐요!! 노력의 결과물로 눈치가 생길 수도 있죠. 화이팅하세요!!￦★♥÷@)!)×?¡
난 저렇게 눈치가 없는 친구들은 오히려 저렇게 눈감아주고 은근슬쩍 눈치주고 짜증내는것보단 단호하게 할말은 하면서 친하게 지내는게 훨씬 더 좋은방법이라고 생각함...그렇지 않으면 그 친구는 어딜가나 눈치없이 말실수하고 지내게 되고 사람들이랑 멀어지는 기분이 들어서 상처받을 수도 있으니까..
:( yea, i have a friend who ca't read the situation. being awkward myself like i can relate but awkward people can't hide behind that as an excuse to be wrapped up in like... a bubble you know? it becomes another form of selfisheness because like... hurting others by not communicating just because you're afraid of saying sorry or speaking up or being hurt yourself. idk.
What happened in this video happened to me. My tactless friend was also avoided by the classmates then I met, fought and made up with her. A few years later.. she reveals she’ve started to likes the same guy as the one I’ve been liking before I met her (she knows it but she acts tactless as always). We still best friend but I gave up on that guy.
I used to be like that when I was younger, and it led to me losing friends and such. It was never intentional and it came from a lack of understanding, I literally had no filter between my mouth and head and I used to view relationships to be closer than they appear. I'm glad I went through those experiences because then it helped me grow in emotional intelligence and keep to myself. -although it still kinda happens occasionally
눈치 없는 친구도 돼 본적 있고 눈치 없는 친구 때문에 화나본 적도 있는데... 사람은 누구나 실수를 하니까... 그런 거를 모르면 알려주는게 친구라고 생각해요. 물론 쉽지 않은 일이고 가끔은 그러고 싶지 않을 수도 있지만 기회가 한 번 뿐인거는 너무 가혹해요...그 친구도 불쌍한거고...
i have a friend like this. Everyone in my class hates her. Even tho she's so annoying i tried to understand her but it's so hard. At the end i just gave up. We're still friends but didn't really talk to each other
난 치즈필름이 이래서 좋아....항상 안좋은 유형 보여주다가도 마지막엔 좋은점 딱 보여주면서 진~짜 기분 좋아지거든요..해피엔딩 같은 느낌으로 완전 깔끔하게 딱! 이런 느낌이라..넘 좋아여..저두 눈치가 없는 편이라서..저도 모르게 상처 입히는거가 너무 무섭네요..주기적으로 친구들한테 서운한거나 상처입힌것들 다 털어놓게 하고 사과해야되겠네여..이런성격 고쳐야되는데.. 오늘도 감사합니다!! 처음 댓 다는거 같네여 ㅎㅎ
저도 되게 눈치가 없어요 그걸 알면서도 그 상황에서는 아무것도 보이지 않아요.. 공감 능력도 떨어지고 웬만하면 잘 웃거나 슬퍼하지 않아요 그리고 표정관리도 못하고.. 제가 눈치가 없다는 것도 친구들이 눈치 없다고, 둔하다고 말해줘서 알았어요 그래서 이제는 제가 상처받더라도 애들이 말해줬음 좋겠어요 애들도 그런 말 하는거 꺼리겠지만.. 지금도 많이 눈치 없는지는 모르겠지만 친구들아 나랑 놀아줘서 고마워
there's tears on my face. I hope there's people who don't leave that kind of person, but teach them instead. I'm still learning myself so I know how this feels.
Hi just wanna share this, i have a friend who is exactly the same as this girl. But u know at first it was all awkward when we are together, sometimes she throws out of nowhere topics when we are discussing about somethin, but as times goes by i tried to understand her its just shes not good in expressing how she feels, and she tends to be shy and sometimes act tactless. 😂 But now that we have been together for many years she can freely express herself and she has this funny side of her too 😂. I think its just how people acknowledge one person instead of letting them feel just like an outcast why not understand and guide them😊. Somwetimes some people needs a little "push" to come out from their box 😉. I hope you'll find someone who'll cherish you for who you are ☺️❤️have a nice day!
