Chick Magnets 

I think chick magnets for the most part are brothers that have empathy as well as logic in abundance...n overall women just trust them n feel safe around them...its an energy...

Its crazy that you talking about this. Me being a "chick magnet" lead me to learning this. This shit make so much sense because I get more attention that I can handle with no game. I got the looks, height, and size and I can honestly say I didnt work for or earn anything in my appearance but people always want to know my tricks and I dont know what to say besides genetics. But I with me being a chick magnet and having all the looks and height and what everyone else wants I can honestly tell you guys the struggle is real. Its worse when you have all these things upfront and you dont meet whatever they had thought in their head. The expectations are always high and you get isolated a lot in situations where your looked at having the easy role in life. People going to hate you for no reason honestly and when you have those things and you start learning shit like this your friends slowly change on you. So take what you have thats great and capitalize on it

The Flow - having that magnetic energy is a gift and curse, women just like being around you - they almost want to put you in their purse and carry you home - unless guys are cool, they probably hate on you, because they have to try and the chick magnet don’t.....

Sometimes you can't explain it once you understand self. A man can literally ooze power and charisma. With out saying a word. It's not what you say but how you say it. It's not what you do but " how " you do it.

The chick magnet has a healthy balance of feminine energy to his masculine frame that gets the woman to connect with him. Like you said, feminine energy draws things to them like a magnet.

The empathy stuff works like a charm. It's always been easy to connect with women and get numbers

Rom I swear if every young man from poverty-stricken neighborhoods had a mentor like you then the Dynamics between the black man and black woman would be totally different right now, much respect!!

I know what you mean. Usually dudes like this are not even savages. They also get picked on a lot by other males, maybe out of jealousy. They're pretty dope dudes to chill around as they are usually genuine and just NATURALLY have women flock to them. There's that and those dudes that have a lot of women friends as trophies. These dudes are different because they try very hard to have women around them. They're usually super flashy, corny as hell, and don't fuck as many women as they say they do lol.

It's just energy. Some people just have energy that attracts, no other outstanding traits or effort needed. They can be a damn near mute and still draw people. You can change your energy, you just won't be in the natural category. I was the opposite of a magnet. I used to get many compliments on looks and speech, but had negative thoughts and worldview I carried from childhood. My social life, even at it's best, was limited. Those few times I was in good spirits, I drew attention to me without changing anything else. Rom, you could say I brought this video here into being. Just yesterday I was thinking of sending you a private message about a thought I had on energy/attraction. Don't know why, just struck me to do so 🤔

Man Rom this video slapped me in the chest. I’m 19 years old and I’ve been learning from you these past few months. I was very insecure as a kid. I still am a kid but as a younger child I remember being like 3 or 4 years old at my grandmothers daycare with a whole bunch of girls and they would constantly chase me and I didn’t get why they were doing that. I have a very down to earth, serious yet childish personality. People flock to my personality, seriously. I can almost have a conversation with anyone for hours. My mom recently told me I was doing that with grownups when I was a toddler just learning how to speak. But at the same time I believe being a good listener makes for a good conversationalist, I’m still learning. I played quarterback and defensive back in high school. So I have the frame that most these women would look for now. I’m starting to see that you are very right that being a chick magnet is not all about looks, ITS THAT PERSONALITY. I’ve been blessed with very handsome looks as well. I connect very well with some people to the point I’ll be standing in line and people will just talk to me. I of course will be respectful and hear them out. But I can tell you when you said your born with it that is so true. I’ve tried in my past playing women or womanizing women and granted it worked for me very easily when I applied myself but I’ve come to realize that that really isn’t for me. Playing with a woman’s emotions can really get you hurt and it’s too much work anyways. I’m trying to enjoy my youth and not chase these chicken heads. I’m a server at a restaurant and I constantly, every day get compliments from women, normally older, telling me I look beautiful or I look like a model or that my features are impeccable. So all the insecurities I had as a child went out the window. But the crazy part is I remember getting all these compliments as a child and a younger teen. But it didn’t go to my head until now. I’m trying to be humble according to Gods standards in the Bible and that may make me a target because I’m trying to not live a immoral lifestyle but from watching your videos I can tell I am definitely select, I definitely have the print, and I definitely am a chick magnet. It’s like I am all in one. I know I am still young and trying to learn myself but if I were to ask you one question for a video Rom it would really just be advice for a young man like myself in this crazy world who isn’t trying to get caught up with all these masculine women out here. Honestly I ignore them and they keep coming. They make themselves avaliable. It’s crazy how they try to get my attention. I see it all the time. They will constantly stare at me, then do the classic look away. They touch my arms, “by accident.” They act like they don’t see me when lord knows they do. A whole lot of other things I couldn’t put in one comment. But Rom if you have time. I’m sure you’ve met plenty of men like myself who have ruined their lives. Please share something that I can relate to or some video on what I’m dealing with. Thanks Rom for your videos. I can’t learn anything from these other men on RU-vid they all are focused on the wrong thing and you keep it 100. Thanks

