I am so happy for you. You have found your true soulmate. You don’t have to be married to the same race to be happy. As for your parents...only do what you can.
So happy for you and your new life. I’m glad to hear that you found someone who finally loves and treat you right. I am disappointed that you would allowed your father to charge your American husband a huge amount of money. That to me, is allowing your father to take advantage of your husband and that’s not right. You should stand up for him because he doesn’t know better. If that’s who you love; you should protect him. Everything starts within you and your family.
Hoyo, yuav lwm Haivneeg xwb es nim tsis tsimtxiaj dabtsi na? Kuv twb nrog ib tug Txivneej lwm Haivneeg tau 27 xyoo es wb tseem sibhlub tshaj ib co Niamtxiv uas nyuamqhuav sibyuav tau 3 hnub as..... Not every foreigers are idiots. Some can be better.
Yep, her parents are idiot. Selling her over and over. These are behaviors of a loving parents. I would've left them behind and disowned them as my parents. She already paid her dues.
If you think about money, you won't get anywhere. Money you can always earn. Parents, they are not always right but with if you educate them they will get better. Some parents are like that because that's the only way they know. There's no one there to show them a different path.
@@art2hlub nope that's just a lame excuse. These behaviors are intentional. It's not about the $$ because $$ can always be made but the intentional discrimination and abuse as a parent to treat you differently, I don't care what anyone else say but that's enough justification to leave them behind. A parent supposed to be a teacher to their children, what is the lesson to learn here from her parents? That's it's ok to treat and discriminate against your own child because she's not living for your happiness, that's too selfish and too much power to give to the parents.
I think they know, they are just selfish. Treating your kids so different and selling them over and over, I don't know but I would've locked that door and disowned my parents forever. She already paid her dues to them.
@@maipha8560 sometimes time will tell and again sometime it doesn't. Just take the time to explain to them, educate them, if we walk to walk and talk to talk, old folks will diffinally follow our lead. They are parents too and they want what is BEST for their kids. Perhaps, thats the only way they know. Love them more than they love you and thats help them to improve their thinking for the better.
@@art2hlub lame excuses and that's why this cycle never get broken. History will repeat itself. Too late to teach these parents anything. They are and we're intentional about what they did. They only saw her as $$$$ for them. These parents deserved 👏👏 only if they help and support their daughter who was mentally abuse and suffered a miserable marriage from their decision. When she remarried to the love of her life, they should've spent $10,000 on a well deserved wedding for her. This would be an example of what great parents are. Mistake only happens once, not worst the 2nd time by asking her to pay them another $10K.
@@maipha8560 I'm talking about in general. But if in a case were you don't care and they are just doing it for the money than yes please look another direction. Do whats best in your situation. That I agree with you.
I’m happy for you!! It’s a happily ever after story. You found someone that treats you right, has $$ and a good career, accepted your kids, and probably gives you more in bed.
Don’t ever marry anyone for your parents. Make your own decision. She tried her best and hardest and he still treated her like shit. To have countless affairs, brining other women to live there, impregnated a woman... and she’s still there. I’m not sure I could ever take that much heart ache, I’d be gone a long time ago. Glad she found a love that could love her back and a life she deserves.
Tus viv ncaus aw nrog koj zoo siab os mog. peb ua neeg nyob leej twg los yeej ntshaw22 kev hlub tshav ntuj nrig xwb os yuav tus luag nyiam luag thiaj hlub yus kawg siab yus thiaj tsis lwj 22 siab. Hom neeg twg los tsuav hlub yus ces yeej zoo dua es yuav tus hmoob es ua neej lwj siab ntsuav.
Tus viv ncaus aw yus tus txiv twb tsis hlub yus lawm es yus mus nrhiav tus tshiab los yeej tsis txhaum li os kav tsij mus thaum tseem hluas leej twg yuav hais li cas los vim lawv tsis tau rau yus txhais khau xwb niag txiv twb muaj tug tshiab lawm ces yus kav tsij nrhiav tus kom hlub yus xwb tsis quav ntsej leej twg os
Parents like that are a bunch of bs. I’m a divorcee. My parents already sau kuv li nqi the firsttime lawm there is no way am I paying them another amount of money. People can say I don’t respect my parents but it isn’t true so I really don’t care what people say. What matters is I am happy and live my own happy life. We need to know our own worth.
