Cher has filed for a conservatorship over her 47-year-old son, Elijah Blue Allman, due to a fear that he is not fit to manage his own finances, according to multiple reports.
@@MsElke11Exactly, she hasn’t always been there but, again the thing is not everybody announces all their business to the media and, keep things in their life as private as possible! Again, just like she said, the media and, that of the public can be quick to assume and, act like a bunch of bullies and, act if they know more than, that celebrity is telling as if we all know what’s going on in their private lives, which we really don’t know the full story but, than again just because, a celebrity’s eye is in the public it isn’t our place to know every single ounce of their business, they will tell people what they want to know! Aka/ if it doesn’t concern you or has anything to do with you,than, quit being concerned with someone else’s business! There is a old saying, in Which Charlie Rich Wrote a Song About, No One Knows What Goes On Behind Closed Doors and, short Celebrities Are Entitled To Their Private Lives Just like you and me, because, they are Human Beings First!
Just goes to show you all the money and fame can’t save your kids. Being in their life and not having Nannie’s may help. I don’t know. I was a poor single mom of 3 all adults now. All have great jobs, loyal to their wives own home’s and never been on drugs. Just saying
My heart goes out to Cher. Anyone dealing with a drug addicted child understands what she is going through. And with her fortune she is the best person to manage his finances, at least you know she’s not looking to profit from the conservatorship like someone else would, for example his ex-wife. Good luck Cher and keep your chin up.
@@gyufrtsgftrs436jjg What I meant was I'm surprised his father left him so little. He left more money to his last wife Shannon who he knew only 6 years. And if it was drugs that he used as an excuse for not leaving that much to Elijah Blue than he should have been smarter about it with stipulations involved.
@@ApplePie.. its plenty! life is not about how much money one has. He is using drugs so no amount is enough! of course if your his useless grifting wife 120,000 wouldn't be enough.
Yeah, they are there through childhood and the teen years guiding them so when they are adults they make good healthy decisions at least by twenty something. He is 47!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I haven't really been a fan of Cher's but I AM NOW. I have a 31 year old son struggling and I am going to have to do the same with him if my son doesn't recover. You go Cher! You have my total support. You are a super mom for being strong enough to fight the demons that will consume your son's life.
Get your son to take ayahuasca or just use DMT if you can't find ayahuasca. Its not addictive and has the strange ability to stop addiction. He probably won't fight you on it because it's technically a drug. Do your own research but if all else fails, try it to save your son. It's not a miracle cure because he'll still need some psychological counseling for his issues but at least he won't be a drug addict
You have no clue who Cher is as a person or as a mother. No one should be allowed to take control over someone else. We are all free to make our choices. They have to want to get help or they will find a way to use. Allowing people full control over another human is supporting abuse.
This is sad, but it appears necessary for his well-being. It’s also sad that Cher has to deal with this. I’m sure she would just like to be able to enjoy her life and have her son be doing well and enjoying his life.
Why would the soon to be ex care where Elijah is if she is divorcing him? I hope Cher is successful in her legal request for conservatorship. Drug addiction will kill, steal, and destroy everything in its path.
The ex likely was an enabler and user herself and Cher taking control of his money means her gravy train and free drugs are going bye bye. You can see in the photos that she's high as a kite. She wants him to keep supporting their drug habit. Cher doesn't need his money, she's got a net worth of over 350 million dollars.
This is what I should have done for my adult child. She had depression and addicted to a certain drug. She was on SSI and went to a recovery program. Recieved a couple cerificates on her recovery. Was so proud of her. However, she wanted to bail out of living at a recovery apartment and wanted to be home with me. Forward a few months later she moved into an apartment with a bf who was also recovering she was still managing her own finances. I had a feeling I should do more about her situation. One day her boyfriend came home and found my daughter laying on the floor OD. She passed away. Im crying as Im typing this. I should have requeasted to do this lime cher did. I feel I failed her.
There was no way you could have known what would happen. You did the best you could with knowledge you had at the time. Hindsight is 20/20, we all wish we could do something different after the fact, If we knew then what we know now. You loved her and did what you could with the knowledge you had. Take heart, I am sure it's hard. I am so sorry for the loss of your previous daughter.
Don't hurt yourself by thinking you could have saved her life. Please sadly addiction is inside the brain its brain health and it's almost impossible to beat. Please don't hurt yourself emotionally thinking that you could have watched your daughter 24 hours a day 7 days a week. Throughout the rest of your life to keep her living. I send you so much Compassionate, Care and love.