From my experience I'm a black male 5'6, Age 22, average dress style and prefer to be isolated and aloof. Sometimes I get asked by strangers when I chilling by myself are you ok? Are you lonely? I guess they can't believe someone can enjoy the company of being with just themselves. Usually I am just lost in my thoughts and theories seeing a movie in my head. I am respectful but don't go out of my way to be. My main goal is always to get from A to B with no detours or interruptions. I've read in a book that women are a lot like cats. The cat is going to be draw to the one in the room that wants nothing to do with cats. You avoid prolonged or unnecessary eye contact/interactions with women. You prefer not being in situations where you have to interact with women. Usually because you feel she's is not good enough for you, you have social anxiety, or your avoiding unnecessary drama with simps who want her. But usually they cant even see that anxiety because your face is bland and shows little to no emotion. You are a simps worse enemy because he has been trying for years with this woman, and you show up for a week or two and she's all focused on you. Usually she has to make a bold move to get your attention and start the interaction. Example blocking doors, stalking you to cross paths, bumping you, greeting you, staring you down for up to 20 secs. Once a woman taller than me, and beautiful wouldn't let me through the door until I greeted her. I had been denying her my attention, and showed I preferred to be without her. She was a inconvenience in my mind. Most times It never mattered whether I was lame/short/lacked style/confident. Usually you can care less if anything happens between you and her. I've had difficulty advancing with women because I didn't demand anything from them. That's why I have been reading books, talking to women when they reach out, and watching these videos. Figured I would share with Rom since he has given out some free game to me.

Uncle Rom! I had this epiphany a couple months ago.. I am a chick magnet. When I was younger chicks would make effort on their own accord to be around me. Older women would set me up with pretty girls. But I was sexually very awkward so never got any “love”. Which motivated me to get involved in the PUA community. Within months I went from being a chick magnet to chick repellent. It’s only after I studied your nice guys and players book and started using mode one about and year ago that I became comfortable. Now I get to experience that chick magnet side once again. Like ARC says, pussy attracts pussy. If I could break down the effect you were talking about, for me it comes down to being calm and carefree under all circumstances. I find myself relaxing my body when women are around me. Especially my groin, upper back and neck area. I have had women approach me at bars and nightclub when I’m simply standing by the dance floor and not making any eye contact with anyone. Usually staring into nothingness. Sort of like a meditation to teach myself it’s perfectly okay to not run around chasing every woman and it’s perfectly okay to not be that good looking flashy dude. Once I started being comfortable in my own skin no matter whatever the situation is with women, they started coming in droves.

I used to hangout with a couple of chick magnets back in college. It definitely had its benefits.

Roooooom hahaha you came through man with this one. Five and half minutes in I felt ALL that. Much appreciated

Neuro linguistic programming is a way to change thought patterns and the aura or energy changes as a consequence. It is being used with good results in persuasion,seduction and personal change by some coaches.

