Hey Jim, Just wanted to say thank you and share a couple short success stories. Late 30s American guy here, quickly finishing up a divorce peacefully. Wanted to brush up on my game and mojo after being with her almost 10 years. Been watching your videos for months and quickly realized I was pretty rusty in the 'game department' and I soon took your advice seriously. Story #1 I had a conference for my profession to attend, and so I cleaned up and dressed sharp. I look and seem younger than I am. I soon checked out who were the best looking women there from my state. I approached both throughout the weekend and struck up a friendly convo. I asked them plenty of interesting questions and made them both laugh. They responded surprisingly well ( I was a little nervous after almost 10 years of not doing this much). We had lively chats and connected. They both ended up being in relationships, but it was really fun and exciting, and boosted my confidence a lot. Story #2 A few weeks later I was in my hometown and happened to stop at a small local shop I used to occasionally go to. I made sure to dress sharp b/c you never know, like you say. Working there was this stunning young lady. Only her and I there. We got to chatting and really had this great connection going. Again, put your advice to play and was smooth and conversational, asking questions yet listening relaxed. I returned one week later with the goal to ask her out. I went in and approached her and started a convo then a few minutes later asked her out. She looked at me and very respectfully said she was in a relationship. I was super disappointed, but quickly swallowed it and gave her my number saying 'If you're ever single, send me a text, I would love to take you out" and left it open and upbeat, then left. Was still super fun and confidence-building. Guess what? 6 days later (yesterday) she texted me saying she wants to get together. Thanks for all your help. Gonna check out your book.