If only we were all mind readers, but you don't know what you don't know. You did the best you could with the information you had at that time. Perhaps as a healing process and legacy to your daughter you can become a mother mentor to other young struggling addicted adults at these rehab facilities. My condolences on the loss of your daughter. R. I. P. 🙏
Please don’t beat yourself up. Although your daughter is no longer here, she’s no longer in pain and the throes of addiction. You gave her life and you stood by her during her recovery process. Unfortunately, relapse is also a part of recovery. Keep ya head up, you did what you could. You couldn’t be with her every second of the day.
His estranged wife is thought to be a bad influence on Elijah's mental health and drug use. From what I've surmised is that "Queenie" claims to be destitute and needs money from him. I have no idea what's really going on but I believe that Cher loves her children beyond measure and is taking the necessary steps in protecting Elijah. She's a down to earth woman who has always had her head screwed on straight. I hope Elijah doesn't end up like his father.
I am so sorry that this is happening. I do not wish drug addiction on any family. It’s horrible to see your kid on a train that you know is going to crash and there is nothing that you can do but watch it happen and be there to pick up the pieces if there are any. One good thing is that she has the means to get him help and to pick up the pieces. My prayers are going out to Cher, her son and all family members.
His ex looks like an evil person...who wasn't gud at all for this human being...and I think ...Cher..as his mother...should indeed get a conservatorship.. n bring her son into a private rehab.... get him clean once n for all... isolated of everything for some time besides her n close family.... until her son is clean and self confident to recognize who only gets close to him coz of his money and recognizes who is NO GOOD for him at all.
@@ericabaysinger6343 my grandma great grandma great grandpa etc...were almost 90 n sharp as anything..as well physically top although hard working all their lives...She s not demented!
#KatharinaK117 Guess what...we as parents are part of the reason our kids choose who they do as a mate/partner- for good or bad reasons... the relationships they see us model affect who they are & the character or lack thereof in who they choose to be with
She has to do what she has to do to save her son ! I support what she is doing . It’s a hard road , I know how she feels . It’s a battle that you fight as a parent . I feel for her . God bless her for what she has done to save her son .
Thats not how you save someone but ok. Allowing someone control over another human is to support abuse. You have no clue who Cher is as a mother. Just because of a video you blindly believe everything you hear? Having autonomy is a human right.
Elijah doesn't want to end up like his dad....Gregg battled heroin addiction for years and had 2 liver transplants. Thankfully he has a mom like Cher, who never battled addiction of drugs or alcohol. It's sad she has to deal with this at her age.
Imagine having difficult family matters splattered all over the media instead of the media having any sense of respect for privacy. None of this is any of our business.
the same media thats been plastering car ads all over our TV's because they think a future EV mandate will magically make everybody gallop to their neighborhood car dealer and buy a car- what a bunch of idiots.
But if she mamages his money he'll still have it when he does get well and she can establish an allotment for his inheritance when she's gone. Otherwise he's just going to od.
@@gingerreiter5072 don’t agree at all. Holding back HIS money is controlling a person and will build anger, hatred and resentment. He will be at higher risk of suicide because of this!!! Hope it turns out well, but it’s a tough call.
It's difficult to obtain concervatiship...especially if you're poor. You are essentially taking someone's rights away...that being said...its the only way you can force medication. If your child has a mental illness, like schizophrenia, one of the hallmarks is non-med compliance. They absolutely need medication to function, they cannot care for themselves and are often a danger to society & themselves when in psychosis. Until you face the challenges of treatment for the mentally ill, our country is in for a world of hurt. I would not wish these circumstances on my worst enemy
I trust Cher to do the right thing by her son, Elijah. As a woman who was dominated by others most of her young life, she knows what it is like to be 'under the thumb' of someone else, so she would never do something like this unless it was needed to ensure his safety and life.
she didnt do what was right by him while raising him the only thing she can do now is control his money she cant save him only Jesus can do that. She ruined him in the first place its Jesus that has to put him together and heal him
Cher is an amazing woman and mother, of course she wants the best for him. In old interviews when she talks about him it seems he's always been a wild kid and she has had her fair share of frustration over his behaviour. His dad was an addict, we know that crap often runs in the family. Wishing them all the best.
@cataniamommaitalia87 How ignorant you are. The daughter was born female, and Cher adored the child. But some people discover they have the brains and inclinations of the opposite gender, as Chastity did. Cher was a great mom, and sad to let her "little girl" become a man. As for Elijah, Cher should have known better than to have a child with such a druggie as Greg Allman.. That's an inherited condition, and it was obvious the son was fighting his father's demons, even at an early age.
How do you know Cher is an amazing mother? I am curious. Did you live with them the whole time the kids were growing up? Apparently, because that is the only way you can write that Cher is an amazing mother!!! Do you know her personally??? I don't think so.
I feel so much for her. My own adult son is having similar mental health issues. It's so hard to be in your senior years and still having to be in the parental role in that way.