TRUTH WAS told this week......peeps got sooo mad lol

Funny I was born with nurses saying how handsome I was. They thought I was from America and all that My mom made sure I was watched over in case they tried to steal me, I think this magnetism goes beyond the physical; it’s an energetic signature

you have to be hitting on all cylinder bro ... body ,mind , mouth piece etc ! its a certain charisma . blessing and curse at the same time

🤔 man, I’ve always had that personality to attract women. Back in Kindergarten, my teacher actually called my mom, not because I was in trouble, but because she wanted to let my mom know that kids in the class were fighting to sit next to me cause they loved me! So I’ve always had this energy that brings people in and makes them comfortable

Story of my life! This is definitely spot on! Will start supporting the Patreon site! Thanks again for the jewels!

I used to be chubby in high school, but somehow managed to get a couple of cute gfs once I hit the 11th grade, honestly no idea what happened, maybe coz I hit growth spurt. Then outside of high school I lost weight, and worked at a college as an intern, the level of attention I use to get from women gave me anxiety. Fast forward to today, it’s gotten even worse, now it’s a mixture of female listing after me and others just hating my guts, it’s strange coz I’m kinda shy even though I’m lowkey a savage. I’ve been called quirky a lot. And sometimes when I’m with a chick I’m like, I don’t even know what you see in me coz I’m so weird, yet they still stick around. I’ve noticed that now since I’m trying to get laid, things are slightly different, whereas when I was oblivious, shit would just happen with females. I guess I still got some work to do.

I always make everybody laugh. Women feel comfortable around me. I used to have a bunch of women as friends. All my OGs always tell me to just be cool. I don’t need to do too much. I know how to listen to women and I love having conversations with people in general. I didn’t realize my actual power until I got into my 30s. I’ve never considered myself a magnet. It makes sense because my friends wouldn’t consider me player. I also don’t chase women at all. However after I started studying body language and lettin the barber bless me it took it to whole other level. Other men ask me all the time what my secret is and I can’t explain it. I’m just myself. Thanks for the videos big bro. Changed my life.

Hey, I resent that! I like chicken wings with mambo sauce. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Unc Rom I definitely feel this about myself i have aura of magnetism around me that lures women and people in general to me aside from being an very attractive stocky guy

You got a cool family. I can’t wait to experience my own created family tree.

Rom I'm super empathetic and idk how to work with it. It's one of the reasons I'm a good actor, I can literally feel other peoples emotions. They say being more serious is the key so I try to be less talkative n shit

Mr. Rom your book has helped me alot. Please do more videos on how important it is for men to have standards. Thank u

That’s 100% me Rom......You described it to the TEE...Thanks for the insight bossman 👊🏾

What's up Ron, This topic that you are talking about is real; those of us who live it do so with regret; I'm what they would call an o.g. ( this is not my real name ), I can remember hearing as a little boy " I can't wait until you get older " that statement scared me. When I got older, other guys girls always came on to me, I trained myself to resist them thinking somebody might kill me over such actions; although I liked playing in such a way. Then I found cuckolding. Even this grew to be empty in its feelings. I've always just longed for that one true love, an many girls, and now women tell me that a relationship with me it overwhelmingly because they know they could never have me to themselves. They tell me it's painful to watch other women melt around me, seeing them push up on me. My last encounter was standing up against the wall in walmart, and a lady walked up to me and told me how nice I looked, I told her thank you, and that I try, she said I bet it's not hard, I laughed and said thank you. My new friend that I had just met 3 wks ago was watching us, and asked me what was that about, and if I new her. I told her what happened, and that she was the only person that I knew in her town; needless to say, she now thinks that we won't survive her working out of the country for 12mnts at a time. I told her things like that happens to me all the time, it doesn't matter to me that I turn other woman on, what matters to me is when I'm turned on by a woman. I explained to her that this is normal for me. I have a friend from high school that says " you can't turn it off " ( to be continued).