To the Author of this story, good that you found your happiness. Your first marriage is one of Hmong traditions that I hate the most; force marriages. Hmong people need to let go of bad and keep only the good traditions. Hopefully, the new generation will keep good traditions alive examples: hospitality, counts extended as families, etc... Let go of bad, examples: polygamy, love sons more, forced married...
Txawm lawv hnov los lawv siab phem phem lawv yeej Liam tias yus tham tau hluas nraug lawm yus thiaj li mus no os sister. Txiv neej hmoob Yog cov uas feem coob siab phem tshaj plaws li os
Yog lawm o tu niam laus peb ua neeg nyb g hai leej twg lo yeej ntshaw kev hlub ntawm tu neeg hlub tiag o kv lam hai ib lo lus cuag li ho siab 2 peb cov hmoob o lawv yeej nyiam tham hluas nkauj thb yeej g hlub yus haiv neeg li o yuav lwm haiv neeg lo yeej zoo o kv yeej nrog kj zoo siab o
It’s so funny when people put woman down for wanting something natural - a man, sex, love. Because we are woman and we also have desires if not more than men, we just don’t act on our desires to screw everyone that cross our path. We are not cruel and cold. We take our life seriously, but know that we CAN act on our desires when we’ve had enough of you and make that decision to cast you out like a demon from our lives.
I am so glad this sister found happiness. Both of them were not ment to be. They were never happy with each other to begin with. I'm glad both found their path to follow in their life time. Love is in all colors. Don't have to be your own kind only.
I'm glad this lady found happiness. However, these stories are overdone. Cheating, justifying cheating bc you were cheated on, remarrying, smack talking former partner and their family and bragging about how perfect the new life is. Give us more variety, please! :)
Cas ua ib tug poj niam nyob es yuav khaus khaus npaun koj nas es yuav dawj QAU txhaus hmo koj tus txiv twv yuav koj rau niam pig txiv yawg xwb no ces tub tsis ua ces kom txiv yawg ua kiag xwb
Very bad husband. Sister how your dad treated you is not fair, very sad. Hmong ppl have double standards. It's ok..glad you found someone who love you for who you are.
Hu 911 rau kom koj txiv cov hwj txwv tshee mos nyoos xwb mas. Hmong old man like this kind of BS. When would this BS stop? I am a man but from younger generation and i hate these OG. I suggest the two OG just marry each other to keep their relationship. Ha ha
Good for you! You finally pushed for ur own happiness! I married meskas too. Phem thiab zoo Los tseem zoo dua kuv mus ua nyab rau hmong es txom nyem siab
I'm so happy for you sister, glad you dump that jerk and moved on to better things. We, sometimes thinks that we have no options anymore because we're a divorcee but there's always better out there for us.
Hmoob txoj kev yuam menyuam sib yuav yuav tau tso cia nawb kwvtij hmoob. Yus ua niam ua txiv txhob muab tus yus nyiam los ua ko lawv lub neej nyuab siab. Txij li no mus peb hmoob yuav tau kawm tias kom lawv ua lawv lub neej sib hlub tiag ces yuav tau cia lawv xaiv lawv tus hlub os.
Tus niam tsev aw, nrog koj zoo siab heev rau koj lub neej tam sim no os👏👏👏 Txiv Hmoob ces zoo los yeej muaj kawg Tab sis cov phem li koj niag qub txiv ntawv ces yeej muaj coob tus. Hais txog qhov koj txiv sau 10,000. yog koj txiv Ntshaw nyiaj dhau lawm xwb es nyaj koj txiv yeej yuav tsis nplua nuj nrog koj 10 phav nyiaj ntawv os mog! Hmoob ces yeej phem thiab muaj plhus ntaim lwm haiv neeg xwb hos nws cov Hmoob ces nws yeej tsis muaj ntsej muaj hais tau ib nyuag lo li. Hmoob zoo li no es thiaj ua dev thawj thiab Thoob ntiaj teb no. Siab phem li koj txiv ces muaj li cas hlub li ntawv xwb yeej tsis npam vim nws twb sau nqi txaws siab lawm!
