When you mentioned the part where you go out and people know you, that can be considered status. It’s not complicated. Being friendly is underrated honestly. My 30th job (hustler Rom) is at an Amazon warehouse and I be getting along with a lot of people. Nothing feels better than walking by and people be saying whats up, hey how you doing, whats good, hey where ya been, etc. Puts a smile on my face. I’m the guy everyone knows.
Most people don't know what I do for a living or who else I know. They don't know if I'm popular or not. I'm just somebody they are at acquainted with.
You know I am going to be here for the tribe talk. Major. When you get into the mindset of looking for your tribe, the pieces will fall into place. Learn about choosing signals women give off subconsciously. Then take an account of the women who give you the most signals, and you will then find the pattern of characteristics of the women in your tribe. Great topic Rom.
This is golden, excellent talk . A girl in your tribe vs one who is not becomes obvious over time. It wasn't always obvious for me but once I got it and it clicked, it changed my life.
Shout out to Field Master Rom,Master Teacher BGS, Cousin T Taw, Pimp god and Master Yao. So much esoteric teaching. So much game on life. Take notes and apply to your life.
mutual humor is key FOR me. can we laugh together and can she make ME laugh. not to many women are funny like that. but if her personality can make me laugh. i'll be drawn to that
I’ve realized that you got to click with your clique and it’s so simple. People have made it a lot more harder than it really needs to be. Just like you have friends that are into football and not soccer. Differences are fun but you get the point. Thank you for making it simple
This is more mentally, not the type of women you are into physically alone. It just turns out your tribe, is also your ideal in looks too, at the same time naturally. I do believe there is a correlation as my type has an hour glass figure and I believe they are naturally attracted to my frame as well, even when I had pounds on me. Knowing this is a huge advantage over most dudes. I have no fear approaching these women (sometimes they approach me) and that’s just one of my types there’s more.
Clarification...all the women you vibe with and naturally you don't need to try hard for. She's basically into you but that doesn't mean you are always together in a relationship with her. Connection. You connect in the bedroom naturally. Friends with benefits happens a lot with those kind of women but probably just one of them is yours and will be your future wife. She belongs naturally to you. Tribe is basically specific made for you.
Man. I just had a revelation similar to this this past weekend. I would run into these cute cashiers and get there number. I found myself having to dumb down my speech and wonder if ray ray would come in to steal my girl. The relationship always hit wall and I was wondering what I was doing wrong. It wasn’t until I started to learn the octane levels. These woman where 85 octane. I have a degree, a business that I’m building, clean cut and well spoken. I drive for uBer as I’m building my business, and I live in a rougher apartment complex because of the location and level of my business. It didn’t hit me until now. That’s not my tribe and those guys aren’t my competition. I’m a premature 89 octane male, surrounded by 85 females. Got work to do but now I know my competition and the level I should be operating from.
Like you said Rom: "Sometimes you don't need game, just pay attention." The women that are my tribe are adjustable 7's (usually brunette), down-to-earth personality.
Uncle Rom dropping Major Jewels right here . Alot of Brothers aint successful at dating women becuase they to busy trying to be in every lane but they own .
Teamwork makes the dream work. It's all about compatibility and not having to force attraction and interest onto another person, so they like you better. Her visceral response is a huge indicator that you can get it. You just have to not fuck it up. The meet ups are not contrived and too perfect and she doesn't come off as some beggar or needy broke b*tch. Conversely, the man doesn't seem too thirsty, needy and insecure. Women have dealt w/ a ton of guys like that they had to get restraining orders against, as the biggest fear any woman has to be alone w/ a guy who doesn't take no for an answer. You got to have masculine frame gents and there's no substitute for it. There will be ppl who challenge and attack you for it, but those ppl are NPCs (weaponized cattle who are morally corrupt and evil and hate your guts). Your game may not always give you the desired results you want every time you shoot your shot at a woman or try to negotiate for better pay at work, but trust me if you look at the micro-expressions (i.e., sensory acuity) others give off (e.g., delight or apathy) you'll see in real time the impact your words and presence has on them. Ppl's natures have been suppressed via social conditioning, so much has been lost. Women still operate w/ their hind-brains or the more animalistic aspects of our evolutions, so as a man you have to tap back into that to be able to be a force out in the world.
Learned a while ago that the hood types are not my tribe, neither are the highly educated types. In the last few years, I noticed I can easily get women who are around my build (slim but fit) into a conservation. I like a lot of race jokes (grew up in the 90s and early 00s with Kings of Comedy and Dave Chappell.) and whites can't really get those jokes or laugh at them UNTIL you talk about them or the J people. At the same time my interest are things blacks generally are into while I do have a little bit of Malcolm X/militant in me. So, I guess I'm still trying to find my tribe.
What really helped me understand me tribe was master teacher BGS IGMOR Octane video or was thatcousin T Taws?..but yea 92 octanes are my tribe 5’2 5’3 slim thick jawns any race dual degrees or one degree and I know for a fact i work well in business with these woman..also the adjustable 7s who are the nerdy girls majority of the time they wear glasses..i really had to watch that video at least 4 times and think about all the relationships I had with women whether i hit or not and the pattern was so clear that after the video I attracted two more 92s octanes who were lawyers lol shits crazy both 5’2...I’m 6’1. Also from the video I have attracted the occasionally baddie and the communication with them was absolutely horrible its like there stuck in playing games mode 24/7 but its crazy how they have been the most insecure and its so easy to spot.
Waddup unc what I keep seeing pop up in my personal dating history is women who grew up middle class both parents and Gemini was curious on your thoughts of these common denominators…peace and blessings to you
It's hard being married out here. All that tender meat walking around the Serengeti, like it's hard not letting those fangs out. About to make me come out of retirement and show some of you young fellas something.
There's actually a girl I really click with , we have the same interests and the convo just flows. However she is suffering from mental trauma due to sexual abuse from her father, I feel she is part of my tribe but not as a lover? More like a sister, is this possible? Like I get the "I want to protect her" vibes. Nothing sexual or romantic.. lol. She called me from the mental hospital yesterday because she is a coworker of mine and I just cover her shifts rn because she is on suicide watch. I feel a deep connection with her so I am assuming she is part of my tribe.
As I said in the video, sometimes the best that can happen is the man and woman be friends. Yes, there is a romantic attraction, but it might not be prudent to start a relationship.
@@rickyking1790 i didn't know this until now because I barely just experienced it at 27 years old but yeah it def has opened my mind. That and extreme red pill philosophy gave me tunnel vision but rom has pulled be back to the light.
Can you explain why it might be hard for a guy to find a woman who is attracted to him that he is also attracted to? Like if most of the time he's not attracted to the women that are liking him
@@SimeonToko good tip, thanks. It might be kind of tough to go to a function where there's even 10 women in one place who are all in my tribe. Most of the time when I go anywhere it's 1 or 2 if I'm lucky. Usually none
@Ellis Jackson Ask the few you meet what organizations they belong to and churches they attend and that will lead you to their gathering places. Good luck.