I’m definitely a magnet I just need to work on my mouth piece I just had a waitress compliment me at Buffalo Wild Wings. I saw her looking at me from the corner of eyes a couple times but she gave me the energy like she wasn’t attracted to me. Until I left I stoped her when she pasted my table and she had that hurry up I’m busy look on her face and she held her hand out and said I need your card. I looked at her with a dumb look on my face like I’m walking up there with you. I could tell she felt dumb because I said it a little loud she felt played. I got up to the counter and she asked me have you worked at a restaurant before? I said no I just been to quite a few to know how this goes. She smiled and a male waitress chimed in and said why is that important? In my head I was like thank you I’m use to girls asking dumb questions it didn’t even register to me to say that. She replied I’m just queries I said why are you queries? She just smiled and got quite. She was a white girl I usually don’t do white girls but she almost got me she wasn’t fine just a little cute in the face no ass poor thing but she put her gard down and she overwhelmed me with this super bubbly feminine energy I wasn’t expecting that came out of nowhere. I ended up leaving without pursuing it I’m not attracted to insecure woman they are a hand full don’t ask me how I know 😒.

I show up. That's my game. Whatever suits that's what we do.

My late son definitely a chick magnet he was 9 when he gained heaven and the ladies deftly still love him❤so is his older brother ❤

Whaddup Rom I'm your age I'm 54 and i've always got attention from females since I was a kid I also have a healthy amount of knowledge cause I had older male figures who put me down on game. I still look about 30 and I seem to get a even more attention than when I was a actually young I guess these millineal chicks are more liberated. I have one problem though, I've been dating younger women since I was 37 but nowadays it seems like every time I go to holla, it seems like something has changed and I figured out thatit's not them it's me because I'm more conciouse of my age now because my daughter is as old or even older than some of these chicks. Any ways I digress from the tangent, the point is your on point when you say that chick magnets attract women even though they don't have game because even ones I've pushed away keep coming. Anyways thanks for everything and keep up the good work

Great vid Rom as usual bro.

Now that you brought this up earlier today this woman I never met offered me a ride home from the grocery store. This is the second time that has happened to me. Then I had this one chick play like her phone ringer wasn't working so she gave me her number to call it. I guess that was her way for her to get me to call her. However, the only reason why I'm not trying to get with these women is because they are married. Smh

thats me in a nutshell

When I when off to university my mother send off words was don't let the teacher fall love with😂 me

I have a friend former coworker i used to watch with amazement as single and married women swooned and he was average dressed just being himself has a twin brother probly receives the same treatment!

It is weird because I don't think I was a chick magnet in the way that you describe, but there would be times throughout my childhood and teen years where some women and girls would be extra friendly towards me (not sexual but still), I was asked out by some girls in highschool despite being a loner and keeping to myself. I have been told alot that I'm handsome, but I'm not sure if that has that much to do with it. I have been told that I'm a chill guy and have noticed that often even some other boys that would bully me earlier would try to befriend me later on their own accord. I don't know I always thought that this stuff was strange to me.

It’s funny I realized energy is everything before I worked on my body game woman would not give me the time of day. I had really bad body language poor posture really stand off body language. But a few times I had really bad colds the funny thing was I was focused on being sick not the other stuff boy I tell you the ladies reacted differently to me. It’s all about energy.

I can 100% relate deadass though! I'm the total package and happen to attract mad people! Even strangers come to me with their secrets and life stories. I'm told I'm magnetic and have great looks and personality. I'm confident as well and I'm always unapologetically myself. Whether I'm single or happily taken with a great guy as I am now, guys still fall for me and always want to be with or get with me at some point. It's flattering, but can be exhausting after a while. 😂😆 I've, on occasion, even had members of the same sex hit on me too! It's pretty wild! But hey, when you got the charm you got it lol Anyways, love your channel Rom! Keep up the great work, you are helping a lot of people! 😄😎😇👏👌

A musician with game can get over with women if they're smart. I know!!!!