CHER HAD NOOOO INTEREST IN HER SON!!!. ELIJAH WAS SENT AWAY TO BOARDING SCHOOL AS A YOUNG CHILD UNTIL HE GRADUATED!!!! HE STATED HE WAS NEVER CLOSE TO HER AS SHE WAS INVOLVED IN HER OWN LIFE!!!!. I FELT VERY SAD FOR HIM UPON READING WHAT HE WROTE ABOUT HER. HE NOT ONLY LOST HIS DAD, HE NEVER REALLY KNEW OR LOVED HIS MOTHER OR FELT LOVE FROM HER😪 . MY WORDS ARE JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE GIVES BIRTH TO YOU DOESN'T MAKE THEM A MOTHER .I READ THIS IN AN ARTICLE HE WROTE MANY YEARS AGO. 😪😪😪😢😢
This is the first time you hear of a celebrity filing the conservatorship. This is one instance where conservatorship makes sense, if and only if it’s temporary *
My cousin and others went into a crackhouse and dragged her brother physically out of there ! And from there she put him in rehab program ! Unfortunately he went right back to doing drugs ! Am glad that she is trying to protect her child !
Cher is a smart and loving person. She wouldn’t have made this decision if not absolutely necessary. Since the Britney debacle, the word “conservatorship” has a negative connotation and rightfully so, but in this case it seems very appropriate and let’s hope that we see a positive and very different outcome.
It’s strange. Judging from Britney’s book, I’d say her conservatorship was a total waste of time, a form of abuse, and did more damage than good. Then I see her instagram page and I am like “wait a minute… this is NOT the same Britney who wrote/published a book three our four months ago.” Was her conservatorship necessary? I dunno… Do I think the right person, her father, was in charge of it? Hell no!
@@Blue_Eyed_Grl because that book wasn't written without MAJOR help... And also, I kinda of doubt the truth of most of it... I mean, I believe her name is Brittany, and well... Yeah that about covers it
Take care of your son Cher. A Moms love is never ending and only you know what’s best for your son. No matter how old they are they are still our children ❤
❤ CHER. ❤ No matter how MUCH we do for our. KIDS When they reach a certain age and out into the. "REAL WORLD " they do as THEY PLEASE I am. Glad his. MOM is there and always be there for her. SON ❤ Wishing THEM and the. FAMILY the. BEST ❤
Sad that he seemingly takes after his biological father in this way. Cher is a good mother and this move will certainly help him to get clean and live a decent life.
Cher is pushing 80 years old so how long does she believe that she can realistically act as conservator of his estate? Where's Chastity/Chas Bono these days?
Have followed Cher since she was with Sonny as Sonny and Cher.I sure hope that her son gets the help he needs would hate to hear that there's been a tragedy in their family. I pray that everything works out for them. Love from AKRON, OHIO ❤❤❤
It's a good idea if you have legitimate concerns and I'm sure Cher does. Too many stars families hesitate with disastrous results. They would rather be a friend than a parent. Step up and do the safe thing before it's too late.
Ironic how she disaproved of Britney's parent's conservatorship, but now she ends up filing for a conservatorship against her own son. Regardless, I do trust Cher in controlling his finances. An addict is only self destructive
@cataniamommaitalia87My mom knew Cher. From what my mom said about her she sounds like a classic narc. And her stans just gas her up and believe all her lies.. like never having plastic surgery, being a doting mom, etc.
@cataniamommaitalia87 You are the one being ridiculous. It's not easy for a parent to swallow their child doing a gender change. Many parents can't even handle their child being lesbIan or gay. If you dislike Cher, stay off the sites. She loves her children and will fight for their lives.
I feel for her, my brother and mom are dealing with same situation but without the resources of a Cher. Its rough when an adult child needs help but wont let anyone do it and refuses to do it as well.
There is no love in drugs.. .. everyone around you loves you because you have money to buy those drugs. His ex included. That's why she's mad she can't see him... Good luck everyone hope it all works out.
This is so beyond messed up. Having a 47 yr. old KIDNAPPED?? So he can't reunite with his WIFE?? Beyond insane. Let the man do as he wishes with his own inheritance. This is a money grab, plain & simple. Disgusting.
Cher is likely doing whatever she can to keep her son from killing himself with drugs. Any good mom, no matter their age, would want to protect their son.
He's 50 years old, he's not gonna get better until he wants to get better. No one can make another petson get better until they're ready. With that said, addiction, is a terrible plague.
Cher, I might not agree with your politics but I give you credit here. I played in rock bands down there and know just how bad addictions get. God bless Elijah if he is still struggling. 🙏🏻❤
I’ve seen several incidences where a sober person keeps another person who is particularly vulnerable to using drugs and/or alcohol. Keep them as a meal ticket that is…. Now with fentanyl out there looking like cocaine or heroin…..people watch your step, remain vigilant, keep an eye on your drink