Love knows no boundaries. Love sees no color. Parents should let their children be the own author and write their own book instead of trying to write what they want. Oftentimes what parents want for their children isn't always good. Let your children walk their own path so they'll know what's right and what's wrong. So that they can't come back and blame you.
I'm glad for you very happy for your choice tus niam laus. Kuv lub neej yeej zoo li koj lub neej thiab os mog, kuv yuav kuv tus txiv qub yog hmoob tau 21.5 yrs tsis zoo qhov twg tuaj li os. Kuv yuav txiv thaum kuv muaj 13 going on 14 nws yeej tsis hlub yus li cem yus ntaus yus tas mus li xwb ua neej tsis sov siab li kuv muaj 2 tug me nyuam thiab nrog nws, ua hnub ua hmo nrhiav teeb meem rau yus txua lub sij hawm twb tsis pab yus khwv li los tseem muaj kav control yus thiab tau nyiaj npaum li cas coj mus yuav trash pe goodwill hoards everything hauv tsev twb tsis muaj chaw rau nws tej khoom khib nyiab los yeej hais tsis tau nws li hais thaum twg ces sib ceg sib ntaus xwb thiab play games every day yeej tsis nrog yus ua ib yam dab tsi li yus nkee tseem muaj xiv cem thiab ntaus yus tias yus lazy dhuav siab tshaj plaws li os tus niam laus aws. 2019 kuv ua ib siab muab nws tso tseg lawm kuv nrhiav tau kuv tus txiv tshiab no nws tsis yog hmoob thiab tiam sis nws lub siab zoo2 hlub2 kuv tsis cem tsis ntaus kuv wb tsuas muaj hais zoo2 xwb kuv tsev neeg yeej tsis pom zoo ib yam li koj tsev neeg thiab tham sis yog kuv lub neej kuv mus raw kuv txoj kev xaiv thiab tshaw xwb kuv yeej tsis Kes leej twg yuav hais li cas rau yus li os vim lawv tsis paub yus lub neej li yus tus kheej paub yus lub neej lawm os mog.
Niam ntsua teev aw kv ngiam kj cov neeg neej kawg li os tab sis kv nriav tsi tau kj zaj neeg neej tshia li mloog cov qub tag li xwb os yuav ua cas thiab yuav nriav tau zaj tshia na
@@magnoliamagnolia2655 I'm glad to hear that, of course not all Hmong men are bad but I hope the new generations are progressive enough to change the traditional mindset.
Lawv aw yus yuav lwm haiv neeg lawv fwm yus thiab hlub yus tiag 2 li o lawv yeej tsi Lam pub yus khwv Li o thiab qhov nyiav lawv yeej tsi Lam cia yus ua li o
Good job! Tus me niam tsev. Zoo kawg lawm nawb! Your old hmoob man doesn’t deserve you. You stepped up another level and the good thing you had a child with your make husband.
Tus niam tsev ntawm zaj dab neeg koj ua tau zoo heev li yeej tsis yog tsis tsim txiaj li os yog yus nrhiav txoj kev Kaj siab rau yus lub neej xwb koj muaj peev xwm kawg pauj tau tag nrho peb cov kev chim ntawm cov txiv hmoob tag nrho zoo kawg
Lub neej txij nkawm yuav tsum muaj txoj kev sib hlub sib pab sib hwm thiaj yuav ua tau lub neej kaj siab, koj yuav neeg hom twg los yog koj zoo ces yeej yuav tau lub neej zoo xwb nrog koj zoo siab mog
Yus twb hais tias yus muaj lub neej zoo lawm. Thaum kawg yus tseem rov qab los thuam yus dua tias tej zaum nej coob leej yuav thuam tias kuv tsis txim txiaj mus yuav neeg meskas. Lady, this is the problem of Hmong women, you already have a good husband, good life, and your father already said so at the end, why ending this story by you doubting yourself. We are judging you, and most Hmong in American don't judge you, so why judging that most of us condemned you? If you keep doing this, your life will never be truly happy. You are not happy because you continue to think that most Hmong people condemn you, not that is true, just in your mind.