Hold up.....wth is mumbo sauce? Shit sound good

hey i can relate to this video. I have no idea why women chase me. im just an average looking guy but i get attention from them everywhere i go. shit got me in trouble a few because this dude's wife starting liking me and im not trying to get shot. lol im just being me

Would you call them a empath?

I agree. Facts. I am considered very handsome with charisma. I'm 33 now and I dont even like to go grocery shopping or do returns now. I used to like it in my 20s, but now I'm over it. You wouldn't believe the things strangers (women)do to me, even guys. It's crazy. People think they can just walk-up and just touch me and talk to me anyway. I am a human being first. I prefer to use Amazon and Instacart. It's actually kind of a lonely life. I don't like the attention any more. I can't even keep the same dentist for to long. Women can't even seem to stay "Professional". A lot of my buddies dont understand so there is no one to talk to about this.

The animus. A spiritual giant and master numerologist told me I was a mother in another life. I think it's that connection to the feminine. I had food sickness, weight gain, beard changed colors, empathic and psychic moments...ALL WHEN MY WIFE WAS PREGNANT. I am careful with my genitals because I can feel things in females I don't like. And yes when I was younger I had some run-ins with older females(women don't think you chasing paper is more important than keeping an eye on your son's)

Hm, Yeah that’s not me at all. I’m an “introverted” type in almost every spiritual system and personality inventory out there.

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Smile.

Women do that to me all the time I just be minding my own business

Its funny how you say you had to check women and older women about your son my and sister always had that same issue's with me when I was kid up to my mid teens and yes when I try to get women I fail lol but this 💯💯👌

I was thinking unc, they (CM) probably don't have game cuz they're so used it being thrown at them...like a "hunter" who's always "handed" the kill. Where's the challenge (to "sharpen" your sword).

You know this topic makes me think about the Myers-Briggs personality test. I wonder if anyone here knows about that. On my channel I talk about my personality trait the "INFJ". I also share my opinion about female nature and my experiences in life, anyway, I think this is a great topic, personality types or traits and dating (female nature). Last thing, in this video podcast I'm not sure if being a chick magnet is backhanded compliment in a way. Like I said in the previous comments, I'm an introverted person, if I'm not in my own way with women especially with women I have good moments, like, my friends tell me all the time that I just suck the energy right out the room.

That’s me

It's fascinating fa sho

Rom Wills:Chick magnet.

Ya know what zodiac sign makes up 12% of the population 👀 scorpioz

Rom do a video on men who are born undesirable like myself lol

Sounds like me

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Im funny type of dude lol

Was a little girl and was ask by a really nice guy have you got a big sister was14years old and looked like 12year he could not have been more than 20years old where he lived was very upscale was passing by and I know he was home from a college break or university but would be a while before I could take him on in more ways than one when people see you single they think what they want to you just let them .

What's up Big Rom, just had a reasonable weekend until my last outing Saturday the younglady I was with said she notice female's looking at my private part in front of me the clothes that I ware are lose fit not really into the new fashion ware of skinny clothing female's moving on alone their way but she notice every woman looking at me I told her if she can't handle that people are going to notice people of means and they are going to look she's a beautiful woman but very insecure I had to let her know if I came with her I'm leaving with her but when I'm by myself I refuse to act like a square.

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This new PC shit on child molestation . I was groomed by older women when I was a under age but really never gave it a second thought . In fact , I give those ladies credit on my sexual development ..... funny how times has changed .

OK so any man can become select but not a chick magnet. 🤔 I got looks(women told me) but an aggressive personality(women and men told me). Not entirely sure where I fall.🤔 I will just work on my business the women will come eventually 😂 plus I choose wonen primarily on genes ( intelligence, health and looks) I don't need every girl after me😂