Yeej tsis npam li hos, yog 1 tug txiv dev zoo li koj tus xwb ces yeej twg los yeej yuav muab xa dab li koj ia xwb tag. Nrog koj zoo siab ua koj hlub koj tus kheej hos mog
Sim neej no nyuam qhuas hnov tus poj niam no need txiv neej xwb. Ruam ua luaj tseem nyob ab tsi. Txawm yog muaj cov poj niam zoo li no es txiv neej hmoob lub siab thiaj phem npaum li no rau cov poj niam hmoob los mas. Tus poj niam no ntshawd txiv neej lub xub ntiag xwb. Yog muaj siab muaj ntsws ces nrauj nws tus txiv ntev lawm es twb tsis mob siab npaum no. Ib tug neeg ntxub yus es yus tseem ntshawd txiv neej rab qau ab tsi. Xyov yog ruam tsis ris siab los yog nws ho nyiam nws tus txiv dhau. Txiv neej no yog tsis nyiam ib tug poj niam yeej nrog pw tsis tau. Tos neej tsis muaj kev sib hlub los tim tej niag laus. Cas thaum hluas es txhob yuav tseem ua txuj hais tias yog ua rau kom tej laus txhob tu siab. Tim neb 2 tug xwb tsis tim leej twg. Cas tus poj niam no yuav muaj peev xwm hais rau niam pog thiab txaj muag dhau. Nws yog ib tug neeg ntse ces tej lus no niam pog yeej yuav tsis hnov. Cas tus ruam xuab los muaj hos tus txawj ntse los tsawg. Kuv tsis qhuas tus poj niam no vim luag ua los yus tsis muaj kev hlub yus kuj mus twj ywm xwb. Qhov no pes tau tias 2 tug neeg no sib xuj ua seb leej twg yeej xwb. Tib neeg lim hiam ces sib xeem los yeej tsis zoo ab tsi. Txiv los tsis muaj hlwb, niam los tsis muaj hlwb ib yam sib phim xwb kuv dhuav cov neeg tsis sib hlub es pheej sib ua seb leej twg yeej cas tseem mag tsis txaus.
I’m happy she has a better life now and married a guy who will love her and her kids from previous marriage because not all guys are able to accept that. And yes Hmong parents always tell us don’t marry someone outside Hmong culture because they will not love you and are controlling, but you never know. What a great ending.
Hom poj niam tham hluas nraug li no mas yeej yog hom uas khaus 2 xwb es thiaj hais tib qho uas yuav nrog txiv neej pw nkaus xwb koj dag dhau lawm os koj lub cev qhuav es nim tias yog txiv neej tsis nrog pw thiaj qhuav cas tsis txaus ntseeg li os cov yuav meskas ces yees loj xwb
Are you freaking serious? Her LOSER hubby cheated on her. Not only that, she was FORCED to marry someone she DIDN'T like. This is why half of these marriages don't work. It's torture for both parties. Being forced to marry someone you don't even like. SMH.
Summer Time so you’re saying it’s ok for this dog to cheat but this lady cheating is a crime? Get over it, it’s 21st century and not Stone Age you’re living in. I’m glad to see this sister taking charge and finding her own happiness. Good for her!!👏
Peb poj niam hmoob ce txog thaum ua tau li koj ua ce yeej tsim nyog ua lawm os...don't care others people saying about u...cuz they don't know any shifty u been through...
So happy that you found true love ❤️ and have a happy ending. Every woman’s dream/wish to have a sweet, loving, caring, nurturing, romantic and trustworthy husband.
Kev txij nkawm yeej tsis muaj kev yuam, yuam lawm ces yeej tsis ncaj ncees tab sis kom nej nco kom txog ib haiv neeg twg yug los yog qaib lawm ces kom mus ua neej nrog qaib tsis txhob coj mus yuav nrog os ua neej nco ntsoov tias kev ua neej ua neeg tsis yog ua si tsis hais tus txiv los tus niam yog thaum sib xaiv tau los nyob ua ke lawm ces yuav tsum sib hlub nawv. Nco ntsoov tias tsis tau tuag txhob raws mus thawj thiab nawv mog hmoob hos nej xav tias tsuav lob puv ncauj lawm xwb no ces yeej tsis muaj tus neeg twg yuav cheem tau nawv. Kev ob tug txij nkawm nyias muaj nyias hom ces nco ntsoov tias zoo2 rau neb tab sis tsis zoo rau neb cov menyuam lub neej tom ntej nawv thov kom nco ntsoov zaj dab neeg (puav) nawv mog hmoob.
